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Chapter 118

Chapter 13 Emerson: Every man is a little bay
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Chapter 13 Section 1 A scorpion whose nature is hard to change?

Don't try to change the character of others, otherwise you will return in vain. ? ?

Once upon a time, there lived a frog in a pond, and this frog lived next to a scorpion by the pond.One day the scorpion wanted to cross the pond, but he couldn't swim.So it crawled up to the frog and begged: "Excuse me, Mr. Frog, can you carry me across the pond?"?
"Of course I can," replied the frog, "but in the present case I must refuse, because you may sting me while I am swimming."?
"But why should I do this?" asked the scorpion, "It will do me no good to sting you, because I will sink when you die."?
Although the frog knew how vicious the scorpion was, it also felt that what it said was reasonable.As soon as the frog's heart softened, he agreed.The scorpion climbed onto the frog's back, and they began to cross the pond.Just as they swam to the middle of the pond, the scorpion suddenly bent its tail and stung the frog.The badly wounded frog cried out, "Why did you sting me? Stinging me won't do you any good, because if I die you'll drown too."?
"I know," said the scorpion as he sank, "but I am a scorpion and I must sting you. It is in my nature."?
Mind walk?

American psychologist Alexander first defined personality factors as non-intellectual factors in his paper "Intelligence: Concrete and Abstract". These non-intellectual factors mainly include consciousness tendency, temperament and personality.Personality has persistent characteristics. ?
As the saying goes: "The country is easy to change, but the nature is hard to change." Everyone has their own unique and stable temperament and personality traits. Therefore, when interacting with others, we must clearly see each other's personality characteristics, and don't be easily fooled by their appearance. Bewildered. ?
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