Rebirth of a famous family: Mala's first wife

Chapter 19 Answers
It turns out that the eldest granddaughter still admits her shortcomings.That's fine, since she insists on studying at home, she should do it at home!It's not as expensive as going to Hecheng!It's just that this girl is still very courageous, and she's playing tricks on her old lady again!Hearing what the two of them meant, it was certain that she would not be able to find any good husbands?Or, this girl just wants to invite a gentleman to teach her, so she can pass the past few years?That would underestimate her old lady too much!
The old lady Fu said "Huh!" very unwillingly. "I see, you are still young after all, you haven't seen the long-term enough, and you don't understand the inner sense of proportion. Since you want to invite a female husband, then the status, reputation, and character of the female husband are of the utmost importance. Otherwise, we wouldn’t have harmed our girl? Besides, Brother Heng is only a seventh-rank now, but can you imagine where he will be an official in a few years? Wait until then and then I’ll invite a better gentleman to come Teach your daughter, but it's too late!"

Yin's heart was overjoyed.Is the old lady letting go?She hurriedly asked, "Then, what does the old lady mean...?"

"What I mean is, since I brought up this matter, I'll be responsible to the end. I will take the matter of please sir. It's just that this matter can't be rushed for a while, and it's a matter of learning the rules. And we can't delay. How about this, let the big girl follow me for a while, and study "Women's Rules" and "Women's Commandments" carefully, so as not to be locked up in my own nursery every day and raise a petty air!"

"Okay, thank you so much, old lady! Junya is able to get the old lady's personal teaching, it is her blessing from her previous life! I will go back and tell Junya, let her thank the old lady herself!" Yin immediately Overjoyed.Although she and the old lady are not always on the same page, but I have to admit that the old lady is still very good at being a director.If Junya is lucky enough to learn [-]% or [-]% of her, she will be more than enough to find a suitable person to marry and become the head of the house...

After listening to Yin's compliment, Mrs. Fu waved her hands, as if she didn't want to say more.Yin Shi had no choice but to retreat embarrassingly.

From the next day, Fu Junya will go to the old lady's courtyard to learn the rules.This was originally Fu Junya's inner wish. At that time, she thought it would be difficult to achieve, but she never thought that the old lady would bring it up by herself.This unexpected harvest made Fu Junya feel a little guilty.Because, what she valued was "ability", but what the old lady focused on was "rules".However, the matter has come to this point, she can only let it go and let it go.

"Born in a family like ours, the "Four Books for Women" is naturally memorized backwards, so tell me, what have you learned from "Four Books for Women"?" The old lady's tone was as calm as if she was talking Chat about homework.

What have you learned from "Four Books for Women"?Asking this question made Fu Junya slightly taken aback.But in the last life, the most important lessons in life were not actually learned from books.For example, it is best for a woman to be the head of the house and have a certain amount of power and money.For another example, the most important thing for a woman is to give birth and have children.

But these words are obviously not in line with her current age and status.So she can only think about it a little bit and say something innocuous. "Back to my grandmother's words, my granddaughter saw four words from the "Four Books for Women": overcome rigidity with softness."

"Conquer rigidity with softness? Well, what a conquer rigidity with softness!" Surprised by her granddaughter's ingenuity, Mrs. Fu suddenly became interested, "Tell me, how can you overcome rigidity with softness?"

"Going back to my grandmother, the "Four Books for Women" tells us that women should have their own principles and opinions, but they must be expressed in a tactful and submissive way, so that they can ultimately benefit from it."

"Well, that makes sense!" Mrs. Fu was obviously very satisfied with her granddaughter's answer, but she quickly put on a straight face, "Then, since you know all these principles of how to behave, why can't you practice them?"

Fu Junya smiled wryly in her heart.The old lady is still clinging to the knot between her and the fourth aunt! "Back to my grandmother, my granddaughter thinks that although the "Four Books for Women" is convincing, it is still not enough!"

"Oh? Insufficient! You are not small! Then tell me, why?" The old lady pressed her every step of the way.

Fu Junya frowned slightly.Since grandma is so interested, then I can have a good chat with her! "Back to my grandmother's words, my granddaughter thinks that the "Four Books for Women" and the like are just the words of Ban Jieyu and others, and may not be suitable for all women throughout the ages. Therefore, instead of trusting a pile of old papers, it is better to trust your own eyes. The living reality in front of my eyes!" When she said these words, she met the old lady Fu's eyes without flinching, and clearly saw the old lady's face turned red and white, and her breathing was a little unsteady, which showed that she was in her heart. Very excited.And the girls and women behind the old lady also had surprise mixed with sympathy in their eyes, as if they were saying: "Miss, how can you say such shocking words, this is terrible!"

In fact, she wanted to say what she just said in her previous life.She really doesn't like "Four Books for Women". She has disliked it since she was very young, and she doesn't agree with it at all.But in her previous life, she was still too timid to question her in public. Instead, she went against her own heart and followed the tenets of the "Four Books for Women".

Adding up the two lives, if she still thinks that she can get what she deserves just by being respectful, obedient, and agreeing, she is really stupid.Be kind to others, but they will only think you are incompetent and easy to bully. Not only will you not win respect, but you will only be despised.People generally only believe in strength, and believe in people who are stronger and more determined than themselves.But in this life, she intends to be a strong and determined person... Even at this moment, she also thinks so in front of her grandmother who is as fierce as a sword.If you are obedient, it will only make your grandmother look down on her.It's better to be brave and speak your true thoughts out loud!
Old Madam Fu straightened her expression, she did not expect that she would be so shocked.She knew that her granddaughter was intelligent—in fact, who in the Fu family was not intelligent? ——But I still underestimated this girl's courage and determination!In this life, she has lived in her sixties, what kind of person has she never met, what kind of grievance has she never suffered, what kind of thing has she not thought through thoroughly?After thinking about it, I came to a conclusion: Who made her born a woman?Because of this conclusion, she was gradually able to accept her life more calmly and live in harmony with this world... Now, as time flies, she saw a ten-year-old girl again, with bright eyes beating with a spirit of wisdom. Flame, just like my own back then.

"Little girl, you can say this in front of me, but don't say it again in front of others, understand?" Mrs. Fu said this in a very kind tone, as if she regarded Fu Junya as a own people.

Fu Junya was even more surprised. She thought that she would be greeted with severe admonitions, but she didn't expect her grandmother to show a caring look for her.Could it be that my theory really moved my grandmother?
"Yes, grandma, granddaughter must remember grandma's words with all her heart, and stop showing off at will." Fu Junya bowed and saluted with a very sincere attitude.It's amazing, at this moment, their grandparents and grandchildren actually have a feeling of sympathy!
"Okay, since you don't like "Four Books for Women", what have you been reading recently?" Mrs. Fu asked again.This eldest granddaughter's reputation of being fond of reading since she was a child is known throughout the Fu family. I still remember that she could already recite a lot of poems and songs when she was three or five years old. At that time, I specially reminded Brother Heng that she was a girl. Children's families should not be too immersed in such things, so as not to lose their temperament.Now that several years have passed, I don't know if this child has made any progress?

"Back to grandma, my granddaughter is only reading "Heart Sutra" and "Qi Min Yao Shu" recently." Fu Junya replied honestly.The reason why she chose these two books was related to rebirth.

In her previous life, she believed deeply in Buddhism, but now this unexpected rebirth made her believe in the awesomeness of heaven. "Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva, with a deep form of Prajna Paramita for a long time, sees that the five aggregates are all empty, and overcomes all hardships. Sariputra, form is not different from emptiness, emptiness is not different from form, form is emptiness, emptiness is form, and the same is true for thinking and knowing." The principles in the Buddhist scriptures, like nectar, nourished her bitter heart.

And the way of farming taught by "Qi Min Yao Shu" is of great help to take care of the land.In her previous life, she didn't know anything about these mundane affairs, and she pretended to be someone else, and she didn't even know that she was cheated.In this life, she must learn these early so that she can live a better life!
Mrs. Fu couldn't laugh or cry, she was used to being surprised by this granddaughter from time to time. "Well, "Heart Sutra" and "Qi Min Yao Shu"? These two books, one born in the world and the other in the world, seem to be a bit advanced for your current age. Do you really want to read it?"

This time, it was Fu Junya's turn to blush. "If you go back to grandma, the granddaughter actually doesn't know much, so please ask grandma for advice!"

"Teaching is not necessary. If you read the book a hundred times, its meaning will emerge. Since you like these two books, you may wish to copy them several times by yourself. How many times to copy is up to you. I just want to remind you that since you are here I'm here to learn the rules, so I have to follow what I said, first work hard on the word 'quiet' and the word 'steady'. Remember, what I want is not 'quiet and stable', but ' Peace of mind, peace of mind'. When you understand these two words, I have learned all the rules here." After finishing these few words, Mrs. Fu left with her servants.Fu Junya was left standing alone, unable to speak for a long time.

"Girl, girl, the old lady has already left, what are you still thinking about?" Qiu Shi called Fu Junya in a low voice.

Fu Junya came to her senses, and smiled brightly at Qiushi, "I was thinking, grandma is here, I really came to the right place!"

(End of this chapter)