I'll be a nanny for the lord

Chapter 263 East Wind Overwhelms West Wind

Ye Shi paused, she clenched her lower lip and remained silent.

Now, she was really depressed.

Finally have a sense of crisis?
Xia Ying snorted softly: "Of course, what I'm saying is that if you continue in your state, there's no hope. However, if you change your strategy a bit, it's absolutely possible to respect him as a guest."

"Really?" Ye Shi became excited for a moment.

Xia Ying raised her eyebrows. "Why, are you tempted by Song Jinyan?"

Ye's face flushed red, she nodded almost invisible. "Xianggong is very powerful, smart and capable, which woman would not be tempted by him?"

"So your problem lies in your temptation!" Xia Ying said.

Ye Shi was stunned again.

Xia Ying sighed: "Sister-in-law, do you know why the little brother married you in the first place?"

"Because of my identity, and my quietness and obedience, I can see that I am a obedient and good wife." Ye Shi said, her voice choked up, "Actually, I have been working very hard to approach him according to his goal. gone."

"Come on! You don't have that temperament, how long can you pretend?" Xia Ying complained unceremoniously.

"And, in fact, what the Song family needs is not a good helper at all. What he needs more is someone who can fight side by side with him and help him in his career! And you, aren't you exactly such a person?"

"Am I?" Mrs. Ye blinked.

Xia Ying nodded firmly. "Of course you are. Didn't I already list your strengths just now? You don't know how to use the ready-made advantages, but you have to turn yourself into a good wife and mother. If you don't feel awkward, he will feel awkward! Me, I don't bother to talk to you!"

But thinking of the situation the day he first entered the door, Mrs. Ye shook his head. "My husband obviously doesn't like me like this."

"But you calmed him down, didn't you?"

Ye Shi was taken aback again.

Xia Ying nodded. "That's right. The way of getting along between husband and wife is also the way of getting along with people! Anyway, either the east wind prevails over the west wind, or the west wind overpowers the east wind. If you blindly forbear and give in, it will only make people think that you are easy to bully, and they will not treat you as a bully." You take it seriously."

"But try if you get stronger? Even if Song Jinyan doesn't like you, but your ability is what he needs, he will still get close to you. As long as you have a chance to get close, it's easy for you to bring some private goods gone."

"and……"

She paused. "Don't forget, your aunt."

Thinking of her aunt who was still in Ye's mansion, Mrs. Ye immediately lifted her spirits!
"Yes, I still have to find a way to get my aunt out!"

"So, you have to be more self-reliant and self-reliant. Otherwise, think about it, even if you try your best to take your aunt over, others will see you as just a little daughter-in-law, and they will look down on you, who will Do your best to serve your aunt?"

Ye Shi began to think seriously.

Xia Ying said again: "So if a woman wants to live a good life in this world and let the people she cares about live a good life, it is very important to hold the right to speak. This is the foundation of your standing in this family."

"By the way, if Song Jinyan really broke up with you because he couldn't stand you, you can at least rely on this ability to gain a foothold in the world. If you rely on a man wholeheartedly to live, you are a dodder flower. Once there is a little wind and rain , you're ruined."

"Obviously with your ability, you can't do this!"

After listening to all her words, Ye's eyes began to sparkle.

"Sister." She said softly, "Why do I feel that what you told me about the way of getting along as a husband and wife is just incidental, and your real purpose is to prevent me from being a dodder?"

"Yo, did you hear it? If you can hear it, it means you're still alive!" Xia Ying nodded.

"If it wasn't for Song Jinyan being my younger brother, what I would have said to you would be - don't care what this dead man thinks of you, just hold everything you can hold firmly in your hands! Woman Life is not only dependent on men to live."

"On the contrary, with your ability, you can obviously make some impressive achievements, and it is no problem to stand side by side with him, so why do you have to be careful to please him?"

"What you should really do is to let him take the initiative to please you! If he doesn't please you, you can find a man who is willing to please you. He is not the only man in this world!"

Ye Shi was dumbfounded.

"Sister, have you ever said these things to your brother-in-law?"

"I said it! And I have always treated him like this. He is good to me. If this family can accommodate me, I will stay. Once I can't accommodate me, I will leave! If you don't stay here, you will There is a place to stay!" Xia Ying nodded firmly.

Ye Shi looked envious. "Sister, you are amazing. No wonder Xianggong respects you so much."

"I got this by my real skills!" Xia Ying said without humility, "And you really don't think that as long as I treat him better and give him a few bites, he will take care of me sincerely Shall I call my sister?"

Ye Shi shook his head. "Of course not, Xianggong is not such a superficial person."

"So! It is said that the elder sister is like a mother. I must care for him and love him in my daily life, but when necessary, I must also stand up and protect him. When he does something wrong, I must teach him severely. Criticize him. I have to be stronger than him so that I can hold him down." Xia Ying nodded.

After speaking, she raised her chin and looked at Mrs. Ye. "I've told you so much, do you understand what I mean?"

Ye Shi thought about it. "I see."

"Sister, what you mean is to let me grow into a woman who can stand side by side with my husband, not a dodder flower attached to him."

"And only by showing my usefulness can I make him pay attention to me, look me in the eyes, and even... can't leave me."

Having said that, Xia Ying didn't need to say anything more, Ye Shi was already so excited that she stood up.

"I see!"

She was so excited that she saluted Xia Ying. "Thank you sister, I understand what you mean!"

She left in a hurry.

"Hey, I haven't finished talking!" Xia Ying hurriedly shouted, but she couldn't recall Ye's anxious footsteps.

Hey!
She sighed again. "Forget it, anyway, I've already said what I need to say. As for how much she really understands and what to do, that's her own business. I shouldn't have interfered too much."

She clapped her hands, got up and went back to the room.

When Xia Ying and Ye Shi were sitting together for a deep talk, Gu Yuanlong had already come to Gu Tuo.

"You said before that when you left the provincial capital this time, Ye Changwen's son gave you a mysterious gift?"

Gu Tuo nodded. "This is it."

He took out the box under the bed.

Gu Yuanlong opened his hands, and the little guy's eyes darkened.

"This is what he has been obsessed with and told you that you must get it?"

(End of this chapter)