One hundred million pet wives: the president pets lightly

Chapter 205 The fellow meets fellow
In a warm afternoon, in a room full of pink tones, a little boy about ten years old is sitting cross-legged on a soft cushion by the corner wall, assembling the Lego toys in his hand very carefully, with an expression of no one else, as if immersed in in their own world.

Indeed, for a child with autism, the whole world is only him.

Qianyi withdrew her gaze from staring at the child, and looked at the child's mother sitting on the sofa opposite her. It was a middle-aged Korean woman with a haggard face, holding a baby less than one year old in her arms.

This is Qian Yi's psychological consultation room, and the child who is like no one else is one of her patients.

"Buddy has become very angry now. Almost every time I come home from get off work, the house is in a mess. The nanny always complains to me that he is crying more and more." The mother of the child glanced at her son , eyes full of worry: "Eline, I have been following the method you taught me for the past two years, taking him to study, exercise and go outing. Yea, I thought... Buddy was getting better, but..."

At this time, the baby in the mother's arms groaned twice, and the mother quickly lowered her head to coax her. At this moment, Qianyi noticed that Buddy actually turned her head to look at her mother, but this movement was too small. In an instant, Buddy returned to his original shape, and even so was caught by Qian Yi.

When the baby calmed down, Qianyi asked patiently: "Has Buddy been showing some unusual emotions recently?"

The child's mother glanced at her son again, and said in a low voice: "Yesterday, he actually pulled his stool into his pants, just like two years ago. I know that children will be somewhat rebellious when they reach puberty, but he is only ten years old." , Eline, I can only ask you for help, now that I have another daughter, if Buddy's situation gets worse, I... really don't know what to do!"

Speaking of this, the child's mother has begun to cry.

Qian Yi got up and sat next to her, stroking the child's mother's back to express her comfort.

Buddy was the first patient Qian Yi received after obtaining a psychiatrist license. When he first came to see the doctor, the child had no sense of the outside world at all, and even very repulsed others to approach him. Because his parents were busy with work, they kept Throwing the child to the nanny, so that the anomaly was not discovered until very late, so when Buddy was sent to Qianyi, Buddy was almost eight years old.

Qianyi remembers that she gave Buddy sensory integration training and tongue acupuncture treatment, and after a period of rehabilitation training, Buddy has indeed improved in understanding, acceptance and expressive ability, but because Buddy's father works Because of this, the family later moved to San Francisco, so Qian Yi had less contact with them.

The baby finally started to cry, and Buddy's mother hurriedly got up and apologized: "Eline, I'm sorry, I have to change the baby's diaper."

Qian Yi smiled at her, and watched the mother and daughter leave her office.

At this time, only Qian Yi and Buddy were left in the office.

At the beginning, Buddy probably didn't notice that his mother was gone. After waiting for a long time, he suddenly raised his head, then stood up and looked around. Although his face was still expressionless, Qianyi could still sense Buddy's uneasiness and irritability at the moment. Obviously, these are all because of his mother's departure.

All of a sudden, Buddy yelped, ran around the house, and even picked up toys that were lying around the room and started throwing them around.

"Buddy, let's go find mother together, shall we?" Qian Yi didn't stop the child, let him vent hard, and finally stepped forward and stretched out her hand to him.

Buddy stopped throwing toys at this time, but turned a blind eye to Qian Yi's outstretched hand. Qian Yi smiled and opened the door of the consulting room. At this time, Buddy's mother had already returned with the baby in her arms.

Under Qianyi's careful observation, it can be seen that Buddy's mood immediately returned to normal, and he hid back in his corner again.

Seeing the mess in the office again, Buddy's mother immediately realized that the child had caused trouble again, so she couldn't help but yelled: "Buddy, how could you do this?"

Qian Yi quickly shook her head, signaling her not to get angry at the child.

Now Qianyi has roughly understood the reason, but she still wanted to be sure, so she called a nurse to come in: "Lily, take Buddy to the next playroom to play!"

The nurse stepped forward and mobilized Buddy in front of her with a soft tone: "Honey, there are many interesting toys beside me, do you want to go and have a look with me?"

Unexpectedly, Buddy didn't even raise his head, and didn't even respond at all. He obviously didn't want to pay attention to the nurse's invitation.

In the end, Qianyi hugged the baby and asked the child's mother to take him with him. Unexpectedly, Buddy directly took his mother's hand. Although he couldn't speak, his meaning was very clear. He wanted his mother to play with him.

Qian Yi nodded to her mother, indicating that the baby can be taken care of by herself, and then let the mother and son go to the playroom together.

Buddy's mother was not very worried about her daughter, and seemed a little hesitant. Finally, Qian Yi smiled and comforted her: "Go, I am also a child's mother, and I have rich experience in raising children, so I will take good care of her."

The sun shines into the room through the curtains, and Qian Yi sits by the window with the sleeping baby in her arms, basking in the sun together.

This little baby is really well-behaved, she only cries a few times when the diaper is wet, and now she sleeps soundly, Qian Yi sighs a little, she really is a lovely daughter.

When Qian Guangyi was so old, he was already like a baby with ADHD. Except for sleeping, he couldn't stop for a moment, and he was always clinging to Qian Yi. There were several nights when Qian Yi had to hug Qian Guangyi to give a report , Often the next day, the arms are stiff.

"Eline, are you free?" Colleague John knocked on the door, then poked his head in.

Qian Yi hurriedly turned her head, and raised an index finger beside her mouth, signaling the other party not to disturb the sleeping child.

John was amused, lowered his voice and asked, "Why are you acting as a nanny again?"

"The sick child followed his mother to the playroom next door. I helped take care of the children last year. What's the matter?" Qianyi walked slowly to the door, only to find that there were several strangers standing behind John.

"That... a few friends of the boss came to visit the rehabilitation center and solemnly recommended Eline, the most beautiful psychiatrist in the center, so everyone came to see you out of curiosity." John half-jokingly said.

Qian Yi could only laugh, and then nodded politely to several guests: "Please come in, it's rare that John is willing to praise people without conscience."

The guests couldn't help laughing.

When everyone was invited into the consultation room to sit down, Qian Yi found that there was a young Chinese woman among them. In fact, the other party had not spoken, but from her temperament alone, Qian Yi could tell that she was her compatriot.

Qian Yi sat aside with the child in her arms, and chatted with the visitor.

After introducing each other's identities, Qian Yi really couldn't help laughing. It turned out that the woman called "Mrs. Shen" was not only Chinese, but also came from City A. After six years, Qian Yi could When I saw my fellow countrymen in the United States, I felt a sense of intimacy from the bottom of my heart.

Surprisingly, although she looks very young, Mrs. Shen is very respected by others, and it seems that her status is not low.

"Dr.; Karl; mentioned that Eline has quite unique insights in the treatment of children with autism, and we came here specially to visit." Mrs.; Shen said with a smile: "Actually, when I participated in the forum yesterday, I also specially It was very inspiring to listen to your speech."

"Thank you!" Qian Yi said modestly, then lowered her head to comfort the child in her arms. In fact, she was not very confident about yesterday's speech.

"May I ask, are you Chinese?" Mrs. Shen asked suddenly.

Qian Yi nodded: "I am Chinese." Later, she simply replied in Chinese: "What a coincidence, my hometown is also in City A. If I guess correctly, Mrs. Shen should also be from City A, right?"

Mrs.; Shen was taken aback at first, then laughed, and simply spoke Chinese: "Is this called fellow villagers meeting fellow villagers, with tears in their eyes."

Hearing the accent of City A inadvertently brought out by the other party, Qian Yi felt familiar and friendly, and this feeling was really warm.

At this moment, Buddy and his mother walked in, and at this moment, Buddy's mood eased obviously.

Qian Yi said to the guests: "I'm sorry." Then she walked up to the mother and son, but instead of returning the baby to her mother, she patted **uddy's head and said to his mother: "Buddy needs attention, especially from the mother. I have to say, since you have a daughter, you seem to have neglected Buddy. Don't think that a child with autism has no feeling. He can feel that he is being ignored. And I'm afraid of this kind of neglect, and Buddy can't express dissatisfaction in words, and can only use various behaviors that you find unacceptable, looking forward to your attention, in fact, even normal children will do the same."

Buddy's mother finally understood: "Thank you, Eline, I know the crux of the problem. It's true that I didn't do it well."

Qianyi finally returned the baby: "I am also a mother, and I know that what children need most is the care of their mother, so don't ignore any of your children, especially Buddy, he is actually very sensitive and needs you Take care and communicate patiently, so that his emotions can slowly stabilize."

At this time, Qianyi also forgot that she had guests, and actually taught Buddy's mother several new rehabilitation training methods. When she sent the mother and child away and returned to the office, she remembered that she was rude. John had already taken away most of the guests, except that Mrs. Shen was still sitting on the sofa, flipping through a psychology magazine.

Seeing Qianyi coming in, Mrs. Shen stood up and walked in front of her, stretched out her hand, and said in Chinese again: "Hi, let me introduce formally, my name is Xue Fu, and I used to be a psychiatrist, but my specialty is depression. And it’s pretty much deserted now.”

Qianyi held the other person's hand: "My name is Qianyi, nice to meet you."

"If you don't bother, can we talk?" Xue Fu asked with a smile.

(End of this chapter)