Thank you for making me so strong

Chapter 40
Xia Yu thought a lot while drinking her drink.She believed that the whole world could not find another such tragic event, and her life suddenly became gloomy.Catch the thief and see the stolen goods, catch the adulterer and see the double, today all wishes come true, and I caught the adulterer in the house as I wished, but I was the unlucky one.

No wonder some people say that people should live in a more confused way, which is really a wise saying.If I hadn't seen that woman at the beginning, I wouldn't be suffering in hell now, not only now, but for a considerable period of time, I would have been suffering forever, so that I would never forget it.

Xia Yu wanted to kill and curse, but she thought of Zhang Jie's face again, and the best way to relieve her anger was to beat him up, making his face bruised and purple. It has become a battlefield, and the whole world must know what he is, and then take out a knife, the white knife goes in, the red knife comes out, and stabs the woman to death, even if it doesn't kill her, she must be beaten hard, and she is called His nose was blue and his face was swollen, and he couldn't see people.

The more Xia Yu thought about it, the more angry she became, she felt extremely unbalanced, what should she do?Anyone who leaves this world will live a good life. If you have an affair, I will also cheat. We are not afraid of anyone else. Let's see who has a better life.

Divorce.Thinking of this, Xia Yu felt a sense of relief, and never had to see Zhang Jie's face again.

But what does divorce mean?Seems bad.

Xia Yu remembered that what her parents said just now seemed to make sense.Although she was furious, she still carefully sorted out what her parents said.

Divorce means a serious drop in income levels, and Zhang Jie had an absolute advantage in the family's income.If they are separated, the life of a divorced woman will become seriously unstable with personal money alone.

After breaking up, she became a single mother, and she took her children to hang out in the society alone.

It is also difficult to become a single mother. It is said that the current law does not protect the weak, and the child will become the focus of competition. The judge will make a judgment based on the quality of life of the child. My job is unstable and the income is not high. It is difficult to raise the child. Right to grab it.When the time comes, it is difficult to see the children.

It is difficult to rob a child, but it is even more difficult to rob a house. The head of the house is written by Zhang Jie, and it is the welfare housing of his unit.

Divorce means going out of the house, and it means being classified as an alternative in the society in the future, and being looked down upon by some people.

It seems that this way can not go.Xia Yu thought bitterly, why did others do wrong things, so that her living standard and quality of life declined, and the children involved did not have a stable home.

Who is that bastard woman?Are you single, or married?What kind of relationship do they have? This question is very important. If you know yourself and your enemy, you will win every battle.If the partnership is broken up, everything in the family will be completely different. Maybe that person will enter the house grandly, become the emperor, and enjoy his years of savings.Live in your own house, sleep in your own bed, spend your own money, beat your own children.

But I am a broken flower and a willow tree, and it may not be easy to find it when the time comes.

Xia Yu thinks about marriage, from the blind date to the marriage step by step, she has gone through countless hardships and twists and turns, she is not willing to go through it again.Xia Yu took out the mirror and looked at it, she was no longer young, walking on the street, the child would definitely call auntie.Since there is no better way out, we can only keep the existing goals and maintain the status quo first.

No wonder modern women have to fight better than mistresses and robbers.It's not that women want to be strong, it's that society forces women to be strong.Be cautious and guard against death, and don't take it lightly.Hold your own territory and don't let the eager intruders take advantage of you.

Emotionally, Xia Yu longed for a divorce. Now that she has a source of income and is no longer a housewife, divorce is not so scary.

But intellectually, she knew that divorce would do more harm than good.It's not that I don't want to divorce, it's that I'm too lazy to get a divorce, or that I don't want to bother anymore.She hated Zhang Jie from the bottom of her heart and didn't want to see him at all, but she had to.

Divorce is easy, it's just a matter of one sentence, but after divorce, there is nothing left.

Xia Yu thought of Zhou Ning, always looking for her, but found nothing. Many married women were like guarding against thieves, avoiding her from a distance, for fear of attracting wolves into the house.

As for the divorced men, they may not all be proud of their horseshoes. It is said that a middle-aged man is a flower, but the life of a flower is not all very good.

Chen Ming's husband, Mr. Meng, is a divorced man. Although he has a lot of money, he has never found a suitable one for his children.Xia Yu wanted to sell Zhou Ning to him. On the one hand, it was a personal favor, and on the other hand, it could be regarded as fulfilling the trust of a friend.

"Old Meng, you are not bad in all aspects. You have a car and a house. Why are you still alone now?"

"How can I have time and energy? You see, I spend all my energy on my children every day. I cook for my children in the morning, pick them up for cooking in the afternoon, and help them with their homework and explain their homework in the evening. Busy. If you see something suitable, let me introduce you.”

"Okay, no problem, I will help you, what are you looking for?"

"You must take care of the child as your goal and find a good mother for him. First of all, you must like the child. It doesn't matter whether you have a marriage history or not. It is best not to have children. The career of the woman is very important, and leaders and strong women dare not find him. Such people always think Work is the most important thing, and I will spend a long time working every day, and maybe I have to have dinner and entertainment at night to deal with work matters. In this way, I have no time to take care of the children and take care of the family. Then the family will be in a mess. After the divorce, I found Such a woman finds that she can’t live together at all. Of course, don’t do business. The occupations are too different, and they don’t have a common language, which is not good for the growth of children. You can’t be like my ex-wife, Chen Ming, who has no job. First of all, there is no job. The field of vision is very narrow, and if the other party does not have a job, it will become a burden on the family. My income is average, and it costs a lot of money to raise children. Now the price of goods is high, and I really can’t afford to support a family of three.”

"It seems that career is very important. What kind of career do you want her to have?"

"It's best to be a teacher or a white-collar worker in the office. The job is relatively light, the pressure is not high, and you can have time to take care of the family and children. As for the appearance, it's fine, not too beautiful. I don't want to have any more hardships, so there are no conditions. As long as she and I can cultivate the child into a talent, it will be fine."

"No conditions yet? The conditions are not low."

"Hey, even if the conditions are met, there may not necessarily be a fate. It's really troublesome to find it again. It's better to make do with it."

"I have a colleague named Zhou Ning who is also divorced and much younger than you. How do you feel?"

"Is her job stable? Is it a career establishment? Does she have children?"

"Having a child is not a career establishment."

"Forget it. When the time comes, I can support 4 people with my own salary, and the children's living standards will drop sharply." Meng Fei refused without any room for maneuver.

"However, don't refuse first, I think it's good to meet you, maybe you will have a common language, maybe it will be." Xia Yu sighed, Zhou Ning was much younger than herself and was picked by others. Divorced, it is even more difficult to live.

"This?" Teacher Meng hesitated.

"I won't eat you up if I meet you. The woman is young and beautiful. I'll leave you a phone number and ask you to get in touch with her." Xia Yu forced the phone number into Teacher Meng's hand.

"Why is your face so ugly? Didn't you sleep well?" Xia Yu sat in the office with a sad face, and Teacher Zhang came over and asked.

"Hey. It's hard to say." Xia Yu sighed.

"Is there anything unhappy? Tell me, and I'll share it with you." Teacher Zhang looked at Xia Yu with concern.

Now the relationship between the two is relatively close, and they often talk quietly together.

Xia Yu was so moved that she really wanted to hold Teacher Zhang and cry aloud, and then tell Teacher Zhang everything about it. Teacher Zhang must be her best listener, and she will fight for injustice and uphold justice for her. The two of them scolded Zhang Jie severely and were really relieved.

Thousands of words were stuck in her throat, she didn't know how to say them, Xia Yu organized her thoughts like a wronged child.

When she looked up, she saw Teacher Zhang's eyes. There was concern, sympathy, and a kind of curiosity in the eyes, the curiosity of women's gossip.

Xia Yu shivered in her heart, she was very familiar with this look, she suddenly woke up, and it was very happy to pour out all the words in her heart, and she felt very comfortable, but would Teacher Zhang keep it a secret?

Xia Yu remembered that the city was full of wind and rain, and after Teacher Zhang's female curiosity was satisfied, she would definitely spread it everywhere.It can be said that there are no permanent friends or permanent enemies, only permanent interests.Thinking of this, Xia Yu swallowed hard the words that rolled to her lips.

"Hey, I don't know if I've reached menopause recently. It's hard to fall asleep, and I feel uncomfortable all over."

"You have to take care, you are so young, why do you think of menopause." Teacher Zhang comforted, Xia Yu saw the obvious disappointment in her eyes, Teacher Zhang is not stupid, she knows that Xia Yu has been fascinated recently Something big must have happened, but she kept her mouth shut and couldn't ask anything. She was very helpless. She lost a chance to explore other people's privacy, and also lost a chance to gossip, and she felt itchy.

"It's really coming soon." Xia Yu gently diverted the topic away. Since she didn't want to be the object of everyone's ridicule, she could only rot everything in her heart and let her worries grow moldy in her heart.

The marriage has not yet broken down, so the family ugliness cannot be publicized.

Xia Yu really understands what it means to keep one eye open and one eye closed.Why do you want to live so real?One day is one day.It is no big deal to maintain the status quo. Man is the spirit of all things, and the fittest survive. Since the reality is already like this, we have to let nature take its course.

(End of this chapter)