Marriage sleepy: less power to pet lightly

Chapter 122
Ye Jiaqi was stunned for a moment, and asked in puzzlement, "Why didn't you return it to him yourself?"

Song Zhiwei pursed her lips and said, "Because I made it clear to him that it's impossible."

Ye Jiaqi blinked in surprise, and asked, "Did you reject him?"

Song Zhiwei nodded, "Yes."

"Why?" Ye Jiaqi asked puzzled.

"Because I can't like him." Song Zhiwei stared closely at Ye Jiaqi's eyes, thinking about what kind of hints could make her understand the general meaning without hurting her.

Ye Jiaqi opened her mouth, as if she wanted to persuade Song Zhiwei to reconsider, but in the end she just sighed and said, "There's nothing I can do if I don't like it. I can only say that you are destined to have nothing to do with it."

Song Zhiwei nodded again, "Yes."

"Hey." Ye Jiaqi sighed and shook his head, "I actually feel a little sorry for Cai Zhi. If I knew this would happen, I shouldn't have encouraged him to chase you. I don't know how sad he is now."

Song Zhiwei said embarrassingly, "This has nothing to do with you, you don't have to blame yourself."

"That's right, but as a friend, I still feel a little sorry." Ye Jiaqi looked at Song Zhiwei and said with regret, "You two are my good friends, and you are well matched in every respect. It's a shame you couldn't be together."

"If you don't like it, you just don't like it. There's nothing you can do about it." Song Zhiwei hinted, "Actually, when two people are together, it has nothing to do with the fact that the conditions are not suitable. Many times it depends on fate, which cannot be explained rationally."

"In fact, rationality can also explain it. Love is nothing more than the impulse of dopamine." Ye Jiaqi sighed and said, "When two people are on a specific occasion, their brains are suddenly stimulated to produce dopamine, so the two fall in love."

"Scientists explain it this way." Song Zhiwei nodded in agreement.

"However, the instant passion and peak of fanaticism brought about by dopamine will not last long. It is impossible for the human body to bear the stimulation of this kind of ingredients like cocaine all the time. , the only thing that can maintain love is the so-called rationality." Ye Jiaqi put forward her own point of view.

"Is the so-called rationality what you said just now?" Song Zhiwei asked.

"It can be understood in this way. Even today, most Chinese still believe that the love of the right family is the best. I used to disagree. When I was in the United States, because of the influence of Western culture, I thought it was nonsense to get married only when the right family was born. Talk." Ye Jiaqi talked about her own experience, "I once talked about a boyfriend, he was a very smart and capable man, he was very attractive to me, and our relationship was very good at one time. The differences caused by the different growth environments between the two became more and more obvious, and finally even reached the point of irreconcilability. I was hit hard by this relationship, and then I gradually realized that the reason why he and I failed to get together was probably It’s the so-called misfit, right.”

Song Zhiwei disagreed with her point of view, shook her head and said: "Every relationship that fails to reach the end has various problems, and it doesn't necessarily have to be a wrong relationship."

Ye Jiaqi smiled, "Then have you noticed? In fact, the so-called various problems are all problems of people's values, and the place where a person's values ​​are most affected is the family."

"I don't deny the importance of the family of origin to a person's growth, but even under the same growth background, different people will grow up differently." Song Zhiwei retorted gently, "Just like my brother and I, Same parents, same environment, but very different personalities.”

Ye Jiaqi shook her head with a smile, and asked, "Did you really grow up in exactly the same environment as your brother?"

Song Zhiwei thought for a while, and added: "Maybe there is a little difference, he is more favored."

"You are brothers and sisters, and you will have very different personalities and values ​​because of your parents' preference, not to mention the huge differences between different families." Ye Jiaqi said with sufficient arguments, "My ex-boyfriend and I This is the case, I come from a happy and complete family, and he was raised by his mother alone. The reason why I dare to work hard is because I have my parents as my strong backing, and I don’t have to worry about anything. But his hard work is It stems from a sense of insecurity and eager feedback to his mother. So he is very self-reliant and sensitive. We often quarrel over little things, and we both think that we are not wrong. In fact, there is nothing wrong, because each other Everyone has a different understanding of the world, so how can there be any right or wrong?"

Hearing Ye Jiaqi's words, Song Zhiwei's heart suddenly skipped a beat.

Because her situation with her ex-boyfriend was [-]% similar to that of herself and Wei Xuan.

And like Ye Jiaqi's ex-boyfriend, Song Zhiwei is also very independent, impulsive and sensitive.

And Wei Xuan has a calm personality, considerate, no matter what he says or does, he is full of confidence. Perhaps this is the so-called trait of a good family background.

But Song Zhiwei was not as easily influenced by Ye Jiaqi's words as before.

She said: "I know that many couples break up because of disagreement of values. The disagreement of values ​​may also be caused by family as you said. But there are still many successful examples. Especially with the popularization of education, most Young people have received secondary and higher education, and their thinking will not be too different."

"You're right." Ye Jiaqi smiled softly, "everything is not absolute, just like everyone's point of view is different, you and I are just discussing."

Looking at the time, Ye Jiaqi suddenly said: "Oops, I still have an overseas video conference to start, and I forgot the time while talking to you. Zhiwei, I have to go, I'm sorry."

Song Zhiwei was taken aback, she hadn't mentioned the part related to Wei Xuan, why did Ye Jiaqi leave.

"Jiaqi, you—"

"I'm really sorry, I really have to go." Ye Jiaqi said and stood up, "I will help you return the money to Cai Zhi, you don't have to worry."

After speaking, she picked up the envelope, smiled apologetically, and left quickly.

Song Zhiwei stood up and looked at her leaving in a hurry, feeling speechless in her heart. Why is it so difficult to talk to her every time?
What excuse should I find to ask her out next time, and explain it clearly to her, huh?
Hey.

(End of this chapter)