Reborn 1990 Warm Marriage Sweet Wife

Chapter 253 Love Theory
Yun Shanshan was excited, if she caught Chen Chen sleeping with Wen Yang, then Xu Xu would definitely divorce her as soon as possible!
"Okay, tell me, I'll go and see what they're going to do for you!"

Yun Shanshan smiled happily, and Tang Shining told her the address where Chen Chen lived with her before.

"Shanshan, listen to my advice, men shouldn't stalk, now you can see that Chen Chen hates me, it's my wishful thinking, it's my backlash, I don't want to embarrass myself too much.

He was right. A qualified ex should be as quiet as dead. From now on, I will live a good life and find a man who loves me. "

"Xiao Ning, I understand what you said, but I just love to promise, so much that I can die for him, will you? Will you die for Chen Chen?" Yun Shanshan's eyes were full of pride .

She is showing off her love, she can die for the promise, she is so desperate, so crazy and infatuated!
Tang Shining suddenly burst out laughing and said, "Shanshan, we are college classmates, you will always love yourself the most, you are the same kind of person as me, you can't die for a man. I'll go home first and contact you another day."

"Okay. If you don't believe me, I'll prove it to you." Yun Shanshan still insisted on her idea.

Shouldn't one love someone and die for him?
The highest state of loving someone is to abandon everything for him, even life.

"Shanshan, I only now understand that the premise of loving someone is to have that person also respond to the same love, otherwise it will be harassment. I will be grateful for Chen Chen's words just now, and I think you will gradually understand. I will go first gone."

After Tang Shining finished speaking, she turned around and left, with tears and a smile on her face.

The appearance of loving someone should be like what Chen Chen said, and they can get each other's echo and reply. If they don't have the same feelings, then it's not love.

Yun Shanshan drove there according to the address provided by Tang Shining, parked the car, and saw Chen Chen driving the car.

At this time, Wen Yang and Chen Chen were sitting in the living room, the curtains were wide open, Wen Yang was already awake, it should be said that she woke up when Tang Shining pushed her at the door of the bar, and she also heard what they said.

Especially Chen Chen's views on love gave her a refreshing understanding and recognition.

In her previous life, she only stubbornly loved Xu Xu one-sidedly, longing to live with him and see him every day.

How ridiculous it is to think about it now, love requires two people to respond and feel at the same time, if someone is missing, if one party does not have the same feeling, it is not true love.

The appearance of love should be what Chen Chen said. The two have the same experience. When they look at each other, they can understand each other's heart and know what the lover wants.

I want to stay with him for the rest of my life, do anything with him, and be with him even when he is terminally ill. That kind of getting along is the embodiment of love.

She was sitting on the sofa with a glass of water in front of her. Sitting next to her, Chen Chen said, "I've brought you the money I promised to keep. It's 2 yuan. Take it well."

"I won't take his money. Chen Chen, I want to ask you, is the theory of love you told Tang Shining just now your own understanding?"

Wen Yang has never thought about what love should look like, and he doesn't know what to do to experience the feelings Chen Chen said, and how to determine what kind of feeling is love.

For love, she is blank.

Even if love came, she didn't know it.

"You woke up at that time? Love is a key for people who love each other, and it is a lock that opens each other's hearts. Love does not have any fixed theory. What I said is just what I have experienced or some cognitions I heard from friends. , Maybe we don't know when love comes, but we can feel it sincerely.

When you want to be with someone all the time, to have children with him, to have him, to be with him, to be with him regardless of life, old age, sickness or death, then that person must be the most important person to us.

However, there is a prerequisite for love. The person you love must have the same desire or desire as you, and he can also feel the feelings when you get along. A catalyst for a lover, rather than endless entanglement and interruption.

Not to mention unilateral wishful thinking, that is unnecessary interruption.It's a very uncomfortable feeling.Just like Tang Shining's entanglement and misunderstanding of me, she actually called what happened between me and her as love, that simply tainted love. "

Chen Chen took a sip of the white water in front of him. Neither of them knew that what they said was passing into Yun Shanshan's ears under the window.

"Chen Chen, what you said is really good. But love is so difficult, and the human heart is not so easy to understand. It is very rare to understand a person. You must have had many beautiful loves, right?"

Wen Yang was ignorant and humbly asked for advice. In this regard, she had to admit that she was a love idiot.

"It's not difficult to understand someone. It's hard to love someone. It's even harder to admit that you love someone. Loving someone requires perseverance, maybe a lifetime, until death. It's a practice all my life. I've only heard of love, and I'm still longing for love. The girls I love are all illusions, and they will all change in the end."

Chen Chen drank the rest of the water in one gulp, got up and went to the kitchen and said, "I'm going to get the wine, I drank half a glass at the bar."

Wen Yang was still ignorant after listening to his words, it was really difficult to understand.

Is it hard to admit that you love someone?
How hard is it?
Chen Chen took out the wine and poured himself a full glass, and Wen Yang asked him embarrassingly, "How to make a person admit that he loves another person? Is there any way?"

"Haha! You women are like this. You always want to hear a man say that he loves you. In fact, most men will never say these words in their lifetime. Maybe you think it's just a sentence? Is it difficult to say it?

But let me tell you, it's really hard to say.The love of some people, maybe they have experienced the ups and downs of their lives together, and they will not say the three words "I love you" to the person they love.Do you know why?

Only true love doesn't need those fancy promises, it just needs to wait forever, just like saying, I like a girl and slept with her, but I don't necessarily love her, let alone tell her that I love her. Her words.

If I love her, I don't necessarily sleep with her, but I will guard her, protect her, take care of her, give her everything she wants, and do my best to make her happy, even if she doesn't love me.

Of course, what I just said may be extreme. It should be said that no matter two people or one person, he will have love, but the premise of love is not hurt and endless demands. The gesture of love should be giving and bearing. "

(End of this chapter)