Wealthy daughters are not easy to mess with
Chapter 303
Chapter 303
Of course Liu Ping was not just because the Gao family wanted to beg Han Ru to Gao Lang, but was afraid that the Gao family would not agree with Han Ru and Gao Jun being together.
One can imagine life after marriage for a couple who are not favored by the elders.
Liu Ping didn't want her daughter to live so hard.But Gao Jun is indeed a good young man.
Not to mention the appearance and family background, the most important thing is that the character is also very good.
Men who come down from the army basically love their wives very much, and they don't have the fancy-heartedness of other people in society.
It's not that they can't do those things, but because they understand responsibility and discipline themselves.From this point of view, Liu Ping was very satisfied.
It's a pity that the sincerity of Gao's elders was not seen.
Although Han Ru is a reborn person, she has never experienced these things in her previous life, and she has never been in a relationship, so she really doesn't understand such things.
Fortunately, my mother is still alive.She knew that what her mother said must be for herself.
Liu Ping didn't understand what she said, and Han Ru only understood part of it.But this did not delay Han Ru from carrying out Liu Ping's current intention.
Liu Ping didn't want to lose a good son-in-law like this, what she needed was the attitude of Gao's elders, so Han Ru didn't let Han Ru reject Gao Jun's marriage proposal directly, but expressed her thoughts very tactfully.
When Han Ru's mother went to the study, Hu Shanshi chatted with Gao Jun about financial issues, and at the same time asked Gao Jun tactfully if his parents knew that he had come to propose marriage to Han Ru.
Gao Jun couldn't answer.
Gao Jun's heart sank as early as when Han Ru followed her mother into the room.He already understood that things were not going the way he expected.It is very likely that Han Ru's parents disagree with the two of them.
In fact, before Gao Jun came to Han Ru's house, he thought that it would be difficult without the cooperation of his parents and elders.
He also wanted to make it clear with his parents, and ask them to come.However, he was afraid that his grandfather would stop it if he knew about it, so he didn't dare to mention it.
He thought that when the raw rice was cooked into cooked rice, the family would have to agree even if they didn't agree.
It seems that now his idea is going to fail.
Not long after, Han Ru and Liu Ping came out of the study.Gao Jun could tell from Han Ru's expression whether her mother agreed with their matter.
Gao Jun's visit became a courtesy visit.
After finishing the meal at Han Ru's house, Gao Jun was sent out of the house by Han Ru.
The two walked on the road without talking for a long time.
Gao Jun really wanted to ask Han Ru what her mother thought, but he couldn't open his mouth.
In fact, he already knew in his heart that today's marriage proposal was a failure.
After Han Ru waited for a long time but did not see Gao Jun speaking, she spoke.
"Gao Jun, do your parents know about our affairs? Do they agree?"
Gao Jun said: "I am in charge of my affairs, they can't control them."
Han Ru nodded, she understood.
"That is to say, your parents don't know about us at all. Or they don't agree with us being together. "
After hearing what Han Ru said, Gao Jun hurriedly explained: "It's not what you think, I just didn't tell my parents, it's not that they disagree."
Han Ru nodded again, and said, "That is to say, you don't take me seriously at all, or you think I can't do anything, so you dare not tell your family."
As soon as Gao Jun heard this, he knew that the problem was serious.
He took a deep breath, stopped, and moved Han Ru's body towards him.
"Ruru, you can't be unreasonable. I have a reason for doing this. It's not that I don't respect you, nor is it that you can't do anything and don't deserve me."
"It's, it's that my family once proposed marriage to you for my elder brother."
"Doesn't this just mean that your family disagrees with you and me?"
Gao Jun just shook his head, he didn't know how to explain it.
In fact, what Han Ru said was right, he did this because he was afraid that his family would disagree, and he had scruples.
Han Ru never thought that Gao Lang's mention of marriage to him would become an obstacle between her and Gao Jun.
Although Gao Lang proposed marriage to her, didn't she reject him?Could it be that because Gao Lang proposed marriage to her, can she no longer be with others?No such reason is not.
After all, it was Gao Jun's own problem.It was he who looked forward and backward.
No matter what he thinks, how many worries he has, and how he fears that his family will prevent the two of them from being together, these are not the reasons for him not to tell his parents and elders about their relationship.
After Liu Ping said those words to Han Ru, Han Ru understood what Liu Ping was thinking.
Since ancient times, marriage has not been a matter of two people.If one of the parents does not approve of the two being together, even if the two are together, they will eventually break up.
Of course, if Gao Jun is very strong, it's another matter.
However, Gao Jun is not like someone who would abandon his flesh and blood for the sake of affection.
If he is really such a person, I am afraid that I will also consider the possibility of being with him.
Han Ru analyzed calmly, and she was surprised that she was still so calm.
Gao Jun was very annoyed, originally the marriage was a personal matter for the two of them, it was nothing to do with an ordinary family.
He had seen one of his comrades-in-arms go to the woman he liked to propose marriage by himself. The comrade-in-arms only mentioned it to the family with the consent of the woman's parents, and the family did not object.
When it came to him, it was different.
Although his situation is different from others, it is not impossible to ask the woman's consent before talking to the family, why not.
Now Ruru also has doubts about herself, but fortunately she is quite rational and did not quarrel with herself.
If it really came to that point, he really didn't know what to do with himself.
Han Ru saw that Gao Jun was only looking at him anxiously, Yaci had no explanation, and sighed, "That's it for today. My mother didn't say no, she just said that I want your family to bring it up."
Gao Jun let go of his heart, but he felt a little embarrassed.
If he decides something, the family members will most likely not object, but grandpa's decision is a big problem.He was afraid that his grandfather would not want him to be with Han Ru.
If grandpa is unwilling, then it's hard to say on the father's side. Mother is the only one who obeys father's order.
Father has compromised with grandpa all his life, will he compromise with his own marriage?
Although he and his grandfather said that his own marriage is his own decision, if the person who makes the decision is the one chosen by his grandfather for his grandson, he is not sure whether his grandfather's attitude will change.
Therefore, he didn't want to mention his affairs with his family first.
(End of this chapter)
Of course Liu Ping was not just because the Gao family wanted to beg Han Ru to Gao Lang, but was afraid that the Gao family would not agree with Han Ru and Gao Jun being together.
One can imagine life after marriage for a couple who are not favored by the elders.
Liu Ping didn't want her daughter to live so hard.But Gao Jun is indeed a good young man.
Not to mention the appearance and family background, the most important thing is that the character is also very good.
Men who come down from the army basically love their wives very much, and they don't have the fancy-heartedness of other people in society.
It's not that they can't do those things, but because they understand responsibility and discipline themselves.From this point of view, Liu Ping was very satisfied.
It's a pity that the sincerity of Gao's elders was not seen.
Although Han Ru is a reborn person, she has never experienced these things in her previous life, and she has never been in a relationship, so she really doesn't understand such things.
Fortunately, my mother is still alive.She knew that what her mother said must be for herself.
Liu Ping didn't understand what she said, and Han Ru only understood part of it.But this did not delay Han Ru from carrying out Liu Ping's current intention.
Liu Ping didn't want to lose a good son-in-law like this, what she needed was the attitude of Gao's elders, so Han Ru didn't let Han Ru reject Gao Jun's marriage proposal directly, but expressed her thoughts very tactfully.
When Han Ru's mother went to the study, Hu Shanshi chatted with Gao Jun about financial issues, and at the same time asked Gao Jun tactfully if his parents knew that he had come to propose marriage to Han Ru.
Gao Jun couldn't answer.
Gao Jun's heart sank as early as when Han Ru followed her mother into the room.He already understood that things were not going the way he expected.It is very likely that Han Ru's parents disagree with the two of them.
In fact, before Gao Jun came to Han Ru's house, he thought that it would be difficult without the cooperation of his parents and elders.
He also wanted to make it clear with his parents, and ask them to come.However, he was afraid that his grandfather would stop it if he knew about it, so he didn't dare to mention it.
He thought that when the raw rice was cooked into cooked rice, the family would have to agree even if they didn't agree.
It seems that now his idea is going to fail.
Not long after, Han Ru and Liu Ping came out of the study.Gao Jun could tell from Han Ru's expression whether her mother agreed with their matter.
Gao Jun's visit became a courtesy visit.
After finishing the meal at Han Ru's house, Gao Jun was sent out of the house by Han Ru.
The two walked on the road without talking for a long time.
Gao Jun really wanted to ask Han Ru what her mother thought, but he couldn't open his mouth.
In fact, he already knew in his heart that today's marriage proposal was a failure.
After Han Ru waited for a long time but did not see Gao Jun speaking, she spoke.
"Gao Jun, do your parents know about our affairs? Do they agree?"
Gao Jun said: "I am in charge of my affairs, they can't control them."
Han Ru nodded, she understood.
"That is to say, your parents don't know about us at all. Or they don't agree with us being together. "
After hearing what Han Ru said, Gao Jun hurriedly explained: "It's not what you think, I just didn't tell my parents, it's not that they disagree."
Han Ru nodded again, and said, "That is to say, you don't take me seriously at all, or you think I can't do anything, so you dare not tell your family."
As soon as Gao Jun heard this, he knew that the problem was serious.
He took a deep breath, stopped, and moved Han Ru's body towards him.
"Ruru, you can't be unreasonable. I have a reason for doing this. It's not that I don't respect you, nor is it that you can't do anything and don't deserve me."
"It's, it's that my family once proposed marriage to you for my elder brother."
"Doesn't this just mean that your family disagrees with you and me?"
Gao Jun just shook his head, he didn't know how to explain it.
In fact, what Han Ru said was right, he did this because he was afraid that his family would disagree, and he had scruples.
Han Ru never thought that Gao Lang's mention of marriage to him would become an obstacle between her and Gao Jun.
Although Gao Lang proposed marriage to her, didn't she reject him?Could it be that because Gao Lang proposed marriage to her, can she no longer be with others?No such reason is not.
After all, it was Gao Jun's own problem.It was he who looked forward and backward.
No matter what he thinks, how many worries he has, and how he fears that his family will prevent the two of them from being together, these are not the reasons for him not to tell his parents and elders about their relationship.
After Liu Ping said those words to Han Ru, Han Ru understood what Liu Ping was thinking.
Since ancient times, marriage has not been a matter of two people.If one of the parents does not approve of the two being together, even if the two are together, they will eventually break up.
Of course, if Gao Jun is very strong, it's another matter.
However, Gao Jun is not like someone who would abandon his flesh and blood for the sake of affection.
If he is really such a person, I am afraid that I will also consider the possibility of being with him.
Han Ru analyzed calmly, and she was surprised that she was still so calm.
Gao Jun was very annoyed, originally the marriage was a personal matter for the two of them, it was nothing to do with an ordinary family.
He had seen one of his comrades-in-arms go to the woman he liked to propose marriage by himself. The comrade-in-arms only mentioned it to the family with the consent of the woman's parents, and the family did not object.
When it came to him, it was different.
Although his situation is different from others, it is not impossible to ask the woman's consent before talking to the family, why not.
Now Ruru also has doubts about herself, but fortunately she is quite rational and did not quarrel with herself.
If it really came to that point, he really didn't know what to do with himself.
Han Ru saw that Gao Jun was only looking at him anxiously, Yaci had no explanation, and sighed, "That's it for today. My mother didn't say no, she just said that I want your family to bring it up."
Gao Jun let go of his heart, but he felt a little embarrassed.
If he decides something, the family members will most likely not object, but grandpa's decision is a big problem.He was afraid that his grandfather would not want him to be with Han Ru.
If grandpa is unwilling, then it's hard to say on the father's side. Mother is the only one who obeys father's order.
Father has compromised with grandpa all his life, will he compromise with his own marriage?
Although he and his grandfather said that his own marriage is his own decision, if the person who makes the decision is the one chosen by his grandfather for his grandson, he is not sure whether his grandfather's attitude will change.
Therefore, he didn't want to mention his affairs with his family first.
(End of this chapter)
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