The happiness of crossing every day

Chapter 297 Good Intimacy

It can be said that although Gao Jiangyuan is more capable than Chen Yuanyuan in this era.

But if you want to talk about the complexity of your mind, Gao Jiangyuan, who has not experienced the bombardment of information, can't compare with Chen Yuanyuan out of a hundred.

Chen Yuanyuan really saw this person a lot.

So she seems to have an instinctive distrust of things like love, family affection, and friendship.

what is love?
She used to be the first to lie on the bed alone in the silent night, facing the moonlight outside, toasting a glass of red wine from afar, then gently closed her eyes, slowly feeling, and then asked herself.

What about the men she dated?

Chen Yuanyuan thought that it was impossible for her to have any real relationship with them.

In the circle, how can there be any real feelings?
Even if there is true love, it is both true and false.

Who knows what is in the so-called true feelings?

Besides, those men who clamored on the Internet that she would not marry, turned around, wouldn't they just forget it immediately?

When they were in front of her, they showed such deep affection, but when they turned their backs on him, they hugged their so-called beloved woman and went to bliss together.

Therefore, in Chen Yuanyuan's heart, this man is forgetful.

What they said before, they refused to admit it within three seconds.

The ones who slapped themselves in the face were actually themselves.

How could she believe such a man?

Of course, Chen Yuanyuan is still very clear in her heart that everything has two sides.

There is a good side and a bad side.

There is a simple side and a complex side.

There is a likable side and a hateful side.

It all depends on which side one looks at it from.

In addition, this moment is not that moment.

Those modern men, no matter what class they are, are so unlikable.

And the men of this era, if you get in touch with them carefully, some men's temperaments are quite cute.

Chen Yuanyuan is actually a contradictory person herself.

In the past, I was very worried about myself, because I had to coax Gao Jiangyuan a lot, which caused a trace of boredom.Finally got bored of him completely.

However, later on, Chen Yuanyuan suddenly felt that there was nothing wrong with this.

Gao Jiangyuan's advantages can completely cover some of his shortcomings.

Gao Jiangyuan is a person who is more sensitive to Chen Yuanyuan's emotions.

He had been able to keenly capture it before, and Chen Yuanyuan actually didn't agree with what he said earlier.

Later, when she praised herself for being the most capable,...it wasn't actually what she said from the bottom of her heart.

She seemed a little annoyed by the subject.

Moreover, she didn't seem to like herself very much just now...

Gao Jiangyuan's eyes darkened when he thought of this.

Immediately, he subconsciously remembered this matter in his heart.

In fact, if you want to talk about this memory, as long as you have a heart, generally speaking, certain memories of men will be much stronger than those of women.

Of course, this certain memory is the certain feeling of the woman towards the man during the relationship.

Can't look down on it, can't look down on it.

Do you like him?

Did you take advantage of him?

As long as it is a normal person, there is usually this calculation in mind.

Gao Jiangyuan is not a blindly reckless person.

Although he now looks like a five big and three thick.But he is still the same as before, with a delicate mind.

At this time, he felt that since Yuanyuan didn't agree with what he said, he would follow her for the time being.

Respond to her words.

Anyway, there are still a few years before the two of them get married.

Get along with these three years first.

It's done.

After getting married, let's talk about it after getting married.

It is useless to say more now.

Yuanyuan was young, so she didn't know that what she said was actually for her own good.

Gao Jiangyuan never planned to be a worker for the rest of his life.

Of course, he didn't think about being a high minister for life.

Gao Jiangyuan still has a very clear plan for his future.

Of course, as a person with a city, they generally don't know what they want to do in the future, what kind of goals they want to achieve, and tell others directly about these things that haven't happened yet.

After all, if you talk about your future life arrangements, work plans, goals, ideals and dreams with people around you or strangers, the audience will mistakenly think that they are actually dreaming.

It was still a daydream.

Being ridiculed and ridiculed are trivial things, the key is to worry that some people will think wildly.

Think he's showing off.

Then, in the bottom of my heart, I decided that he was actually such a person floating in the air, vain and not doing practical things.

In this era, of course, no matter what era it is, once a man is labeled as a person who is very flamboyant, vain, and not a person who does things, the people around him will project endless malice towards this kind of man.

Although Gao Jiangyuan has no real experience with the situation of such people.

However, being smart, he instinctively felt that he should try not to tell them as much as possible about the thoughts in his heart.

Not even his own biological parents.

Arrange your own life.

Then step by step, step by step, move forward steadily.

After things are done successfully, it is not too late to speak out.

Therefore, Gao Jiangyuan immediately changed the subject and said: "Yuanyuan, I suddenly remembered something. I don't know if you would like to listen? Would you like to help me solve it?"

Gao Jiangyuan had figured out a way to get along with people a long time ago.

Of course, this way of getting along is a trick to get closer to each other.

Deliberately seeking help from others, intentionally letting myself or unintentionally owe others a small favor.

It will make the distance between each other closer.

Of course, in this small relationship, the "paying cost" of people is actually used.

This is commonly referred to as sunk costs.

Some people are like that, the more they give, the more they put in.

Even if they knew it was a scam, they were lucky in the end.Think you can get away with it.

Gao Jiangyuan deliberately asked Chen Yuanyuan for help at this time, and Chen Yuanyuan couldn't ask for more.

The reason why Chen Yuanyuan couldn't ask for it was because in the past two years, although she was very grateful for Gao Jiangyuan's dedication to herself.

However, in the relationship between the two, if one party blindly pays and the other enjoys blindly, this relationship may last for ten or eight years.

But what if it was longer?

15 years, 20 years, 30 years?
The one who gives kindness, he can bear it.

Then, the person who has been given kindness is very likely to gradually feel bored and uneasy about such a life because of her own human nature.and boredom.

From such social relations, Chen Yuanyuan could sense the slightest hint of the inferiority of human nature.

Blessed not to enjoy.

I am not grateful.

People who don't know how to cherish blessings and don't know how to be satisfied.

In fact, in this society, there are really many.

(End of this chapter)