Sex and the city

Chapter 11 Seven Men in Manhattan (1)
tacit question

Over dinner, a man and I just opened a second bottle of [-] Latour.It was like our third date—maybe our tenth.who cares.Anyway, "that question" will surface soon.

"Uh..." Look, he finally couldn't hold back anymore.

"What?" I leaned forward.He placed his hands on my thighs.I guess he's going to ask that question, but it doesn't look like it.What is he thinking?

He is organizing language. "do you have……"

"what?"

"do you want……"

"what?"

"Have you ever thought about... sleeping with another woman?" he finally asked the question.

That made me nauseous, but I managed to keep smiling.I knew exactly what he was going to say next.

"Of course, I mean with me," he said. "You know, threesome."

Then he finally got to the point: "You can call your friends."

"Why should I agree?" I asked him.I didn't even bother to ask him why I thought my friend would be interested in such a thing.

"Because I like it!" he said, "and I think you'll like it too."

I don't want to!

"Variants of Sex"

People come to New York for their own dreams.Here they fantasize about money, power, and a spot on "The David Reitman Show."So now that you're here, why not sleep with two women by the way? (At least you have nothing to lose by asking) Everyone should try it.

“Of all your fantasies about New York, this is the only one that will exceed your expectations,” said a photographer I know well. “The nature of life is one disappointment after another. But sleeping with two women at the same time, No matter what happens, you will never lose money!"

It wasn't long before I realized what he was saying wasn't quite right.But compared to your other New York dreams, 3P is really not difficult to achieve.A male friend of mine said, "It's just a sexual act, not a perversion." In the eccentric New York, this is just an ordinary choice among thousands of choices.In other words, 3P originates from desire and the despair of not being able to get what one wants. It is the product of the contradiction between the two, symbolizing the morbidity of New York and representing the dark side of Manhattan.

In any case, everyone has experienced such a story.Some people have actually done it, some know friends who have done it, and some have witnessed ambiguous threesomes - such as the recent two supermodels who were seen doing it, and they are said to have pulled a male model into Tano men's room, forced him to suck up all the drugs, and took him home.

However, the most tangled of all relationships is the triangle.No matter how sophisticated you think you are, do you really believe you can handle anything?Won't anyone get hurt?Are three really better than two?
With free drinks and marijuana as bait, and honey-roasted peanuts as a bonus, I successfully invited seven men together to discuss the topic of threesome.It's Monday evening in the basement of an art gallery in Soho.When we arrived, Peter Bird was making abstract collages — kneeling on the ground, his hands busy scribbling shapes onto his black-and-white animal photography.He is the photographer I mentioned earlier, and also a teenage killer.He was wearing a T-shirt and jeans, and there were rust-colored footprints on the photo on the ground, and then it occurred to me that someone had said he painted with his own blood.

Peter was one of those so-called "eccentrics."He has a lot of stories, for example, he once married the popular supermodel Cheryl Tiggs in the 70s (it is true), and he was almost tied up and thrown to feed him when he was in Africa. Animals (this is probably fake).He said he'd rather be at work while we were chatting. "I'm working all the time," Peter said. "Whenever I stop, I get bored."

We mixed our own cocktails and ordered our first roll.Everyone except Peter asked me to use a pseudonym when writing articles. "Using real names will have a bad influence on our customers," one of them explained to me.

We finally got to the point.

"It's like an avalanche, you can't stop it," Peter said. "I know a lot of girls like this, and I saw one of them tonight. She said that 90.00% of her girlfriends have asked her for such a request." .It’s definitely a new phenomenon.”

Peter dipped his brush into the red paint. "Threesomes are even encouraged in the modeling industry," he continued. "Agents and talent scouts use these girls to get business." He added, "All the models have been cornered in the bathroom to get their hands on them."

Ted, a gifted 41-year-old architect, was noncommittal to Peter's words. "I don't think the exact figures are known by the official statistical agencies." But he went on to say, "Women's bodies are so sensual and beautiful that it's easy for a man to fantasize about having sex with two women. If you fantasize about two men The scenes together are much more boring."

Peter, who was concentrating on creating, looked up and added: "But women can sleep in the same bed, and no one will think about it."

"I agree with that," Simon said.He is 48 years old and owns a software company.

"No one here would want to sleep with another man. I will definitely not do it." Jonasie said while looking around.He, also 48, is an executive at a record label on the East Coast.

"You don't want that because most men snore," Peter said, "and it's not good for the nervous system."

Simon went on to say: "It also awakens your deepest fears."

The whole room fell silent.Everyone looked at each other.

It was Peter who broke the tension. "It's theoretical. Biologists have done experiments with mice," he said, "to test the effects of density, pressure, and overcrowding in space. The results of the tests show that the first consequence of overcrowding is It's the lack of sex. Especially in this city, full of lawyers and crowded spaces. Everyone is under tremendous pressure, and the hormones are gone. When the hormones are gone, there are more homosexuals; and the homosexual phenomenon It's actually one of nature's ways of reducing the population. So all these anomalies we're talking about grow exponentially."

Ted said dryly, "Looks like we're all screwed."

"We're all living a sensual life," Peter went on, "high density, high intensity, countless appointments and appointments, countless lawyer interviews. The simplest things don't interest us. Now you have to Find two or even three girls together, or go to Pure Platinum to see foreign strippers to be a little interesting."

"But getting multiple partners might just be out of curiosity," Ted said. "You've overanalyzed it a bit."

But Peter was having fun. "Then let's talk about hypocrisy." He said aggressively, "In this world, truthfulness and sincerity are becoming less and less. If you really like a girl, you won't be tempted by another one. It's a pity. What’s more, such true feelings are too rare.”

"These words are reasonable." Jonasie concluded cautiously.

"You don't learn anything from New Yorkers except bragging," Peter babbled, completely oblivious to the fact that his paintbrush was drying. You're hearing the exact same bullshit again. Unless you make up your mind not to join in the fun again, it's going to keep repeating the damn cycle."

"So everyone goes less often," Jonasie agreed.

"And then you enjoy blowjobs from fashion girls in the bathroom," Peter said.Everyone fell silent with mixed feelings of half surprise and half admiration.Peter spoke again: "But it's not real reality. There's no communication, and it's not real. It's just a moment in a stressful life."

"I still think I just want to have sex," Ted said.

empty love
Ted was exactly that mentality three years ago.He had just had his first threesome at the time — what he called a "quick sex party."

He recently broke up with his girlfriend of five years.He quickly rediscovers himself at the party and meets an attractive girl who just turned 20.He followed her quietly, watched her get into a taxi, and immediately started his Mercedes to follow.When the taxi pulled up at a red light, he also stopped to strike up a conversation.So he managed to get the girl to meet at the nightclub the next day.

The next night, the girl arrived as promised, bringing another girl named Andy with her. "Fortunately, Andy was a little crazy that day," Ted said.She had just come back from Italy and had been wandering around in her fox fur coat as soon as she got off the plane.All three took some drugs, then went back to Ted's apartment together, drinking champagne and smashing glasses, followed by mutual caressing.The 20-year-old fell asleep, and Ted and Andy made love next to her.

Peter's words drew everyone back: "As your experience grows, you become more easily bored, so you need to do more, faster to get stimulated, and then want more, more... Desires are endless." He said, "In fact, this has long been beyond your tolerance, but you still keep opening up territories with a fluke mentality..."

"It's like someone walks by with a plate of cookies and you grab two," said Garrick, 30, a guitarist in a band in New York.

Ted finally agreed with Peter this time. "The heart of the matter is that people are greedy," Ted said. "Two plump and attractive women are always better than one."

Thank goodness Sam was here at last.He's a 41-year-old investment banker, the kind of guy who says he wants to get married all day long, but always deliberately "forgets" to call back his dates.So he is always single.He claims to be experienced in 3P.

"What was the reason you started threesomes in the first place?" we asked.

Sam shrugged. "It's a new twist. No matter who you're with, you'll get bored after a while."

Sam said that 3P generally started in these three situations: the first one, the man felt bored or secretly wanted to sleep with his girlfriend’s friend, so he began to persuade his girlfriend to take another woman to bed; the second one, the woman One secretly wants to sleep with another woman, so she uses her boyfriend as an excuse; the last one is that two women have a crush on each other and conspire to get another man into bed together.

Sam said that he had dated a girl named Libby for half a year before, and he always felt that Libby wanted to have sex with her best friend Amanda.But now he admits to us that the fact is that he wants to fuck Amanda himself.

Sam kept putting pressure on Libby, so she finally agreed.She asked Amanda to come to their house in the evening, and then they sat on the sofa and drank red wine together.Sam made both girls take off their clothes.what's next?
"I was a complete failure that time," Sam said.He took Amanda into the bedroom, while Liu Libi drank red wine boredly on the sofa alone. "I'm completely obsessed with her. That's the problem. When you're facing two women, you always like one of them more, and then the other is alone." Libby has always hated this incident. Haven't spoken to Amanda for a long time.Libby and Sam broke up after two months.

(End of this chapter)