The Happiness of Rebirth in the 80s

Chapter 73

It can be said that Gao Aimin was born at a good time, because at that time when the new country was first established, everyone had a rare and stable life.But in detail, life was not so easy. At that time, there were many children in every family, and he was in the same position in the family. Although it cannot be said that his father did not love his mother, but the experience his parents put on him can be Say the least.

When he is half a child eating to death, the country implements a planned economy, and everyone eats together.Although it is said that he will not die from hunger, he will definitely not be able to eat enough, especially for a half-child like him.Gao's father and Gao's mother worked non-stop throughout the year, and the little work points they earned were only enough for the family to make ends meet.This can only be obtained under the condition that the whole family is in battle. You must know that he has been helping the family since he can remember.

At that time, I didn't have much to think about. What I thought about most every day was to eat white flour steamed buns. As for meat, I didn't even dare to think about it.After all, white noodle steamed buns can be eaten several times throughout the year, and pork dumplings are good for Chinese New Year.

Fortunately, the big pot meal was over, and the land in the village was distributed to each household.Gao Aimin was just eighteen or nineteen years old, just at the time when he wanted to make a difference.At that time, being a soldier was not as strict as in later generations, and basically one fifth of a village could be selected.Of the three sons in the Gao family, Gao Aiguo is the eldest in the family, and his younger brothers and sisters are all waiting for him to be picked up. It may be a lot harder to go out of the house. Besides, Gao Aiguo has no intention of going to be a soldier, so he didn't join the army.As for the third child, not to mention his young age, he is still doing well in his studies. Gao's father and Gao's mother thought that he would be able to excel in his studies and would not let him be a soldier at all.

Gao Aimin has been a naughty child since he was a child. At his age, it is a very honorable thing to be a soldier.So he went without hesitation.The years in the army can be said to be a very unforgettable time. Laughter, sweat, brotherhood, and comrade-in-arms love, until Gao Aimin was very old, the memory was still vivid.

So when he came back from the army, he was at a loss and at a loss. At this time, the eldest brother had already married a wife and had children, and he was living a very good life.The third child was also admitted to a technical secondary school, and will secure a job in the subway in the future.Only he is at a loss and does not know where the future path lies.

Although he has the allowance from the army, Gao Aimin is not a person who rests on his laurels. He wants to do something with full of enthusiasm, but he has nowhere to go.

He was not young at this time.If it weren't for the delay in being fooled by the army, I'm afraid he would have already decided on a wife.But Gao Aimin has been a stubborn donkey since he was a child, and his daughter-in-law of course asked him to pick it himself.Gao's mother has a fiery temper, and the mother and son can be said to quarrel three times a day.Confused about the future and family quarrels, Gao Aimin felt that his whole body was going to collapse.

Fortunately, things turned around later, and Zhao Jun introduced him to a job as a driver.Although the work is a bit hard, the colleagues inside are all veterans. Everyone has the same temper and a very good relationship.This kind of working atmosphere made Gao Aimin feel like a fish in water, and he lived happily every day.The previous unhappiness seemed to have been swept away in an instant, and even Gao's mother's nagging didn't sound so annoying anymore.

It was under such circumstances that Gao Aimin met Liu Taoer. It is the nature of boys in their 20s to pursue beauty.So when he saw Liu Tao'er, that smile that was not shy like a white lotus flower, and that figure that was as fragile as a willow, all of a sudden broke into the heart of this stubborn boy.

People who fall in love are very impulsive, even against all difficulties.In order to marry Liu Tao'er, Gao Aimin even quarreled with Gao's mother a hundred times a day. You must know that Gao's mother had already almost found a wife for him.

Later, Gao Aimin also thought about it. In fact, the first glance may not be so beautiful, but because the boulder he had been pressing on his body was moved away, so everything he saw was good, the flowers were redder, and the trees were greener. , people are more beautiful.After all, Liu Tao'er at that time was not the type he liked.

When she really married Liu Taoer as her daughter-in-law, Gao Aimin's life was not as easy as expected.There were endless quarrels at home, and my mother scolded the door every now and then.He worked so hard to marry a wife, but he didn't even have a short period of sweetness, and he began to spend the whole day in his mother's scolding and his daughter-in-law's crying.

At that time, he was a little afraid of going home, wishing he could work overtime in the company every day.He knew that his mother had a bad impression of his daughter-in-law, and he also knew that his daughter-in-law had suffered a lot.But he just felt tired, both mentally and physically.After working outside for so long, he looks forward to having warm meals and the sweet smiling faces of his wife and children when he returns home.But all this is not.At that time, he wondered why Liu Taoer couldn't be stronger, why he couldn't tolerate more, even if he quarreled with her mother, he would admit it.As long as he doesn't let him live so tired.

Not only did he have to reconcile the conflict between his wife and his mother, but he also had to take care of a lot of things in the field, even the children at home, and his wife's natal family had to think about it every week.It would be a lie to say that he has no regrets. Sometimes he also wonders if he would have been so tired now if he had listened to his mother and married a woman who was not so beautiful but very capable like his sister-in-law.

But as long as this thought comes up, he will remind himself that he was the one who begged for thousands of times to bring his wife back home. He promised his father-in-law so swearingly that he would make Tao'er live a good life. How can he now? Can you regret it because your life is not going well?He told himself over and over again that as long as he persisted, he would be fine, as long as he persisted a little longer.At this time, his stubborn temper played a role again, and he persisted.Later, he was always glad that he persisted.

Facts have proved that his persistence is very correct. From Liu Taoer's second pregnancy, everything changed.Just as he imagined, there are delicious meals, suitable clothes, and a well-behaved daughter and gentle wife at home all the time.Even if his mother is not around, she always visits her door to scold people.

No one knew how touched he was when he got the pair of shoes that Liu Taoer made for him for the first time.What made him even more ecstatic was that he finally saw real admiration, a woman's admiration for a man, from those eyes that were only sad, timid, and wronged.This was something he had never seen in Liu Taoer's eyes during the three years of marriage.

It seems that starting from the birth of his son, his life has become more and more smooth.The daughter-in-law is gentle, the children are cute, and the family is happy.Of course, his career also began to develop gradually, from a small driver to gradually mastering a company.And Taoer also showed her unusual side. First, because of her outstanding craftsmanship, she took a stake in the snack shop opened by her eldest sister, and later made a lot of money with a pair of embroidery.Let them buy a house in the city and open a shop.The life of their young couple is getting better and better, so good that he never dared to think about it before.

Gao Aimin never knew the reason for her daughter-in-law's transformation, but this transformation started when she was pregnant with her second child, so Gao Aimin always thought it was because Liu Taoer didn't have a son because she was under too much psychological pressure. His old mother was extremely patriarchal, and because he insisted on marrying Tao'er at the beginning, his mother's impression of Tao'er has never been very good.

So while feeling more guilty towards his daughter-in-law, he dotes on this son who has brought great changes to his life.Although he always said that sons should be raised extensively and daughters should be raised delicately, but he never did it once.He spoiled his daughter to the sky, and his son was also very distressed.

In order to spoil the child, Tao'er talked to him a lot, but it was useless, as soon as he saw that little face that combined the strengths of him and his wife, his determination would be useless at all .He couldn't bear the disappointed expression on that little face, and he couldn't bear to be wronged by such a little person.As long as he saw that smiling face, he felt happy from the bottom of his heart.

Because he dotes on his children, Tao'er, who has always been gentle, has to work as a strict mother at home.Whenever she put on a straight face and began to scold others, he wanted to touch the heads of the big, two and small.Fortunately, the two children are very sensible and have not been raised by him.Otherwise, he would really be nagged by his wife for the rest of his life.Of course, he never dared to say these words in front of Tao'er that even if he raised the children badly, he could provide for them for a lifetime.

Looking back on Gao Aimin's life, it can be said that apart from some minor filth, his life was very happy.Although his mother was a bit biased, she would try her best to help him when something happened to his family. Although his father was reticent, he also put in all his strength. They made arrangements.As for the brothers and sisters, except for the youngest daughter-in-law who is a little tricky, everyone else is fine.

It's not that he hasn't encountered all kinds of temptations in his life, but as long as he thinks of the gentle smiling face at home, as long as he thinks of the two naughty but very sensible children, he feels that these temptations are nothing.Just think of the face of her daughter-in-law who forbears him when his mother scolds others or is biased, and thinks of the open-mindedness that she doesn't care about for the sake of his brotherhood even though she doesn't get along with the third sibling.He felt that these temptations were nothing.

When he was too old to be old, recalling the first time he saw Tao'er, he found that the shy smile like a white lotus flower had disappeared from his mind since then, and there was still a smile left in his mind. All that remained was her gentle smiling face.Only the sweet years they have gone through holding hands.

(End of this chapter)