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Chapter 122 The Secret of Love 4
Volume 4 Chapter 4 The Secret of Love [-]
Praise and bless everything in the world

Praise and bless everything in this world, you will dissolve its negativity and disharmony, and align yourself with the highest frequency of "love".

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Among all the roads in the world, the road between hearts is the most difficult to walk. Everyone is pursuing interests, but they can't find the direction to the soul.In fact, sometimes it is easy to walk into the hearts of others. The signpost is to give your sincere love to others.

Praise and blessing from the heart is a kind of love.Mark Twain once said: "As long as I have a word of praise, I can live a full two months." It is one of human nature to like to listen to other people's praise and accept their blessings.Everyone will feel that self-esteem and identity are satisfied with proper compliments from society or others.When we hear other people's appreciation for us, and feel happy and inspired, we will naturally have an intimacy with the speaker, thus shortening the psychological distance between each other.This kind of heartfelt praise is also a kind of love, which can promote a harmonious relationship between people.

In 1960, when French President Charles de Gaulle visited the United States, Mrs. Nixon carefully arranged a beautiful flower stand at the banquet held for him by Nixon: in the center of a horseshoe-shaped table, bright and dazzling tropical flowers set off a delicate fountain.

General de Gaulle saw at a glance that this was carefully designed and made by the hostess to welcome him, and he couldn't help but blurt out praise: "What a beautiful and elegant plan and arrangement! Thanks to the noble and elegant hostess." Mrs. Nixon heard very happy.Afterwards, Mrs. Nixon said: "Most visiting dignitaries either pay no attention to it, or don't bother to thank the hostess for it, but he always thinks and talks about others."

In later years, no matter how the relationship between the United States and France changed, Mrs. Nixon always maintained a very good impression of General de Gaulle.

It can be seen that a simple word of praise for others can have such a good effect.Everyone wants to be praised by others, and no one likes to be accused and criticized by others.

The benefits of praise are too numerous to enumerate, but many people in life are stingy to do so.Either out of indifference or out of jealousy, they often find fault with other people's faults and mistakes, rather than use praise to help a person get rid of the darkness of the heart.Praise has magical power. It can make a person with low self-esteem come out of the shadows and become positive and optimistic; it can also make an indifferent person enthusiastic and full of vitality.

Some people say: "Stingy praise is the greatest stinginess." Praising someone will not make you lose anything, but can convey your kindness to the other party and receive love feedback from the other party. Why not do it?

In addition to praise, forgiving others' faults with a tolerant heart is also one of the ways of love.

Rockefeller is a person who is good at praising others.Once, Rockefeller's subordinate Edward Bedford caused the company to lose $100 million due to a mistake.When Bedford came to see Rockefeller in frustration, Rockefeller could have accused him of his fault, but he did not do so because he knew that Bedford had done his best and could not deny Bedford's credit, let alone what had happened, Pointing fingers doesn't help either.

Rockefeller said to Bedford: "Although the project did not go very smoothly, you not only saved 60% of the investment, but also sounded the alarm for us. We have been working hard and have achieved almost all successes. Taste the taste of failure. It’s also good that we can better recognize our own mistakes and shortcomings as a reference. Besides, no one will always be at the peak of their career.”

A few kind words not only resolved Bedford's embarrassment, but also showed Rockefeller's generosity and tolerance.Such managers are attractive, not only can attract more talents to serve them, but also get better development.It is inevitable for people to make mistakes in the process of growing up. A few words of well-intentioned comfort and blessings from the heart are far more powerful than ten thousand serious criticisms.

To praise and bless everything in the world with love, and to tolerate everything in the world with sincere compassion can narrow the gap between people, make each other appreciate each other, and can also resolve disputes between people and make both sides harmonious. It is a gift that everyone is willing to accept.

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