Interstellar Gardener Life

Chapter 445 Different—————————【Pink ticket 0275 plus update】

The two young couples didn't go far: Hu Dongmei was just trying to save face for Chen Xuan, so she found an excuse to force them out; besides, going into the woods with a child is a lot of trouble, so let's save some effort now.

So they asked for a box from the machine. Fang Min led the way out of No. 12 area, made a slight turn, and went directly to No. [-] area.

No one lives here, only the main guest room and the necessary small guest rooms, and many forests are preserved.

But Fang Min and Chen Xuan had been here last year, and the berry bushes were still there, exactly the sauce-red one Fang Min told Jiang Ling about.

Its original name is not much better than Shiyu, so Fang Min called it "Jianghongguo"...

So this became its Chinese name.Because Fang Min was the first to translate it into Chinese...

……

Dongming and Jiang Ling had training later, so they only tasted a few at first, but they picked a lot.

Fang Min was different: she basically picked a few and ate a few.At the beginning, Fang Min didn't bring a box of Jianghong fruit, and said to Jiang Ling: "It's only a few steps away, what to do with you, if you want to eat, just come here."

Jiang Ling thought about it, so she stopped, pulled Dongming to find a comfortable place beside her, sat down and looked around.

Chen Xuan is only mediocre about fruits and the like, so he also saved a lot.But the berries were left undisturbed, and Chen Xuan looked at his harvest, looking through the bottom, and felt pain: "This juice has leaked out, who is it for?"

The point is, he picked it for a long time, and picked out the best ones—the fruit of hard work!
Fang Min said: "Make cakes for your son, so fresh and sweet." In fact, neither of them can be regarded as pastry chefs. Hu Dongmei and Hu Haiyan are only proficient in one: a cheese cake; a cocoa cake, occasionally pretending to be famous black forest.However, it is not worth having a machine to do the work.

As a result, Chen Xuan hummed: "You feed your son again, but you don't feed me."

Fang Min glanced at him, and said with a smile: "What do you mean I won't give you food? It's because you can't eat 'more'. Just a little less. Well, it's the same size as your son. After eating, you can play with your son. Nothing to worry about."

Chen Xuan continued to hum: "You treat me as four years old."

……

The two were talking to each other in the bushes, and Dongming sat with his back to them, but he was happy to hear them.

Then he suddenly looked at Jiang Ling!

His eyes!eager to try...

Jiang Ling was also happy to hear it, but now he laughed hard: "Why? Huh? What are you doing? What bad things are you going to do?"

"No." Dongming is usually like this, but when he thought something wrong, he changed his sentence, "You are the one who does bad things!"

Is this anger or coquettish?A person who is somewhat cold and rigid on weekdays did this on purpose... As a result, Jiang Ling laughed so hard that her stomach ached and she became weak, hanging on Dongming's shoulder and beating him indiscriminately.

Dongming cleared his throat slightly, and gently pushed his elbow over.Meaning: It's your turn.

Jiang Ling laughed even harder, trembling, never caring about Dongming's reminder.

Dongming smiled helplessly: Well, this kind of thing can't be learned.

Then he suddenly remembered that Jiang Ling still owed him a debt!

"Hey, what did you say to me just now?"

"Well?"

"Say I'm a bad curse."

Jiang Ling hurriedly took Dongming's hand, and explained: "I'm just worried that they will start a real quarrel, so I'll tell you something." Then she annoyed him: "I'm not looking for you!"

Dongming pursed his lips and looked at Jiang Ling: Why did you admit your mistake so quickly... In desperation, Dongming decided that he had to hold on for a while, and he couldn't let Jiang Ling expose it so quickly.

But Jiang Ling has always been treated well at Dongming's place. Seeing that Dongming was still tense and a little unhappy, she didn't know that Dongming was trying to quarrel, so she thought about it and argued for herself: "Actually, I didn't say anything." You scold people so much."

"you said."

"I only said three sentences in total. The first sentence is 'Actually, Dongming can also scold people'. Then will you scold?"

of course.No matter who will, it's just export control or not.

Dongming nodded.

"The second sentence says you don't know how to curse in Chinese, that's natural."

Won't. "Good morning", "good evening" and so on can say three or five sentences, but they need to find a translator for cursing, so they can use it now.

So Dongming didn't say anything.

"The third sentence, 'Swearing is harsh in the army, and there are all kinds of foul language', isn't that true?"

That's natural.Seeing your comrade-in-arms being blown up in front of you, no matter how gentle a person opens his mouth, it won't be a good word.This has nothing to do with civilization level.Different cultures only lead to different scolding.

Dongming reluctantly nodded again: he turned victory into defeat.

"Okay then, which sentence should I say that you cursed people badly? No, no, no, no, no!"

Dongming thinks carefully and hard...it really isn't there!
Of course, Jiang Ling used some verbal art to mislead people.But Jiang Ling is busy shaking him and acting like a baby to him at the moment, how can Dongming resist it!

He could only give up the idea of ​​learning and playing now, and grunted in Igula.

The pronunciation is ambiguous and deviates too much and does not form a sentence at all, and the translator fails and does not work.Jiang Ling couldn't understand, but she could hear Dongming's tone clearly, so she didn't care: in fact, the words and sentences came second, and the accent of the tone was the key.

Just like when Chen Xuan said that Chen Xiang was "stupid", it's not scolding him, it's just a sentence to express his love.

If Hu Dongmei hadn't criticized Chen Xiang and Fang Min had corrected Chen Xiang, the old grandmother would not have opened her mouth to pursue this matter.

——Because the key point is that no matter what, adults cannot do it by themselves while asking children not to do it.

After all, children's thinking ability is still simple, one is one, two is two.If you want to implement the rule of "Dad can say it, you can't say it" with them, you will find a lot of "whys", and in the end you can only use "you are a child, he is an adult" as an excuse. The coercive force has suppressed it—the implicit meaning is that "big men are strong and can do whatever they want; children are weak and have no choice but to obey."

Of course that would be bad.Because if that's the case, when they grow up and grow taller, the first thing they think of is: Now I'm bigger and stronger, bigger than adults, I can do whatever I want, and I don't have to. Take care of them!
That's why, "I beat my son, and my son beats my father".

Children are blank slates, made by their parents, and scribbled by their parents.

Although like Jiang Fu'an, he also admits that Jiang Le's logic of "he bullies me, he treats Lele badly, so Lele doesn't treat him well, and Lele treats him badly" is correct, only teach Jiang Le to be generous, not to force Jiang Le Le apologizes to Yale, but this is different.

This is part of "repaying grievances with straightness and rewarding virtue with kindness".The old man Confucius said it a long time ago.But the previous one is "no fairness, no reason, just look at fists".

In the world of adults, fists are of course to be seen, but there are also fairness and reason.

In the children's world, if there is fairness and reason, they will have a basis to rely on, and a sense of security; as for fists, it is enough to know how to look at them—however, parents and relatives must not show them fists!
How can family members be enemies? !

There are also people who will teach fists first, then fairness and reason, or both.

But the old grandmother was not treated like this when she was a child, so the old grandmother did not, so neither did Hu Dongmei and Hu Haiyan.

Because, the purpose of all this is nothing else but the happiness of the child: with good things as a foundation, the child will live happily, open-minded, and have a clear disposition, and it will be easy for them to live well when they grow up.

So for Chen Xiang to be happy, Chen Xuan had to work harder.

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The two young couples split into two groups when they went back.

Chen Xuan and Fang Min went back to District No.12 to make cakes: the two little ones were full from sleep, and it was time for snacks.

Dongming and Jiang Ling went to District [-], to the small playground.

……

The small playground is continuous, and Yale's residence is naturally close to District [-].

When the two walked past Yale's residence, Dongming took a look at the house, and finally spoke to Jiang Ling: "I went back once. Igola." It's not that he forgot, he just didn't like to mention it.

Jiang Ling was looking carefully at the flowers and plants at the gate of Yale, trying to find traces of Jiang Le's "masterpiece".But the grass and trees had grown up long ago, and Jiang Ling only received a bunch of complaints... At this moment, Jiang Ling was startled when he heard the words: Dongming couldn't be happy to hear these words!

So Jiang Ling couldn't bear to ask what happened to Dongming's family, and was also worried, so he had to wait for Dongming to speak slowly, and then chose a safety question: "The year before last? When?"

Ke Dongming shook his head: "Last year. Last winter."

Jiang Ling was only an inch shorter: Woo!Security issues are not safe either!

Seeing Jiang Ling like this, Dongming was at a loss, and added, "It's winter here." Then he fell silent again.

Jiang Ling also fell silent, desperately recalling the contents of Igula's information bag: meeting parents, meeting parents, did they have the item "meeting parents"?
Then Jiang Ling suddenly realized that she had no memory - she hadn't seen it!
Jiang Ling was taken aback by the accident, and soon Jiang Ling became clear: There is a living person in front of him who can ask, why should he ask the dead?So Jiang Ling stopped in his tracks: "The rule in my hometown is that the two younger ones will go to visit their parents, and bring relatives, where are you?"

Dongming was all happy: "I will see you in general." After finishing speaking, he was a little dazed.

The temperature of these words is really not high.Jiang Ling had no choice but to ask carefully: "What do you mean by yourself? Of course I would like to meet, but if you don't like it, then it's okay to meet. However, if you don't care, or think it doesn't matter, why don't you meet? Let They, um, let parents know that we are doing well, so that the elderly can feel relieved and happy?"

Dongming didn't speak for a moment, then he muttered: "Happy?"

Jiang Lingyi wondered: Could it be that Dongming's parents are not happy to see him?Not so!Jiang Ling was worried, and asked cautiously: "What's wrong?"

Dongming thought for a while: "Probably." Immediately he nodded: "Yale said that my inability to stabilize may have something to do with this. When you can arrange your time, come back with me as soon as possible Well, it’s better to retreat as soon as possible. It will take two days including the journey.”

Jiang Ling: "..."

……

"what happened?"

"Do you want to show me to them, or do you want to retreat?"

"All."

"uh-huh."

"The latter one is more."

"Hmm!"

"You are my wife, not theirs. Do you want them to see it, or do you want me to see it?"

"...Well, I admit that this is true. However, it is still a bit weird."

"That's because you're used to it."

"what?"

"I'm used to my parents, and my grandmother. I'm used to this kind of family atmosphere. They are my parents, which are different from yours."

"..."

(End of this chapter)