psychochemist

Chapter 288 New Year's Gift
When the father gave the son a gift, the son laughed; when the son gave the father a gift, the father cried.

Chen Wanli's QQ was not online, so Yu Fan dialed directly, and the phone rang twice before connecting.

Yu Fan: "Wan Li, what are you up to? Do me a favor."

Chen Wanli said hurriedly: "I'm playing black and I'm about to win! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!" Yu Fan heard the sound of crystals exploding in "League of Legends" coming from the other end of the phone, and said A voice announces "defeated".

Chen Wanli's tone became much calmer, and he said, "Okay, I just abused someone else, a bunch of trash." The calm tone revealed a kind of MMP.

Yu Fan: "Wan Li, seriously, do you have any way to monitor other people's mobile phones? It's monitoring and positioning, call records and so on."

Chen Wanli stretched on the other end of the phone and said, "Yes. But is this illegal?" The three sentences are inseparable from breaking the law. Chen Wanli is really a master of the law.

Yu Fan: "It's not breaking the law. I want to monitor my parents' mobile phones and feed back the information through the mobile phones. I want to know if they are safe. What should I do?"

Chen Wanli: "It's simple. Get your parents a heart rate watch and keep it with you at all times. If you encounter danger, your heart rate will suddenly increase, and you will be able to find it. Then you find a way to get them to download a software. , You can track their location, chat records and call records. This way you can analyze their situation.”

Yu Fan: "Well, this is not difficult, you still have a way. I'll go buy it now, there is an electronic product store in front of my house."

Yu Fan hurriedly packed up his computer, went downstairs, and prepared to go out.

Mom shouted: "Where are you going again? You haven't drunk the radish and pear water I made for you."

While putting on his shoes, Yu Fan said, "Mom, I'll be right back. My courier has arrived. I'll go pick it up. I'll drink the pear water you made when I get back." After finishing speaking, he rushed out of the door.

Mother shook her head helplessly: "Oh, really, why is it like a whirlwind after coming back for a few days? Just leave as soon as you say."

Fortunately, Yu Fan's action was relatively timely. Today is Chinese New Year's Eve, and the stores are closed early. When Yu Fan felt that the electronics store, the boss was about to close for get off work.

Yu Fan hurried forward: "Boss, don't be in a hurry to get off work, I want to buy two heart rate watches, the best!" The boss looked at Yu Fan in surprise, and then completed the last transaction of the year.

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When I got home, I opened the door, and my parents were on the first floor. My mother was cleaning the dining table, and my father was peeling garlic on the dining table.Dad's cooking skills are very good, he can set up a table of delicious dishes, all of which are delicious in color, flavor and taste, but it's a pity that Yu Fan doesn't like any of them.On the other hand, my mother can only make braised wings and sweet and sour pork, but Yu Fan can't put it down.Today is the New Year's Eve, and my father personally cooks a sumptuous dinner for the family, and also welcomes Yu Fan along the way.

Because of many things, Yu Fan and his father have a kind of estrangement. The relationship between the two is not like a father and son, but more like a superior and a subordinate in a workplace.When Yu Fan returned home this time, his mother also mentioned that when chatting with Yu Fan, his father was actually cold on the surface, but he often paid close attention to Yu Fan in private.

Yu Fan's personality traits are completely opposite to those of his father. Yu Fan is not good at any of the things his father is good at.My father is good at swimming. When Yu Fan was young, he was forced by his father to learn to swim. No matter how many times he was thrown into the pool, Yu Fan would stubbornly climb up to the shore. To this day, Yu Fan only knows how to swim in the A Maogou planing style created by himself. ;Dad is good at playing chess. When Yu Fan was young, his father and Yu Fan played chess. After writing a thick copybook, Yu Fan deliberately forced the pen, smashing countless pieces, so that Yu Fan's writing is ugly and strong now.

After growing up, Yu Fan realized that this is actually the "self-protection mechanism" in "Evolutionary Psychology". The self-protection mechanism is a response mechanism given to us by the brain, and it is also an important way to help us avoid danger.The source of this self-protection mechanism is the best gift that our ancestors have passed on to us in the genes for many years. He made us ensure that we are sensitive to the environment.The more the person you hate is good at something, you will instinctively think that it is harmful to you, and you will naturally avoid it.This is especially true when you are in the rebellious period of youth. You will have a thought in your heart that "even if I am not like you, I am still very good", and you will be more resistant to what the person you hate is good at.

Therefore, Yu Fan can't cook, his handwriting is bad, and he doesn't play chess. These characteristics are actually a kind of psychological self-protection mechanism for him, and it is also a means for Yu Fan to resist!He doesn't want to be like the person he hates!
On the contrary, his father is not good at what Yu Fan is good at. His father doesn't know anything about psychology, philosophy, cold reading, or flow.They have only one similarity, they are both chemical geniuses, and even then, their chemistry learning methods are very different.

When my father saw Yu Fan came back, he pointed at Sang and scolded Huai, "Some people in their 30s can't even cook, and they don't know what they are doing all day long."

Yu Fan glanced at his father, but said nothing.

When her mother saw what Yu Fan was holding, she asked Yu Fan, "Fanfan, what is that in your hand? What did you buy online?" Mom changed the subject casually.

Yu Fan looked at the two heart rate watches in his hand, and instantly made up a reason: "Oh, this... This is a New Year's gift I bought for you. In previous years, you gave me lucky money. Now, It's my turn to buy you gifts." Yu Fan said with a smile.

Hearing the gift, Dad paused for a second in peeling the garlic, but he continued peeling without looking up at Yu Fan.This small detail was captured by Yu Fan.

Mom was very pleasantly surprised and said, "Wow? Really? What kind of gift? What kind of money are you spending? You don't need anything at home."

Yu Fan felt very ashamed when he heard this. In fact, parents are eager to give gifts by themselves, right?Although he said no, but in his heart he was more eager than anyone else.Next time you get a chance you should actually help them pick out a gift.

Yu Fan: "This is the most advanced heart rate bracelet on the market. You can wear it at any time in the future. It can monitor your sleep quality, heart rate, body fat rate, etc., and can assist you in health assessment. With this, Your quality of life will be improved." Yu Fan handed two heart rate bracelets to his parents.

Yu Fan continued: "Come on, give me your mobile phones, and I will install an APP for you, so that you can see the data analysis of your body on your mobile phones."

Mom took out her mobile phone happily, but Dad said: "If we have to upload the data to the APP, then our body privacy will be exposed?"

Yu Fan and his father met each other's eyes, and the air was full of embarrassment.

　Don't judge others rashly, you only know the name on his head, but you don't know his story.You just heard what he did, but you don't know what he went through - Alliin
　　
　　
　
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