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Chapter 143 Victory knocks on the door when retreating 2
Volume 4 Chapter 2 Victory knocks at the door [-]
know when to say no

Knowing how to refuse at the right time is a great rule of life. The most important thing is how to refuse when you don't want to be involved in certain things.In life, some things are not important, but they are consuming our precious time.Many people are always busy with some irrelevant things, it is better not to do it.The way to be prudent is not only to ignore other people's business, but also to prevent others from interfering with you.Don't rely too much on others, so you will lose yourself.For friends, you can't make excessive demands, and you can't ask for more help than they are willing to give.If things are overdone, they will become harmful, and this principle should also be followed in interpersonal communication.Know when enough is enough, and you will be favored and respected by others.No matter what you do, you can be polite and polite. This is a very valuable quality, and it will benefit you endlessly.Have the time and freedom to choose the best and never fail to live up to your refined taste.

——"The Book of Wisdom"

Language is an art, and rejection is the most difficult language art to master.In life, it is impossible not to meet rejections from others. If you are alienated from others because of your outspoken rejection, and even attract hatred and hostility from the other party, you will be isolated.Everyone has different wills and tastes, no matter how hard you try, it is impossible to satisfy everyone, so tactful rejection is the best way to protect yourself and not hurt others

Not long after Anna started working, her aunt came to this city to see her.Anna accompanied her aunt around the small town, and it was time for dinner.

Anna only had 50 yuan, which was all she could afford to entertain her aunt. She really wanted to find a small restaurant to eat casually, but her aunt chose a very decent restaurant.Anna had no choice but to bite the bullet and follow her in.

After the two of them sat down, the aunt began to order food. When she asked Anna for her opinion, Anna just said vaguely: "Whatever, whatever." Is not enough, what to do?

But my aunt didn't notice Anna's uneasiness at all. She kept praising the delicious food, but Anna didn't taste anything.

At last the moment came, and the courteous waiter brought the bill and made a beeline for Anna.Anna opened her mouth, but said nothing.

The aunt smiled softly, took the bill, gave the money to the waiter, then stared at Anna and said, "Anna, I know how you feel, I've been waiting for you to say 'no', but why don't you? I know, sometimes you have to say this word bravely and resolutely, this is the best choice. I came here to let you understand this truth."

Some people think that if someone asks you to refuse, it will be embarrassing, and if you don't refuse, there is really nothing you can do.As a result, I had no choice but to reluctantly agree, to bite the bullet and do it, which would only increase my troubles.

In fact, those who dare not say "no" because of their face are actually weak in their own will.They usually think that categorically rejecting the other party's request is too ruthless, and if they feel inappropriate after agreeing and are unable to fulfill the promise, it is obviously too late to change their minds and refuse the other party.Because, waiting for something that cannot be fulfilled, and then refusing, will give people a worse impression, and even need to pay a considerable price to make up for the lack or fulfill the promise.If this matter were limited to personal troubles, it could be called a blessing in misfortune. Like Anna, the aunt only wanted to test her and educate her.If it is a friend who really wants Anna to treat guests, an unpleasant situation will occur, and even resentment and hostility will arise, which will turn into confrontation and conflict in the interpersonal relationship between the two parties, and the gain outweighs the gain.

In the process of interacting with people, we often encounter many things that we don't want to do.At this time, as long as we say the word "no", we may feel relaxed and calm, but some people feel that the word "no" is worth a lot of money, and they can't say it even if they are full of energy. As a result, they suffer from themselves and others. .Therefore, when it is time to say "no", we must say "no" firmly and without hesitation.

A person who dares to say "no" is a decisive person, who will not be sloppy or hesitant in doing things; a person who dares to say "no" is a person who is assertive and courageous.Of course, people who say "no" casually may also be rash and afraid of responsibility.What we need is a resolute veto after careful consideration and after weighing the pros and cons.It takes courage to dare to say "no". Many people who dare not say "no" often lack courage and worry too much.

Dare to say "no" is a kind of personality charm, which can establish a tough image for yourself.Dare to say "no" is to be responsible to yourself and to others.

(End of this chapter)