Rebirth of the Phoenix

Chapter 63

Generally speaking, during the period after the draft, various gatherings and banquets are the most frequent. There are also the most invitations for flower viewing banquets, outings, and outings. In name, it is said to go out together, but what is going on in reality? , everyone knows it well, isn't it just that the blind date conference has changed its name? !
At this time, if there are girls in the family who have not passed the draft, then unless they have a tacit understanding with some people before, they will all be regular guests in these banquets.Although the law stipulates that girls are not allowed to engage in private marriages before the draft, there are policies and countermeasures. It says that engagements are not allowed, but verbal agreements are not allowed. As long as there is no evidence, the other party insists that it is after the draft. When it comes down, others can't say anything, there are some things that everyone just tacitly agrees to!
And those girls who haven't made up their minds will often go to these banquets with their mothers, of course, not to find a good husband, but to let their future mother-in-law see each other.In this day and age, a girl's reputation is very important. Although there is no shabby rule that if her arm is touched, she will marry her, but unmarried women have too many contacts with strange men, and it really doesn't seem like that. It's not good to spread the word!

Therefore, even though it was a blind date meeting, the people who actually saw these girls were the wives of each family, especially those whose sons had reached the age of marriage.If a family took a fancy to a girl at the banquet, they didn't say it in a hurry, but sent a post in private, and the two families made further contact.

Under normal circumstances, it is impossible for the man to send a post to only one family, and it is impossible for the woman to receive only one post. This is the time for the two parties to choose each other.If it is faster, it usually takes a few months for the two parties to reach an initial agreement, and if it is slower, it will not take more than a year!
Open-minded parents may ask their children for their opinions during the process, while those who are more rigid may just settle it directly. Therefore, marriage between men and women in this era, although it is not a blind marriage, is not a marriage before men and women get married. You can also meet a few times, but if you really want to say how much you know each other, it really can't be said!

Marriages in this era may not be about falling in love with a certain person at all, and marrying the other person. Most of them are interested in the other party's family background. The eldest daughter, the eldest daughter of an official.

Of course, there is no need to worry about marrying into the family of the deadly rival, or marrying the daughter of the deadly rival as the daughter-in-law!Since they are all rivals, the circles are naturally different. Even if there is an occasional intersection, it doesn't matter. Knowing that it is impossible, no one will post a post to the other party's house to humiliate themselves. It doesn't matter if you hand it over. Just ignore it?
Unless the parents of a family made up their minds to deceive their children, the possibility of such political enemies becoming in-laws is absolutely infinitely close to zero!
In short, in this day and age, it is unrealistic to want to meet one's true love before marriage, or have a sadomasochistic relationship after marriage.For most people, it is estimated that they will maintain a harmonious relationship with their husbands, have a few children of their own, and then suppress the children of concubines and concubines.

Lin Yuchan also saw this clearly, so she felt that it would be better to enter the palace and fight for it!The same is a girl, how could she not desire to meet a man who truly loves, loves and understands herself?It's just that Lin Yuchan is sensible enough, and she understands in her heart how low the possibility of this wish actually being realized is.

Lin Yuchan felt that she didn't need to bet her whole life on such a small possibility.If she succeeds, Lin Yuchan may not be very happy, but if she fails, she will definitely feel bad.

Leaving aside Lin Yuchan's thoughts, Duke Dingguo's focus is now on Lin Yuting's marriage.

Even though she knew it was her job, the task assigned by Lin Chengmao still made Yang feel uncomfortable.It is not difficult to marry Lin Yuting, but the difficulty is to marry Lin Yuting smoothly.

If it is Lu Shi who is still alive, let her handle this matter in person, then there is no problem, after all, it is the biological mother and daughter, no matter how Lin Yuting marries, not many people will gossip, because no one will think that There are mothers who will harm their own daughters.But she is not!
Yang Shi is only Lin Yuting's stepmother, and if you really think about it, she can't even be considered a stepmother, she is just one who has been righted.This kind of identity, coupled with Yang's already somewhat tainted background, made her always faintly inferior to others in the communication of a group of ladies. Although she didn't say it out loud, Yang was not a Fool, already felt it.

In this case, Lin Yuting, the daughter of Lin Chengmao's ex-wife, was entrusted by Lin Chengmao to handle the marriage, so how many people must be watching!In case Lin Yuting made trouble during this process, or Lin Yuting's life after marriage was unsatisfactory, Yang couldn't imagine what other people would say about her behind her back!

You know, at this time, most of the children are with their mothers and raised by their mothers. Therefore, the outside world's evaluation of a child is definitely linked to their mother's reputation!Whether Lin Yuting is doing well or not, Yang doesn't care, even her own reputation, Yang doesn't care.But if her own children were hindered by this, then Yang would go berserk.

As for whether it is possible for Lin Yuting not to cause trouble for her, or whether she will live an honest life after marriage.Yang didn't consider this possibility at all!After so many years, Yang really knows Lin Yuting very well.Lin Yuting is definitely the kind of person who can be messed up by her even if nothing happens.If she can be honest, unless someone lowers her head.

Although my heart is full of reluctance, I still have to do what should be done!If Yang Shi really pushes the matter out, the consequences will be more serious than the consequences of her finding a bad family for Lin Yuting.

Yang is not the kind of person who complains about herself. Now that she knew that she couldn't escape, she didn't hesitate anymore, and immediately put Lin Yuting's marriage on the agenda.When Lin Chengmao and Mrs. Xin met, they were also secretly satisfied. Lin Yuting was just a daughter, and a daughter who was going to marry soon. If the Yang family really cared about Lin Yuting at this time, then they would have to reevaluate the Yang family. portion.

Duke Dingguo has been passed down for several generations, and there are few opportunities to develop in-laws. The Changxinhou Mansion with the closest relationship in the early years has disappeared, so the social circle is actually not big.This can be seen from the post Yang received!
Other families have a thriving population and lush branches. At this time, as long as there are girls of the right age in the family and they are not selected in the draft, at least they will receive hundreds of posts, but when it comes to the Yang family Well, there is only less than half left.And in less than half of the posts, not every one is useful!

Yang looked at the seven or eight posts in her hand, and couldn't help but feel a little worried. These were specially selected by Yang, and she felt that they were suitable for Lin Yuting's family.Although speaking from her selfishness, she didn't want Lin Yuting to marry well, so as not to cause trouble for herself if she had the opportunity in the future.But it doesn't matter if you marry too badly, at least Lin Chengmao and Mrs. Xin have no way to explain it!

And the posts in her hand happened to belong to those not too prominent families.

Of course, the ones here are not very prominent, and it is only relatively speaking. If it is really the kind of people who can't show their hands, the posts will not reach Yang's front!Although the owners of these posts in front of them seem a bit shabby in front of Dingguo's mansion, at least they all come from the families of third-rank officials, and they all occupy a place in the court.

If there is enough time, or Lin Yuting's own conditions can pass, Yang really doesn't want to marry Lin Yuting to these people.She is not the kind of person with shallow eyes, she will not cheat her children just for her own pleasure!
It's not that Yang can't get posts with higher standards. In fact, Yang has also received a lot of posts from various public houses, marquis houses, and families of first-rank officials, including those from royal houses and clan houses.But it's useless!
With the family background of Duke Dingguo's mansion, Lin Yuting is indeed qualified to marry into those families, but what about after that?Marriage, since ancient times, is for the good of the two surnames, but with Lin Yuting's restless temperament, don't let the marriage turn into an enemy in the end.Not to mention that Lin Yuting is still infertile, which makes it even more difficult to gain a firm foothold in her husband's family.

Although Yang Shi didn't think that he was a good person, and the feud with Lu Shi was true, and it was true that Lin Yuting was a troublemaker, but he didn't think about ruining the rest of her life.In fact, over the years, Mrs. Yang has never directly harmed Lin Yuting, at most she had a verbal lawsuit with her, and stood by while others harmed her.

It is true that other people contributed to Lin Yuting's fall to where she is today, but the main reason lies in herself!
Therefore, Lin Chengmao asked her to find a good husband's family for Lin Yuting. Although Yang was not very willing in her heart, she never thought about doing anything here.She really didn't want Lin Yuting to marry too well, but it wasn't all out of selfishness!
Lin Yuting's personality is indeed not suitable for those high-ranking families. It is better to find a family that is slightly lower than Dingguo's mansion. In her current situation, she will have the face of Dingguo's mansion after she gets married. It can also be more comfortable!However, with Lin Yuting's character, Yang didn't think she would live an honest life with her husband. Since they were going to be enemies anyway, it's better to find someone with less power from the beginning, so as not to affect Sanlang's future in the future.

(End of this chapter)