Thank you for making me so strong

Chapter 10
Xia Yu felt that the woman in front of her was definitely a woman with a story, her story must be unusual, it should be a very tortuous story, her curiosity arose.

"You mean I'm ugly and destitute right now?" Tang Lihua said.

"No, no, I mean..." Xia Yu quickly explained to herself. The strange thing is that Xia Yu, who is usually alert, couldn't say a suitable word to smooth things over at this time, because she really wanted to give her a Affirmative answer.

"It doesn't matter. Everyone says that, including my parents, brothers and sisters. They all say that I'm down and out now. I've long been used to people's gossip. It doesn't matter to me what people like to say." Tang Lihua was very frank. An expression that has experienced strong winds and waves.

"But, you..." Xia Yu looked at the photos on the wall, and then at Tang Lihua, with many question marks popping up in her heart, but she didn't know how to speak.

"Well, the hero doesn't mention the courage back then. After I graduated from university, I worked in the library. My husband is a university teacher. We have a daughter. In the eyes of outsiders, we are a very happy family. But I am a teaching assistant in the university. He was valued, but he was young and energetic at the time, so he refused to accept this tone. Find an opportunity to study in Japan. I stayed in Japan for five years, and I met a classmate who was tall, handsome and very attractive."

"Excellent, you are still a Japanese sea turtle, and you have also drank foreign ink?" Xia Yu's eyes widened.

"It's nothing, it's all over. We were all young and lonely back then, so we lived together. The two loved each other very much, and he also had a family in China. We made an appointment to divorce our spouses and then get married. After getting the graduation certificate, I decided to divorce my husband when I returned to China. He was very surprised because he treated me well and accommodated me in everything. He hoped that I would consider my children.

The parents didn't agree either, they said that the ex-husband was young and promising, with a bright future, where can I find such a good one?Feelings can change, but conditions remain the same.They threatened to sever the mother-daughter relationship with me, saying that they would never recognize me again in this life.Later, when my ex-husband was promoted to be the principal of a university with tens of thousands of people, they almost didn't jump downstairs, calling me blind and a jerk, and letting me have a good life. The nanny who looked after the children, plus the old mother, lost face to the whole family. They deserved to be poor and troubled. They were born poor.All my brothers and sisters are now happily married, successful in their careers, and their lives are prosperous and nourishing.Only I am alone, lonely, and chicken and eggs are fighting, it is all caused by love, of course, this is all for later.

There was a lot of pressure at the time, and I resisted resolutely. I thought I had to live according to my ideas.I do what I think is right.So he divorced without looking back, and jumped into a new life like a moth to a flame.But after I finished the formalities, he flinched and returned to his original little home.My ex-husband soon found someone new and had a new home.

Now I lived alone, and as I grew older, I stayed at home all the time.Everyday life is playing mahjong and chatting online to pass the time.

The child has grown up and is more ambitious than I was back then, but her college entrance examination results are not satisfactory, so I had to spend money to send her to study abroad.It takes a lot of money, I got a refund, the salary is not high, the ex-husband can’t get too much, because he has a child again, his new wife is very tight with his wallet, and he is always afraid of guilt, so I took it out All the savings, send the kids out.

Now the family is in urgent need of money. Although I have a fixed salary, the money is still not enough, so I open a small dining table to earn extra money, and the income is not bad.The child is about to graduate, and I won't be so tired in two years. At that time, I will earn some money for her dowry. "

Tang Lihua talked about these things casually, as if she was telling other people's stories. Xia Yu was very emotional. Even the nanny at the small dining table had such a history, which shows how depreciated the turtles are now.

"Hey, one is the distinguished principal's wife, and the other is the nanny. The difference in status is too great. It's all caused by love. Don't you regret it?"

"My dear sister, it's false to say that I don't regret it. How can I not regret it? I'm not afraid of your jokes. Let me tell you the truth. I regret it all, but there is no way back. At that time, it was like committing a crime. I was sick, like I had a fever. Now that I think about it, that man is really messed up except for his ability to talk, but at that time I couldn’t do without him. "

"Ask what love is in the world, and burn people to ashes." Xia Yu thought of such a sentence casually, and opened her mouth to say it.

After hearing Tang Lihua's story, Xia Yu suddenly remembered that Zhang Jie said that after a leader of the school was promoted to vice principal, his ex-wife insisted on remarrying him. I don't know if the protagonist in it is the expert in front of me?
Thinking of this, Xia Yu couldn't help but pay her a three-point respect. In real life, there really is love like a moth to a fire.She is really a wonderful woman who dares to act and has a story, and it is not in vain to walk in the world in style.However, seeing Tang Lihua's current situation, Xia Yu found that the so-called love that Tang Lihua pursued back then was really not a good thing. That love was like a fire, which burned her to nothing, and made her live like this now. hardships.

If she hadn't divorced back then, it would have been a piece of cake to arrange a good job for her with her husband's status.

Xia Yu recalled that she had bumped into walls everywhere to find a job, and her tortured heart was ashamed, but the woman in front of her was refusing to do a good job, ignoring the misconduct of an official wife, and abandoning everything, just to pursue the so-called love , but in the end she had nothing. Didn't she know how terrible and cruel the reality was?
Why is there such a big difference in human realm?

If Tang Lihua hadn't been confused by the so-called love back then, and now she is the distinguished principal's wife, she would be a master in school, and Xia Yu couldn't find a chance to talk to her.There's no need for Tang Lihua to humbly beg herself to give her the opportunity to be the child's nanny.

Hey, the difference of one thought back then is now heaven and earth.

My own job sounds better than the nanny at the small dining table, so I can continue to do it. If one day I also fall to this point, I have to put down my face to make a living.But Xia Yu is only in her 30s now, and she has studied for many years. For the sake of face, she has to find a decent job, and she can't be like Tang Lihua who doesn't care about face.Tang Lihua thought about it, as long as she could earn money, it didn't matter what she did. Xia Yu felt that Tang Lihua could help her, so she sent her a text message, telling Beibei not to run around after school and go to the small dining table to wait for her parents to pick her up.

Tang Lihua quickly replied, "No problem, the dinner will be paid separately." She is very tight financially and cares about money very much.

Xia Yu replied without hesitation, "Okay."

As long as the child is not lost and there is a guardian by his side, it is not a big problem to pay more money. The children of the poor will take charge of the family early and be more aggressive, and maybe they can develop a good habit of self-reliance, Xia Yu thought helplessly.

(End of this chapter)