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Chapter 137 The Great Blessing From Heaven, You Receive It With Magnificence 4
Volume 2 Chapter 4 Great Blessing from the Heavens with a Magnificent Reception [-]
Don't dwell on other people's flaws

If you always pay attention to the notoriety of others, it means that your reputation has been ruined.Covering up the faults of others in order to excuse one's own, or laughing at the faults of others in order to lessen one's own guilt, is the usual method of self-consolation of fools.This kind of people's breath is filthy, forming a stinking ditch of rumors throughout the city.The deeper you dig this stinky ditch, the more dirty and stinky you will be.Everyone has flaws, and no one will notice your flaws unless you are nobody.Wise men never take pleasure in talking about the faults of others, for fear of turning themselves into a stained notebook.

——"The Book of Wisdom"

In this world, there are very few people who can be perfect, so treat others as you treat yourself, and don't be too critical.

Steve wasn't a standout guy.He could have been leisurely and quiet, but instead he wanted to "introduce" himself to people all the time.

When Steve said that Dani's eyes looked disgusting, the co-worker noticed Steve's eyes and compared his eyes with Dani's eyes.Only then was he surprised to find that Dani's eyes were so clear and bright in comparison.

Steve said that Smith had an ugly snub nose, but he didn't notice that his own face was not that great either.

Steve said that Denver was "eating watermelon with his teeth open", but he forgot the imposing and open "Panama Canal" between his own front teeth.

How many people in life criticize others with critical eyes?

Yes, he is "tone deaf", but the little tune he hums is full of joyful spirit.

Yes, she is not good-looking, but her sincere smile makes her look attractive.

Yes, she is nearly fifty years old, but her childlike innocence has not faded away.

Yes, he's not quick thinking, but he never counts people.

Can you say that they are not beautiful?

Did you see that the grass is green and the willows are sprouting?Have you noticed the slow flow of the trickling brook?

Would you say that these two seasons are not good because of the depression in autumn and the cold in winter?If you have stepped on fallen leaves and enjoyed the snow scene.

The setting sun shoots a golden light, leaving on the lush lawn; the sea breeze caresses the sea; the blue sky kisses the earth; the sun still rises in the east and sets in the west, and the stars still twinkle in the night sky.

The universe is so magnificent.Why can't you see it all, and only find fault in others, looking for flaws!

"Fit-picking" means you're looking carefully for what needs to be fixed and repaired, that is, to find the breaks and flaws in your life, and then either try to mend them, or at least point them out to others.Not only does this habit alienate others, it also makes you feel bad.It encourages you to consider what's wrong with everything and someone—what you don't like.So, instead of making us appreciate our relationships and our lives, "finding fault" encourages us to think that life is not as it should be, that nothing is perfect.

In our relationships, "nitpicking" typically plays out like this: you meet someone and he's all right, and you're attracted to his or her appearance, personality, intelligence, sense of humor, or some combination of these qualities. absorb.In the beginning, not only did you like

What makes this person different from you is that you actually admire them, and you may even be attracted to this person, partly because of your
What a difference.He or she has different perceptions, likes, tastes, and strengths than you do.

After a while, however, you start noticing little flaws in your new partner that you think should be able to improve.You bring it to their attention.At this point you might say, "You know, you do have a tendency to be late."Or "I've noticed that you don't read a lot." The point is, you've begun to inevitably move into a way of life—finding and considering what you don't like about someone, or what's not quite right.

Obviously, a casual remark, constructive criticism, or helpful guidance does not raise alarm.

When you're going to "find fault" with another person, it doesn't mean anything other than that you're the one to be criticized.

  Whether you're carping about your relationships or some aspect of your life, or both, all you need to do is write off carping as a bad habit.When this habit sneaks into your mind, hold yourself back and shut your mouth just in time, and the less often you find fault with your partner or friend, the more you'll notice that your life is indeed very good.

  Look at the world and your friends with appreciation, and try to find the best in them!

(End of this chapter)