Heroes of the Sons and Daughters

Chapter 70 Fulfilling the preface, helping the dowry to extend the friendship, recovering from the old attitude, timid marriage, being a coquettish idiot (1)
The last time I wrote Zhang Jinfeng's personal statement, with ten layers of wonderful explanations, He Yufeng's chivalry disappeared completely;At first glance, it sounds like just a few boudoir gossips, nothing more than sons and daughters swearing at each other; but after careful examination, it is full of daring, and the hero is not allowed to go.

This seems to be a pedantic theory of storytelling.Little do they know that for a woman, she must have both women's virtues, women's words, women's appearance, and women's work, in order to be considered a complete person.I also have to know that the woman worker said that she can tie single-thread gauze, but she can tie seven-strand sash and it's over; you must know how to tidy up the court, do it personally, and always say the word "diligence and thrift".

Women's appearance does not mean combing hair, swinging big sleeves, wearing trousers, and cutting small bottoms. You need to sit like a bell, stand like a pine, lie like a bow, not move frivolously, smile without showing your teeth, and always say One sentence is the word "dignity".Women's talk is not sweet talk, fast-talking, must be serious in speech, not smiling, not inside, not outside, always say one word, that is, the word "Zhenjing".When it comes to women’s virtues, it’s the hardest thing to do. You have to eat Huazhai on the [-]th day of the Lunar New Year, go to hang robes in the monk’s temple, and go to add buckets in the aunt’s temple. This is a big mistake; women's virtues include being filial to Wenggu, caring for husbands and children, taking care of daughters-in-law, raising daughters, and even making peace with relatives and restraining servants and maidservants.Sure enough, with women's morality, women's words, women's appearance, and women's work will naturally follow the rules.Even if she is born with a stupid mind and poor looks, she is still a woman of her own nature.

But there is the first thing that should not be committed, and the easiest thing to do is, don’t let the guy who sells sweet sauce and high vinegar take your money. You will suffer from jealousy and become a "jealous lady" the US name.Storytellers are the most pardonable words, the same person, why should women stick to one another, and men allow big wives and concubines?This regulation is somewhat unfair.Looking at it from another place, if the husband has twelve golden hairpins here, and the wife and children have the first ten people in front of him, will the husband agree or not?There is no such thing as a yang and a yin couple, but the slight power of good fortune; advocating one and following the other is the ultimate principle of life.It's just this group of "jealous ladies", who can no longer see through this matter, and no one can explain this sentence clearly.Therefore, women from ancient times to the present, there are all kinds of filial piety, and it is rare to find someone who is not jealous.

But with the same sip of vinegar, one can eat it or not.Let me tell you that you will be jealous.For example, the concubine of King Wen is naturally No. 1 through the ages.There are about three other types.One is "jealous from the heart".Either I have not had children for a long time, or I have not had children. I pay close attention to the two things of family and family business, buy a few concubines for my husband, and manage and discipline myself. It hurts more than my husband, and it hurts more than my husband. The management is strict, not afraid that the concubine will not respect me like a god, and my husband will not feel that I am like a bodhisattva.No matter which room gave birth to a child, I know more about the pain than his biological mother, and I can teach him a lesson. Humans say "a concubine hinders his wife", and I say "a concubine is as big as a biological mother".This kind of jealousy should be considered a "magic".The other is "jealous by ability".I was born with a beautiful face and a spiritual heart. Even if my husband would buy me a laugh, I would never be as good as I. I am not afraid that you have a heart that loves the new and dislikes the old. I have the means to change things.As time passed, I was still spoiled by the special room, and the concubine made a false registration, but she couldn't tell him a word "no".This kind of jealousy is called "energy product".The other is "jealous of face".Or there are many brothers in the family, relatives have banquets, sisters-in-law talk, you boast about each other, each family has two concubines, and I think about it, I have no children, because I have money, I don’t buy a concubine for my husband , I feel that I can't stand on the human face, so I have no choice but to be ruthless and ruthless, and I have done it for him, but I can't say anything on three sides, and I can't fit in my life.This problem is easy for everyone, and it is the same everywhere.This kind of jealousy is "normal".It's all about being jealous.

Now let's talk about those who won't be jealous, there are three kinds.One is "jealous for no reason." I have a bit of good looks, and my husband is a bit mischievous. I have neither the insight to remonstrate him nor the talent to win over him. There are only a few young women in the room with grimacing faces. The little maid who sees her husband talking with outsiders will have to spend a lot of time checking; if she takes a look, she will also take some precautions.Even when the front foot is out of the room, a capable spy is sent to inquire about the back foot.I don't think that my husband is also a legged child, and if he is forced to have no interest in the interior of the house, and his eyes are full of thorns, he will inevitably sleep outside and spend time in the willows, wandering around.

The husband's character was also lost, and his reputation was also lost. He was still there to close the door and make secret visits.This vinegar is ridiculous!One is "overwhelming jealousy".Not only can I not take care of my salary, but I can’t even take care of every needle and thread on my husband’s body. There is nothing a husband can do. Finding someone who supplies quilts and quilts can be regarded as taking care of himself and helping him. How bad is it for him?He either throws his nose to the left, or pulls a glance to the right, and even points at Sang and scolds Huai, looking for trouble.At the beginning, the husband still cared about his status, and the concubine still adhered to the etiquette and law. When the quarrel became confused and entangled, and he couldn't explain it clearly, he had to do his best to make trouble for him. It hurts.This kind of vinegar is pitiful!One is "mindless jealousy".As long as he is as ugly as a ghost, even if his husband makes one uglier than a ghost, he will not tolerate it; as long as he is as stupid as a cow, even if his husband makes one stupider than a cow, he will not tolerate it.To copy a sentence from the general manager, if you want my Tianling cover, you need to beat it with a sap;cannot!This kind of jealousy is terrible!There are some men in the world who are not willing to live up to their expectations. The more he meets such a good wife, the more restless he becomes. , disturbing the mortal world, and the wind of jealousy is everywhere, wouldn't it be tragic!
Lie Gong, why did you have so much jealousy in your well-written "Biography of Heroes and Heroes"?Wouldn't even this time the book be "broken and jealous"?This is because of Zhang Jinfeng and He Yufeng in the book.Comparing the two of them now means that they are beautiful and smart, and equal in intelligence.In terms of talent, He Yufeng has infinite abilities compared to him; in terms of family background, He Yufeng is more fundamental than him!Besides, since the parents-in-law and him have been related for generations, the husband will naturally treat him more and more affectionately.Such a person, if he met on the road of official career and world, he would inevitably turn into Yin and Xing who avoided faces. How could he be willing to invite him to be Guan and Bao?I don't want Zhang Jinfeng, a little woman, to be able to identify her temperament and do it so well!I don't know how the old couple An Xiu got such a good wife, Mr. An He Xiu got such a good wife, Miss He He Xiu got such a good friend!Thinking of this, one cannot help but believe in the words "If you are not good, you will suffer disaster, if you accumulate goodness, you will celebrate it; if you behave badly, you will be violent, and if you are kind, you will be auspicious".

Cut off the remaining words and get down to business.But Mrs. An saw He Yufeng's good words from Zhang Jinfeng, realized what she said, ran to her knees, knelt down in the dust, bowed her head and called "mother" shyly, knowing that he was "full of his heart and secrets, and kept silent."The wife first assumed the status of a mother-in-law, unlike before, she held him in her arms while sitting still, and said: "Today is your day of great joy, don't be sad. You are the filial daughter of your parents. She is the filial daughter-in-law of my family! If you hadn’t made excuses just now, you wouldn’t be a girl; if you didn’t have such regrets now, you wouldn’t be a girl. It’s hard for your sister to speak well, and it’s hard for you to be obedient I've been worrying about your father-in-law for a year, and today I'm happy and happy!" As he spoke, he pulled him up with one hand, and called the girl again: "Give your new grandma a wet towel, and spread the powder evenly. " Mrs. Chu hurriedly helped him over, and said, "Let's take a rest first, I've been standing for a long time." After giving way again and again, the girl just shook her head and refused to sit down.Mrs. Chu is beaming with joy at this time, and she wants to show her natal family's holiday, just let it go.The girl got anxious, and said in a low voice: "Why are you so confused? Look, how is this compared to just now? If there are those who can't come, I will sit down first?" Hey!Who said this girl is heartless!

Press here, and Jinfeng has talked ten thousand words with He Yufeng in the past half a day, his mouth is sore, his throat is dry, and even his mouth is compared with his hands, and his sleeves are tired. The small handkerchiefs and toilet paper in the cuffs It fell to the ground, and Wicker came over to pick it up for him.According to the fate, the daughter-in-law poured another bowl of tea.While drinking tea in the hands of the daughter-in-law, while rolling up his sleeves, he saw Nanny Hua and Nanny Dai congratulating each other quietly.He said to them two: "Hey! The two mothers have recognized their in-laws first." After saying that, he rolled up his sleeves, then straightened his clothes and trimmed his temples, and came to congratulate his mother-in-law.Mrs. An naturally has a lot of compliments, so I don't have time to describe them in detail.

After seeing his mother-in-law, he walked up to Miss Yufeng and said a deep blessing first.

Said: "Sister is overjoyed." Then he knelt down and said: "My sister said recklessly today and offended my sister, but it was really out of necessity. If my sister is not so reckless, I will not change my mind. I will apologize to my sister. No!" The girl felt ashamed in her heart, and didn't care about everyone sitting there, she quickly knelt down, hugged him with both hands, and called out, "My dear sister!" Only choked up, she said Can't come up with the second sentence.

At this moment, Mrs. Zhang started arguing again, saying, "Grandma, the more I tell you to talk to him, don't force him to hold him back. We're done with it, so we can arrange things for him. It's the same day. It's time, you can try your best to make him cry and cry. What are you doing? What are you doing?" Zhang Jinfeng stood up and said with a smile, "My mother-in-law has already recognized her, so what does your old man tell me to say to him?" He said: "Let's wait, he's accepted? Really?" Mrs. Chu said: "Where have you always been?" run.Just hearing the sound of his two feet kicking the ground, he opened the curtain and went out.

Mrs. An hurriedly asked, "In-law, where are you going?" He ignored her.Then Ms. Zhang rushed to the curtain and looked outside. It turned out that he was kneeling with his head south and his feet north to meet him in the courtyard.He only heard the sound of him bumping his head against the mountain, and said: "Shentian Bodhisattva, this is great!" After saying that, he stood up, turned around and entered the room again, and asked the god master, kowtowed , Said: "Hey! This is because your husband and mother are both spiritual and holy. Let me give you two more!" Everyone laughed when they saw it.The girl felt even more uneasy in her heart.After making a decision, Mrs. An said: "Hurry up and ask someone to invite your father-in-law and Jiugong to go, these two old brothers don't know what to worry about!"

Just as he was talking, he heard laughter outside the window. It was Deng Jiugong's voice, saying: "No need, no need, we've been listening here for a long time. What a girl Zhang who can speak well! What a girl He who listens to persuasion ! These are the virtues of our brother and sister, you two, I am not in vain! What about our girl, shouldn't I see you, the old uncle and the new father-in-law?"

It turned out that at this time the girl saw that Zhang Laohe and Chu Yiguan were all following in. She was a little shy because of the crowd, and hid behind them. Mrs. Chu hurriedly pulled him out.He went there with Mrs. Chu, bowed his head and bowed down in front of his father-in-law without saying a word.Mr. An said: "Daughter-in-law, get up. You see, this is the selflessness of the world, and the marriage is fixed. I just met my mentor and younger brother today." Mrs. Yinhe said: "Madam, what is the practice of my family, Yuge What a blessing, God gave my family this pair of virtuous and filial daughters-in-law!" The wife said: "This is also a must. Do you remember what the master said when he left Beijing that day? He said: "To marry a daughter-in-law in the future, I don't care about the rich and powerful, as long as I have A child with a dignified appearance, a virtuous temperament, and a family that manages a family and suffers hardships, even if he is from the Nanshan Village or the North Village.” The one is from Nanshan, and the other is from Beicun. When the master looks at these two children, is he still worried that he can't manage the house and can't bear hardships?" The master said: "Yes, I never thought of this."

Because he told Deng Jiugong what Bu Sanye failed to propose to the son that day.

Deng Jiugong said: "Girl, listen, you can't control everything! If you don't believe me, just look at the man in the blue robe above his head. What does he care about? You see, now the master is taking care of your life-long affairs. It's over, your eldest sister and I, our father and son, are still a little bit ashamed. It's not worth sending the girl to you, so I entrusted our boss Zhang to carry them up. The father and son have a saying in their head, you are not allowed to accept me. The reason? Ever since the father and son met, it means that you have come to me, and you have not benefited from me at all, master It's hard to say what you benefited from, and put it aside; as long as you saw the injustice, drew your sword to help me, and defeated Haima Wednesday for me, then it is considered that you have kept friends on Shijie Road, and you are a handsome master! Speaking of that The 1 taels of silver was originally a game I wagered with Haima on Wednesday, and since you won him, I transferred the silver to you, and you took it for granted. To put it bluntly, you don’t want mine! Until you happen to For a short time, the friendship between our father and son can't be said to be "borrowed" or "returned". It's a total of one and a half ideas, and you only gave me three hundred gold. What is this? In less than a month, you turned a corner and finally paid me back at the market price. Girl, you are really impressive! Think about it, the master is 90 years old, and I can’t help it. What? Today, it’s so easy to meet you. If you have too many masters, you can’t afford it. One thousand gold, the girl can add jewelry, and ten thousand silver, the girl can buy rouge powder. Besides, there is embroidery There are rain silk, satin and silk, as well as real leaky gauze and gexia cloth, a total of [-] pieces. I didn't buy them with money, but I saw them in those shops that I went to and from the north and south all these years. It's okay, the things they gave me were all authentic goods, you keep them to make clothes one after another. Now there is nothing else, the water is over and the ground is wet, the girl is just following the master's words, nodding her head like this, you can count on it This is the master. Otherwise, you are so particular about what kindness you don’t want to be rooted, and you don’t accept me, the master will agree with you first [the next point: meaning a bet]: Master, come here Jing, tell me I can't get out of that Zhangyi Gate!" Master An hurriedly said: "Brother, what are you talking about!"

Deng Jiugong's face was full of fever, and with tears in his eyes, he said: "brother, you don't know Brother Yu's heart, I really feel sorry for him!" Mrs. Chu said: "It's not a coincidence that the old man said this. When I got up, I was so anxious that I burst into tears, saying that it was a sickness in my heart. Big sister, you are not allowed to quit now anyway."

Please see, Mr. Lie, there are few people in the world who are as hard-working as old man Deng, and there are not many people who are as poor as Miss He and don't love money.When it comes to the word "received teaching", it is originally a "corruption gate" for the world, but it is difficult to distinguish it.Boyi starved to death in Shouyang, and Mencius said that he was "a sage who is pure"; Chen Wenzi had ten horses, and my master also said that he was "clean." If you don't drink blood, you haven't been cleared to the extreme.I have a group of unkind friends, wives without reason, concubines weaving cattail, cloth quilts without reason for life, cakes and bait all day long.Which one of these friends is a character?They have fallen lately, and they are different from this group: they say they don’t love money, but they don’t like small money and they love big money;It's so easy to hope that he doesn't love the big ones, and doesn't want the secret ones, but he has made an abacus of retaining the position as the master, gaining fame and fortune, and wrapping his waist without reaching out, and still can't escape the word "greedy".Therefore, it is said: "Those who are unkind are seldom big treacherous people." It is a cliché, and it is also said: "It is not a strange thing not to want money, and it is selfishness to be too famous." , Heroes are only self-sufficient."

(End of this chapter)