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Chapter 103 Overcoming the six "blockers" on the road to wealth 4
Volume 6 Chapter 4 Overcome the six "blockers" on the road to wealth [-]
Breaking up in love is the beginning of a new journey in life

Jealousy and other similar mental illnesses arise from the innate human fear of losing someone's love, which is the most painful of the six fears.It can wreak havoc on an individual's body and mind more than any other basic fear.

——Think and Grow Rich

Losing love is painful, but in the face of this pain, some people can make rational choices, while others fall into the quagmire of emotional impulse.Different behaviors reflect different personalities and have completely different consequences in life and career.

In the lovelorn, some people are so painful that they never recover; some people are depressed, have doubts and denials about themselves, and even go to the end; grades.When facing the misfortune of being lovelorn, a man's self-esteem may make him accept this fact calmly on the surface, and vent his painful emotions alone.Women are more likely to regard love as the highest pursuit of life or the center of life, and they are more dedicated.Therefore, when encountering a lovelorn, a woman's weakness and infatuation often make it difficult for her to forget the pain.

We do not advocate the practice of self-destruction after falling out of love. Ostrovsky, the author of "How the Steel Was Tempered", once said: "Personal problems, love problems, occupy a very small position in my thoughts... Even if I break up with love a hundred times, I will not Suicide." Although Beethoven paid a high emotional price for falling out of love, his emotion was sublimated in the sacred music.The lovelorn also made Romain Rolland fall into an emotional dilemma, but "John Christophe" is the crystallization of his painstaking efforts in the predicament.Broken love can destroy people, but also can make people, the key lies in how you deal with this problem.

Calmly analyzing the reasons for falling in love can provide us with a rational way to eliminate the depression of falling in love, but besides rational analysis, we can also use other methods to eliminate the shadow of falling in love.

Many people experience depression, remorse, regret, anger, melancholy, and disappointment after falling out of love.To relieve mental pressure, we cannot rely on long-term silence, which may accumulate pain, and even lead to mental depression in severe cases, but rely on proper venting.Choose an appropriate occasion to share your difficulties with others, such as family, friends, teachers, colleagues, etc.You trust them fully, and they are the ones you can pour out your heart on.If you express your grievances and grievances to your heart's content, they will often give you encouraging eyes, sympathetic words, pertinent suggestions and objective analysis; moreover, you will feel much happier and more comfortable after telling them.Of course, you can also pour out the depression in your heart on the pen, or even close the door and cry bitterly.Here, we should also pay attention to "moderation" in venting, as endless nagging will make people more negative and decadent.After crying and paining, Ying should be enlightened, and what should be revealed is a brand new self.

After falling out of love, the most important and positive way is to work hard, face life enthusiastically, and compensate for the emotional loss with achievements in all aspects.From this perspective, lovelorn also has its positive meaning.The great German poet Goethe fell deeply in love with a girl named Charlotte when he was 23 years old, and this girl has already "got a flower".The pain of losing his love made Goethe at a loss for a while, but he soon immersed himself in writing and created the handed down novel "The Sorrows of Young Werther".Goethe's success lies in timely compensation for emotional loss with work enthusiasm.

Furthermore, we can consciously unlearn that experience.We all have memories, but we can choose what to remember and what to recall.After falling out of love, we should not recall the happy and sweet time in the past, it will only make the mood more depressed, some good things need to be precipitated, need to be dusted, let the past pass by!

For a person with a mature and sound personality, falling out of love is just a setback on the road of life.In the face of broken love, they can do it without losing their ambitions, and without losing their virtue.Don't have any revenge mentality, it can only harm others and yourself.Tolerance is the virtue of a lovelorn.

Shakespeare once said: "When the romance of love is overthrown, we should break up amicably and say 'goodbye'." Because people move forward, pain will eventually pass, sunshine, rain, dew, birds and flowers, these are not from life. Erase, get out of this haze, regain confidence in life and love, and you will get your soul reborn.At the same time, you will find that pain can open your eyes and deepen your feelings and expand your sense of yourself.You'll also find yourself freed from the shackles of self-pity, impatience, and free to start living again.

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