The fierce wife is the happy head of the family

Chapter 240 Not as Simple as You Think

On the way back, Chen Lihua expressed that she was willing to marry Liu Li. She felt that the Liu family was easy to get along with, so she said to Mrs. Lin, "Sister Suping, I think this family is pretty good!"

Mrs. Lin didn't respond, but looked back at Qinglu, "Qinglu, what do you think?"

Qinglu was stunned for a moment, then smiled and said, "Qinglu is young, she can't read people, so I asked my mother to analyze it." She made a clean push and gave Mrs. Lin a face boost.

"We'll talk about this when we go back!" Madam Lin looked forward, he didn't want to discuss a family in front of a man, that would make her too gossip.

"Yeah!" Everyone responded.

Liu's residence was not too far away, they went back soon, Mrs. Lin brought Qinglu, Gao Douer and Chen Lihua into the room and closed the door.

"Ewha, the Liu family is not as simple as you think!" Mrs. Lin said straight to the point, "It's easy to get along with them even if they show an honest appearance throughout the whole process. Let me tell you, they are the kind who will never treat you badly." People who won’t treat you well. Such a family needs a lot of face but not enough strength. All you can do is ignore it. The banquet can be smaller. There may be debts in the past."

When Mrs. Lin said this, everyone felt inconceivable. After all, how could the people introduced by Liu Gongrong be so poor?

"Mother, I think that person is nice, my aunt will be very happy when she gets married." Qinglu said.Gao Dou'er also agrees that you don't have to be rich and powerful to marry, you must marry the right person to be happy.

"You are still young!" Mrs. Lin lamented, "I just want to remind Lihua, don't try to make the villagers envious and do something special, they will agree to your request, but they will be harsh on you after marriage and make you I feel that life is more difficult, just like Lihua has brought some dowry, they will tell you in advance, let you pay some dowry to pay off the debt." Seeing Chen Lihua's noncommittal expression, she smiled softly, "Of course, having said that, Liu Li is capable enough to be able to learn from teachers, if he is willing to take advantage of the breaks to take care of the crops in the field, or start a small business, life will not be too difficult in the future."

"Mother, don't scare my aunt. I don't think his parents are that powerful. Why would he want to take my aunt's money? That's my aunt's protection. Auntie, if you really like Liu Li, we will give you money after we go back." Ask Wenqian to tell Grandpa, if he has no objections, he can talk to the Liu family, and the two sides can take some steps." Qinglu said.

"I like him. I fell in love with him at first sight. No matter how hard it is, I am willing." Chen Lihua said firmly, she really had no choice. She may be a house filler or a concubine, but she is not very willing.Who can see her pain?

Mrs. Lin understood her desire to get out of the singles, and after thinking about it, Liu Li is a reliable person. If you can't get along with your parents, you can move out and let yourself go.

"Ewha, you are an untrained person. After you get married, you have to deal with many things. Liu Li's small family has their disadvantages. People are not afraid of being poor, but they are afraid of being poor for a reason. They still want to save face. The family members will suffer in the end. If possible, let's choose again." This is Mrs. Lin's most pertinent suggestion.

"Mother, you concluded that Liu Li's parents are not easy to get along with just by looking at them, isn't that a bit biased?" Qinglu asked softly.

"It's nice to be young. I haven't experienced the baptism of suffering, but I can easily decide the future." Mrs. Lin smiled helplessly, "There is nothing wrong with this, at least when we quarrel in the future, I will think in my heart, 'This person is my own. It's a choice, if you don't get angry, you really don't get angry, let's live, it looks miserable, and it will pass after you endure it."

Chen Lihua raised her head slightly, and asked softly, "Sister Suping won't tell my parents your opinion, will she?" She was really afraid that Mrs. Lin would say something to her parents out of her best intentions and let her parents refuse. This marriage.

"Don't worry, this is your own business. I won't interfere too much." Mrs. Lin just mentioned the problems that Chen Lihua might encounter as someone who has experienced it. However, what she said was before Chen Lihua married. It finally came true, Chen Lihua was not doing well, and attributed all the unsatisfactory things to Mrs. Lin, but it was a long, long time later.

"I'm going back to Lin's house after lunch. I don't know how grandpa is doing." Mrs. Lin found a topic.

"I want to go back with you!" Qinglu said eagerly, she really missed Mrs. Lin.

"Grandpa loves you so much, you want to follow him back to see him." Mrs. Lin agreed, and then asked Gao Douer, "Douer, grandpa misses you very much too, you should go back too."

"Okay." Gao Douer agreed. Lin Zhihe wanted to take her back to the Lin family many times to see Mrs. Lin again, but she refused because she was busy. Now that she is in Baiye County, it is impossible not to go back.

Mrs. Lin let them go out, leaving Qinglu behind. Qinglu didn't know why she left herself alone.

"Qinglu, I told you to stay here. I just wanted to tell you that Liu Li's parents were not easy to get along with." Mrs. Lin took Qinglu to her side and asked her to sit down. When I opened my mouth, I asked Lihua if she would like to marry Liu Li. I made it clear that I wanted Lihua to say it, and then I lost some procedures and saved some money. They kept looking at me, and I saw some attempts in their eyes. What comes to mind is Lihua’s dowry or the box money.”

"Mother, not everyone is so bad." Qinglu disagreed.

"After all, this matter has not yet been fermented, and you are right to suspect. Since it is Lihua's choice, I have nothing to say." Mrs. Lin didn't want to go on, Zhong Ye was right, some things, the children should handle it by themselves Well, the elders turn their eyes and close their eyes, the children are better off, and they are better off too.

"What mother has experienced, what she has seen, does not mean that the past can be compared with the present. Few people are willing to become the uncle of their peers all of a sudden." Qinglu knows the disadvantages of Chen Lihua , finally someone fell in love with her, and her family background is not so good, maybe this is the reason why Chen Lihua chose Liu Li all of a sudden.

"In the end, it's not attractive enough, and I don't like it enough, that's why I talk about my status. But if Fan Lihua is stronger and more selfish, she will have nothing to do when she married, but she is not, she is an ordinary person who can't be more ordinary. , She has been domesticated into a good wife and mother. Such a person is destined to be a doormat. If she doesn't resist, she will always be bullied." Mrs. Lin was extremely heartbroken, "This world is very cruel to women. The wives of ordinary people must be able to take care of housework, and they must be very proficient. The wives of small households must be top leaders inside and outside. If you do something poorly or say something wrong, you will become the target of public criticism. One makes things difficult and another blames you. There are still many people who deliberately test you to see if you are honest and shrewd. If you try too much, you will always succeed. If something is wrong, people will say, you stupid woman, you who insulted your ancestors, you poor woman, what is the use of me marrying you? Women really work hard, and many people are forced to Only then can she become a shrew."

"Mother, don't talk about it, the past is over." Qinglu hugged Mrs. Lin.Mrs. Lin told her past, but she just wanted to remind people to avoid it if they can avoid it later.

Mrs. Lin hugged Qinglu, tears streaming down her face.

(End of this chapter)