We are all the same in the pursuit of our dreams

Chapter 26 The best time has just begun (8)
Most of the disputes between me and Yajuan are about the cover.I understand her.It is difficult for her to grasp between the high-quality goods and the progress, and I am the one who only knows how to point out the country and speak without back pain.To make matters worse, I'm still her boss.Moreover, because of her position in the company, I often don't need to take care of her emotions, and communicate concisely and to the point.But the more this happens, the worse the situation may be.When the conflict was the most irreconcilable, I really wanted to swear at her: Is your aesthetics that bad? I don't want to buy a street stall at the price of a counter.But before I could speak harshly, I received a long letter from her.Before I opened the email, I gritted my teeth at the computer screen and said, "He Yajuan, if you dare to mention the word resignation, I've misread you."

Life is actually very particular about fate and division.Also, the higher you go, the more impatient you become with certain people and things.Not because you have become proud, but because your life has reached a stage where many, many beginnings, you can actually see the end of it at a glance.So you don't want to endure, let alone waste time, energy, and especially emotion on unworthy things.Therefore, in the matter of work, if any decision-making, every co-founder including myself, violates the "boutique consciousness" of White Horse Time, then the team can only regretfully ask him to leave.

Fortunately, Yajuan did not let me misread.She even made me grow back.Because when she was extremely confused and in pain, the first thing she thought of was not to vent the pain, but to continue to grit her teeth and find a way out no matter how painful it was.Her gesture moved me, and made me ashamed of how superior I was.Later I said to her: "Do you know why I am always unwilling to compromise on the cover? There are indeed some books, no matter how beautiful the cover is, the sales may not necessarily be good."

She said: "Is it because your standards can't be lowered? Once the sea was too difficult to be water, except Wushan is not a cloud?"

I said: "No, my persistence is because I want to be worthy of your enthusiasm."

Many manuscripts are not afraid of changing again and again, as long as it can become better; many roads are not afraid of taking risks again and again, as long as we can see the scenery we want when we reach the top.So, many times, when we feel exhausted, tired, and angry, it's actually just because we've worked so hard but haven't gotten the result we want.We rage, we rage, we blame each other, and in the end, all our negativity just proves our incompetence.In other words, we often have the ability to solve problems, determination, courage and confidence, but we often lose in the last bit of patience.And this is the time when a person's wisdom is most tested.

And why 99% of the previous efforts have been paid, but we can no longer show 1% of the patience.I think, I still don't love this matter enough, so the enthusiasm will run out one day.Having said all that, what is the most important factor to go back to the starting point and realize your dream?
enthusiasm.

This is why I chose Yajuan at the last moment of the interview.

Because of her passion.

She can finish reading the books of authors with different levels and give them praise and opinions in the first time. This alone is enough to shock me. She has her own little tsundere; she can also repay every author who has supported her, and be their agent and their best friend. I think it is because of her dual identity of publisher and writer, so It is easier to understand the difficulty of writing, so it is easier to be merciful; she can also laugh at everyone who plays big names or gives her cold eyes and deceit. I once witnessed her being co-operated in my office. My partner scolded her head and face on the phone for an hour, and at the end Yajuan smiled and said, "Although what you said is a complete misunderstanding, I still appreciate your opinion." can't do it.

Because of enthusiasm, we can digest all suffering; because of enthusiasm, we can resist all prejudice; because of enthusiasm, we can overcome all mountains; because of enthusiasm, we can sweep away all depression.Because of enthusiasm, we eventually died of thirst on the road of chasing the sun, but maybe, we became the sun in the end.

Some people complained that Yajuan shows off selfies, food, children, and love in WeChat Moments every day. I really don’t know how much time she spends on her work.

Oh, and I sometimes have a crush on these telltale people who can never see the truth of things. I'd rather call such people "stupid" than "little people."Because some villains have quite high IQs.If the enthusiastic people are the sun, then these "stupids" must not be in the solar system, must have rolled farther than Pluto, will never feel the warmth of the sun, and will not have any chance of being attracted, just keep feeling good about themselves "Spinning, jumping, I close my eyes"...

I like Yajuan's "narcissism".This just confirms the attributive I gave her before.

She is really a person who has enough enthusiasm for life, career, and herself from the bottom of her heart.If a woman has no passion for food, family, or her face and body, but is just a person who is passionate about her career, I think that is a terrible thing.A hero is often achieved by one thing, but it does not mean that he only does one thing and is only passionate about one thing. Even a crazy hero like Don Quixote did not forget to wear pants, and, The overall appearance of his final appearance is actually quite good.

What is passion? Passion is what drives us to take root in this land.No matter you are a big tree, a flower, or a grass, as long as you take root, you can always wait for the most glorious moment in your life to bloom.Moreover, only enthusiastic people can form a grassland.

It can be said that I read the entire manuscript in one breath.

This is not a success guide, chicken soup for the soul.This is just an involuntary "selfie" and "sharing" by He Yajuan after encountering beautiful scenery on the road of life.

Every story in it is true, and Yajuan also used the most unartistic, market-friendly, and plain writing method, just like a heart-to-heart talk between a girlfriend at an afternoon tea.Be real and sincere.

But the good thing is this "truth".

And all you have to do is to like it, and continue on the road with the warmth and strength in the story.And from then on, I know that one does not necessarily have to be a noble person in this life, but at least one should be a passionate person, full of love, optimism, and compassion.For such a person, there will never be a cloudy sky in the world, because you are your sunshine!

By the way, let me tell my colleagues, don't dig He Yajuan, she is one of the co-founders of Baima Shiguang, and she cannot be poached away.

Let our dreams meet here

@hello please say goodbye:

There are still too many good things in this world waiting for us to experience, and all the bad things are just freckles in life.

@晋江墨上伊人:

Everyone will have ups and downs on the way to pursue their dreams, and only then can they stand the strongest and longest at the end of their dreams.

@肖尐玎：
Now I am probably in the state of being outside the court. These plain but powerful words make me full of hope for the future. Even if I walk deeply and shallowly, at least I have not abandoned my youthful dreams. Fight!
@People looking at your V:

I have experienced this too. Now that I read such articles at this age, I really feel that youth is the capital. Start with one thing, and one day you will find that you have done something amazing.

@yinyin is mine:
It’s been a long time since I’ve encountered such a text that I can read with peace of mind. It’s clean and neat, but it brings me warmth.

@Ji Yikai:
The simplest truth is always difficult to understand, and the simplest story is always the most powerful. In order to complete the goal shot, how many times you have to run around on the huge stadium. The spotlight shines on.

@warm wind light:

No one is born a master, and no one knows what they want early on.Your efforts and rewards may not be equal, but the only criterion for measuring success is not success and fame, the most important thing is that you have to live happily.Tucao Zheng's story is very inspirational!

@Lcat ears girl:

I have read it word by word very seriously, sister Yajuan, I want to see your new book as soon as possible.Before I step into the society in the second half of the year, I want to find the direction that suits me correctly.

@Yimilian Yaxia:
Although no matter how inspirational it is, it is someone else's life, but these positive stories can always make people excited.I have also bid farewell to my past self. On the way of pursuing my dreams, I don’t seek any earth-shattering achievements. I only want to try my best to live up to myself, to live up to time, and to live up to the love of the people who love me. with anticipation!

@xinwei's bib:
I am also a "post-22s" who has been loved and protected by my parents for 90 years, but fortunately my parents support me to do what I like, and I am also working hard to fulfill my dream. I have taken the first step bravely, although I don't know What will happen in the future, but I will always stick to it, thank you sister Juan for writing positive things, let me work hard with confidence.

@中原无名剑士：

I was very moved when I read the article "Leave Yourself, Find Yourself". The move was not because she mustered up the courage to go to Paris to study alone at the age of 21. The move was because of the wonderful resonance I had with this article.The same is true for me. I once mustered up the courage to go abroad to live and study alone.In the end, when we returned to China, we may not be successful, and we may not return to the motherland with brilliance, but we respect the path we choose, no matter the result is good or bad.

@succinct te:

Growth is the formation of a person's way of thinking and attitude towards things, leaving shelter and shaping himself.Thank you for allowing us to see the suffering and sunshine of others.Let us know how many people in this world are working hard to fullen their wings and walk together for their dreams.

@Eternal Starlight Nest:
Sister Yajuan has shared many stories, and the story "Leave Yourself, Find Yourself" touched me the most, maybe because I am about the same age as this girl, and I am also a girl who has been living under the protection of her parents. As a "dream" dilemma, I feel that I am stuck in the mud but can't find a way out. I dare to think but dare not practice. "Courage" friend.

@琴怀雨巷——Gazebo:

It's very inspiring, thank you Yajuan, it has strengthened my determination to learn English well.The reason why I don't have the right to speak in front of my parents is because I haven't let my parents see my independence.If you don't push yourself, you will never know your depth.

@Lisa - many many:
After reading it carefully, tears filled my eyes.I have also questioned my persistence when I saw others achieve abundance without effort.Now after reading this text, I am very encouraged. It turns out that I am not fighting alone to become a better self.

@Reading——Life:

The so-called growth is to force you to be alone, stumbling and injured, and stumbling to be strong.

@罗景安：
After reading several articles, the deepest feeling is first of all to warm the heart, and second is to stick to the dream.There are many people who love to dream, and there are many people who work hard for their dreams, but there are always very few people who stick to their dreams.

@pure spiritual love patient:
In the middle of the night, in order to find the article "Leave Yourself, Find Yourself" that I glanced at this afternoon, I searched hard on Weibo, just looking for this article, because it touched me.In today's society, there is too much chicken soup for the soul.I am more against inspirational things, and feel that other people's stories and methods of success may not be suitable for everyone.However, reading your article, I feel full of joy, because it is true and not exaggerated at all.So I like it very much. I hope that when I am confused again, I can still gain strength from you.

@不负时时：

Dreams are just like this. Only when you really work hard for it will you find that you can persist so much.I also don't want to live a life arranged by others, and I don't want to live a life with difficulty but for others.Some people choose ease and follow the planned life, while others choose rock climbing to pursue.I have always felt that with more experience in life, many things will be opened, and I will be more aware of what I want.So facing the upcoming third year of high school, I didn't think about how to spend it and how to work hard to get a high score. Instead, I was always looking for the life I wanted, what kind of person I wanted to be, and what I wanted to do.Only by doing what you really want to do and chasing it without regrets can you live a life worthwhile. I don’t want people to regret not running for their dreams in their old age.

@走向直野 is quietly codeword:
Whenever you feel down, you can get energy from your words.

@sun-lamei:

Hello, I accidentally saw your Weibo post "When your ability can't keep up with your dreams, you must learn to lower the threshold appropriately. If you want to shoot, you must first be qualified to enter the field." For those who are in the same trouble My great support also gives me the motivation to persevere, thank you.

@江东将冬:

Allow me to call you Sister Yajuan.After reading your words, I feel very powerful.I am very ordinary, but I also have big dreams: to write the stories I want to write, to meet like-minded friends, and to live my wonderful life.So I will work hard and persevere, and hope that one day, I will meet you with my works.

@zqq is happy:
Behind everyone's brilliance, there is an unimaginable hardship. Fortunately, we never gave up.

@冷欣冷_传世世世界：

Retreat to the second best, sometimes it is so necessary and necessary, this is not a compromise, just to find a better direction.But no matter when and where, you can't give up your dreams, forget your dreams, and keep in mind: the end of your efforts is to realize your dreams!
@声声漫青城:
I saw Tucao Zheng's inspirational history on Douban, and I found you. Your words touched me deeply.I am a student who struggles every day in a major I don’t like. I am very afraid of the future, and I am afraid that one day I will struggle in a job I don’t like.Maybe it's time to jump out of this established shackles, find your true self, do what you like, and feel happy even if it's hard.If you love writing, you should go for it.Thank you for your article, which helped me get rid of the fog that could not be dispelled.Even if it is difficult, so what, I am not yet 30 years old, I have not lost my love, I have not worried about my livelihood, and I still have the opportunity to go on.No matter what the future holds, I will go bravely with my dreams.

@Have you thought about what to do if you don’t get married in this life:
A happy person will write such a happy article.Happiness is similar, but misfortune is various.I am very glad that you are happy and bring us hope with words.

@何怡晚星:

Sister Juan's writing has a special flavor, which is light, warm and refreshing.There are no gorgeous words but full of power. I especially like your words and your attitude towards doing things and living.

@xujue:

Your words have a kind of leisurely warmth.

@Memory walks with youth all the way:

Is the dream an empty bottle at the beginning?On the way of growing up, you can collect it slowly, and then you know what you like and what you pursue.

(End of this chapter)