The Complete Works of Wolf Road

Chapter 16 Possessing a Strong Personality Like a Wolf (1)
People in the world have different personalities.Some people are lively, some withdrawn, some are proud, some are humble... But no two personalities will be exactly the same, and a hundred people will have a hundred different personalities.Different personalities can determine different lives.Personality can determine your destiny, what kind of personality you have, what kind of life you will have.Just like a wolf, because of its personality, it is determined that it will not be eliminated in nature.

1 Iron Will and Perseverance
In the life of wolves, they have incomparable perseverance, which allows them to resist all powerful enemies during their survival.As our society grows richer and people can get what they want more easily, is grit being valued and valued as it should be?Is perseverance still important to us?

Plato once said: "The only secret of success is to persevere until the last minute." Just like a long-distance race, the most strenuous step is not the first step at the beginning, but the last step towards the end.Perseverance is the embodiment of perseverance.A person without perseverance cannot become a master.

An accomplished person, who is not a person with strong will and perseverance?Everyone who makes contributions is a person who is persistent.Kepler studied the structure and shape of benzene rings, but could not come up with a result for a long time.Later, he got the answer in a dream.You see, how strong his perseverance is, he can never forget his mission even in his dreams.The well-known Marie Curie extracted a few grams of uranium from hundreds of tons of ore.How can you do it without perseverance?Marx wrote "Das Kapital" for 40 years, and even left two deep footprints under the seat where he once sat in the British Museum.If he didn't have perseverance, how could he do such a thing?

Once the direction is determined, the key to the success of your career lies in the presence or absence of perseverance and perseverance.Think of your own purpose all the time, summarize your behavior all the time, and over time, you can surpass yourself.

Einstein, one of the greatest scientists in the world, made an unparalleled contribution to human beings in physics, and at the same time left important enlightenment for us human beings.

Before Einstein was an adult, he was hunted down by a series of ugly nicknames, and people thought he was stupid.However, when he grew up and discovered the theory of relativity and became a world-class great man, people attributed his success to his extremely clever mind. His mind remains in the world and is protected for various researches.After researching and researching, there is no result.Instead, Einstein himself has long stated the true meaning of success based on his own successful experience: "Steel-like will is more important than wisdom and erudition." The true meaning of success that Einstein said is not only a summary of his own experience, but also has been Fully proven by scientific research.

The greatest difference between man and man, between the weak and the strong, between the great and the little, lies in the strength of the will, that is, the determination to be invincible.Once a goal is established, then, if you don't die in the struggle, you will succeed in the struggle.With this quality, you can do anything you can do in this world.Otherwise, no matter what kind of talent you have, no matter what kind of environment you are in, no matter what kind of opportunities you have, you cannot become a truly successful person.

Whether there is perseverance is the watershed that decides to give up halfway in life or realize the ideal.Successful people have firm perseverance and never give up halfway.When they set a certain goal, they will stick to it and never give up until the goal is reached.This kind of perseverance comes from strong willpower. Their life motto is: "In order to realize your ideals, never give up!"

That's right, everyone has bad luck, setbacks and blows on the journey of life.At this time, it seems that everything is not going well, nothing is right, it seems that the whole world is against you... But this is also the time when you use your willpower to meet the blow and force yourself to rush forward.

Many successful people have lost opportunities, lost their jobs, and even been abandoned by their lovers. But it is precisely because of so many twists and turns that their perseverance and will are as strong as steel. They gritted their teeth and survived. With a tenacious will to support himself through the most difficult pass in life, and finally climbed to the peak of life.

Jessica Savage is a well-known TV news anchor in the United States, known as "NBC's Golden Girl" for her outstanding performance.

Back then, she started as a handyman with a very low status in the broadcasting company.At that time, in the office, when others wanted coffee or needed something, she would pick it up.There were many, many hurdles that she had to navigate on her way to national prominence.

Here's what she thinks about new challenges: "If I have to do something hard, I just go forward because I can't back down. I've been discouraged, but whenever I feel discouraged, Thinking: I have no choice but to keep trying, if I back down, there is no way out. Since I have chosen this line, I have to do it like a model, if I fall, no one will pull me. I can't Go home and say to your family, 'Take care of me', and you can't say to your husband, 'Please help me'! So you have to stick to it."

Jessica's experience tells us, don't leave yourself a retreat, there is no choice but to succeed.There are often unsatisfactory things in life. It is inevitable for everyone to fall to the bottom. Experienced a failure does not mean that a person will lose everything in his life.If you are defeated by failure, you will feel that giving up is the easiest way to do it.But if you give up, you will miss success forever. What fun is there in a life without challenges?

Whenever you encounter a failure, you must not get up after a setback, but you should return to the battlefield with stronger perseverance.Giving up is just a convenient way out, but it is not the path to success.There is a famous saying: "If you have no place to fall, you will not fall." Look carefully and you will find that the vast majority of accomplished people are like this in life-refusing to back down.

In life, everything can be lost, but strong perseverance must never be discarded.Once perseverance is lost, a person really has nothing and achieves nothing.

2 Challenge without giving up
The wolf has experienced all kinds of tribulations - harsh climate, cruel survival and competition environment, but it is precisely because of these tribulations that the wolf has the spirit of never admitting defeat, and dares to challenge the powerful enemy.

On the road of life, there are various risks and challenges, and at the same time, various opportunities are hidden.Each of us will inevitably trek along the road of life, with failures and successes.The victory in life does not lie in the momentary gains and losses, but in who is the final winner.None of us can say whether we have succeeded or failed until we have reached the end of our lives.Therefore, at any stage of life, we must not be discouraged, but full of hope.In the words of American stock king He Shiha:

"Don't ask how much I can win, but ask how much I can afford to lose." Only those who can afford to lose can win the final victory.

When He Shiha was 17 years old, he started his own business. The first time he made a lot of money was also the first time he learned a lesson.At that time, he only had $255 in total.Be a broker in the over-the-counter market for stocks.In less than a year, he made a fortune, earning $168 million.

He bought himself his first decent suit of clothes and a house on Long Island.However, when the truce of World War I came, Hershey was too clever, and he stubbornly bought the Longray Kavanagh Steel Company at the price of the big discount that came with peace. Instead, he was cheated and was left with only $4000.This time, he learned a profound lesson: "Never buy anything on sale unless you know what's going on."

Later, Hershey gave up the over-the-counter trading of securities, and did business in stocks that were not traded on the stock exchange.At the beginning, he operated a joint venture with others, and a year later, he opened his own Hershey Securities Company.Later, Hershey worked as a stockbroker's broker, earning a monthly profit of 20 US dollars.

The man whose hand turns to gold when he touches it has his troubles. In 1945, due to negligence, Hershey took 15 US dollars out of the country without permission, and was fined 8500 US dollars by the Canadian government.At the same time, his Philippine gold mine also cost him $300 million.It also taught him another lesson.Although Hershey had experienced so many setbacks, he never gave up.

To get dividends, you must first invest your money.In the same way, if you want to be successful, you must sacrifice first-sacrifice your time, income, stable life, enjoyment, etc., be ready to concentrate on it at any time, and firmly grasp it when the opportunity arises. catch.

After the opportunity is seized, risks always exist, so we must be cautious at all times. From the moment we swim to the middle of the river, we must be ready to deal with unexpected situations and overcome them one by one.At this time, if we can learn from experience the skills of controlling the body, we can avoid some obstacles.After getting used to the impact of the trend, slowly, we can open our eyes and pay attention to other favorable opportunities around us, and correctly judge the direction of our progress.People who are afraid of failure or shrink back after only one failure cannot see the light behind failure.

Those who dare not put themselves in danger will never succeed.Since the chances of success and failure are the same, and you can make a comeback after failure, why not give it a try?Only those who can afford to lose will win.

The growth of a butterfly must go through painful struggles in the chrysalis, and it will not break out of the chrysalis until its wings are strong.The same is true for human growth. It is difficult to stand out without struggling, setbacks, and tempering.

Hard work is the most important thing, it is a kind of capital in life, a piece of wealth.

Mr. Fan Guangling, a computer expert and poet from Taiwan, received a master's degree in business administration from Ston Howard University in the United States and a Ph.D. from Utah State University.

Later, Mr. Fan specialized in computers, and wrote a popular book "Computer and You" very early, which sold well in Taiwan and Southeast Asia.He went around the world and promoted the establishment of the Computer Association, held computer lectures, held computer international conferences, and delivered speeches on computers everywhere.Because of his contribution in this area, the King of Thailand personally presented him with the Computer Achievement Award, and the Royal Academy of England also awarded him the International Outstanding Achievement Award.

It is such a genius who survived by working hard when he first graduated and came to the United States.At the beginning, he worked as a handyman in a restaurant called Tom Chen, taking out garbage, cleaning toilets, washing dishes, chopping onions, peeling frozen chicken skin... he was busy like a spinning top every day.Everyone in the restaurant, big or small, is his boss: the chef, the second chef, and even the senior handyman, anyone can tell him what to do, reprimand or tease him at will.He worked various jobs in two years—washing dishes, closing dishes, working as a waiter, serving tea and water, selling coffee, doing small labor, being a cashier, a salesperson...

He was so poor that he didn't have a penny in his pocket, and he only drank water and swallowed bread crumbs all day long, but he kept thinking and groping, trying to find a way.Hard work paid off, he earned money, went to college, studied for graduate students, and finally blazed his own path.

Things in the world have always been no pains no gains.If you are afraid of suffering and seek ease, you will not achieve great things.Just think about it, which outstanding person didn't suffer a lot in the world before he struggled out?
To make achievements, you must pay several times more effort than others.Many outstanding talents lack neither EQ nor IQ, but what they lack is the spirit of bearing hardships.This is not the responsibility of the society, nor the fault of the environment, but the responsibility of oneself.

It is unfortunate to suffer hardships in old age, and everyone knows that.However, it is unfortunate not to experience hardships and hardships in youth, and this truth is not understood by everyone.It may be enviable to enjoy pleasure first, but it is only a process, and it will not last forever, and it will be bitter at the end.And suffering first is also a process, it will not last forever, and it will be sweet at the end.It is only by suffering for success in youth that we can enjoy the sweet fruits of old age.

3 Lock the goal and never give up

Wolves can easily find prey gathering places and will migrate with their prey.Even in areas where food is scarce, wolves can find prey that meets the survival needs of their species.Once a wolf has chosen a target to capture, it will stick to it and never give up.

For human beings, the greatest luck is to be able to correctly position oneself, find one's own goal, lock on to the goal, and never give up.

No matter what you are doing now, finding your purpose is critical to your success if you are just starting out or about to start your career.

When setting goals, we follow the following guidelines:

[-]. The goal must be your own.Your goals must be set by yourself.You yourself will be the driving force behind the goal.

Second, the goal must be realistic.The so-called realistic means that it is possible to achieve it.However, the statement that goals must be realistic does not mean that goals should be modest or easy to achieve.In fact, the goals that cannot be easily achieved are the real challenges for the goal seekers.That is to say, the goal itself must have considerable difficulty and the possibility of being achieved.Therefore, when you set a goal, you must make it what you want to pursue.

Third, the goal must be specific and measurable.Vague and general goals cannot serve as guides for action.

Fourth, the goal must be time-bound.Any goal must specify a deadline for its achievement.There are two reasons: first, if the deadline for achieving the goal is not specified, people will easily adopt an attitude of procrastination, so that the realization of the goal is indefinitely; drawn up.

Fifth, coordination must be considered between goals.When pursuing multiple goals at the same time, we must resolve the conflicts or contradictions between the various goals in advance, lest the various results obtained cancel each other out and be in vain.

Once you have found your goal, you can maximize yourself there, and your talents, your wisdom, your physical fitness, and your potential can be fully and effectively utilized.

After finding your goal, you must also have the spirit of persistent pursuit-hold on to the goal and never give up.There is no failure in life, only giving up, if you don't give up, you won't fail.There is no other secret to success, the only secret is to set your goals and never give up.

Oxford University once held a "Secret of Success" lecture, and invited former British Prime Minister Winston Churchill to give a speech.Before the speech began, the entire auditorium was packed with people from all walks of life, and people were ready to listen to the secret of success of this great statesman, diplomat, and writer.Finally, Churchill walked into the venue accompanied by his entourage, and there was thunderous applause at the venue.Churchill stepped onto the podium, took off his coat and handed it to the entourage. Then he took off his hat, gestured for everyone to be quiet, and said: "I have three secrets of success: the first is never give up; the second is, never, Never give up; the third is never, never, never give up!

My speech is over. "

After speaking, Churchill put on his coat and hat and left the venue.

The venue fell into silence.But after a while, the audience burst into thunderous applause.

Adhere to the two principles of "never give up".The first principle is to never give up, the second principle is to look back at the first principle when you want to give up: never give up!

There is not much difference between a winner and a loser, except that the loser has taken 99 steps, while the winner has taken the last step, which is the hundredth step.A loser falls down one more time than a winner, and a winner gets up one more time than a loser.

When you take 1000 steps, you may also encounter failure, but success often hides behind the corner. Unless you turn the corner, you will never succeed.

Many people often draw conclusions about failure too early. When encountering a little setback, they have doubts about their work, or even give up halfway, and the previous efforts will be in vain.Only those who can stand the wind and rain and various tests are the final winners.Therefore, if it is not until the last moment, never give up, and always believe that: those who succeed do not give up, and those who give up will not succeed!
4 Tenacious struggle and never lose to yourself

We must fight tenaciously like wolves.In the difficult journey of life, we must stick to a belief: we can lose to others, but not to ourselves.Because you can't let yourself beat yourself up.

Who in this world can really beat you?Only you.The following story is a perfect example of self-defeating yourself.

During a march, a small team was suddenly attacked by the enemy. During the melee, two soldiers rushed out of the enemy's encirclement, only to find that they had entered the desert.Halfway through the walk, the water ran out, and the injured soldier was exhausted and needed to rest.So, the companion handed the gun to the sunstroker, and repeatedly instructed: "There are still five bullets in the gun. After I leave, you fire a shot into the air every hour. The sound of the gun will guide me to meet you." After finishing speaking, the companion went to find water with confidence.

The warrior lying in the desert is full of doubts: Can his companions find water?Can you hear the gunfire?Will you leave your "baggage" behind and leave alone?
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