Thank you for making me so strong

Chapter 7 The child wins at the starting line
The child's class teacher talked eloquently, as if these parents' IQs were as high as their children.If things are not explained to the parents, the parents will be the same as the children, unable to think about problems, do things without brains, and without goals.

"The child has just entered elementary school, and may not be able to adapt to the new learning environment. I hope that the parents here will pay more attention to the child's study and help the child to tutor. The current society is a highly competitive society. I hope that the parents must not call the child Lost at the starting line."

Back home, Zhang Jie said with great emotion: "You must not let the child lose at the starting line. I will definitely tutor Beibei well. I am a hero and my son is a hero. I don't have any high requirements. I graduated from S University. My child At least graduate from B or Q. Of course, Harvard is not impossible. As for Cambridge and MIT, I can also like it. Except for these schools, I don’t think it’s interesting to go to other schools. .”

"Yes, our child is definitely not bad. Although the size is average, the little boy grows very slowly, so he is not in a hurry." Xia Yu agreed with this deeply, and raised her hands in agreement.

"Tomorrow I will prepare the tools for tutoring children." Zhang Jie said.

Xia Yu missed a question at that time, and she found that it was because of this question that the consequences were very serious, and very serious.

The next day, Xia Yu came home from get off work and found a huge blackboard at home.The blackboard is about one meter wide and two meters long. It is placed on a huge stand. There are several chalks and two blackboard erasers beside the blackboard.Originally, the living room at home was large and stylishly furnished, but now that such a large blackboard was placed in the room, Xia Yu felt very uncoordinated.

"Are you crazy? The living room of our house is not too big. Where did you pick up such a broken thing?" Xia Yu looked at the blackboard, no matter how it looked, it was not pleasing to the eye. Who has such a big blackboard in their house?too exaggerated.

"What did you pick up? I paid for it and bought it home." Zhang Jie was very unhappy when he heard this sentence.

"What, I don't even want it for free. You still spend money to buy it. Did you burn the buns? Are you out of your mind?" Xia Yu opened her mouth to scold, Zhang Jie unexpectedly bought such a thing with money on a whim.

"Be careful what you say, okay? Don't use your brain, and don't talk nonsense." Zhang Jie counterattacked without showing weakness.

"Am I talking nonsense? I just asked, what are you doing with this thing?"

"Teaching homework for children? Lectures on the blackboard, children have feelings."

"Our house is the crystallization of high-end designers. Every piece of furniture is placed with taste. Now you put a blackboard on it, which makes people feel very uncoordinated."

"You are really inferior. Tutoring children is an overwhelming task now. You are really incompetent as a mother. If you don't have a suitable environment to tutor your children, he will lose at the starting line. My son, you can't do this." Zhang Jie said eloquently.

It choked Xia Yu until she was speechless. Now that the blackboard has been bought at home, it is definitely impossible to return it. Moreover, Zhang Jie is aiming at the bright future of the child. Everything is fake, and the bright future of the child is real. Yes, Xia Yu looked helplessly at the nondescript furnishings in the room, and then thought about the great future of the child, and the calculations in her heart were spinning rapidly.

Those glittering Harvard, Cambridge, and MIT don't just go in.Maybe the people who entered there didn't play their cards according to the rules. Now people are clamoring that they must go crazy before they succeed. They are simple-minded and rush forward. For the sake of the child's future, they have to tell Zhang Jie to go crazy once.

Besides, a blackboard only costs a few hundred yuan, and Xia Yu is not stupid, knowing that there is no need to make trouble for a mere few hundred yuan.

It is not a bad thing to spend a few hundred yuan to successfully push the trouble of tutoring the children to Zhang Jie.

If there is gain, there is bound to be loss. After a long time in Xia Yu's mind, she kept silent.

Zhang Jie did what he said, and then picked up the children's textbooks and began to give lectures.Just as Zhang Jie was talking vigorously, Bei Bei was reluctant: "It's time to end the get out of class, our class time is too long."

"Not long, it's only half an hour." Zhang Jie persuaded.

"Half an hour is too long, our class is only 45 minutes." Beibei didn't appreciate it.

"Are you out of your mind? Half an hour is 30 minutes, which is much shorter than 45 minutes."

"I don't care, I want to dismiss get out of class." Beibei resolutely stopped studying.

"Okay, take a 10-minute break between classes." Zhang Jie had no choice but to give in.

"No, I want a big break, and the big break is half an hour." Beibei didn't appreciate it.

"Such a long time? You really push yourself, it can only be a small break." Zhang Jie patted the table angrily, his attitude was very firm.

"Large break." Beibei was more determined.

"Okay, class break." Zhang Jie had nothing to do with Beibei.After he finished speaking, he turned on the computer and started playing computer games.

The next day, Zhang Jie's work unit was busy, and he came back late, so he didn't help the children with their homework.

"Didn't you say you can't let your child lose at the starting line?" Xia Yu asked.

"Yeah, but I can't exhaust myself, you see, I'm back so late, I need to rest more, besides, the child should go to bed." Zhang Jie said tightly.

On the third day, Zhang Jie seemed to have forgotten about it. Xia Yu happened to have a document to write, so she forgot it too. When she was going to bed at night, Xia Yu suddenly remembered that she needed to help the children with their homework.

"Why don't you tutor? Didn't you say that you can't make your child lose at the starting line?" Xia Yu asked maliciously.

"I'm a little tired today, let's do it tomorrow." Zhang Jie said.

A week passed, two weeks passed, and a month passed, and the huge blackboard has been placed in the living room. As for the tutoring of Beibei's homework, it seems that it has never happened.

"Please, it's time for the final exam. Do you want to help the child with his homework?" Xia Yu asked.

"In my opinion, it's mothers who tutor their children, and our family should also be tutored by you," Zhang Jie said.

"If I knew this earlier, why did you buy such a big blackboard?"

"Isn't this for you?"

"What???" Xia Yu was taken aback, her mouth was so open that she could stuff an egg into it.

"It's for you."

"You father don't care about your children? Didn't you say you want to send your children to Harvard University?"

"Now the child is still young, and when the child grows up in the future, he will definitely go in. Besides, I remembered what Beibei's teacher said, we parents should cultivate the habit of self-study in our children, learn to let go, and can't control it." Too much, too much control, children will rely too much on their parents." Zhang Jie said confidently.

"Hey, is this your level of work?" Xia Yu said.

"You still have the nerve to say it. Everyone on the earth knows that a good mother is better than a good teacher. Why do you always push the child's study on me? Did your father come forward to do it?" Zhang Jie said confidently.

"Of course there is."

"Anyway, I haven't seen it before." Zhang Jie said.

"You talk nonsense again, isn't Professor Wang upstairs just one of the best family men?" Xia Yu said triumphantly.

"Him?" Zhang Jie was stunned for a long time and stopped talking.

"He is the best gentleman in a woman's heart. It's a pity that I was blind and didn't look for him?"

"Do you think that you are a flower, and everyone can admire you? That means I don't have eyes."

"You're talking nonsense. It's because I didn't see your true face." Xia Yu was very angry.It turned out that Zhang Jie was as worried about children as he was about everything.

Xia Yu, who is already a mother, has a different image of a good man than when she was young and only cared about being handsome and having a stable career.At present, Xia Yu is middle-aged, and everything is based on reality.The good man in her mind is not a man who is just like the wind at the tree, and he has to look at him but not use him.

It is a real gentleman who can go to the hall, go to the kitchen, kill a Trojan horse, and afford a BMW.

Zhang Jie claims to be a middle-class man. He has bought several houses, a good car, and a good income. His job is on the rise and he has overseas experience.In the middle age when everything is over, he is still ambitious, thinking about having a higher status, earning more money, owning more houses, and driving a more expensive car.

Xia Yu often encouraged Zhang Jie to earn more money than Director Liu upstairs. Director Liu earned a lot of money. It is said that the annual salary of part-time jobs outside was several million, and he gave lectures everywhere.But he failed in life, liked the new and disliked the old, was extremely irresponsible to the family, and even committed the act of throwing away his wife and flirting with a female student. In the end, the mistress succeeded in the revolution, staged a coup, and expelled his ex-wife. Such people are naturally not a good thing.

Therefore, Xia Yu encouraged Zhang Jie to learn from Director Liu in terms of earning money, but in terms of life, he must draw a clear line with Director Liu, make a clean break, and make a clean break. .

Xia Yu calls on Zhang Jie to learn from his neighbor, Professor Wang, who is definitely a good example of a good man.

Professor Wang and Zhang Jie are colleagues, and they are over 50 years old now. When he was young, he was handsome, imposing, and very attractive.She has never had any children since she got married, and she only had a son in middle age. His name is Wang Qiang, and he and Bei Bei are classmates at the same school.Whether it is study or appearance, Wang Qiang is top-notch.

Professor Wang's life is very tiring every day. Since he is old and has a child, he is naturally very attentive. Mrs. Wang has to work in the company, so all the big and small things in the family fall on Professor Zhang.Professor Zhang is obliged to take over everything. He has already been rated as a full professor. There is no more room for advancement, and the development of this life will come to an end, so he pins all his hopes on Wang Qiang.I hope with all my heart that my son can live up to his expectations and surpass himself.

Xia Yu hoped that Zhang Jie would have more contact with people like Professor Wang. After Beibei went to school, Xia Yu led Zhang Jie to visit Professor Wang's house to ask for advice and study in order to cultivate Zhang Jie's ability to manage the house and teach children.

In the spacious living room of Professor Wang's home, Professor Wang talked about his experience in teaching children.

His children are in elementary school, and there are many small dining tables near the school.Since most parents work 8 hours, many children go to the small dining table at noon after school.

Professor Wang also named Wang Qiang on the small dining table, but Wang Qiang didn't like the small dining table.So Professor Wang took the child home at noon every day.Wang’s schedule is very tight. He sends his children to school at 8:[-] in the morning. After sending them off, he sometimes visits his work unit. He doesn’t have to sit in class at the university. There are only a few classes, so he doesn't have much time in the unit.

At ten o'clock in the morning, he went to the market to buy fruits and vegetables.Then go home and cook for the kids.In order to make Wang Qiang eat delicious, he learned how to make dumplings, steamed stuffed buns, pancakes, and good dishes.Wang Qiang is very willing to eat. He said that the dishes his father cooks are comparable to those in restaurants.

After listening to Wang Qiang's words, Professor Wang became more motivated to cook, so he worked harder to study recipes, keep improving his cooking, and strive to cook better meals for his son.

After 11 o'clock, Professor Wang went to school by bike from home, and the child left school on time at 11:[-].Then when the child arrived home, Professor Wang served the child a large bowl full of rice, hot soup, and vegetables. Wang Qiang ate very deliciously.

Professor Wang said to Zhang Jie and his wife sincerely: "If the children are at the small dining table, eating will definitely be uncomfortable. There are many children at a small dining table, just a few teachers. A group of children are crowded like ducks. There is no place to find a seat. The children will definitely eat. Not full. Only at home, with parents taking care of him, can the child eat comfortably."

Before 01:30 in the afternoon, Professor Wang sent the child to school again.At 4 o'clock in the afternoon, Professor Wang took the children home on time, and the fruit snacks were ready on the table.Wang Qiang likes to play, and Professor Wang sits next to the children to help them study, for fear that Wang Qiang will play while writing.After tutoring the children to finish their homework, Professor Wang asked the children to preview the new homework again.

Children don't want to learn, they just think about cartoons on TV and playing computer games.Therefore, Professor Zhang even coaxed and persuaded the children to learn.Wang Qiang is also obedient, he writes his homework very seriously, and there is often a small red flower in the homework book.

On weekends, Professor Wang did not relax Wang Qiang's study. He spent 2 yuan to buy a piano for his child, and found a teacher to teach the piano. In the library or to play basketball.

During the holidays, Professor Wang takes his children to travel across the country and visits a good tourist attraction every year.The next step is for the child to grow up and plan to run around the world, including South Korea, Thailand, Japan, Europe, Australia, and the United States.Now as long as you have money, you can go anywhere. For Professor Wang, the savings he spends on himself will definitely not save money on his children.

"You've worked so hard." Zhang Jie said.

"There is only such a child now, and I am willing to be tired. Besides, watching the child's growth gives me a sense of accomplishment." Professor Wang said.

Professor Wang's hard work was not in vain. Wang Qiang is a head taller than children of the same age, physically strong, and his academic performance is considered above average.

Xia Yu was very envious of Mrs. Wang for finding such a good husband. He really could go to the hall and go to the kitchen. He needed talents and knowledge.A man like this is the lover of many women's dreams.The streets are full of businessmen, there are millions, tens of millions, hundreds of millions, but many of them are nouveau riche, with the face of profiteers, some of them are making ill-gotten gains, and they come from unclear, Maybe someday I will go back.

Like Professor Wang, who has quality, taste, and a stable job, if you marry such a person, you will really fall into the nest of happiness.

Going home at night, Xia Yu told Zhang Jie: "Look how good Professor Wang is, he is a role model for you to learn from."

"Women's vision is short-sighted. How old is he? How old am I? I'm not yet 40, so I can't be as thoughtless as people in their 50s. Wait for retirement, right? I still want to do something in society, big Great plans." Zhang Jie said dissatisfied.

"I didn't say I wouldn't let you develop."

"How can there be so many good things if you only ask the cows to work, but not to eat grass? If I do housework every day at home, what will our family eat and drink, and you still don't sleep on the street?"

"Tell you to do some housework, and our family will sleep on the street?"

"People's energy is always limited. Besides, I have done all the things like cooking at home and taking care of the children. Wouldn't you be laid off?"

"If you say so, Mrs. Wang should also be laid off, but I think she is doing well."

"Don't forget, how much money Mrs. Wang earns a month, can you compare with it?" Zhang Jie spoke eloquently.

This sentence hit Xia Yu's Achilles' heel. Mrs. Wang is a high-ranking official and rich salary. She is very capable outside, and she has a lot of aura outside her home. Professor Wang respects her a little bit, so she is naturally willing to do housework. .

(End of this chapter)