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Chapter 202 No one can empathize

Has anyone ever considered the true thoughts of the child who has been oppressed and endured all the time?Has anyone ever really put themselves in the shoes of that child who has no hope?Has anyone actually addressed the pain of that kid being bullied?

Even if there is none, can you not blindly make that child tolerate it just because you want to maintain the so-called harmony?
You can't understand the pain of those oppressed children as if you experienced it yourself. You don't know that long-term concessions and compromises are likely to form their lifelong habits, and those children may become inferior, timid, and weak from then on.

You can't support them, and please don't suppress their resistance.

Tong Ying bit her lower lip hard, looking at the calm and wise Ye Qingran, she couldn't help asking, "If it were you, what would you do?"

Ye Qingran replied almost without any hesitation, "I will not choose to forbear, because I understand that my forbearance will only make her more arrogant. If there is one, there will be two, and if there is two, there will be three.

This time I endured it, and next time I want to get rid of the shackles, she will be more violent to me without any scruples.Because she knows that she won't have to bear any consequences for hitting me, and can prevent me from breaking free from her control. "

Tong Ying listened to what Ye Qingran said clearly, and listened more seriously.

Seeing that Tong Ying was very interested, Ye Qingran said more, "As for my mother, I will be filial to my mother, but I will not choose to sacrifice my whole life to be filial to my mother.

Freed from her control, I can be more filial to my mother.

If my mother is really good for me, my mother should be considerate of me and understand my actions, and should not let the so-called family harmony be built on one side's hard oppression and the other's various compromises.

Even if my mother doesn't understand, I have to live for myself once. "

It's normal for ordinary sisters to make small fights, and the choice of being parents makes both of them take a step back and let everyone get along with each other and make money. This is normal, and Ye Qingran can understand it.

Ye Qingran also felt that there was no need to get too stiff because of a small matter, and sometimes she took a step back and seemed magnanimous.

But people like Tong Ying and Tong Li have gone beyond the scope of small fights. When two sisters fight, the elder sister beats the younger sister to a broken bone.

Breaking off ties with my sister, or letting my sister be locked up in the police station for a few days should not be understood as disobedience to my parents.

Everyone should be responsible for what they do. Tong Li is no longer a child. A 30-year-old has to pay the price for doing something wrong.

The reason why Tong Li was able to control Tong Ying was not only that she beat Tong Ying physically, but more importantly, she grasped Tong Ying's weakness.

Tong Ying's weakness is Aunt Tong. Aunt Tong lives with Li Tong. If Tong Ying wants Aunt Tong to live well, she must give Tong Li money and let Tong Li take good care of Aunt Tong.

Tong Ying wanted to resist, and wanted to leave the house decisively, but she couldn't bear Aunt Tong, so she had to take Aunt Tong away.If Aunt Tong refuses to leave, then Tong Ying has no choice but to stay and let Tong Li squeeze her.

Tong Ying was oppressed and hurt, and she still had to take Aunt Tong's feelings into consideration when she wanted to seek legal help.Because Aunt Tong didn't want to make it too ugly, and didn't want Tong Li to be locked up and suffer, Tong Ying had to smash her teeth and swallow blood in her stomach.

To some extent, Tong Li's current arrogance has something to do with Aunt Tong.

If Aunt Tong could be ruthless, let Tong Li be taught a good lesson, and let Tong Li know that she was afraid, Tong Ying's life would not be like this.

Children have to be educated from an early age. The more ruthless you are in education, the easier it is for children to grow crooked.

When I grow up and my personality is finalized, it may be too late to think about education.

It doesn't matter if you say she is not kind enough, or you say she is cruel, but if it were Ye Qingran, she would never be willing to be oppressed all the time, even if it cost her her whole life.

Where there is oppression, there is resistance.

It is necessary to be filial to your parents, but filial piety has its own way and bottom line.

She can take her parents to her side, so that they will have no worries about food and clothing for the rest of their lives.

But she will not let her parents become her sister's weapon to check and balance her, and she will not raise a sister who is not doing business in order to be filial to her parents, and she will also bear the beating and reprimanding of her sister.

Her parents gave her life and raised her up through all kinds of hardships. She should be filial to her parents, and she should also spend the money she earns on her parents.

But why should my sister spend her hard-earned money?Why does she have to give money to her sister while enduring her sister's oppression?

How soft her bones are.

Tong Ying tightly held the hand hanging by her side, and Ye Qingran's words reached her heart.

There was determination in her eyes, she didn't want to live this kind of life anymore, she wanted to resist.

Seeing that Tong Ying had made up her mind, Ye Qingran didn't say any more.

She chatted with Tong Ying for a few more words and then left. Before leaving, she told Tong Ying that she could go to Xiangrui Takeaway to find her if she was in trouble.

After Ye Qingran, Yan Ya, and Cheng Shi left, Aunt Tong continued to stay in her room, while Tong Ying leaned on the bed, lost in thought.

About half an hour later, Aunt Tong walked in slowly with a cane and sat down by the bed.

"Mom, what's wrong with you?"

Tong Ying asked worriedly, seeing her mother's expression was not quite right.

Aunt Tong fumbled and held Tong Ying's hand, her voice choked up, "Aying, it's my mother who is sorry for you."

After saying a word, Aunt Tong's tears couldn't stop flowing out.

"Mom" Tong Ying raised her hand to wipe Aunt Tong's tears, and asked while wiping, "Did you hear what we said?"

Aunt Tong nodded, "I heard that, if I hadn't heard this today, I, I wouldn't have realized my fault.

Ah Ying, I'm sorry, it's all because of your mother's troubles. It's because my mother couldn't really protect you.I have wronged you for so many years. "

Tong Ying is thinking about her, so she always doesn't care about Tong Li.It is for her that Tong Ying always gives Tong Li money.

It is because she told Tong Ying to be humble, not to haggle over every detail, and to have harmony between her sisters since she was a child, so Tong Ying gave way to Tong Li everywhere.

She always felt that Tong Ying and Tong Li were sisters, and sisters should live in harmony and help each other.

However, Tong Ying's harmony is only one-sided, and Tong Li is always fierce to Tong Ying, even swearing at each other.

This time, Tong Li beat Tong Ying even more.

Tong Ying shook her head, realizing that her mother couldn't see, she comforted, "Mom, I don't blame you."

Tong Ying's words made Aunt Tong even more guilty, and tears flowed out continuously.

Infected by Aunt Tong, Tong Ying, who had been pretending to be strong for a long time, couldn't help but shed tears, as if she wanted to vent the pain of these years at once.

The mother and daughter hugged each other and cried for more than ten minutes before they stopped.

"Aying, mom has made up her mind. No matter what you plan to do, mom will support you. From now on, mom will live with you, as long as you don't dislike mom."

Aunt Tong has been causing trouble to Tong Ying and Tong Li because she can't see, so she blames herself.

Tong Ying held Aunt Tong's hand tightly, "Mom, don't say that, I won't dislike you, how could I dislike you."

This is her biological mother, who gave birth to her in ten months of pregnancy, and raised her with painstaking efforts. How could she despise her own mother when her own mother needed her.

Bai Shan filial piety comes first, although she has not read many books, she still understands this truth.

Aunt Tong wiped her tears again, "Well, mom knows, mom knows you are a filial child."

Tong Ying has been more sensible than Tong Li since she was a child. Tong Li has a stubborn, irritable personality, loves to talk back, and is a little unreasonable.

And Tong Ying has a gentle and considerate personality, will consider other people's feelings, and will not act willfully.

Perhaps because of this, she is used to letting Tong Ying, who has a good personality, give way to Tong Li more.

However, now that she figured it out, Jean also had a bottom line.

She couldn't clearly know that Tong Ying was living in pain, and she wanted to get rid of the current life, so she blindly asked Tong Ying to let Tong Li be patient.

This time Tong Ying was beaten by Tong Li, what about next time?Will Tong Li play harder?
The palms and backs of her hands were full of flesh. She couldn't bear to let Tong Li be punished, but she also couldn't bear to let Tong Ying suffer any more. She didn't want Tong Ying to be beaten again.

Since she couldn't take care of both, she would choose the reasonable one.

Yun Tianren was locked up for a week of investigation and then detained for another ten days.

After he came out, he thought he was mentally prepared to deal with the situation outside.

(End of this chapter)