Thank you for making me so strong

Chapter 5 The Woman Holding the Clay Rice Bowl
"This is Teacher Li Jie. Although she has only been working for 3 years, she is already the most outstanding pillar of our major. Students give her a high evaluation score. If you have nothing to do, you can often discuss teaching methods with her."

"Teacher Li Jie, I've admired him for a long time, I've admired him for a long time." Xia Yu immediately put on a very pious look. Although Li Jie is much younger than herself, he is a popular person in the eyes of the dean, and he is someone who the dean looks up to. Naturally be careful.

"This teacher Zhang, our old teacher here." After turning around, Dean Li came to the last teacher and said, pointing to a middle-aged woman.When Dean Li introduced the other teachers to Xia Yu, he always had a smile on his face, but when he introduced Teacher Zhang, his expression was solemn and sinking like water.

"Hello, Teacher Zhang." Xia Yu said respectfully.

"Hello, you are very welcome. It is a pleasure to meet you." Teacher Zhang was very polite.

Sitting in front of her new desk, Xia Yu felt the eyes quietly drifting over from all directions. Some eyes were like knives, piercing her very uncomfortable, and some eyes were just curious, looking her up and down.New unit, new colleagues, enthusiastic on the outside, cold on the inside.Half of them are enemies and half of them are friends. It is human nature to bully others.

There is no way, nor can I lose my job as soon as I return to China, and stay at home every day.There is always a need for a new start. Nowadays, it is so difficult to find a job. Everywhere is overcrowded. There is no age advantage, let alone professional advantage. You can only find a donkey by riding a donkey. Find a job and do it first, and then figure out a solution later.Xia Yu thought wildly, she felt that she was Sister Lin entering the Grand View Garden, she had to be careful everywhere, she absolutely didn't dare to say a word, didn't dare to take an extra step, she sat in the office bored and uninterested, and quietly looked at her this new office.

The teachers in the office seem to be very peaceful on the outside, but they don't know what they are thinking in their hearts.This university is far away from the city and is located in the suburbs. From the outside, the campus is clean and tidy, with woods everywhere and quiet houses, like a paradise. But do people sitting here also look like immortals outside the Taoyuan?When you first come here, is it possible that there will be benefits that will affect some people, causing them to reject themselves?
Xia Yu sat all morning, no one took the initiative to chat with her, and no one assigned her any work.

She saw that everyone around her was busy, but she didn't know whether she should intervene. Xia Yu felt very boring. In the work unit, the most terrifying thing was not being too busy with work, but doing nothing, especially in the new work unit. Does it mean that you will be fired?
Thinking of this, Xia Yu felt very uneasy. She saw her colleagues in the office chatting in twos and threes, and felt very bored, so she raised her head cheekily and looked at Teacher Zhang. At this time, Teacher Zhang also raised her head and looked around. Looking at each other, taking this opportunity, Xia Yu waved to Teacher Zhang.The face turned into a lotus flower with a smile, and Teacher Zhang responded politely.

"How long have you been working here?" Seeing that Teacher Zhang didn't ignore her, Xia Yu found a topic to talk about.

"It's not long, that is, more than two years."

"More than two years? You haven't been here for a long time." Xia Yu catered.

"Yeah, the teachers in this office don't have a very long working life. Because of the high turnover, there are frequent changes."

"Really?" Xia Yu felt even more uneasy after hearing this.Women like school work because they want a stable job, but they never thought that it would be difficult to keep a job.

"Li Jie is the one with the longest working time in the office, and she only worked for 3 or 4 years. She stayed in the school because of good enrollment, and the rest was only 1 or 2 years."

"It doesn't seem like a long-term place to stay."

"This is a private unit. We are all in muddy jobs. How can it be stable? Let alone the intrigue among colleagues, the most disturbing thing is layoffs. Because the number of enrollment is unstable, the number of teaching staff is also low. Unstable. If there are fewer students in a year, the school will lay off people immediately. So, maybe when, maybe that thing can’t be done well, maybe offended someone, maybe it’s bad luck, the Personnel Department A phone call at any time will pack up and leave, which is a problem that all teachers may face. Everyone is serving a clay rice bowl, and since it is a clay rice bowl, there will be a moment when you accidentally miss it and break it." Teacher Zhang said There are people in their 40s and less than 50, who speak quickly, as long as they speak, they will not stop easily like a tap.

"What, the Personnel Department will leave with just one phone call?" Xia Yu gave a shock directly.It's as if a basin of cold water has been poured all over your body, and you feel chilled all over your heart. It's so difficult to find a job. Didn't you expect it to be so easy when you lose your job?If you can't do a small thing well, you can open the way at any time, which is too worrying.

If he was invited to leave, he would definitely lose face and never show up in front of his colleagues again.

What Xia Yu is most worried about is that she will be unemployed at home. Xia Yu's family background is good, her husband has a high income, and the family has several houses and luxury cars.

Even if Xia Yu doesn't go out to work, she will still have enough money to live a good life. What she worries about is not being reduced to begging for food on the street after losing her job. Such a thing will never happen to her.

Xia Yu is worried about mental torture, which is far more terrifying than material torture.

If she does not work, she will face a series of serious problems.

If you stay at home full-time, it will become a heavy mental burden for your parents.In the eyes of parents, a person without a job is worthless, because his life is not guaranteed, and his life will be completely ruined.Both parents are retired, unable to find jobs for their children, they can only frown and sigh, torturing themselves and others.

The husband will not say anything, but he will definitely doubt his ability in his heart.Xia Yu would have guessed even with her eyes closed, that at that time, all the big and small tasks in the family would fall on her, and the family status would plummet.

A rich woman can find a husband because of love.

But the average woman is not all looking for a partner for love, but also depends on what job the other party has in his hand.Men with iron rice bowls, especially men with gold rice bowls, are more likely to be shot by the arrows held by Cupid.Women are smart, maybe one day when the timing is bad and you are unemployed at home, you will show the advantages of a man with a golden job.

Xia Yu is an ordinary woman, so it is natural to be more realistic when looking for a partner.

Her husband, Zhang Jie, served the golden rice bowl, which was considered a good long-term meal ticket, which could ensure that Xia Yu could live a comfortable life without worrying about the economy.

But if you mess around in the rivers and lakes, you will have to pay back one day.Xia Yu's heart is like a bright mirror. The economics between a man and a woman in a marriage will determine the status of two people in the family.If the ability and income between two people are evenly matched, then everyone will live in peace.

If the disparity between two people is too large, it will be another pattern.

Although my husband is a long-term meal ticket, there is no free lunch for no reason in the world.Eat other people's food, even if you eat your husband's food, it depends on your face.I'm really unemployed, and my husband's face is not good-looking, like an ancestor, his face is full of your basic necessities, and it's all my money.

Besides, men also compete with each other. Xia Yu often heard Zhang Jie say that so-and-so's wife can earn a lot of money, with a monthly salary of tens of thousands, and super ability.

So-and-so's wife is very powerful, and has built several houses, which is really capable.

So-and-so's wife doesn't have a job, so she takes care of all the family affairs, so whoever spends all day at home shaking hands is better than a living god.

As for who's wife is very beautiful, Zhang Jie must be thinking about it, but he never dared to say it out of his mouth.

These words seemed to come out of Zhang Jie's mouth unintentionally, putting Xia Yu under a lot of pressure.

Xia Yu discovered that it wasn't just women who were so sophisticated and compared. It turned out that men were also very sophisticated and compared.

She didn't know if she was very sensitive, but she hated these words anyway, Xia Yu didn't know if Zhang Jie said that he had no skills and would only eat at home?

Once Zhang Jie started talking about this kind of topic again.

Xia Yu couldn't bear it any longer, she asked confidently, "You mean, I'm eating at home for nothing, and I'm embarrassing you? But you were the one who took the initiative back then." Xia Yu has a bad memory, but in fact she also initiative.

Zhang Jie was stunned for a long time, then slowly said a word, choking Xia Yu for a long time, "I haven't regretted it, I got stuck in buying stocks, can't we pay the compensation?"

"What, you are trapped, then who am I trapped by?"

"You can get rid of it at any time." Zhang Jie's words choked Xia Yu for a long time.

The most terrible thing is that when you are at home, as long as you walk on the street, you will definitely meet acquaintances.Each of these acquaintances is worth two hundred and five, and they seem to have grown a pig's brain. They are full all day long and have nothing to do.

They will be very concerned and ask you what you have been doing recently, whether you are busy with work, and whether you have raised your salary again?What benefits are there for the holidays?

These words are the most taboo words of unemployed people, but they like to ask them like this, as if deliberately trying to make people uncomfortable.These words were like knives, piercing Xia Yu's vanity heart with blood, and like a handful of salt, they were sprinkled on Xia Yu's wound, causing pain and pain.

Because Xia Yu has such a strong personality, she is embarrassed to say that she has no job, no skills, and is at home.

A person who can't even find a job is definitely not a promising person, and his reputation and face will be ruined.

Xia Yu thinks that if she really loses her job, the best way is to disappear from the world.

In order to avoid seeing acquaintances, even if you live like a mouse crossing the street, you must squat at home all day without going out to meet people or socialize with anyone, so that no one will know that you are unemployed.However, over time, it will become anxious, empty, lonely, and autistic.

Xia Yu used to live a jobless life. After sending her children to school every day, she didn't know how to pass the time, and her heart was suspended in the air in a daze. She didn't want to endure such a ghostly life anymore.

(End of this chapter)