Women must read: Love depends on robbing, marriage depends on support

Chapter 41 The "curve" principle of love, let you win with a high profile (1)

1. Smart love, "curve" wisdom

Many women waited for love and impetuously, and asked me: He has a lot of red scarves and green sleeves around him, how can I monopolize the beauty of spring?
There are fewer and fewer people who care about the uniqueness of love, but more and more people want to occupy the "commanding heights of love".

It has to be said that it is the cold definition of love brought to women by the impetuous society.

If not the only one, at least, I am the most important.

High-quality men can be hot with bare hands, and have always been a hot commodity in the marriage and love market.As a result, the woman gave up that caressing heart and vanity, and expanded her territory like a female warrior, trying to create her own grand marriage.

As long as I imprint the deepest "brand" in his heart and let him want to stop me, I will secure the position of "big house"!

More and more "female detectives", "women policemen", "female judges" and "female field agents" have emerged.These people often have "control addiction" and desperately track down text messages and phone calls.They think that as long as they have a sense of existence, they can occupy the "commanding heights of love".

Their brain is a machine of information disorder, constantly firing emotional grenades.

Women often ask me: Why is he not as enthusiastic as he started?Why is he impatient to answer my phone?

poor woman. "Sense of existence" is the exclusive right of men to "hunt", and it is one of the ways for men to pick up girls.

Men's psychology is just the opposite of women's. They don't need a sense of existence, let alone a sense of security. They only need a sense of space.

The man's love machine has a poor digestive function and is very sluggish. You only need to give him a little sweetness, and it will be enough for him to digest for two or three days!

And women's love machines are too advanced.Therefore, it is impossible to understand the poor "sweet tolerance" of men.Instead, push and pull hard, smashing the man's "love emotion" into a hornet's nest.

"Why did he refuse to answer my phone calls, and he didn't reply to my text messages. Later, when I broke up with him, he said to give him some time. When I was about to give up, he said he still didn't want me? Take me seriously, are all men sick?" A woman asked me eagerly.

It's really a headache to meet a woman who can't fall in love.

A good relationship, insisting on talking about it as a "cop movie", forcing a man to flee to the end of the world, makes me terrified when I see you!
Maybe one year, two years, or even three years in the future, I will be afraid and irritable when I see you.

When a woman "satellites" a man, the man does not love you more, but fears you more!
Please believe that when you are annoying, the man you love is more annoying than you.Because you are kidnapping his emotions, and you must make him responsible for your emotions.

You stretched out your hand and kept asking him for love!It hurts!To pet!
I also vowed to say that I only need a little bit!

Girl, you are not loving him, you are extorting him!It's blackmail!
More and more emotions are "flirting with women", even more violent than men, and their love is too straightforward.

A girl came to complain to me, scolded her for betraying her boyfriend, and blamed her efforts and grievances in the relationship.She said that she always called him, messaged him, and always wanted to know his movements. Even when she paid her salary, the first thing she did was to ask him if the money was enough, and the dead piston would give him some and let him You can live a little more comfortably.However, he was still indifferent to her, even impatient.Talking about breaking up, she still couldn't separate, and when they were together, she couldn't feel his love more and more.

"That man actually mentioned how he loves his ex-girlfriend in front of my eyes, and said that I have no place to compare with her! But she never called him, and she didn't even like to answer his calls, saying that she was busy with her career and didn't want to talk about relationships I don't understand, how is she better than me? How can she treat him better than me? She doesn't love him at all, can't he see it? "

I said, she is better than you in at least two things.

First of all, she is more motivated than you, has her own independent space, and does not need to rely on the love of men all the time to live.

Second, she will allow a man's love room to breathe.With more space, he can brew "emotions of love".

Third, in the eyes of men, it's not that if you love him, he loves you, but if he loves you, everything is OK.The more outstanding a man is, the more he wants to take control of love.

Your love needs his approval, but his love only needs your own approval.

If you are determined to be a demolition household of love, and "survive" with crazy love, then he will definitely be a "love nail household" and swear to resist your invasion!

Because, people have some "emotional addictions", and they are all fascinated by the "emotion of love" that they can't ask for.If you're too blunt or even aggressive, you can blow all those emotions out of a man.

Next, who still has the mood to love you?Do you still have the strength to love you?

Love needs to take a "curve" path to save the country.

Sometimes, you need to temporarily suspend your love for him, so that he will not be so steadfast and insecure.

You need a moderate amount of cooling, so that his enthusiasm can gradually warm up.

The process is arduous and not easy.

25-year-old He Jiajia works in a real estate company. Like many girls in the company, they are all fascinated by the young and elegant boss.This man with a net worth of tens of millions is only 34 years old and has a girlfriend who is talking about marriage, but they don't take that thin girl seriously.He Jiajia, in particular, is young and beautiful, with a good figure. It can be said that he is the kind of figure that men like very much.She has danced since elementary school, with good body flexibility and versatility.

Although she is a latecomer in this love, she feels that she is sure to defeat that unattractive little girlfriend.After a series of overt or covert temptations by He Jiajia, the boss finally started dating her.During the date, she can be said to be very proficient in playing the girl's liveliness and coquettishness, and constantly switches her personality mode to attract his attention.

Inevitably, they got there.But the boss is always indifferent, and he is also warm to her, but there is not much love in it.

He usually gives her presents.I also watch movies with her.But I still can't find the ardent feeling of love.

He Jiajia comforted herself in her heart and said that rich men are so powerful, as long as I pay enough attention to him, with my own qualifications, I won't be unable to influence him.

Until one day half a year later, the boss suddenly sent out happy candies to everyone saying that he was getting married.

She couldn't believe her ears. That night, she called him like crazy and asked him for a result.She said what are we doing like this, what do you think of me?
However, he said lightly, I asked you before, would you regret it, and you said no.Now I can't do anything, both families are forced to marry, so I have to do this first.If you are willing to follow me, I will not treat you badly in terms of money.

He Jiajia asked me, what should she do, continue to suffer and wait for a result?Is there any result between them?If we get along well over time, will it make him fall in love with her completely?How to make him have an unforgettable love for her?
The so-called diamond man's inner love is actually an emotion.A smart woman must have the ability of "emotional manipulation" in order to ignite the "emotion of love" in a man.

According to the level of men's EQ and love point, it determines the difficulty of their emotional mobilization.

The more outstanding a man is, the heavier his emotional defense line is, and the higher his love point is, the harder it is to mobilize his emotions.

Phone and SMS tracking is undoubtedly the worst trick.And ordinary scheming tricks are even easier for him to see through at a glance.

The best way is, there is no trick to win.You need to control your emotions, and then be colder and calmer than him, hide in the dark and keep calm, and see what he will do next.

A detail worth noting is that the moment the boss unbuttoned He Jiajia, his hand suddenly stopped.He said it was too late to regret it now.He Jiajia said that she will never regret it.She still took the initiative in this sexual matter.

A man with such determination in the face of his own lust shows how difficult it is to mobilize his "emotion of love".

He will clearly distinguish between temporary passion, stealing sex, marriage and life.

In love, he has always been the one who manipulates others.

So, I advised her that if you can't withdraw and separate decisively, then please freeze your feelings appropriately.

Only by giving him enough indifference can your previous goodness be slowly fermented and brewed in his heart.

Only let him lose the feeling at any time, he will be nervous about you and care about you.

At the same time, you are also paving the way for your future, and you will not refuse to meet better men.Whether he loves you or not, you have to love yourself first.You must love yourself before anyone will love you.

If you can't let go of the fear of losing, you will inevitably be in chaos.

You know, when a master fights, it's always the one who is upset that loses.

(End of this chapter)