me and a divorced housewife

Chapter 605

I thought I had passed the difficulty, but I never expected that Liu Ruyue would find something tricky in her closet.

He hurried over, "Wardrobe? Oh, I moved it. She said she couldn't sleep without pajamas, so I found one of your pajamas and lent her to wear it first."

Liu Ruyue raised her head, "Isn't she quite drunk?"

"Yes." I said.

"Since you're all so drunk, do you still have the consciousness to care if you sleep in your pajamas?" Liu Ruyue said.

I was taken aback, and quickly said, "At first she was very drunk, but she woke up in the middle of the night and found herself sleeping with clothes on, so she asked me to find some pajamas for her to wear, that's it."

Liu Ruyue looked at me, "Is that true?"

"Of course it is," I said. "There's no need to lie to you."

Liu Ruyue just sat up, sighed, and didn't speak.

"I don't know how to put it back after wearing it." She stood up.

"Maybe she was also embarrassed and left in a hurry, so she didn't let it back." I said.

Liu Ruyue stood up and sat back on the bed.

I was a little embarrassed and said, "Okay, it's okay, then I'll go out first, you go to bed first."

"Wait a minute," she said.

I was taken aback.

She said, "Yu Hao, don't you think that the relationship between us feels a little strange now?"

"Have it?"

"Look at how polite you are to me." She said, "Is this how polite you are when you meet strangers on the street?"

"This..." I really don't know how to explain it. In fact, I also have this feeling, but this time when she came back, I didn't feel particularly strong. I don't think my politeness is really against her. Because of guilty conscience.

She sighed and said, "Forget it, I don't want to sleep anymore, let's talk about it."

"Let's rest first," I said, "I'm fine today, we'll talk after you wake up."

"Let's talk about it first." She said, "Otherwise I won't sleep well, so sit down."

I nodded and sat down.

But it seems like I don't know where to start.

Liu Ruyue spoke first, and said, "Yu Hao, I went to Weihai this time to think about this matter alone for a long time, and I think the main reason for the conflict between us is because you are too machismo. "

I was taken aback.

"Don't rush to refute." She said, "Think about it, in fact, this contradiction has always existed since the first time I went to work, but it was not so intense. Last time I was looking for a job, You also strongly objected, but that job was not that busy, so the contradiction was not exposed, but think about it, if that job was very busy at that time, as busy as it is now, I think this problem between us I'm afraid it has already been exposed."

I thought about it carefully, it seems that this is really the case.

She continued, "In the final analysis, it is the male chauvinism in your heart that is at work. You have always resisted me when I went out to work. I think you have to reflect on yourself. I know you think your income is good now. It can satisfy my life, I don’t have to go out to work at all, but have you really considered my feelings from my perspective, ask me what I think? I am not a woman who wants to be supported by a man, yes, before Kim Dae-jung is like this, but I’m fed up with it. I don’t want to turn myself into a housewife. All my life is just a husband and a child. Don’t you think this kind of life is boring? A wonderful life should not just be like this, food and clothing Worry-free is enough, I have my own pursuit, I have my hobbies, I also want to go out and do a little business, even if it is not big, but it is enough to make my life rich and exciting, this is my idea , can you understand?"

After I heard this, I nodded silently and said, "You're right. At the beginning, I was indeed a bit machismo, but have you ever thought about what is hidden behind this machismo?"

"What?" she said.

"Hiding my love for you." I said, "To be honest, for a woman like you, which man doesn't look at you more, so you will definitely encounter many boring men in the workplace. Hasn't it been confirmed all the time? As your man, I don't want you to be harassed by those men just to earn that little money, and I don't think your careers are any careers. "

Liu Ruyue shook her head helplessly, and said, "How many women in the whole country go out to work, are there any beautiful women among these women? Could it be that because they are beautiful, they have to be raised as housewives and have no contact with this society?"

"You're wrong. Whether it's officialdom or the workplace, a beautiful woman must have an advantage, but it depends on how you treat it. If you can endure the harassment of men who can give you benefits, or go further, play It's okay to play ambiguously, but I don't want to do this, and you are not that kind of person."

"I don't believe that no beautiful woman has made a career by relying on her own ability, all by the dirty way you said?" Liu Ruyue said.

"So I compromised later," I said, "Did I object to you when you brought up the matter of going to work later? I didn't, including when you got your acting company later. Did I object to you? I am very Support, I think this is very good. Firstly, you do what you like, you can dance, and secondly, you can completely avoid other men’s harassment by doing this, so I think this is very good. But then? Why do I Object, you are too busy, I am already very busy, I am usually busy, you are busier than me, think about it, if two people are so busy, can their relationship get better?"

"I don't think so. Being busy has nothing to do with feelings." Liu Ruyue said.

"Okay, even if that's the case." I said, "What about after that? Have you ever considered that we are both so busy after we get married, what about the child? What about the child?"

"Jelly has grown up," Liu Ruyue said, "We both earn a good income, so it would be nice to hire a nanny to take care of her, besides, I won't be so busy all the time."

"I mean, our kid's?" I said.

She froze for a moment and said, "I don't really want to have any more children."

"What?" I was surprised. "Why no children? Don't you want to have a child with me?"

"But in this way, wouldn't it be too unfair to Jelly." Liu Ruyue looked at me and said.

"What's so unfair?" I wondered, "We have a baby, so we don't want jelly anymore?"

(End of this chapter)