The President's Only Dote on His Wife

Chapter 76 Postpartum Depression

Lu Jinyan stroked Yage's hair, and asked softly, "Is it better?"

Ya Ge nodded, "Well, it's much better." Then he said aggrievedly: "Honey, I don't want to have children anymore. It hurts me to death."

"Okay, I'll listen to you." Lu Jinyan said dotingly.

"Honey, I'm hungry."

Fu Chunfang, who was looking at the little guy, stood up hurriedly to get the lunch box and said, "Come on, eat quickly, the newly boiled millet porridge and boiled eggs."

Lu Jinyan sat up with Ya Ge's support, and put the porridge and eggs on the table.Yage was also really hungry, giving birth was such a physical labor, she was already a little exhausted, and when giving birth, the nurse even stuffed a few pieces of chocolate into her mouth.After drinking three bowls of porridge and five boiled eggs, Ya Ge felt that his stomach was not empty.

After eating, Ya Ge, who was sleepy and tired, fell asleep again. Lu Jinyan saw that the baby was not making trouble, so he asked Fu Chunfang to sleep for a while, and he called her if there was anything to do.After all, he is an elderly person, and he was a little tired after rushing over from J City overnight, so he went to sleep outside.

The night passed fairly smoothly, except that when it was almost dawn, the baby started to have some small movements, pulled the umbilical cord, spit out the amniotic fluid, and then fed him the glucose water he drank.After such a toss, the sky will dawn.

Lu Jinyan called Sister Mei and told her to cook millet porridge and eggs at home and send them to the hospital.Then he went downstairs to buy breakfast and ate it with Fu Chunfang.

When Ya Ge woke up, Sister Mei happened to come to deliver breakfast, and Xu Zhibin also came with her.Sister Mei said a lot of congratulations, looked at the baby, and left.Ya Ge drank millet porridge, looked at the sleeping baby, and asked curiously: "Mom, do babies always sleep when they are born?"

"Of course, I slept most of the time in the first month, and I grew up sleeping." Fu Chunfang said while eating breakfast

"Then when will I start breastfeeding?" Ya Ge asked another doubt in his heart.

Fu Chunfang cast her eyes on Lu Jinyan, "Have you found a lactation nurse yet?"

"I'll be in touch later."

While drinking porridge, Ya Ge looked at the little man on the bed, thinking, it seems that my days of suffering are coming!
In the morning, the lactation nurse came to knead Yage's milk, and Sister Mei came to give milk soup to the delivery ones. Just after sending these people away, Liao Shasha and Cheng Yu came to visit with things again.

Perhaps it was because of her pregnancy. Liao Shasha saw that the mother's love in the baby's heart began to overflow.The voice was extremely soft and said: "It's so cute, it looks exactly like Lu Jinyan."

After hearing this, Ya Ge said, "It's right to say that the two of them look alike, but where do you see this cuteness? They are black and wrinkled, do all boys born like this?"

Fu Chunfang listened to Ya Ge's disgust, and hurried over and said: "Don't say that about my grandson, I think it's cute. There is no distinction between male and female, newborns are born like this."

"Did you see? It's starting to be maintained now. If this continues, I will have less and less status at home." Yage said to Liao Shasha mockingly.

"How could it be? It's good that Lu Jinyan spoils you." Liao Shasha said absent-mindedly.

After chatting for a while, Cheng Yu and Liao Shasha left after giving the red envelopes.Ya Ge felt that Liao Shasha was in a bad mood today, and guessed that seeing her give birth might have given her a blow, thinking of calling her home to ask her after she was discharged from the hospital.

Then, after staying in the hospital for another three days, Ya Ge moved from the hospital to the confinement center.This is a top-level high-end confinement center in City B. The people who live in it are either rich or expensive, and the medical staff are all professionals hired from major hospitals with high salaries.

Everything in the confinement center is arranged by professionals. Naturally, Lu Jinyan and Fu Chunfang can't get involved. At most, they just change the baby's diapers every day, and even the baby's breastfeeding is regularly notified by someone.

Fu Chunfang saw that there was nothing wrong here, and she was very relieved here, so she thought about going back to City J with Xu Zhibin.As soon as the child fell asleep that day, she said to Yage and Lu Jinyan: "Yage, I think you are doing well here, so mom and dad will go back first, and I will come to see you after the Spring Festival."

Ya Ge said with some reluctance: "Mom, are you leaving so soon? I haven't spent enough time with you yet."

"They are all mothers, why are you still acting like a child? I have to go home and tell my grandma and them the good news of your birth."

Ya Ge curled his lips, although he was very reluctant to let them go, he had to say: "Okay, then someday you and Dad will leave, so I can let the driver take you off."

"Just in the afternoon."

Since Fu Chunfang left, Ya Ge's mood became more and more depressed day by day.When she returned home from the confinement center, she was also in a depressed mood, with a frightening temper, and everything she saw was unpleasant, and she was even more angry when the baby cried.

The two nannies invited by the family did not know how many times Ya Ge told them, either because they didn't wash their hands before holding the baby, or because they didn't wear enough clothes for the baby, sometimes she was suspicious and looking for trouble.Several times, the nannies asked Lu Jinyan to resign, but these two nannies were professionally trained and experienced, so he persuaded them to stay.

Treating Lu Jinyan, Ya Ge no longer treats each other as tenderly as before, and speaks with thorns, and is skeptical of Lu Jinyan every time he comes home late.As long as Lu Jinyan explained a little, Yage would yell angrily, yelling that he wanted a divorce because the days had never passed.

After observing for a period of time, Lu Jinyan felt that the matter had developed to a serious point, and he had to talk to Ya Ge.

That night, after Ya Ge finished feeding the baby and fell asleep, Lu Jinyan saw that she was in a good mood today, thought about it in his heart, got into bed, and planned to have a talk with Ya Ge.

"Honey, are you tired today?" Lu Jinyan expressed his concern first.

"It's like this every day, I'm used to it."

"Well, if you have anything to do, let the nanny do it. I think they did a good job." Lu Jinyan said pretending to be unintentional.

"No, husband, where did you find it? These two people are very experienced."

"It was also introduced by a friend, so it's good to get used to it."

Ya Ge lay down in bed, didn't want to talk anymore, the baby still got up to drink milk in the middle of the night.He yawned and turned around.

Lu Jinyan put his arms around her waist from behind and said, "Honey, is there something on your mind recently?"

"No." Ya Ge said sleepily.

"Is that because the child is too noisy to annoy you?" Lu Jinyan continued to ask.

"Not at all."

Lu Jinyan didn't say anything more, he saw that Yage was really sleepy, and was wondering if he should continue this topic.After a while, Ya Ge suddenly turned around, looked into his eyes in the dark, and asked with some guilt: "Husband, have I been particularly angry recently?"

Lu Jinyan nodded honestly.

"Still suspicious?"

He nodded again.

"I feel it too. Sometimes I don't want to get angry, but I just can't control it. Sometimes I have low self-esteem and feel that I am useless after giving birth. The most terrifying thing is that I even thought about suicide! Husband, do you think I have a legend? postpartum depression in

Lu Jinyan looked at his wife distressedly, and felt that she was like this because he didn't care enough for her, which made her have such extreme thoughts.He touched Ya Ge's face and said, "Honey, in fact, most mothers like you have experienced it, so don't worry too much about it."

"How can you not care? This will affect our relationship as husband and wife."

Lu Jinyan patted her on the shoulder soothingly and said: "Look, I just asked you two questions, and you felt your own problems, which means that your illness is not very serious. I read online that listening to concerts Adjust your mood, improve your mood, and start listening to music at home from tomorrow."

"Can you?" Ya Ge asked uncertainly.

"No problem. If you have something to do in the future, don't hold back in your heart. It will be good for you to say it. Also, here is also my responsibility. It is my husband's fault that I only care about the company's affairs and leave you aside. Wait for it After this time, let's go out to play and relax."

"Honey, you're so kind." Ya Ge said with his arms around his neck.In fact, what she wants to say is that I lose my temper with you every day, but you don't blame me. You even help me find the reason and enlighten me. My heart is so moved.

After the enlightenment the night before, the next morning, Ya Ge felt that he had begun to change himself.She turned on the music early on, and when sending Lu Jinyan and Lu Tongsheng out, she said goodbye to them with a smile. Looking at the blue sky and white clouds in the sky, she suddenly felt very beautiful and pure.

On this day, although there were still some things that dissatisfied her, although there were still things that made her displeased, at least she knew to restrain herself a little, and stopped talking about them.The two nannies also saw that she was trying to restrain herself and tried to satisfy her, but Ya Ge still lost her temper three or four times.

Ya Ge returned to the room with anger, sat in front of the dressing table, looked at himself in the mirror, suddenly felt very strange.Who is this woman with teeth and claws and a face full of hostility?How come you don't even know yourself?How did this become like this after giving birth?

Sitting there, she deeply recalled the times and appearance of her recent tantrums. She suddenly felt that she couldn't go on like this. She wanted to change, not to be haunted by postpartum depression, to cheer herself up, and let Lu Jinyan see a brand new self.

In the next half a month, with the help of everyone and the adjustment of music, Yage gradually walked out of the haze brought about by postpartum depression, her mood improved day by day, and her spirit improved day by day. Cheer up, those inferiority complexes and weaknesses that I once had also disappeared.Now I see everyone in a great mood every day, and seeing Xiao Tiantian is even more in a great mood!By the way, I forgot to mention that the name of her and Lu Jinyan's first baby is - Lu Chenhao, nicknamed Tiantian.

(End of this chapter)