The happiness of crossing every day

Chapter 828 Unpopular
Gao Xinyue's ex-husband had a particularly bad temper in the past, and he liked to touch people and curse people very much.

In fact, whether a person's temper is good or not is not only affected by his own personality, but the main reason is whether he has a high level of awareness of beating and swearing...

If a person deals with problems in a brutal, beating and scolding manner when facing people who are equal to him in status, then he will not have friends.

There will be no true friends.

And those who have a deeper relationship than friends are their relatives.

In dealing with the relationship between relatives, communication skills are even more needed.

Beating and scolding each other, insulting each other, insulting each other, and despising each other will all cause cracks in the relationship between relatives and relatives.

When friends get along badly, they will separate from each other.

But relatives are different.

Hello, there is a kind of blood relationship between relatives, and they are inseparable.Then it will lead to conflicts between relatives and relatives, which will increase day by day.

It also caused relatives to turn against each other and brothers to become enemies. This is a very puzzling and regrettable reality.

In the past, when Gao Xinyue faced her ex-husband's beatings and scolding, and her ex-husband's domestic violence, she always thought about the problem from the standpoint of her child. She felt that for the sake of her child, she should be more patient. take a step back.

Taking a step back, the sea and the sky are brighter, and the family environment suddenly becomes harmonious.

But under this mentality, Wang Peng made more and more progress during that time.

In fact, when a person commits various insulting behaviors to another person and endangers the interests of the other person, the victim needs to stand up and stop it in time.

Otherwise, the opponent will get worse.

And she herself will be in a worse situation.

Domestic violence is a long-term and stable behavior.

For the perpetrators, domestic violence is a means to vent their inner emotions. They also vent their dissatisfaction with the society, the surrounding environment, and themselves on a weak person.

And this method of venting does not require him to pay any price.

After he vented his inner dissatisfaction, he felt particularly comfortable in his heart, which was the sweetness of his doing this.

But doing one thing has only sweetness but no risk, and you don’t need to pay any price. Then, after this thing happens once, it will happen the second time and the third time, forever.

As long as his own wife doesn't die, he will definitely beat his wife to death.

This has basically become a law of psychology.

Therefore, people who like domestic violence cannot change it.

Unless this man meets a more powerful, terrific, and more poisonous perpetrator than him.

Only when he is allowed to try being domestically abused by others, and it is the feeling of domestic violence every day, will he stand in the perspective of his wife, or his daughter, or other victims, and think in their shoes.

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Due to the experience of domestic violence in the past, Gao Xinyue now has an instinctive distrust of her ex-husband.

In this regard, Wang Peng is also very clear in his heart.

But it's clear and clear, but in his heart, he is quite dissatisfied with his ex-wife's behavior.

He didn't like his ex-wife, so he brought her husband here.

He felt his territory, his possessions, were offended.

His ex-wife was obviously his own back then.

But now, everything has changed.

His wife has become someone else's property.

My wife, why can she live so happily, so happily, so happily after leaving me?
Why should she find someone who is much younger than him?Why should I find someone who looks particularly handsome, especially handsome?

Moreover, judging from the appearance of this young man outside the door, it seems that this foreigner's family conditions are quite good...

After Wang Peng made a detailed comparison with Gao Xinyue's current husband, he finally decided that Gao Xinyue's current husband seemed to be stronger than him.

Of course, although only a little bit stronger.

But strong is strong. This is a fact that is difficult to ignore, and it is also particularly unpleasant.

Between people, there is a fear of comparison.

Once the gap is compared, especially when one's own conditions are not good and the other party's conditions are good, the person's psychological defense mechanism will take effect.

You will instinctively feel that this is not true.

It must be the other party, what's the problem.

I am actually no worse than him.

But many times, no matter how you deny it, it is useless.

The truth is right in front of you.

Blindfolded not to see, covered ears not to listen, this kind of deception is self-deception.

Just ridiculous.

Wang Peng didn't want to make himself such a joke, so he pretended to be graceful and had an affectionate conversation with Gao Xinyue and her current husband.

"Honey, sir, I didn't expect you to come so early..."

"It's noon, I don't know if you have had breakfast?"

"Fortunately, I went to buy some vegetables in person this morning. If you two can give me more time and give me a chance, let me cook it myself. I will entertain you..."

When Gao Xinyue heard these words, she didn't agree first, but looked at her ex-husband seriously and asked.

"Where are the sons?"

"Why didn't I see them?"

Wang Peng was a little embarrassed when he heard this.

Last night, he had already received a call from his ex-wife. The ex-wife told him that he would bring his man and presents to see those sons.

So, he told those sons about this matter, but his sons were not interested in this matter at all.

Also, they are not happy at all.

They also did not welcome the arrival of their own mother at all.

Wang Peng could tell that his older sons didn't like his own mother very much, and they were quite repulsive.

So, in order to make the mother and son not get along too awkwardly, he gave them a large sum of money this morning and asked them to hurry up and have fun on their own.

At that time, if there is a need, he will call them to inform them.

get them back.

So that their mother can take a look.

Gao Xinyue knew nothing about Wang Peng's plan.

In her heart now, she is full of interest.She was looking forward to the reunion with her sons after so many years.

As long as she thinks about how her sons will grow up, she will feel uneasy and happy at the same time.

(End of this chapter)