The marriage order is urgent: the ex-wife is a little busy running away

Chapter 87 I love both my daughter and my son
Bai Lulu ate very happily during dinner. Although Bai Lulu had a mysterious hobby and obsession with eating since she was pregnant, Yan Ling could tell that Bai Lulu was really in a good mood today.

After picking up a piece of her favorite vegetable for Bai Lulu, Yan Ling put down the chopsticks in his hand and looked at Bai Lulu: "Lulu, why are you in a good mood today?"

Lulu replied vaguely while eating: "Woooo, I'm very happy."

"Then what happened to make you so happy? Would you like to tell me?"

Bai Lulu swallowed the food in her mouth before saying, "Han Li is back, he came looking for me today."

"Oh? Why is he back?" No matter what the reason was, it was difficult for Yan Ling to have any slight liking for Han Li.

"I don't know, maybe it's enough to go out and play, I think it's better to come back."

"Then what does he want from you?"

"Is it okay? It's nothing, just come and see me." Bai Lulu continued to eat, and then suddenly remembered something, "Oh, yes, I said let him be our baby's godfather, and he gave me a gift .”

After Bai Lulu finished speaking, she continued to eat, but seeing that Yan Ling didn't speak, she asked a little uncertainly, "Yan Ling, are you angry?"

"Huh? What?"

"Just let Han Li be the baby's godfather. I made my own decision without discussing it with you. Are you blaming me?"

Yan Ling was thinking about the reason why Han Li came back. Although he knew that Han Li was sincere to Bai Lulu, and knew that Han Li could not pose a threat to himself, Yan Ling still wanted to find out.

It seems that Yan Ling has been brooding over Han Li's taking Bai Lulu abroad from the very beginning.

Hearing what Bai Lulu said, he temporarily put Han Li aside and concentrated on coaxing his precious wife.

"Good boy, Lulu, I was thinking about whether to invite Han Li to our house, and I'm not angry with you."

"I know Han Li is very important to you, and he treats you very well, so there's nothing wrong with him being the baby's godfather."

"Well, is what you said true? Yanling, do you really not blame me?"

"Well, I don't blame you, dear, let's eat quickly."

"Oh oh oh, good."

Yan Ling found more and more that Bai Lulu's mood changes became more and more erratic, sometimes she was fine, but suddenly she was about to cry for some reason.

Or it is easy to get angry because of some strange little things. For example, she prepared white socks and yellow clothes for the baby, and then she had to wash them. She soaked the socks and clothes in a basin, and when she took them out, she found The socks were dyed yellow.

Bai Lulu was unhappy, and then she just lived her own sulking, and no amount of comfort was good.

He called his grandma and she said that when a woman is pregnant, she loses control of her emotions and even becomes strange.Because in her heart, she was actually anxious.

And most importantly, I may not even realize that I am anxious, so many subtle emotions will be magnified many times along with this anxiety.

So Bai Lulu's situation is normal and common, but you still have to pay attention, grandma said don't let this kind of anxiety become Lulu's real habitual thinking, otherwise it will be bad for her and the child.

After Yan Ling knew this, she insisted on getting off work early every day to accompany Bai Lulu to the park for a run, or to watch the children play games.

Because in fact, the anxiety of pregnant women is the anxiety caused by the ignorance and confusion of unknown things, that is, the various ignorance and confusion of unborn children.

So it is beneficial for Bai Lulu to get in touch with the world of children more and see them more.

But Yan Ling still doesn't understand pregnant women after all, just like he doesn't understand the unpredictable weather.

This day, Bai Lulu looked a little sad when she woke up in the morning, but other times she was fine.It's just the occasional trance.

Yan Ling thought about his life these past few days, and there was nothing special about it.

Yan Ling had no choice but to pay close attention to Bai Lulu's emotional changes in order to deal with it in time.

When Yan Ling saw Bai Lulu fascinated by the two sets of clothes, one yellow and one blue, Yan Ling walked over and hugged Bai Lulu gently.

"What's the matter, Lulu? Are you uncomfortable?"

Bai Lulu came back to her senses, and she asked Yan Ling sadly: "Yan Ling, do you think parents and grandma like boys or girls?"

Although Yan Ling didn't know why Bai Lulu asked this question, he could answer this question seriously and seriously: "They will all like it. If it's a boy, it's a handsome young master of the Yan family. If it's a girl, it's pampered." The little princess of the Yan family."

"They'll all love it, really."

Bai Lulu didn't seem to get the answer she wanted, so she asked again: "What about you?"

"Ok?"

"Would you prefer a boy or a girl?"

Yan Ling smiled dotingly, he gently hugged Bai Lulu and told her in his gentle and charming voice: "Boy, let him go out for training early, take over Yan Family as soon as possible, and then I will accompany you to the ends of the world to see Look."

"A girl will definitely be as beautiful and lovely as you, and she will be a carefree little princess."

"So, Lulu, as long as it's our child, no matter it's a boy or a girl, I love it."

Bai Lulu was dissatisfied, she said angrily: "You lied to me, I heard they said that a boy can continue the family tradition of your family, grandma will definitely want me to give birth to a boy. If I give birth to a girl, she will definitely give birth to a boy." I don't like it anymore."

Bai Lulu's unrestrained imagination was unstoppable, she seemed to have foreseen that if she gave birth to a daughter, that child would be treated coldly in Yan's family.

Yan Ling was laughed at by Bai Lulu's seemingly irrefutable great theory. He looked at Bai Lulu who was angry alone, and thought, this might be the prenatal depression that the doctor said.

In fact, he really felt sorry for Bai Lulu who was sad alone like this. He felt that no matter if it was a boy or a girl, one was enough, and he didn't want to let his favorite person suffer like this again.

Yan Ling said distressedly, "Lulu, look at me."

Although Bai Lulu didn't know why, she still looked at Yan Ling obediently.

"Lulu, I am your husband, do you believe me?"

Bai Lulu nodded without hesitation, Yan Ling was the most trustworthy person in the world.

"Okay, I, Yan Ling, swear in front of the person I love the most, no matter whether my wife Bai Lulu gives birth to a boy or a girl, everyone in our Yan family, old and young, will love and pamper him. The undisputed heir of our Yan Family."

"If you break this oath, you will be struck by lightning."

"Lulu, are you willing to believe it?"

Bai Lulu never thought that Yan Ling would swear a poisonous oath to prove it to herself. At this moment, she no longer cared about whether boys and girls would be favored or not in the future. She only felt that she was very happy now.

Because there is such a man who is willing to do anything to comfort her emotions.

Bai Lulu leaned against Yan Ling's arms, she nodded like a bird, "I am willing, I trust you, Yan Ling."

Then Bai Lulu prayed silently in her heart, God, the oath just now cannot be taken seriously, Yan Ling just loves me too much and he is not wrong, I believe they are.

God, don't take it seriously.

Yan Ling calmed down Bai Lulu, and then went back to the study to deal with business in peace.During this period, he saw the book that had been randomly placed on the table before, and he picked it up and carefully read the title, "Eighteen Classics of Raising Children and Pregnant Women".

Yan Ling said to himself, "I didn't expect what the book said to be really useful."

So I opened the book again and continued to read.

This book was given to him by Yan's mother when he came back from the old house, and she also said to read the book more and learn the methods in it.

When he got it back, he just read the first few pages and threw it on the table. He didn't think about encountering Bai Lulu's emotional problems.The method he mentioned in the book is really useful.

The book said that for prenatal anxiety and prenatal depression, the most important thing is not comfort, but she said, for example, you can find some Bodhisattvas, which will definitely be useful.

But when Yan Ling saw this, he thought it was nonsense.

Do you think pregnant women are fools?You can still believe that there are gods in the sky.The more Yan Ling looked at it, the more he felt that it was unreliable, so he put it there.

Unexpectedly, according to what the book said, Bai Lulu really calmed down a lot.

Many years later, when their children had grown up, Yan Ling still found it amazing when he talked about this matter.

At that time, he asked Bai Lulu: "Lulu, if you don't believe me, can I swear?"

At that time, Bai Lulu looked at Yan Ling like she was looking at a fool, "Swear? Do you think I'm stupid? Yan Ling, I'm an atheist."

Well, I am an atheist at this time, so what kind of atheism was it when I was pregnant?Yan Ling had no room for him to slander him.

But that was all many years later. At that time, whenever they think of their youth, both of them feel childish and ridiculous, but also warm and moving.

Time is like this, the more you want to keep it, the faster it will flow.

And when you open your heart and let things flow north and south, it will remind you of those past events.

Joyful, sad, all the emotions seem to reappear vividly yesterday.

The moon is always the same, and everything else will be blown away by the wind.

The rest are all deeply preserved in memory.

(End of this chapter)