The Happiness of Rebirth in the 80s

Chapter 23

Liu Tao'er was very busy at home, and Gao Aimin, who was away from home, couldn't rest easy, even while driving, he often lost his mind. Yu Jianshe, who was resting in the passenger seat next to him, couldn't stand it anymore, so he moved him to the side. .

"Aimin, what's the matter with you today, why are you so distracted?" Yu Jianshe, Gao Aimin and Zhang Jianqiang were in the same car, and usually three people worked three shifts.Work for two days and rest for one day.Today it's Yu Jianshe and Gao Aimin's turn.Originally, Yu Jianshe drove all day yesterday, so during the day, Gao Aimin drove first, and Yu Jianshe rested beside him.But Gao Aimin was clearly out of shape today, and Yu Jianshe didn't dare to rest. This is not a bicycle. If you are not careful, you will lose your life. Although there are not many cars on the road now, you can't be so careless.

Gao Aimin sat down from the driver's seat to the co-pilot's seat, and he smiled helplessly at Yu Jianshe: "Brother Yu, I'm sorry, my wife just found out she was pregnant when I got home this time, and you know her I have always been squeamish, and I don't deal with my mother, my heart is like running a train, and I can't settle down for a moment."

Hearing what Gao Aimin said Yu Jianshe didn't understand, Xiao Gao usually wished that his daughter-in-law would get smaller and put it in his pocket, but now that he is pregnant, he misses it even more.To say that Yu Jianshe thinks that Xiao Gao is really a good young man, but he feels a little too fond of his wife, and it is not a bad thing to feel sorry for his wife, but you can't love your daughter like you do.

Yu Jianshe is five years older than Gao Aimin, and he is also a retired soldier. Although the two of them are quite different in age, they have a little common experience in the army, so they usually get together.At the beginning, Gao Aimin's little girl, Man Yue, also went to eat Man Yue Wine, and of course met Liu Tao'er. Yu Jianshe didn't think too highly of Xiao Gao, a beautiful wife.At least it's far worse than their mother-in-law.

Yu Jianshe and his wife have been married for almost ten years. Not only did his wife give birth to two big fat boys, but she is also the top leader outside the house. Except for the farm work in the field, she didn't give up at all. He worried.It's not like Xiao Gao's daughter-in-law, who can't do anything. This is not marrying a daughter-in-law, it's purely marrying an ancestor.

"Xiao Gao, don't worry too much. When your sister-in-law gave birth to two boys, I wasn't around at all. It's not a problem at all. My two boys are no worse than other people's. Let me tell you Ah, this woman just can't be petted. The more you pet her, the more she will do it. You offered your daughter-in-law like an ancestor, and I didn't see anything good for you. You might as well be more powerful. He knows that he is afraid, so he will Don't make a fuss." Yu Jianshe is a particularly traditional male chauvinist, he is the master of the house, and now he has to teach Gao Aimin some experience.

Gao Aimin did not refute Yu Jianshe's words, he knew that this was the thinking of many people nowadays, even though his elder brother was usually nice to his sister-in-law, but he had fought with her before.Although equality between men and women is advocated now, after all, time is short, there is nothing in the city, and in the countryside, men are still the masters of the house, otherwise no one would desperately have a son.

Although Gao Aimin still has the machismo characteristic of modern men in his bones, but he can't be very strong with Liu Taoer.Liu Taoer is 23 years old this year, and Gao Aimin is 26 years old this year. Ever since Gao Aimin met Liu Taoer who was out on the way home after changing jobs three years ago, his heart has truly fallen on her.

In fact, he is also worried. After three years of marriage, big and small things in the family always happen from time to time. His daughter-in-law is soft-tempered and weak. He hasn't warmed her heart for years.

Now the procedure for marrying a daughter-in-law in the countryside is very simple. First, the matchmaker will lead the line. If the parents of the two parties have no objections, the man and the woman can get married after meeting twice. Free love is not popular in the village. Which family has one? It is very embarrassing for a child in free love, so even if the two children are interested in private, they dare not meet more often.

Gao Aimin fell in love with Liu Taoer at first sight at first sight, but it was also a serious process in the village. Before they got married, they only met three times, and they were accompanied by their parents twice.So he didn't take Liu Tao'er's alienation and unnaturalness towards him at the beginning of their marriage, and it would be fine when the two got along for a long time and had a baby.

But he didn't expect that his daughter-in-law's heart is so hard, and she hasn't warmed up after three years. He even felt a little desperate.But he didn't expect his wife's pregnancy to give him hope again.After the daughter-in-law found out that she was pregnant, she seemed to be a different person. Although it was only a short day, it was enough for Gao Aimin to feel the difference in her attitude. Liu Taoer now looked at him with shyness and love, although She tried her best to hide it, but Gao Aimin still found out.

This made him wonder whether she was under too much pressure because she didn't have a son in the past, or whether it was because the old mother at home was patriarchal, which kept the daughter-in-law at a loss, or how could she have a problem just because she was pregnant? Such a big change.

He can't remember what it was like before Liu Tao'er was pregnant with Tongtong. After all, they were newly married at that time, and he was very happy all day long because he married the girl he liked, thinking that even the sky was blue.Not long afterward, Liu Taoer became pregnant, and Liu Taoer's reaction during pregnancy was extremely serious, so he began to busy himself with taking care of the pregnant woman.

In his memory, the two were very happy before Tongtong was born, but now his wife has changed her attitude. He has to suspect that the two people's life was not going well in the past two years because the wife was too anxious. It was growing crazily in his heart, and after brainstorming for a day, he had basically decided on the answer.Therefore, I feel even more distressed about Liu Taoer. She was under a lot of pressure when no one knew about it.

Gao Aimin is still foolishly thinking that he must persuade his wife well when he goes back. In fact, it is the same when he has a boy or a girl. Even if he has no son, he will take good care of his wife and daughter. There is no need to worry about being like this just to have a son.Besides, both of them are still young now, there is absolutely no need to be careful about the child, even if this child is not a son, they can have another child in the future.Little did he know that his wife had actually changed the core.

But Yu Jianshe saw that Gao Aimin didn't object to him, and thought he had listened to his words, so he became more talkative, wishing to tell him all his years of experience. "Xiao Gao, you have to listen to my brother. Look at how comfortable my life is. When I go home, your sister-in-law doesn't serve you with good food. It doesn't look like your kid has worked hard outside for two days. work, and I have to take care of the family when I go back.”

"This daughter-in-law, you can't be too pampered, you have to show your masculinity. But don't be real, our elders have hard fists, and even my wife can't stand it, you The daughter-in-law's weak look is even more unbearable. That is to scare her. After all, if you really do something, we will feel sorry for you. You just give him a deterrent and make her afraid of you from the bottom of your heart. You have to be filial, so that if the daughter-in-law gets angry and goes back to her mother's house, it will be easier to persuade her to come back."

Seeing that Jianshe was talking non-stop, Gao Aimin smiled secretly.Others don't know, but Brother Yu does. After all, the two of them have been in the same car for so many years.Brother Yu may have had a violent temper when he was young, and he might have fought with his sister-in-law, but he hasn't fought in the past two years.Although the sister-in-law of the Yu family is a good player outside the family, she is also very hot-tempered. Don't look at what brother Yu is saying now, but her status in the family has been getting worse day by day in the past two years.

"Brother Yu, do you always treat your sister-in-law like this?" Gao Aimin asked teasingly.

"That's right, brother is not like you, as if you have never seen a woman before. Once you marry a wife, you will praise her so much that you don't want her to do anything. In our family, I am the boss." Although the confidence is not so strong enough, but Yu Jianshe still insisted.In fact, what he was thinking in his heart was that the temper of the mother-in-law at home has become worse and worse in the past two years. When he first got married, he could scare her to tears when he said something loudly. I dare not do anything.But since giving birth to two sons, this woman has become more and more confident, even daring to dance with him, which is really against the sky.But these words can't be said to Xiao Gao, there is no need to hurt face.

"Brother Yu, the situation in our family is different from yours. My sister-in-law is more open-minded, and Tao'er in our family is very shy. My mother is also a bit biased, and Tao'er was not chosen by her, so I pay special attention to her. If she doesn't go to her, she usually gets angry at home, if I don't treat her better when I go back, she really can't make it through this day." Gao Aimin sighed.He had seen the situation at home last night. Even though his wife was pregnant, he was not as favored as Aijun's wife.Speaking of it, it was because he didn't listen to his mother at the beginning, and the girl in his village who married his mother insisted on marrying Tao'er, which made her unfavorable to her family.

He has always felt a little guilty about Liu Tao'er, because he has always been angry with her mother-in-law, so he usually wishes to love his daughter-in-law more and erase the grievances she has suffered.

Yu Jianshe also felt a little empathetic when Gao Aimin said this. Every family has its own hard-to-read scriptures, and his wife and his mother did not get along so well. If they hadn't separated early, the wife gave him two sons. Their family can't live anywhere.

"Come on, everything will be fine when your daughter-in-law gives birth to a boy. Your aunt just likes her grandson. When she has a grandson in the future, there are no problems that can't be solved." Yu Jianshe comforted Gao Aimin while driving.

"No, I think my daughter-in-law's attitude towards me has become better since she was diagnosed with pregnancy. My mother also gave Tao'er a good face when she ate at my mother's place last night." As long as Gao thought of this, Gao Aimin felt that the days to come were very hopeful, and he was full of energy.

(End of this chapter)