Back to 80s: Hello, my husband!

Chapter 141
Not too many people came to congratulate the Bao family today, but not too few.

Most of them knew that the Bao family didn't hold a banquet today, so they came to congratulate them, exchanged pleasantries with the host's family, and then left.

But it also made the Bao family very tired.

Even if the children are tolerant, he used to stay up until eleven o'clock every night. Even after twelve o'clock, he was still full of energy, making a noise and wanting to play, but it's not even eight o'clock now. His eyelids kept fighting, and before Kong Mengwan took him to take a bath, Rong Rong curled up in Kong Mengwan's arms, snoring a little, sleeping soundly, no matter how much he pushed him, he would not wake up.

"Embrace him and go to bed. We'll do it tomorrow for hygiene and other things." Mrs. Bao said to Kong Mengwan.

Kong Mengwan was really too tired today, she didn't have the strength to do any work at all, even if she hugged and tolerated, her hands were trembling, so she asked Bao Zhilie to hug and tolerate, she rubbed her waist slowly, followed later.

Mrs. Bao sent Bao's father and Bao's mother away again.

Only Bao Zhigang and Zhu Zidong were left.

Mrs. Bao waved at Zhu Zidong.

Zhu Zidong sat obediently beside Mrs. Bao.

"Grandma." Zhu Zidong called out sweetly.

Mrs. Bao lovingly took Zhu Zidong's hands, put them on her knees, and asked Zhu Zidong, "How do you feel today? Tell me."

What does it feel like?
This question came a bit suddenly.

I don't know what Mrs. Bao meant by asking this question.

Zhu Zidong couldn't help being asked, he didn't know how to answer.

She subconsciously looked at Bao Zhigang.

Bao Zhigang knew old lady Bao's temperament, and understood that old lady Bao wanted to teach Zhu Zidong something when she asked Zhu Zidong, so he nodded at Zhu Zidong and encouraged her, saying, "You can say whatever you want. In front of grandma, there is no need to hide it."

Ok.

Zhu Zidong lowered his eyes and thought carefully, then raised his head and looked straight into Mrs. Bao's eyes, and said, "I'm quite confused."

"Confused?" Mrs. Bao never expected Zhu Zidong to answer like this.

Even the old man Bao and Bao Zhigang sitting next to him were stunned.

"Why are you confused? Is it because you are confused about the future?" Mrs. Bao glanced at Bao Zhigang and said.

Mrs. Bao thinks this is quite understandable.

After all, she was young too.

When I married old man Bao back then, I was also confused for a moment.

Confused about the future.

I'm also confused about how this couple should get along.

Zhu Zidong nodded and said, "Well, I'm confused about the future. However, more of it is that I don't know how to get along with others."

There are a lot of people here today.

She just memorized the other person's address and appearance, which was enough to make her tired.

Especially when getting along, she was quite frightened. She didn't know how to answer the other party's words, and she was afraid that if she said something wrong, it would embarrass the family, and even make people think that Bao Zhigang chose her as a wrong choice.

This made her really upset.

Bao Zhigang breathed a sigh of relief.

He thought the same as old lady Bao just now, thinking that Zhu Zidong was worried about their future.

This worry about the future shows that he does not have much confidence in him.

Now hearing Zhu Zidong's answer, Bao Zhigang knew that Zhu Zidong didn't doubt him because he was incapable of living a good life for her, but he was just worried that he couldn't keep up with him, and even worried that he would, because of some bad things about her, And doubted whether it was wrong to choose her.

This made Bao Zhigang feel distressed.

He held Zhu Zidong's other hand and encouraged her, "What's the matter? Who knows this and that at birth? Didn't they figure it out a little bit?" He gave an example of his own, "I went to junior high school. When I was young, I had a special temper. I felt that I was the second child. No one dared to be the number one. I pissed off my teachers and classmates, and no one liked me. At the beginning, I didn’t feel anything, I didn’t like it I don't like me, and I don't ask them to like me, but when I wanted to run for monitor, I realized how important it is to be liked. Slowly, my temper restrained. I know how to get along with people. However, no matter who it is, there are good and bad, and we can't blindly wrong ourselves and give in everywhere just to get along with people. "

In the last sentence, Bao Zhigang was worried that Zhu Zidong would put himself in a low position in order to get along with others in harmony.

Once this posture is low, some people will climb up the pole and step on people under their feet.

Good people are bullied.

No matter where you are, there are always such people.

Moreover, even if you put yourself in a very low position and allow this kind of person to step on you, this kind of person will not get along well with you.

They will only bully, bully and bully.

Therefore, if you want to live in harmony with others, you should not be too complacent, it is completely unnecessary.

All people are equal, no one is inferior to anyone else.

If you feel uncomfortable getting along with someone, there is no need to wrong yourself, it is better to separate in a hurry.

This is what Bao Zhigang told Zhu Zidong.

I also emphasized that even if it is someone from the Bao family who makes her uncomfortable, even if she has to live together every day, it is fine to be polite and not to quarrel, and not to quarrel. You don't have to force yourself to cater to her.

Mrs. Bao also agrees with Bao Zhigang's words very much.

She said to Zhu Zidong: "Sometimes people have to talk about fate, for example, some mothers and children, even if they have a deep blood relationship, but if they don't talk about one, they say no." We are together, but we can't insist on getting these people together for the sake of blood relationship. This will deepen the conflict between each other. It's better to stay far away and fulfill each other's responsibilities Now, this is the real way to get along, it doesn't mean that two people have to get along very intimately, and they can't live without each other before they get along."

Mrs. Bao's words made Zhu Zidong think of Chen Mingyan.

Indeed, to Zhu Baofu, Chen Mingyan was a mother who loved her son more.

It was the three older sisters. Even though Chen Mingyan didn't do a good job, she didn't train them much.

As for her, it was similar to being Chen Mingyan's enemy in her previous life. If she wasn't killed, Chen Mingyan would feel uncomfortable.

Such a mother.

Zhu Zidong never wanted to live in harmony with Chen Mingyan.

Then, she nodded to Mrs. Bao and said, "Yes, I understand, grandma."

He also smiled slightly at Bao Zhigang.

Mrs. Bao said again: "How to deal with human beings is a university question. It can't be learned in a short while. Even your grandfather and I are still learning at such an old age. How about you? Young people, don’t worry too much about how to learn, stabilize yourself first, and learn everything you need to learn. In normal times, keep your eyes brighter, your ears sharper, talk less, and carefully observe how others get along , you will learn slowly, if you encounter something you don’t understand, you can ask us at any time, we discuss with each other and make progress together.”

(End of this chapter)