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Chapter 16 Infatuated Species

Infatuation that has nothing to do with you is full of hurt

Understand Men in Five Seconds and Understand Men in Seconds Part [-]: Infatuation

Features: All infatuated types are devoted to loving someone, and their hearts are full of someone, even when interacting with others, they are always comparing themselves with the previous person.

Infatuation seems to be a good thing, but if it is infatuation with others, then the person loses the ability to love again.

Therefore, every girl who falls in love with the infatuated species will be a victim and a substitute.

Love code: If he can't forget the past, then don't fill it in with yourself.

True Stories Understand Men in Seconds No. [-]: The Infatuated Kind

Here is a story about a twin boy.

The girl Mianmian is a Libra, an ordinary white-collar worker, an urbanite, with an average family background. She graduated from a university and found a job by herself. She is not considered capable, but she is finally able to support herself.

Mianmian is a little chubby, not tall, and has a round face and cute appearance, but she has white and delicate skin and a large chest, so many boys pursue and like her.

But Mianmian doesn't want any of them, because she likes her colleague Xiaojian.

Xiaojian is more experienced in the company than Mianmian. When Mianmian joined the company as an intern, Xiaojian always took care of her and helped her a lot.

Xiao Jian is not that kind of handsome man. He came here from Henan to develop, and he has a bit of the simplicity of rural people.

He is not the most promising type in the company either. He guards an acre of three-point land in his career and does not have much aggressiveness.

But the biggest advantage of Xiaojian is that he is careful: he is careful in work, in life, and in his friends.

Although Mianmian likes Xiaojian, they can't be together because Xiaojian had a girlfriend at the time.

This girlfriend is really a goddess. She is thin, beautiful, and has long legs.

This girl works as a singer in a bar. She sings well and has good conditions in all aspects.Xiao Jian was able to be with her, not because of luck, it was purely because he moved her after a long time.

The two are fellow villagers, and they spent time in the same school from high school to university. It is said that Xiaojian specially lowered his volunteers in order to go to the university that the girl was studying at that time.

Xiaojian fell in love with this girl from the beginning of his love affair, and it took almost five years to catch up with her, and he was very kind and caring to this girl.

But this girl is not the kind suitable for marrying home.Because of his good looks, he has been arrogant and willful since he was a child, and basically lives in his own world.

She may yell at Xiaojian anytime and anywhere, and if she is upset, she can turn her face for a week or two, hitting people, overturning tables, and smashing things, which is commonplace.

After becoming a singer, the girl started to show her face, met more people, pursued and loved more people, so it got worse, she smoked and drank outside, didn't come home late at night, and hung out with a bunch of men all day.

In this case, women's derailment has become a matter of course.

Xiaojian has guarded this girl for too long, too long. Of course, the main reason is that she is good-looking, so she will continue to guard her when everything else is uncomfortable and unhappy.

But when the woman cheated again and again, Xiaojian finally couldn't stand it anymore.As I said before, good-looking women are fatally attractive to men, but after a long time, they will become used to them, and after getting used to them, good-looking will no longer be good-looking.

So after several painful quarrels and entanglements, Xiaojian finally broke up with this girl.

After the breakup, Xiaojian still felt very uncomfortable, but Mianmian took the responsibility of taking care of and comforting him appropriately.

Of course, at the beginning, it was to comfort people as friends and close friends.

Mianmian didn't plan to take advantage of the situation.I just like a boy, and this boy happens to be single and very miserable, there is really no reason not to be with him.

But this matter is really not as simple as taking advantage of the situation.It took Mianmian three full months to get this man out of the longing and pain for his ex-girlfriend.But after a period of time, Xiaojian didn't want to fall in love at all, feeling that the emotional injury had exhausted all his love.

But Mianmian did not give up, she still stayed by Xiaojian's side like a close friend, like a good friend.

During this time, another full year and a half.During the period, many people pursued Mianmian, but she flatly rejected them all.She knows that the possibility of herself and Xiaojian is very small, but she is always willing to pay foolishly for a small expectation.

The so-called long-term love, when you put time and warmth on someone, even a stone will be melted away by you.After Mian Mian cared and cared for Xiao Jian for almost two years, Xiao Jian was finally moved by Mian Mian and accepted her.

At their age, once they accept each other, there is nothing else to say, just get married!
The life after marriage is quite loving, the two of them go in and out together every day, all kinds of sweetness and intimacy.

If you think that a person's life will be spent in such a safe way, then you are very wrong.

After two years of marriage, Mian Mian found out by chance that her husband and his ex-girlfriend were still in touch, so she spent all her time investigating, and this investigation found out the problem.

Mianmian unexpectedly found out that the last time her husband went on a business trip, he didn't really go on a business trip at all, but went to play with his ex-girlfriend.Although the girl didn't show her affection, she arrogantly took a photo of the room, and saw her husband's shoes on the floor of the room.

Now, Mianmian's whole life was destroyed, she was distraught to negotiate with a man, and wanted to ask that man what he was thinking.

Xiaojian is also a little silly, he told the truth to Mianmian, in fact, he and his ex-girlfriend have been together for almost a year.Almost a year after their marriage, the girl came to him and tried to seduce him.

According to Xiaojian, he was seduced by the beauty of his ex-girlfriend at that time, so he had an affair with her for another year.

But Xiao Jian promised to cut off contact with his ex-girlfriend immediately. Now he no longer thinks the other party is attractive, and he realizes the importance of family and wife even more.

Xiaojian swears all kinds of oaths, and deletes the girl's WeChat and contact information in front of Mianmian, saying that she is no longer a goddess in his mind.

Mianmian's heart softened all of a sudden, she loved Xiaojian very much, when love prevailed, reason disappeared without a trace.

The two almost fell out and got back together. No one knows about this, so in everyone's eyes, the two are still harmonious and beautiful.

But in the fifth year of marriage, one day, Xiaojian's ex-girlfriend suddenly came to Mianmian with a big belly, and formally confronted her, saying that the child in her stomach belonged to Xiaojian.

It turned out that Xiaojian and this woman got together again a few months ago.

This time, Mianmian became speechless.Not only because of Xiaojian's betrayal again, but also because the woman in front of her, the former goddess, has grown old and does not look like a goddess at all.

But this kind of woman hooked Xiaojian back again, and the method she used was still beautiful, but this time, only Xiaojian could appreciate the beauty.

The ending of this marriage is self-evident.

For Mianmian, the biggest puzzle is why Xiaojian goes to find his ex-girlfriend again and again.

If you talk about feelings, is it true that the sacrifices I have made over the years are not as serious as the repeated injuries of my ex-girlfriend?

If it's about beauty, isn't Xiaojian tired of seeing this woman for so many years?Didn't he leave this woman again and again?Isn't this a kind of greasy?
Identify men in 5 minutes and understand men in seconds No. [-]: Infatuation

The first characteristic of the infatuated species:
After he fell in love with a certain girl, he would lose the ability to fall in love with others.

Is infatuation a good thing?Of course it's a good thing.

In fact, what women hope to meet most is that after a man falls in love with her, he completely loses the ability to love others.

From this point of view, the infatuated kind is simply a wonderful man.

But why do you still say they are scumbags?
Because they are not infatuated with you, but infatuated with other girls.And after being infatuated with others, you lose the ability to fall in love with you.

In other words, he is infatuated with others, but unfeeling towards you.

Don't think that they will love you like others. Since they are infatuated, they will only be infatuated with people from the past.

The second characteristic of the infatuated species:
They are infatuated with others, but they will still fall in love with you, or even get married.Not out of love, but out of need.

This is the worst part about infatuation.

If he is infatuated with someone and cannot get out of it for the rest of his life, then that's fine, anyway, he's only hurting himself, not others.

However, everyone will have the need to get married and fall in love, and society and family will also need him to complete this matter.

Therefore, the infatuated kind will find a new relationship while loving his ex.

At this time, the girls who fall in love with the infatuated kind later will become tragedies one by one.

You think you are in a relationship, but in reality, this whole life is just a spare tire.

The third characteristic of the infatuated species:
Their chances of cheating are always high.

Why do infatuated species cheat?Because he always loves others in his heart!
Therefore, as long as the woman hooked her fingers, he would run to talk to someone without any psychological burden or consideration of the actual situation.

Infatuated species not only have a high probability of cheating, but also a high probability of divorce.

Many goddesses, when they are old and want to find a normal man to marry, will consider the former infatuated suitor, because the other party is both reliable and dedicated!
Therefore, it is a tragedy to be able to break up a pair, and then take care of the girl who is infatuated and falls in love with the infatuated.

The fourth characteristic of the infatuated species:
In their eyes, goddesses are always beautiful, no matter how old they are.

The reason is simple, because men love beautiful women, which is cyclical and repeatable.

For men, in addition to the absolute value of beauty, there is also a relative value, that is freshness.

When a woman is used to and hated by men, the freshness will disappear, and the beauty will become an old thing.

So a man will get tired of a girl, and this is the reason to leave.

However, when they were separated for a while, and they hadn't seen each other for too long, the girl's beauty became fresh again.

It's like a person who eats a dish every day and feels very tired, but if he hasn't eaten it for a while, he will miss it very much.

So they will compound again and again.

Many attributes of men are actually cyclical, this is true for beauty, and so is cheating.

I will take care of it, but I will do it again.

(End of this chapter)