I wish you a bright future

Chapter 122 Compromise
So this is also one of the reasons why Su Yan and his previous ex-boyfriends have been in contact for a short time, but they can become good friends in the end.

Because the contact time is short, far from the stage of being bored with each other, the two people separate at the most appropriate time, just like fireworks disappearing at the most splendid moment, leaving only the best memories.

In the same way, the two people's impressions of each other after breaking up will only stay at the most comfortable point in their hearts.

No negativity, no awkwardness when meeting again.

There is no embarrassment, and because we have been together, we are more familiar with each other than other people. It is really difficult not to be friends after the combination of the two.

Why can't you be friends with someone?
There may be thousands of specific reasons, but in summary it is actually the same——

There's something about that person that repulses you.

Maybe it's the other party's conversation, maybe the other party's gestures, maybe the other party's behavior habits, or maybe it's the so-called aura mismatch...

But no matter what the reason is, as long as there is such a point, you will not be able to make friends with people.

Conversely, as long as this point is eliminated, or you don’t give others the opportunity to find this point in you, it’s easy to get along with the other party.

Su Yan has always believed that people can become friends as long as they are not bored.

He Yue is not bad, she doesn't want to lose such a friend, so she either doesn't talk to He Yue, or she can only play with him.

If you don't talk about...

Who is she, Su Yan?That is a well-known harvester, not a single blade of grass grows in the place of a beautiful man, it is not her style to just let people go like this.

No matter what Su Yan thought, anyway, He Yue was really overwhelmed.

"So let's get down to business. You said that you are going to think about it. Can you tell me the specific meaning?"

Su Yan raised one eyebrow, and continued unhurriedly:
"The result of my consideration is still to go back to my original question, what is the way you choose to be with me."

He Yue looked interested, "I asked you too, so what does it matter who you choose? Is it important?"

Su Yan no longer beat around the bush, and she is not a person who likes to be procrastinating, so she said directly:
"Important, if you choose to stay with me forever, don't think about it, I will reject you, because we are not suitable, I am used to being a prodigal, and I don't like being bound too early."

"And if you just want to try with me for a short time, then I will consider agreeing. After all, you are so beautiful now, I have no reason to let it go."

He Yue: "...you were always like this before you dated people...er..."

He Yue struggled for a while, but couldn't find a suitable word to describe what Su Yan was doing at the moment.

Su Yan knew what he wanted to express without him saying it, nodded and smiled:

"Well, this kind of thing must be made clear in advance. If we break up in the end, no one will be sorry to anyone. Then we can still be good friends with each other, right?"

He Yue stared at Su Yan quietly for a while, and finally said:

"Other people fall in love with the aim of getting married and having children. Why do I think you are aiming at breaking up instead?"

amount……

Su Yan was dumbfounded.

Thinking carefully about my original intention of falling in love in the past, it seems that I really only stayed with each other because I knew the premise that the two would break up?

Huh?
Huh?

Why is this so?
Seeing that Su Yan remained silent for a long time, He Yue threw another soul torture:
"Are you sure you can really find your Mr.right with such an attitude?"

hmmmmmm…

This question seems to be on point ⊙⊙!
Seeing that the expression on Su Yan's face kept changing, but he remained silent, He Yue suddenly laughed.

"People say that love that is not for the purpose of marriage is playing hooligans, so it seems that you want to play hooligans with me?"

Su Yan finally raised his eyes to look at him, hesitated for a while, and finally nodded his head sincerely.

He Yue: "..."

Why can she admit it so confidently in front of the person she was fooled with!
He Yue felt that he might be stunned to death by her before he could catch up with Su Yan.

"...Are you trying to reject me in such a tactful way as to piss me off?"

Su Yan's eyes widened, and he said innocently: "How could it be? You look so good-looking, how could I be willing to piss you off?"

He Yue almost choked to death with a mouthful of old blood stuck in his throat.

After taking two deep breaths, He Yue finally stopped arguing with her.

"Let's put it this way, I personally have no intention of being a hooligan to you. The reason for pursuing you is simple, that is, I have a good impression of you. Of course, we are all adults, and good feelings don't mean anything. After all, even love may not It lasted until the end between the two of us, so I think we can try to be together, get along, and talk about things for the rest of our lives, if we don’t get along, we will naturally break up.”

Su Yan nodded, signaling him to continue.

"But now I find that you are different from what I thought. You seem to be sure that we will break up. You just want to play with me because I look good. But I am different. I don't have your confidence. I don't have your confidence. In the case of my other half, it is impossible for me to promise you a short-term relationship. Of course, if I am sure that you are not my other half, there is no need for me to play games with you. "

Su Yan still smiled and nodded.

"It makes sense."

He Yue: "...So?"

"So there's no need to talk about it. I won't play with people's feelings casually, so before I talk to you, I'll make it clear to you. If you don't accept it, then it's over. What else can I do?"

"In other words, you don't intend to change your mind?"

"Why do you want to change? Your idea is right, and I think mine is right, too. Can you expect to get along happily afterward if you don't agree with each other at the beginning?"

The air suddenly fell silent.

After a long time, He Yue said again without giving up:
"Shouldn't both parties in a relationship compromise for mutual tolerance?"

Su Yan nodded noncommittally, "That's right."

"That……"

"but……"

Su Yan continued unhurriedly:
"First, compromise does not mean blind tolerance. Only after I am sure that I am wrong and your idea is correct, I will naturally choose to compromise for you, but now I don't think I am wrong, right? Blind tolerance will make you One side becomes humble, while the other side pushes forward, until finally, the patient side can no longer hold on, so the two people come to the end, this ending is not good for both parties.”

"Secondly, I don't think that two people who need to compromise for things like being together at the beginning, how far they can go in the future, there will be two if there is one. This kind of situation will definitely happen more than once in the future. Once there are more times, The two will be bored with each other, whether it's the occurrence of this situation, or the compromise again and again, this emotion will always be suppressed in the heart, and it will explode after a long time. I don't need to say what the result of the explosion is. ?Unless one party can compromise forever willingly, like a machine carrying out its master's orders for no reason, but obviously, we are all thinking people for each other, I can't do it, and you can't do it either."

　two.

　　Hahaha Suyan's Emotion Class is starting!Have you brought all your notebooks? <(￣︶￣)>
　　
　
(End of this chapter)