Back to 80s: Hello, my husband!
Chapter 35
Chapter 35
but?
but what?
Bao Zhigang pricked up his ears to listen to Mrs. Bao's words behind her.
Mrs. Bao looked at Bao's father, Bao's mother, Bao Zhilie and Kong Mengwan, and then said to Bao Zhigang: "Who you marry is your own business. You have to bear it yourself, but you can't implicate your family members because of you, so that they can't live a peaceful life."
Bao Zhigang understood in seconds.
Grandma was worried that Zidong's natal family would harass his parents, brother and sister-in-law.
Especially brother and sister-in-law.
No matter how good my relationship with my brother was when I was young, it's different when we each start a family.
If the trivial matters in daily life are not handled well, it is easy for the two brothers who have a good relationship to become separated, or even turn against each other.
This is something no parent wants to see.
If such a situation really occurs, the parents will definitely not blame their son, but they will definitely vent their resentment on the daughter-in-law. At that time, the originally harmonious family will be in chaos.
And no matter how happy a couple is, they can't stand the toss of these things, and in the end they may be tossed and go their separate ways.
Bao Zhigang knew the seriousness of the matter, and quickly expressed his position: "Grandma, don't worry, my marriage is a happy thing, and I won't let the happy things make everyone unhappy."
Mrs. Bao said: "Since you have said that, then I have nothing else to say."
In other words, she has absolutely no opinion on Bao Zhigang's marriage to Zhu Zidong.
Mrs. Bao has always been the backbone of the family.
She has no opinion, and of course no one else has either.
This is how the three sessions of the trial ended.
Yao Zhangzhu witnessed the whole process of how Bao Zhigang persuaded his family to marry Zhu Zidong. She couldn't help standing next to Bao Zhigang with a face full of admiration, and gave him a thumbs up, saying: "You are really amazing!" , The crisis was resolved in a few words."
Then, with a pleading look on his face, he looked at Bao Zhigang eagerly, hoping that he could teach him.
She is 25 this year.
Now even Bao Zhigang, who is one year younger than him, is going to have a daughter-in-law, but her marriage is far away.
She couldn't help feeling a little anxious.
Bao Zhigang squinted at Yao Zhangzhu, and he could see what she was thinking at a glance.
But how could he intervene in such a matter!
Relationship is a matter between two people, and outsiders can't interfere.
Once interfered, it is easy to cause a backlash.
It can be seen that Yao Zhangzhu looked pitiful, and Bao Zhigang couldn't bear to refuse, so he reminded her: "Hong Kaixuan's parents died since he was a child, and he is an orphan, so he especially hopes to have a family, especially children, who like it very much. Just like our well-behaved Rong Rong. Every time you come to our house, you have the best time with Rong Rong."
He asked Rong Rong again: "Rong Rong, do you like Uncle Kaixuan? It's just like me, the uncle who throws you high."
Rong Rong has not remembered which uncle Kaixuan is.
But he likes to throw high.
Therefore, no matter who the uncle is, he hurriedly responded: "I like it! Rong Rong likes it!"
He also urged Bao Zhigang: "Uncle, throw it high! I want to throw it high!"
"Okay, I'll throw it high for you." Bao Zhigang stood up holding Rong Rong, put his hands under his creaking nest, and threw it up.
Rong Rong immediately laughed happily.
Looking at the tolerant and bright smiling face, Yao Zhangzhu was thoughtful.
Afterwards, she didn't know what to think of, her eyes suddenly lit up.
Right!
If you like someone, you have to do what you like.
Since Hong Kaixuan likes children, she will give him a few children.
Yao Zhangzhu clenched his lips firmly.
Then, thinking of something, Yao Zhangzhu's little face turned red, and she kept holding her face in her hands shyly.
Bao Zhigang was having fun with Rong Rong, so he didn't notice Yao Zhangzhu's abnormality at all.
He didn't expect that Yao Zhangzhu would think wrongly. What he said just now was just to let Yao Zhangzhu get along with Hong Kaixuan with tolerance when Hong Kaixuan came to their house, so that tolerance became the bond between the two of them. Blender.
This kind of tolerance will definitely bring the distance between the two of them closer.
"Okay, you uncles and nephews, stop fighting and come over for dinner." Mrs. Bao said tolerantly to Bao Zhigang.
Bao Zhigang walked towards the dinner table with tolerance in his arms.
After dinner, Bao's father and Bao's mother called Bao Zhigang to their room alone, taking advantage of no one's attention.
"Dad, Mom, what's the matter, so mysterious." Bao Zhigang asked Bao Dad and Bao Mom with a smile.
Papa Bao pointed to Mama Bao.
Bao Zhigang looked at Bao's mother.
Mother Bao took out a passbook from the box, handed it to Bao Zhigang, and said, "There is 1 yuan in it."
Bao Zhigang didn't answer, but looked at Bao's mother puzzled.
Mama Bao said: "Marriage is not a family affair, especially the Zhu family..." She wanted to say a few words that the Zhu family is too greedy, but then she thought that her youngest son loved the little daughter of the Zhu family so much. Zhigang didn't care, but she was worried that she would get used to speaking. When Zhu Zidong came in, she couldn't help saying something bad to Zhu's family, which would cause conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have conflicts.
That will definitely affect Zhigang's small family.
Moreover, it will also affect her eldest daughter-in-law, making the eldest daughter-in-law look down on the Zhu family from the bottom of her heart, which in turn arouses Zhu Zidong's dissatisfaction...
In short, if this chain reaction continues, everyone will not want to live a peaceful life.
Therefore, Bao Ma quickly swallowed the words that were on the tip of her tongue, and changed her words: "You have to give the betrothal gift from the Zhu family. I also need to help that Zidong buy the dowry, so that she can have a good time." Marry here. When your sister-in-law gets married, it is very lively, and it can't wait until you get married, and it will become deserted. "
Hearing what Bao Ma said, Bao Zhigang didn't want the money any more.
He said: "Mom, you can keep this money yourself. I have saved some money in the past few years. Besides, Zidong is only now, and he has not yet reached the legal age for marriage. He can't get a marriage certificate. I don't want to hold any banquets, so I just I want to take Zidong out of her home first, and transfer her household registration to ours."
"What, you don't want to host a banquet?" Mama Bao frowned and asked.
Bao's father also had a disapproving expression on his face, and said, "What's the matter with you two? Isn't your name wrong and your words wrong?"
"That's right, Zhigang, what do you think!" Bao's mother was very puzzled.
When Zhigang was arguing with Mrs. Bao before, it was to marry Zhu Zidong.
Now that they agree, why don't they hold banquets?
Holding a banquet for rural people is like holding a marriage certificate. In everyone's eyes, even if there is no marriage certificate, they will be regarded as husband and wife.
Just as he was puzzled, there was a knock on the door, "Dad, Mom, are you in the house? I have something to ask you."
This is the voice of Kong Mengwan, the eldest daughter-in-law.
Bao Ma subconsciously stuffed the passbook into Bao Zhigang's trouser pocket and warned him not to take it out again.
(End of this chapter)
but?
but what?
Bao Zhigang pricked up his ears to listen to Mrs. Bao's words behind her.
Mrs. Bao looked at Bao's father, Bao's mother, Bao Zhilie and Kong Mengwan, and then said to Bao Zhigang: "Who you marry is your own business. You have to bear it yourself, but you can't implicate your family members because of you, so that they can't live a peaceful life."
Bao Zhigang understood in seconds.
Grandma was worried that Zidong's natal family would harass his parents, brother and sister-in-law.
Especially brother and sister-in-law.
No matter how good my relationship with my brother was when I was young, it's different when we each start a family.
If the trivial matters in daily life are not handled well, it is easy for the two brothers who have a good relationship to become separated, or even turn against each other.
This is something no parent wants to see.
If such a situation really occurs, the parents will definitely not blame their son, but they will definitely vent their resentment on the daughter-in-law. At that time, the originally harmonious family will be in chaos.
And no matter how happy a couple is, they can't stand the toss of these things, and in the end they may be tossed and go their separate ways.
Bao Zhigang knew the seriousness of the matter, and quickly expressed his position: "Grandma, don't worry, my marriage is a happy thing, and I won't let the happy things make everyone unhappy."
Mrs. Bao said: "Since you have said that, then I have nothing else to say."
In other words, she has absolutely no opinion on Bao Zhigang's marriage to Zhu Zidong.
Mrs. Bao has always been the backbone of the family.
She has no opinion, and of course no one else has either.
This is how the three sessions of the trial ended.
Yao Zhangzhu witnessed the whole process of how Bao Zhigang persuaded his family to marry Zhu Zidong. She couldn't help standing next to Bao Zhigang with a face full of admiration, and gave him a thumbs up, saying: "You are really amazing!" , The crisis was resolved in a few words."
Then, with a pleading look on his face, he looked at Bao Zhigang eagerly, hoping that he could teach him.
She is 25 this year.
Now even Bao Zhigang, who is one year younger than him, is going to have a daughter-in-law, but her marriage is far away.
She couldn't help feeling a little anxious.
Bao Zhigang squinted at Yao Zhangzhu, and he could see what she was thinking at a glance.
But how could he intervene in such a matter!
Relationship is a matter between two people, and outsiders can't interfere.
Once interfered, it is easy to cause a backlash.
It can be seen that Yao Zhangzhu looked pitiful, and Bao Zhigang couldn't bear to refuse, so he reminded her: "Hong Kaixuan's parents died since he was a child, and he is an orphan, so he especially hopes to have a family, especially children, who like it very much. Just like our well-behaved Rong Rong. Every time you come to our house, you have the best time with Rong Rong."
He asked Rong Rong again: "Rong Rong, do you like Uncle Kaixuan? It's just like me, the uncle who throws you high."
Rong Rong has not remembered which uncle Kaixuan is.
But he likes to throw high.
Therefore, no matter who the uncle is, he hurriedly responded: "I like it! Rong Rong likes it!"
He also urged Bao Zhigang: "Uncle, throw it high! I want to throw it high!"
"Okay, I'll throw it high for you." Bao Zhigang stood up holding Rong Rong, put his hands under his creaking nest, and threw it up.
Rong Rong immediately laughed happily.
Looking at the tolerant and bright smiling face, Yao Zhangzhu was thoughtful.
Afterwards, she didn't know what to think of, her eyes suddenly lit up.
Right!
If you like someone, you have to do what you like.
Since Hong Kaixuan likes children, she will give him a few children.
Yao Zhangzhu clenched his lips firmly.
Then, thinking of something, Yao Zhangzhu's little face turned red, and she kept holding her face in her hands shyly.
Bao Zhigang was having fun with Rong Rong, so he didn't notice Yao Zhangzhu's abnormality at all.
He didn't expect that Yao Zhangzhu would think wrongly. What he said just now was just to let Yao Zhangzhu get along with Hong Kaixuan with tolerance when Hong Kaixuan came to their house, so that tolerance became the bond between the two of them. Blender.
This kind of tolerance will definitely bring the distance between the two of them closer.
"Okay, you uncles and nephews, stop fighting and come over for dinner." Mrs. Bao said tolerantly to Bao Zhigang.
Bao Zhigang walked towards the dinner table with tolerance in his arms.
After dinner, Bao's father and Bao's mother called Bao Zhigang to their room alone, taking advantage of no one's attention.
"Dad, Mom, what's the matter, so mysterious." Bao Zhigang asked Bao Dad and Bao Mom with a smile.
Papa Bao pointed to Mama Bao.
Bao Zhigang looked at Bao's mother.
Mother Bao took out a passbook from the box, handed it to Bao Zhigang, and said, "There is 1 yuan in it."
Bao Zhigang didn't answer, but looked at Bao's mother puzzled.
Mama Bao said: "Marriage is not a family affair, especially the Zhu family..." She wanted to say a few words that the Zhu family is too greedy, but then she thought that her youngest son loved the little daughter of the Zhu family so much. Zhigang didn't care, but she was worried that she would get used to speaking. When Zhu Zidong came in, she couldn't help saying something bad to Zhu's family, which would cause conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have conflicts.
That will definitely affect Zhigang's small family.
Moreover, it will also affect her eldest daughter-in-law, making the eldest daughter-in-law look down on the Zhu family from the bottom of her heart, which in turn arouses Zhu Zidong's dissatisfaction...
In short, if this chain reaction continues, everyone will not want to live a peaceful life.
Therefore, Bao Ma quickly swallowed the words that were on the tip of her tongue, and changed her words: "You have to give the betrothal gift from the Zhu family. I also need to help that Zidong buy the dowry, so that she can have a good time." Marry here. When your sister-in-law gets married, it is very lively, and it can't wait until you get married, and it will become deserted. "
Hearing what Bao Ma said, Bao Zhigang didn't want the money any more.
He said: "Mom, you can keep this money yourself. I have saved some money in the past few years. Besides, Zidong is only now, and he has not yet reached the legal age for marriage. He can't get a marriage certificate. I don't want to hold any banquets, so I just I want to take Zidong out of her home first, and transfer her household registration to ours."
"What, you don't want to host a banquet?" Mama Bao frowned and asked.
Bao's father also had a disapproving expression on his face, and said, "What's the matter with you two? Isn't your name wrong and your words wrong?"
"That's right, Zhigang, what do you think!" Bao's mother was very puzzled.
When Zhigang was arguing with Mrs. Bao before, it was to marry Zhu Zidong.
Now that they agree, why don't they hold banquets?
Holding a banquet for rural people is like holding a marriage certificate. In everyone's eyes, even if there is no marriage certificate, they will be regarded as husband and wife.
Just as he was puzzled, there was a knock on the door, "Dad, Mom, are you in the house? I have something to ask you."
This is the voice of Kong Mengwan, the eldest daughter-in-law.
Bao Ma subconsciously stuffed the passbook into Bao Zhigang's trouser pocket and warned him not to take it out again.
(End of this chapter)
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