The fierce wife is the happy head of the family

Chapter 21 Mother Lin's Teachings

Mrs. Lin has her own way to manage the Lin family so well.

"Mother, I'm listening!" Tang Qinglu listened to Mrs. Lin's instruction very seriously.

Madam Lin stood up, followed by Tang Qinglu.Mrs. Lin took her to sit outside, "Qinglu, if the Tang family objects to this marriage, this marriage may not be possible. If that's the case, don't be depressed. Pick a good one. No matter whether he is rich or poor, people are like everything else." Strong. If you marry a small family, where the rules are not many but rigid, you have to smile all the time, talk to your husband more, agree with his ideas more, talk and laugh to make your life happy and happy. Life is also happy. "

"Well, I know." Tang Qinglu understood that sometimes in life she couldn't help but choose.

"If you marry a poor family, don't be angry. The leader in the family, the helper in the field, the neighbors come and laugh, and some people scold you back. Someone comes to make trouble, don't care who he is, with two hands , take a knife or a stick and blow them out."

Mrs. Lin took all possible possibilities into consideration.

Tang Qinglu was so moved, she buried herself in Mrs. Lin's arms, "Mother, I remember everything you said, don't worry, I will definitely live a good life."

"I wanted to tell you these truths a long time ago, but I forgot them in a hurry." Mrs. Lin said calmly, "But, what I just said, you don't need it anymore. Wenqian is good, and the Zhou family is also good. , if you can get married, I'm not worried at all."

"Mother, I can tell my children about your reasons in the future!" Tang Qinglu looked at Mrs. Lin with a smile.Mrs. Lin smiled happily.

"Mother, Qinglu, are you alright?" Lin Zhimei rushed in.If Liu Gongrong hadn't been pulling her, she would have rushed over a long time ago.

"What's the matter with us?" Mrs. Lin raised her eyes, and she was puzzled. She taught all the girls of the Lin family very well, but this biological Lin Zhimei, no matter how she taught her, she taught them the same way.

Lin Zhimei sat down and grabbed Tang Qinglu's hand, "Qinglu, did Mrs. Gao make things difficult for you?"

"No!" Tang Qinglu was very grateful.

"No?" Lin Zhimei said to herself, "I heard people say that Mrs. Gao would sarcasm everyone she saw. She didn't make things difficult for you. This is not her style."

"Zhimei, sit on Mother's side!" Mrs. Lin shouted majestically.

Lin Zhimei sat down obediently, "Mom, what do you want to say?"

Mrs. Lin grabbed her hand, "Zhimei, you must remember that you are married, there are some things that I couldn't say before, but now I must say them."

"What?" Lin Zhimei was curious.Tang Qinglu was equally curious.

Children from other people's homes are afraid to be with their parents, because the parents often say that they are right in an unquestionable tone.The Lin family is different, including the children born in the concubine's room, they are willing to listen to Mrs. Lin's reasoning, because it is good for them.In the past, those concubines often urged their children to listen to Mrs. Lin's teachings.

"Zhimei, you are newly married, and with our family, the Liu family will pamper you and tolerate your arbitrary actions." Mrs. Lin said softly, "For two years, three years, four years, they can let you go. It’s hard to say. If you don’t want to respectfully bring home one woman after another, you have to take care of the house, and your mother taught you everything, so you have to do it!”

Before Lin Jingtang married Mrs. Lin, he already had several concubines, and Mrs. Lin had no choice but to accept it.If her parents hadn't forced her, she might not have married Lin Jingtang.

"Mother, Gong Rong promised me that she would not marry a concubine." Lin Zhimei retorted.

"Zhimei, you are going to piss me off!" Mrs. Lin patted the table lightly.

Lin Zhimei knew that Mrs. Lin was going to lose her temper. She glanced at Tang Qinglu, who spread her hands to express her powerlessness.Mrs. Lin lost her temper, and no one could stop her.However, Mrs. Lin seldom loses her temper.

Mrs. Lin let out a sigh of relief and said calmly, "When your little uncle married your little aunt, he swore to the ancestral hall that he would never take concubines in his life. Now, he does not take concubines, but, Look at the outer rooms, each one is more enchanting than the other, your aunt Xiaotang often complains to me, last month both of them were injured in fights, the old man thinks they are unlucky, so he won't let them come to the birthday banquet."

"When you like it, you can make vows and vows, and sweet words are kind, but once you get tired, everything will be like smoke!" Mrs. Lin said softly, "Your little uncle is a rare good man. He can change, and you can Are you sure Gong Rong won't change?"

"I……"

"Zhimei, this society is especially unfair to women. If men and women are equal in our world, I don't care what you do. But the reality is not, sometimes you have to bow your head." Mrs. Lin pushed Lin Zhimei, "Take good care of your home, be filial to your parents-in-law, and take care of your children. Why don't you worry about it? You're not a fool, you can do well, why don't you do it?"

"Mother, I understand." It was the first time for Lin Zhimei to seriously consider her marriage, and she also understood that Mrs. Lin was right.

Tang Qinglu accidentally touched Lin Zhimei's hand, which was icy cold. She looked at Mrs. Lin with distress and said, "Mother, you frightened my sister!"

"Zhimei!" Mrs. Lin realized that she had spoken harshly, she grabbed Lin Zhimei's hand and breathed out, "What mother said scared you, I believe Gong Rong will treat you well, if he treats you badly, you Come back and tell us that your parents will not let you be wronged, your brother will help you, and your sisters are also very kind to you!"

"Mother, you said that you have to rely on yourself for everything. Brothers and sisters can't help you for a lifetime. I will definitely do my duty as a wife." Lin Zhimei figured it out. She was indeed lazy after marrying into Liu's family.

Some time ago, Lin Zhimei's maid told her that some servants of the Liu family were secretly discussing that the young lady of the main family was too lazy. At that time, she didn't care. Madam Lin said that she thought the problem was serious.

"Maybe Mother is thinking too much!" Mrs. Lin relieved, "I have been busy with grandpa's birthday banquet these past few months, and my mind has not stopped."

"Mother, you said this is for our own good." Lin Zhimei said and looked at Tang Qinglu, who nodded desperately.

"Of course, truth is dead, but people are alive. It's good to know how to be flexible." Mrs. Lin persuaded again, she was afraid that the children would be nervous if they just listened to her, and they would not enjoy some fun.

"We understand." Lin Zhimei and Tang Qinglu nodded.

"Okay, it's getting late. Go back!" Mrs. Lin yawned.

"Okay!" The sisters got up and left.As soon as the sisters left the yard, they felt much clearer.

"Qinglu, tell me, mother, why does she know so much?" Lin Zhimei was puzzled, "I never heard from my grandpa and grandma that she had met a worldly expert!"

"My mother came from a wealthy family. She faced all kinds of struggles every day and narrowly escaped death many times. Grandma said that it was a miracle that she survived. She realized some truths when she saw a lot. She didn't want us to take detours, so she told us We're here." Tang Qinglu explained.

When Mrs. Lin was a girl, she saw all kinds of dirty things. After marrying Lin Jingtang, she relied on her mother's teachings and her own courage to secure her position.She has come to this point today, her husband and wife follow suit, and outsiders see it as easy, but only she knows how difficult it is.

"We need to listen to mother more." Lin Zhimei was so distressed that she recalled the story her grandmother told.

"Hmm!" Tang Qinglu was equally sad.

(End of this chapter)