Rural life in America

Chapter 359 Educational Philosophy
Zhang Hao and Christina plan to take Xixi to experience a real Halloween. They believe that Xixi will be very interested. They think such a different festival will definitely make Xixi happy.

It is said to be Halloween, but it is actually the eve of Halloween; children will wear costumes, masks, and collect candy from door to door.Of course, there are jack-o-lanterns and the like, and there are quite a lot of games here.

Although there will be a lot of ghosts dressed up, it may be a little scary; but this is not a very important thing, the most important thing is that children will like this game very much.

"Dad, Ricky was not good at all today. He bullied the children." Xixi was a chatterbox, and started chatting as soon as he got in the car. "He made Mitty cry, and we were all angry."

Zhang Hao suddenly became nervous and had to be nervous; school bullying is an extremely difficult problem all over the world, and some studies or some legends show that half of the people in American schools have been bullied , and the remaining half basically belong to the bullying group.

Stuffing people into trash cans is a relatively traditional way, and there are countless forms; some are direct attacks, and some are verbal attacks.It may be all kinds of slander, it may be intentional sabotage, etc. There are still many little villains.

Especially for older students, there are more ways of campus bullying, and even worse.

The nervous Zhang Hao asked, "Xixi, did someone bully you? How did you treat that little villain who bullied Mitty today?"

Xixi regained her spirits immediately, and the little girl said happily, "Dad, we won't play with Ricky anymore. He wants to play games with us, so we ignore him."

Zhang Hao came alive, and Xixi handled it well; in the face of campus bullying, many people would choose to swallow their anger, and this would undoubtedly encourage the arrogance of the perpetrator.So you still need to have the courage to fight back, and you can't just ignore the matter because it has nothing to do with you, or it might be your turn to do something like this.

It’s just that something seems wrong suddenly. Xixi and the others are now at the kindergarten level. Children of this age, unless they have been influenced by extremely superb parents since childhood, otherwise they will not have too bad character, at most It's just mischievous, not bad.

It's just that people like Xixi and the others don't look like this at all; these little guys may have helped the bullied Mitty at the beginning, but gradually they seem to be developing in the direction of bullying Ricky.Although there is no direct fight, many people know that campus bullying also includes some cold violence.

Forget it, Zhang Hao knows that the world of these children is very difficult to understand, one moment may be a sworn enemy, but the next second may be to sacrifice blood for the alliance.These little guys are incredibly fickle, there's no question about that.

The most important thing is because Zhang Hao feels that his precious daughter must not be the one being bullied in the campus bullying incident; of course, if someone really dares to bully her, he must dare to fight back.

Zhang Hao is patiently talking to the little guy about some things. Naturally, Zhang Hao doesn't want his baby girl to become a school bully. Of course he wants to discuss some things with Xixi. Xixi still needs to learn. With more and more things and people, her world must have more and more colorful and perhaps speechless and depressing things.

Back home, Xixi naturally wouldn't keep a secret; but in an instant, Xixi was picked up by Christie to receive education.Compared with Zhang Hao's simple and rude education method, Christina is more attentive in educating Xixi. She also has a lot of opinions on such matters. In short, she seems to be more qualified, more rational or more in line What the vast majority of people consider to be correct values.

Zhang Hao hugged the little wolf and began to instill some ideas in the little wolf, "Son, you are a man, we can't bully the weak, we can't bully girls. But, if someone bullies you, you have to learn from your uncle. Your uncle is very powerful. If someone bullies him, he will lock him in the locker room. If someone dares to bully his teammates, he will ask his teammates to tie up the bad guy in the trash can. You should do the same, if someone dares to bully you To fight back, your friends who are bullying you need to stand up."

Yu Xiu next to her was angry and funny, she knew about it, "You still talk about this, your mother-in-law is very angry. Last time he scared a student so that he didn't dare to go to school, right? Now he Are you banned?"

Zhang Hao naturally knew about this and didn't pay much attention to it, "I heard that it's the little brothers in school who bully the players on their football team. Can people who practice sports bully others? Besides, if he can't act like a Just like men, people look down on me. I still have the same attitude, I don’t bully others, but I can’t be bullied anymore.”

Yu Xiu laughed and scolded, "It's not good to fight. It's great to be a good student. There's nothing to be gained by being brave and ruthless all day long. Adrian is the same. If he practices hard now, he will definitely get a college scholarship." Come on, how can you always be fooling around. He, every now and then, will cause something to happen, and the mischievous student he is talking about is just like him. "

Well, Zhang Hao does not deny this point; Adrian is indeed a young rugby star, but he is really restless in school.

Christina came out of the study with a confused-looking Xixi. Xixi looked a little blurry now, and she didn't know whether to deal with the bad boy's naughtiness in the way her father told her.Because the disposal methods that my mother said are completely different from what my father said, and even some places are still wrong in my mother's view.

Xixi's little doubt was quickly forgotten, and the little girl happily ran to harass the big-faced cat; The cat with the big face is sleeping late and trying to play a prank.

Christina hooked her fingers, and Zhang Hao started a conversation with Christina dejectedly.

"I need to keep you away from our children. I don't want our daughters and sons to become old-fashioned cowboys. I don't want their fathers to become more and more authentic old-school cowboys!"

Faced with Christina's accusation, Zhang Hao cried out, "Honey, this is unfair. I'm not an old-school cowboy, really not. Old-school cowboys work hard, and I'm not hardworking at all. And you know, my style is a bit Not rough."

Christina gritted her teeth even more, and said annoyedly, "Of course, you are not an authentic old-school cowboy, because old-school cowboys will work harder. You just learned some troublesome habits of old-school cowboys, but you didn't learn to their excellent qualities!"

Zhang Hao was silent, of course he knew his character; when it comes to old-school cowboy or traditional style, he is like a tough guy, he doesn’t want to cause trouble, and he doesn’t want to have problems, but if someone wants to make trouble, then use the toughest attitude to resolve.

Perhaps to some extent, Zhang Hao's character fits the impression of some people in the United States on the traditional western cowboy; it can be said to be bold and generous, and it can also be said to be quite tough in some things.

Christina is criticizing Zhang Hao, of course she likes Zhang Hao's character, she thinks such a tough attitude is the most manly.It's just that she likes this kind of character, it's okay, she doesn't want Zhang Hao to educate her children in this way; according to what Christina knows about Zhang Hao, if many things are done according to Zhang Hao's attitude, there will really be two more children in the family. The little cowboy is gone.

And the character of the little cowboy may not be a good thing for the children; for example, Zhang Hao said that when some people feel uneasy, Zhang Hao's education method is to fight back in the strongest way...

Zhang Hao was receiving education with his head down. He also thought it was a little funny, and it was indeed the same thing when he thought about it.Although the old-school and traditional style has its advantages, for children, the current education method may not be the best. It seems that Xixi really cannot become a little cowboy.

On the matter of education, we still can't speak out, and we still need to listen to Christina's opinions. Although some of her opinions seem too conservative and correct to Zhang Hao.However, for a child, such an education method is quite good.

Just kidding, there is no need to make a fuss about this matter. It is true that we should pay attention to it, but it will not affect life.

I took the happy Xixi to the city and started to prepare for Halloween; Xixi is dazzled now, she saw a lot of interesting clothes, there are little devils, elves, centaurs, werewolves and the like, weird but very interesting .

The little girl thought about it for a long time, because she had many images that she wanted to dress up.

But when she was distressed, Xixi also made a decision, "Dad, buy a little pig for my brother, my brother is a little fat pig!"

Little Wolf, who was having fun while biting his pacifier, never imagined that his first Halloween image would be decided just like that, little chubby pig...

While Xixi was choosing Halloween costumes, Zhang Hao and Christina were also choosing.

Seeing Zhang Hao winking at the police uniform next to him, Christina gave Zhang Hao a coquettish look; well, don’t think that only children will dress up in weird and funny images on Halloween, in fact, adults can also dress up.

Under such circumstances, naturally there are too many opportunities to choose from; for example, Zhang Hao is now imagining how Christina will look in nurse uniform, police uniform or flight attendant uniform...

As for Christina, although she was angry and funny, she didn't object; well, the two of them were the same in the past few years. Although the characters they dressed up were a little different, the two of them were very involved every Halloween.

(End of this chapter)