Pain is the best teacher of youth

Chapter 2 The Years of Friendship: You Are Not Alone on the Road to Youth (1)
There is one thing in the world that will not be changed by distance; there is one thing that will not be forgotten by time, and that is friendship.When the melody sounds like this: "Friends walk together for a lifetime, those days will no longer be there, in one sentence, for a lifetime, for a lifetime of love, a glass of wine..." Everyone will be moved, and will think of the times when they cried and laughed with themselves in their youth partner.On the road of youth, there are bitterness and sweetness, laughter and tears, but with friends who depend on each other, you will not be alone.

Friendship never fades in time
Meili and I are "faxiao" (Beijing dialect). We played house and danced rubber bands together when we were children; we chased stars and copied homework together in junior high school; signal".There is a tacit understanding between us, and the degree of tacit understanding cannot be expressed in words.

I always thought that we would be friends for life, girlfriends for life.We want to witness the most important moments in each other's lives, such as college admissions, falling in love, getting married...until the gray hair is gray, we can still talk and laugh together.Maybe it's the ignorance of youth, thinking too simply, I forgot one thing: all sincere and long-lasting feelings in the world will inevitably go through the baptism of wind and rain, and taste the taste of ups and downs.If you have not passed the test, it is difficult to know how to cherish.

A test came when we fell in love with the same boy.

In the second year of high school, a boy named Cen Jiang was transferred to the class.The girls in our liberal arts class accounted for two-thirds, and the only dozen or so boys were all ordinary-looking. This tall and handsome boy with thick eyebrows and big eyes undoubtedly stood out among the boys. At that time, our class The girls in the movie are fans of Korean dramas, and his slender eyes just fit our aesthetic pursuit, especially when he smiles, there is a shallow dimple on his cheek.Many girls in the class treat him differently, and Cen Jiang studies very well, the girls often use the topic of study to get close to him on weekdays, except for me and Meili.

Meili always said, I am so proud.Indeed, seeing the performances of those nympho girls in the class towards Cen Jiang, I felt very disdainful in my heart, and always felt that they were not reserved enough.Even if he is really handsome, you can't bow your head to please him, right?I remember my mother said a word, women don't have to be beautiful, but they must live beautifully.

Of course, beauty is more reserved than me.I couldn't see that she had any affection for Cen Jiang, so I didn't pay too much attention to her every move.Frankly speaking, I really want to get close to Cen Jiang, but I disdain to use their old-fashioned methods, I must surprise to win.

It was a beautiful evening.I walked out of the bike shed with a smirk on my lips.When I arrived at a deserted corner, I quietly threw away the valve core in my hand.Yes, that's right!I pulled out the valve core on Cen Jiang's car.

This trick really worked, and I spent a lot of thought in vain.Without knowing it, Cen Jiang "accidentally" crossed paths with me.I took him to a nearby auto repair shop, and he treated me to ice cream as a courtesy.While chatting with him, while waiting for the car repairer to cheer up his car, I was quietly happy.All of this is how I expected it to be.The only fly in the ointment is that the car repairer is too efficient. Before I had time to ask Cen Jiang for his QQ number, his car was already repaired.I decided that next time I must do something "ruthless" - puncture his tires.

They say that everything is difficult at the beginning.With the first "accidental" intersection, subsequent contact becomes very natural.Cen Jiang and I became partners on the way home from school, and we talked and laughed at school. I think he is much closer to me than to other girls. Is it because of my natural charm?When I first fell in love, I really had a different sense of superiority and self-confidence.I was very proud of myself, thinking about how to make the relationship between us a little clearer.

Emphasis on sex over friends, I have never liked such words, but during those days, I was clearly performing such a scene.I haven't played with Meili for about a month, and she didn't come to see me specifically. Although we still greet each other kindly every time we meet, we are no longer inseparable like before.

By chance, I saw Cen Jiang and Meili walking together talking and laughing, Meili even smiled and beat him.Girls are sensitive, especially when facing someone they like. I can tell that Cen Jiang's attitude towards beauty is not as simple as that of ordinary classmates or friends.

When did they get so close?I couldn't help being surprised.Cen Jiang never mentioned Meili in front of me, and Meili rarely talked to Cen Jiang in class, but the scene in front of me made me laugh at myself: I was "betrayed"!One is my best friend and the other is a guy I like, and the relationship between them is so close, and I don't know it, it's just ridiculous!
Without any suspense, my first love ended in such a hurry.Perhaps it is just a seed in my heart, which never germinated.I completely sealed that unbearable memory in time and never touched it again.

Time is like flowing water, without stopping for a moment.We can no longer remember how those days and nights were spent, so we bid farewell to our youth and grew into adults.By chance, I flipped through the photo album when I was young again, saw the group photo in high school, and saw the beautiful smiling face, and the seal of my memory was untied.

The ignorant first love in high school broke the friendship between me and Meili.Since then, we have been strangers.On the occasion of graduation, she gave me an exquisite wooden photo album, the cover of which was two girls on a swing, with a few words written in a lovely handwriting: You are my forever sister.Turning to the first page of the album, there is a group photo of the two of us, below which is her short message: We will meet again in ten years.

I made an agreement with her long ago: If we separate in the future, we can't forget this friendship between us.On Christmas ten years later, we will go back to our alma mater for a reunion to see each other at that time.When I opened the photo album, I remembered this promise.

In the end, I returned to my alma mater at the appointed time, walked slowly along the playground, looked at the whispering high school girls, and recalled the bits and pieces of my youth.The strange thing is that I can no longer remember what Cen Jiang looked like. The unforgettable feelings at the beginning have long faded with time. I think of beauty at most, thinking of the time we spent together and the sadness when our friendship was broken. Sad.Where is she now?Don't you remember the agreement that year?

Sadness and loss came to my heart, making my eyes a little sore.But at this moment, I suddenly saw a familiar yet unfamiliar figure standing in the middle of the playground with her eyes facing me.Is it beautiful?Her appearance has changed a bit, but I recognize her smile.

She came over and said, "It seems that we still have a tacit understanding." Such opening remarks made our eyes wet.Looking at her, I feel like we've never been apart.I finally understand: under the washing of time, the love in youth may fade, but the friendship can last forever.

I know that wherever I go, you will be by my side.Cry with me, laugh with me, wait with me, bloom with me. /Youth Novel "Girls Pie"

The most intimate blessings, the warmest companion

On the eve of my 15th birthday, I won the runner-up in the Provincial Youth Piano Competition.To celebrate for me, my mother decided to throw an unprecedented large birthday party for me at home.I was so happy. During those days, I kept thinking about how to decorate the birthday venue and who to invite.

At first, I just wanted to invite my closest friends, but unexpectedly, after hearing about it, many students in the class expressed their willingness to come to participate.Originally, I expected only about 10 people, but in the end it turned out to be 18 people.Seeing everyone's anticipation for my birthday party gave me a different sense of relief.

Mom vacated the living room early and arranged it like a buffet venue.While we were eating and chatting, a friend suddenly suggested that I play a song "Happy Birthday", and everyone should sing along with me.Just as I was sitting in front of the piano, the doorbell rang.I didn't bother to notice who was coming to my house at this time, after all everyone I liked and loved me was here for my birthday.

Soon, my mother's voice sounded: "Julie, come here." I looked at my friend and curled my lips, as if to say: It's such a disappointment to be disturbed at this time!

I went around behind my friends and walked to the front door.Looking at the person outside the door, I opened my mouth in surprise, my face was still slightly hot.Standing on the front porch was none other than Tao Ran, the quiet girl sitting next to me in the piano class.She held a present in her hand, apparently made for me.She knew I had won a piano competition and that it was my birthday, but I don't think she knew I had a big party at home.

I'm really embarrassed.Presumably, she had heard the commotion inside the house outside the door, but I actually forgot to invite her.In the piano class, she was my best friend, and I only put on the invitation list those who expressed interest in me.I played back many things that happened in the piano class in my mind, especially the time when I suddenly had a high fever. She helped me pack up, took the music score, took me to the hospital by taxi, and delayed the piano class for the whole afternoon. .

I took Tao Ran's gift, smiled shyly, and invited her into the room to attend the party.

However, she refused.She said, "I'm afraid it won't work. My dad is still waiting for me outside."

"Just come in and stay for a while, can't you?" I said almost beggingly, the reason I did this was also to make up for the regret that I forgot to invite her.I sincerely hope that she can stay, so that I will feel better.

"Thank you! I have something to do at home today, I have to go! Goodbye, happy birthday to you." After she finished speaking, she turned and walked towards the gate.

"Well, Tao Ran, see you at the piano class next week."

I sent Tao Ran away, and returned to the lively hall, but the excitement from just now was gone, and I felt a little empty instead.I didn't open the gift from Tao Ran immediately, I wanted to savor it carefully when I was quiet.After a few hours, the party was over and the friends left one by one.

I sat quietly on the sofa and opened Tao Ran's gift.Inside the exquisite box, there is a beautiful frosted glass jar, and a beautiful greeting card, which says: "You are a girl as sunny as the sun, I hope this jar that can collect sunshine can accompany you every night, Bring you warmth and joy."

I have to say that the most heart-warming gift I received on my 15th birthday was Tao Ran's Sunshine Jar.It's just that I didn't realize at that time that Tao Ran was a true friend of mine.Later, because of my father's job transfer, we moved, and I also changed schools, and gradually lost contact with many classmates.However, Tao Ran contacted me as always, loyally and unconditionally supported me, encouraged me, and understood me.

Tao Ran and I applied to the same college when filling out the application form for the college entrance examination.Fortunately, we were all admitted and became close college classmates.Although I was still brooding about not inviting her to my birthday party back then, I also felt fortunate that if it hadn't been for that experience, I would never have discovered that I was so important to Tao Ran, and She is my most cherished friend.

Looking back on the road of youth, I have met many people, but in the passage of time, many friends have gradually lost contact and even become strangers.However, there are some people who have never ignored us in their hearts, no matter how far apart they are, they still care about us deep in their hearts.I think we should not only remember the friends who are inseparable from us all day long, but forget those friends who send us thoughtful blessings at critical moments in ordinary days.They are more worth cherishing.

The days will pass between flowers blooming and fading, and friends will lose news as they grow up over the years, but since we were once friends, we will not let this friendship be sealed by history. /Anonymous
A cold brings back friendship
Taozi is my classmate and the most important friend in my heart.

During the lunch break, Taozi handed her deskmate Hongna a red apple, and said kindly, "You need to rest more! If you feel uncomfortable, please take time off. Don't hold on." I know, Hongna has caught a cold recently , looks so fragile, just like a paper man.I sympathize with her, but I'm more jealous of her, especially when I see Taozi greeting her.

The reason for this is that growing up, I have never had many friends.Perhaps because of my personality, many people can't stand my rectum and think my words "hurt", although I never wanted to hurt anyone.It wasn't until I went to junior high school and met Tao Zi that I had my first friendship in my life.

Tao Zi is a beautiful girl with a gentle personality. We have been together for five years from junior high school to high school, sharing each other's joys, sorrows and joys.However, seeing her "show courteousness" to Hongna who just transferred from another school, I was really uncomfortable.It's always been my style to be happy and angry.I said coldly to Tao Zi: "Are we still friends? I've also been angry these two days, and you know it too, but why did you give Hongna an apple but not me? Do you think it's easier to chat with her?" Come?" "Oh, she's not sick! I don't have one myself! This is the only apple I brought from home last week." Tao Zi explained with a smile, not at all disgusted with my narrow-mindedness.

To be honest, I really don't like Hongna.She looks like a reed stick, and she doesn't like to talk or laugh on weekdays. She fell ill several times after being transferred to the class for three months.Sneezing during class, lying on the table when get out of class was over, and Tao Zi, who was at the same table with her, almost became her "personal maid", pouring water for her, giving her fruit, and asking her how she was.You know, in the past, Taozi was only as close as me, but now there is a Hongna, she no longer walks with me all day long, and goes to the cafeteria to eat with me, my heart is empty, as if I have lost a beloved thing like that.

The little girl's jealousy has started to make trouble again!I began to look forward to catching a cold, preferably not being seriously ill, and lying in the dormitory for three days and three nights.Let's see if Taozi will stay by my side and take care of me all day long as she cares for Hongna at that time.

In order to make myself catch a cold, I did a stupid thing: early in the morning, I quietly got up from the bed and ran to the water room to take a cold shower for an hour!But with all this tossing, I still didn't catch a cold.Since this doesn't work, then "put it on"!During evening self-study, I secretly smeared my forehead and face with blush, and coughed vigorously, deliberately attracting Taozi's attention.

Sure enough, Tao Zi sitting at my front desk discovered my "abnormality".She turned her head, glanced at me, and asked, "Have a cold?" I nodded, coughing louder.At this moment, Tao Zi looked a little nervous, and she said, "It's so serious? Let me see!" She wanted to touch my forehead to see if I had a fever, but I avoided it on purpose, and raised my head high, so that She saw my flushed face.Taozi said: "Your face is a little red, you probably have a fever, I will take you back to the dormitory!" I said: "No, I will go back by myself. You should study here!" Taozi hasn't finished her homework yet. , she had no choice but to agree, and told me to be careful, and said that she would go to the dormitory to see me after evening self-study.

I nodded and left the classroom.Over the years, I have always been straightforward, but this time I lied to Tao Zi.On the way back to the dormitory, I felt a little guilty, but it was worth it.I lay in the dormitory and waited for Taozi. After waiting for a long time, Taozi didn't come back.I looked at my watch, and it was already evening self-study at that time!After a while, other students in the dormitory came back, but I never waited for Tao Zi.

(End of this chapter)