Reborn spicy little daughter-in-law

Chapter 649 Maternal No Dignity ([-])
Kou Xi was stunned for a moment, unable to digest Kou Xingyu's words.

"We have a psychology department in our hospital. Sometimes the children are not emotional and the parents will bring them here when they realize that the child has a psychological problem. But so far, most of them have been reminded by a third party to see the doctor." Kou Xingyu watched Looking at Kou Xi, he showed a wry smile: "Although I am not a doctor in that department, I have heard many cases. Let me tell you, many parents are not aware of what is called 'psychological pressure'. The word puberty is also used recently. It has only appeared in the society for a few years. That is because there are always a few suicides among children in junior high and high schools this year, which has aroused the attention of the school. When the school raises this word at the parent meeting, some parents will pay attention to it. , but more of a scoff.”

"Actually, the psychological problems of teenagers have existed for a long time. We both felt sorry for one thing before." Jiang Yan took over the conversation and said to Kou Xi and his wife: "A mother and daughter came to the hospital for treatment. Diagnosed with depression. Because she has been excluded by her classmates for a long time in school, and because she does not study well, the teacher will not pay attention to her. Over time, her academic performance is even worse, and she is tired of studying, cynical, indifferent, and various emotions. I don’t know. This parent came to the hospital to see a doctor after hearing what someone said. After being diagnosed, he yelled at his daughter in the corridor, 'Why don't you die', 'Narrow-minded and unpromising', 'Careful and can't think about it', 'Why don't classmates reject others Just squeeze you out, you still have a problem'."

Kou Xi frowned and couldn't help but said: "How can you say that about the child? The child is already depressed, and I want to stimulate her like this. If this is the case, I will immediately suspend the child from school for a year and take her around to relax. Buy some books to explore her interests. After a year, if the child is willing to return to school, he can transfer to a new environment."

She looked at Jiang Yan: "How did that parent do it?"

Jiang Yan looked at Kou Xi with a look of regret: "The child may have been strongly stimulated when he saw his own mother treat him like this. He jumped directly from the window at the top of the stairs and died on the spot. The child's mother was stupid at the time. I'm out of breath crying."

Kou Xi suddenly thought of Huo Xinyu, and after looking at Gu Chen, he couldn't help asking: "Did the parents use this to touch porcelain?"

Jiang Yan shook her head: "I just registered to ask about it. I didn't get an injection, took medicine, or was hospitalized. I can't blame the hospital at all, and the medical record says 'relieve the mood, parents don't put pressure on the child'. She couldn't control herself. Insulting children, how can there be licking their faces and extorting money."

She curled her lips disapprovingly: "Actually, let me tell you, there are many examples in the obstetrics and gynecology department. Oh, you don't know, our hospital often has a daughter who is abandoned after giving birth. I can find a swaddling baby in every corner. Especially in the past two years, every hospital has recommended a caesarean section, and the price must be more expensive than a normal delivery. There are many more cases of this kind, and our doctors and nurses can’t stop being angry every day.”

The more the topic got closer to Kou Xi's question, Gu Chen pretended to be curious: "It's a good thing to have children, is it because of things like having boys and girls that something is wrong?"

"There are many, many, even if it is a normal delivery, the newborn will not be released together with the mother. Because we have to do post-processing, some mothers need stitches, so they will be released later. It often happens that the mothers who are released have no family management. All the family members left with the child. There were quite a few people who fought in the ward, hey, I got angry when I talked about it." Jiang Yan said, covering her heart, looking very annoyed.

"Fortunately, Xingyu is also a doctor. I don't think you will be like this at the time. And when you give birth, uncles and aunts should be by your side." Kou Xi smiled and looked at Jiang Yan: "It's hard for an upright official to break up housework, don't Say that in your hospital, even ordinary people like us have seen a lot of them."

Kou Xi looked at the two couples in front of him: "I didn't have any experience before, and I relied on my sister to help me when I gave birth to Mi Le. Now I pay attention to scientific parenting. When I was in Hong Kong, I found that there are professional babysitters there. .Now there are regular lectures like this in Shenyang Hospital, and I have listened to them a few times and it is very useful.”

"What's the use of being useful? I'm still a specialist doctor, and people don't listen to what I said to his mother. In person, what should I do behind the scenes?" Jiang Yan knew that Kou Xi wanted to let her My own mother-in-law went to take care of her confinement.

Having reached this point, I simply revealed all my grievances: "I tell you, listen to me, it is a hundred times better to hire someone to take care of you than to take care of you by your own parents. Because people will take your money Do things according to your requirements. Later, I will give you a list of confinement meals, and you ask the nanny to cook for you according to the above menu."

"Confinement meal?" Is there a standard confinement meal in this era?Kou Xi was very surprised. She always thought that it would take at least ten years before professional "maternity sisters" and "confinement meals" would appear.

"I had a caesarean section, and the confinement meals are different from those of a normal delivery. But, alas, at this point, I should speak ill of my mother-in-law again." Jiang Yan glanced at her husband sitting next to her, and sighed: " I know that it is a matter of affection for people to take care of me, and I can eat whatever I do. There is no need to make any demands, but I say from the bottom of my heart, I also cook. Shouldn’t my needs be the main priority? Who is confinement for? Isn’t it for pregnant women?”

"My mother-in-law is pretty good. She brought over a dozen chickens from the countryside. After I gave birth, my father-in-law also brought a dozen old hens. They raised them specially in the countryside when I was pregnant. But, you Is it necessary to say one chicken a day? And a bowl of chicken soup with thick oil and water every day, without a single bit of salt. It’s all oil. Even millet porridge is soaked in chicken soup for me to eat.”

Kou Xi also had a confinement period, and the millet porridge and chicken soup he ate during the confinement period were also like this.It's just that it was Wang Yazhi who came to cook at that time, and she would cook something delicious for her.Especially the millet porridge, with red dates and brown sugar in it, the sweet taste whetted her appetite.

"Five meals a day, three meals of noodles and two meals of millet porridge with chicken soup in the middle. The codonopsis, astragalus, and gastrodia elata that my mother prepared for me, the old lady didn't put any. Tell her not to make such greasy chicken soup, she still thinks I I bullied her with my mother. They said I was picky, that it would be good if I had chickens, and others would not be able to eat them if they wanted to."

"I had a low-grade fever after giving birth, and I had to drink warm water every day to save myself physically. She got angry at me when I didn't have enough milk. She blamed me for refusing to eat pig's trotters, saying that I didn't eat meat so I had no milk." Speaking of her mother-in-law, Jiang Yan was full of grievances.

"Later, my mother and Xingyu both went out to work, and we lived a life like hell at home. She hugged my daughter every day and whispered at her face to face. The saliva was sprayed on the child's face, and she must Kissed the child's mouth dozens of times. After a few days of my fever subsided, my value was immediately reflected. No matter the time, no greetings, I pushed the door and opened my clothes and put the child on my chest Resentment. When I am breastfeeding, I must"

Speaking of this, Jiang Yan realized that there was a 'brother-in-law' Gu Chen in the room.She closed her mouth annoyed, and turned her face to the side sullenly.

(End of this chapter)