The sweet wife of the doctor is a big shot

Chapter 57 A Brainless Woman in Love (Part [-])

Because of Li Shu's propaganda, Bai Cardamom became that "brainless woman in love"!
White cardamom really admires the brains of the people who eat melons...

After the Dragon Boat Festival, Bai Doukou ushered in the last night shift of caesarean section this month. After finishing this one, she was liberated. She took a one-month shift and then went back to work in the delivery room. Doula classes and late night shifts took turns. She had at least She didn't have to go to the operating room for a caesarean section for half a year, which meant that she could stay away from the operating room that was in conflict with her. Thinking about it, she felt extremely happy!

While catching up on sleep during the day, Bai Doukou received a call from her second aunt, Li Xiaping, at around [-]:[-] noon, and was told that her cousin Qiao Shan was in labor pains.

Bai Doukou got up from the bed, left a note for Nianhua, and rushed to the hospital to accompany the delivery.

Qiao Shan is giving birth to her second child, and the first child is already 15 years old. The interval between the first child and the second child is relatively long, and she herself is an elderly woman over 40 years old. Therefore, after the spontaneous onset, the labor process progressed But not fast.

Li Yuanbao was in charge of delivering the baby to Qiao Shan Doula. When she saw that Bai Doukou had entered the waiting room to accompany the delivery, she was overjoyed. She pulled Bai Doukou aside and whispered, "Dabai, kiss your cousin. This student will do whatever he wants." You pick it up yourself!"

"Let's see the situation! I'll take over if I can. I'll go to the operating room to take over at 05:30!" Naturally, Bai Doukou knew that Li Yuanbao wanted to take the opportunity to be lazy, but she couldn't shirk it as time allowed, so Li Xiaping called her to accompany the delivery , is to trust her performance more.

Bai Cardamom accompanied Qiao Shan to and fro in the waiting room, sat on a doula ball, chatted with her, told her jokes, gave her a massage, taught her the Ramze breathing method, fed her with water, urged her to urinate...

At three o'clock in the afternoon, Bai Cardamom performed an internal examination on Qiao Shan, and found that the cervix was still three centimeters, and there was no progress in two hours.

Bai Cardamom reported to Qian Yu, the doctor in charge of the bed, and then artificially ruptured the membranes on Qiao Shan according to the doctor's instructions.

After 10 minutes of artificial membrane rupture, Qiao Shan's uterine contractions were significantly stronger, and the effective duration of contractions increased. However, Qiao Shan's pain was also more obvious, and she couldn't stand it anymore...

"Doudou, I can't take it anymore. I want to take an anesthetic. Can you help me find a doctor?" Qiao Shan begged.

Qiao Shan is an elderly woman, over 40 years old, her physical function is not as good as that of a young woman in her 20s, and her ability to bear pain is not as strong as that of a young woman.

Bai Cardamom advised her to have painless childbirth from the very beginning, but Qiao Shan's in-laws did not dare to sign after hearing the possible risks of anesthesia mentioned in the anesthesia consent form, and Qiao Shan's husband was out of town and had not yet After rushing back, Qiao Shan's mother, Li Xiaping, was not good at making the decision. Qiao Shan herself didn't have the courage to sign the contract. She was afraid of running into the slight risk and could not explain to her husband's family. Therefore, the matter of painless childbirth was shelved.

Such cases are not uncommon in the obstetrics department. The mothers who gave birth naturally were tortured to death by contractions and were "dying to death", but the mothers of the mothers were afraid of taking the risk of painless delivery. Willing to sign a consent form to relieve the pain of the pregnant woman.Although the mother's family loves their daughter, but because of the consideration of the daughter's future status and treatment in her husband's family, they have to act like rats, wanting to do it but can't.

In fact, the risk of painless childbirth is really small, and the anesthetist operates according to the regular procedures, and the risk will be reduced to even smaller.

What patients and their families want is 100% safety and 100% cure, but such "100%" cannot be given by any hospital or miracle doctor.

Moreover, in today's tense doctor-patient relationship, doctors and nurses can't even mention the concept of "100%"...

Bai Doukou conveyed Qiao Shan's opinion to her parents-in-law who were guarding outside the delivery room. She mainly talked about Qiao Shan's painful and difficult situation at this time, and hoped that Qiao Shan's parents-in-law would sign for her to agree to anesthesia out of pity.

Qiao Shan's parents-in-law hesitated for a long time but failed to make a decision. Bai Doukou had to wait patiently, while her second aunt Li Xiaping was anxious, but still did not express her opinion.

Li Xiaping loves her daughter dearly, but she knows that she cannot interfere in her daughter's family affairs. She has lived most of her life as a daughter, wife and mother, and has experienced all kinds of life, so she understands the helplessness of being a woman better.

The birth of a child is not just a matter of a small family, but a matter of three big families, and the mother's family is the most humble of them.

While waiting for Qiao Shan's parents-in-law to make a decision, the more Bai Doukou waited, the more intense the fire in her heart burned.In the obstetrics department, she has seen so many different kinds of people, and her heart is numb.

To get anesthesia, there are so many sophistication, ethics and morality. The traditional Chinese women's "male superiority" and "slavery" are the culprits that are deeply rooted in their consciousness.

Men are happy for a while, but women not only have to endure the hardships of being pregnant for ten months, but also have to go through the hell of childbirth.

As the old saying goes, a woman giving birth to a child is equivalent to only separating a piece of paper from the king of hell.Life hangs by a thread, and life and death are in an instant.

A woman is willing to experience life and death for her husband, but her husband's family is not willing to take that tiny risk for this woman!

Ridiculous and scary!
Nianhua's phone call interrupted Bai Doukou's angry thoughts.

"Why?" The anger in Bai Cardamom's heart still persisted, and her tone could not help but be tainted with anger.

"Xiaobai, has your cousin given birth?" Nianhua on the other end of the phone heard Bai Doukou's anger, and asked softly.

"No! Do you have anything to do with me?" Bai Cardamom said impatiently.

"Xiaobai, do you need my help?"

"How can you help!" Bai Doukou bluntly refused, then after thinking about it, he said: "If you want to be okay, you can come here. My sister wants to be beaten without pain, and the family members haven't signed it yet. Wait until I finish signing." Go and inform the person on duty in the anesthesiology department, it may not be so fast, come on! Come on!"

"Okay! I'll be there soon!" Nianhua hung up the phone with a smile. This feeling of being needed made him very happy.

……

Bai Doukou led Qiao Shan's mother-in-law to the waiting room to see her pain and uneasiness. After a long discussion between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Qiao Shan finally convinced her mother-in-law.

When Nianhua arrived at the delivery room office, Qiao Shan's father-in-law had just finished signing the anesthesia consent form.

Bai Doukou immediately led Nianhua into the waiting room and assisted him in the preparations. The two of them quickly divided the labor and cooperated...

Ten minutes later, Qiao Shan's painless labor was completed. The anesthetic slowly took effect, and Qiao Shan's uterine contraction pain became weaker and weaker. With a hoarse voice, she said weakly, "Finally alive!"

If he could have made the decision to sign earlier, Qiao Shan would not have needed the extra two hours of pain. The extra two hours of pain were in vain!

After Qiao Shan was pain-free, Bai Cardamom suggested that she sleep first to recover the energy consumed by enduring the pain before, and Qiao Shan was very cooperative.

Bai Doukou led her second aunt Li Xiaping into the waiting room and asked her to accompany her daughter.The waiting room of the delivery room stipulates that a mother is only allowed to be accompanied by one family member, so Bai Doukou left the delivery room and went to the delivery room office.

Nianhua was writing anesthesia records in front of the computer in the delivery room office. Li Yuanbao and Jin Canlan were lying on the desk more than one meter away from Nianhua the next day, staring at Nianhua and asking gossip.

"Brother-in-law, I met our well-known parents unexpectedly, how do you feel?" Li Yuanbao took a copy of "Obstetrics and Gynecology" and rolled it into a cylinder, using it as a microphone, and stretched it out in front of Nianhua.

"It means that Xiaobai trusts me very much." Nianhua didn't look sideways, and his subordinates kept working, but he was focused on two things.

"Brother-in-law, what do you think about what Concubine Shu said, she is a woman who has no brains in love?" Jin Canlan snatched the "microphone" from Li Yuanbao's hand, and asked.

"I said, I don't dislike Xiaobai." Nianhua replied again.

"Brother-in-law, it's said on the Internet that the IQ of a boy follows the mother's, and the IQ of a girl follows the father. You must take it easy. I wish you a daughter!" Li Yuanbao said excitedly.

"Dabao, what if you have twins?" Jin Canlan grasped the loophole and asked puzzledly.

"At times like this, it depends on whose genes are stronger, brother-in-law god, I still support you more!" Li Yuanbao continued to show his determination doggedly.

Bai Cardamom rested her forehead and sighed, when will her days of "being right" end?
"Dabao, have you written the prenatal records? Have you drawn pictures of the birth process? Have you signed the doctor's order?" Bai Doukou grabbed Li Yuanbao's ear, aimed at her ear, and shouted loudly.

"I'll go right away! I'll go right away!" Li Yuanbao slipped away covering his ears embarrassingly.

Jin Canlan slipped away with Li Yuanbao knowing the times...

"Nianhua, thank you!" Bai Doukou pulled up a chair and sat down beside Nianhua.

"You and I don't need to be so alien." Nianhua's gaze shifted from the computer screen to Bai Doukou's face, and he looked at her with a smile, "Xiaobai, why are you unhappy? Can you tell me about it?" ?”

"It's not a big deal, it's just that my sister-in-law's family refused to sign for her to do painless treatment before, and my brother-in-law hasn't come back yet. Seeing my sister helpless, my second aunt is distressed and helpless, so I feel irritable Get up, the tone on the phone was bad, don't mind." Bai Doukou explained seriously, and apologized to Nianhua.

"Every family has their own special situation. As a bystander, just give advice. Their choices are the result of their own choices. You can't interfere. Just try your best to complete your own duties. Don't worry too much. Think, don't make yourself too tired." Nianhua softly enlightened and comforted Bai Doukou, he stretched out his hand and stroked Bai Doukou's head, seeming to appease and cherish.

"I understand what you said, but I just feel wronged for my sister and feel worthless for her! She is over forty years old, and she worked hard to conceive for ten months just to give birth to a son for her husband. The risk of a child is inherently greater, and she is willing to risk her life to have a child, but her husband and family, because they are worried that the negligible risk of anesthesia will affect the unborn child, watched my sister suffer severe pain It's ironic! It's ridiculous! If I knew I was going to face such a situation, I shouldn't have made up my mind to have a second child! And my brother-in-law, no one is around at the critical moment, what's the use of such a husband!" Bai Doukou said The more excited you are, the more angry you become.

Nianhua patted Bai Doukou on the back lightly, and calmed down for her, "Since ancient times, the greatness and selflessness of women has been ignored by many men, but civilization is progressing, you have to believe that today is better than yesterday, and tomorrow will be better than today Well, in the future, more and more men will pay attention to this problem. Xiaobai, anger can’t solve the problem. The most important thing between people is communication. Your sister’s painless fight, although delayed Time, but in the end, her in-laws were still persuaded by you! This is the result of your effective communication! As for your brother-in-law, I think he went out to work to earn more money to support the family. It is indeed abhorrent to accompany a wife during childbirth, but it is justifiable, and every family has its own sorrows and pains, which cannot be generalized."

After listening to Nianhua's words, Bai Doukou thought about it carefully and found that it really made sense.

"I understand the truth, but it's not rational enough when something really happens." Bai Doukou explained.

"Xiaobai, you have done a good job. In front of your sister and her family, your emotions are stable and your performance is very professional. You only vent your suppressed emotions in private. This way of doing things is already Very mature performance!" Nianhua praised sincerely.

"It's the first time I've heard someone comment on me like this!" Bai Cardamom exclaimed.

"Xiaobai, when you encounter grievances and anger in the future, don't hold back in your heart. Let it out like today, and your mood will be much smoother, you know? I am willing to be your confidant, and you can tell me anything .”

"I found that you are indeed an excellent person to confide in!" White Cardamom agreed very much.

"Xiaobai, there is one more thing. I am different from your brother-in-law, and my parents are also different from your brother-in-law's parents, so you can rest assured that the things you are worried about will never happen if you marry into my family! "

"..." Caught off guard and being confessed by Nian Hua again, Bai Dou Kou was speechless.

　Recently, Nianhua's firepower has been a little fierce...

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