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Chapter 125

Chapter 13, Section 8 Uninvited people?
Considering others is also adding light to one's personality card. ? ?

Once, a Jewish rabbi wanted to call six people to a meeting to discuss a matter, so he asked people to invite six highly respected people.But on the second day, seven people came, and one of them must have been uninvited, but the rabbi didn't know who the seventh person was.Therefore, the rabbi had no choice but to say to everyone: "If there are any uninvited people, please go back quickly."?
As a result, the most famous of the 7, the one everyone knew would be invited, stood up and walked out. ?
It was obvious that this famous man was taking the blame for others.He knew that one of the seven people must have not been invited, but now that he was here, it would be embarrassing to admit that he was not qualified enough, especially in front of so many people.In order to protect this person's self-esteem, the best way is not to confront him to prove his qualifications to attend the meeting, but to simply use his anonymity to save his face. ?
Mind walk?

Once the personality is formed, it will be stable, just like the retreat of the famous man in the story, which reflects his noble character and the character trait of being considerate of others, which is a personality quality that can be supported by others. ?
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