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Chapter 131

Chapter 14, Section 4 "Can I name 5 people"?
If you want to be friends with him, call him by his name! ? ?
During a cold winter day in 1898, a tragic event occurred in Rocky Country, New York.The ground was covered with snow that day and it was cold.Falai went to the stable to drive the horse. The horse hadn't exercised for several days.When it was led to the water tank, it spun around on the ground, its hooves flew into the air, and it kicked Falai to death. ?
Farley is survived by a widow, three orphans, and several hundred dollars in insurance.His eldest son, Jim, 10, had to work in a brickyard to support the family, putting sand into the models and setting the bricks aside to dry in the sun.The boy, through family misfortunes, never had an opportunity for education, but because of his Irish optimism and knack for likability, he later entered politics.Over the years, he developed an extraordinary ability to remember people's names. ?
He didn't know what the school was like, but four universities had awarded him degrees before he was 46 years old, because by then he had become the chairman of the Democratic National Committee and the US Postal Service Director. ?
Once a reporter interviewed Jim and asked him the secret of his success.He said: "Work hard."?
The reporter said in disbelief: "Please don't joke."?
He turned to the reporter and asked: "So, what do you think is the reason for my success?"?
The reporter replied: "I know you can name 1 people."?
"No, you're wrong," he said, "I can name 5 people!"?
Yes, it was this ability that helped Jim get Roosevelt into the White House. ?
Mind walk?

A master of psychology said when introducing the skills of interpersonal communication: "When interacting with others, everyone desires to be valued and impresses others. Therefore, they will very much hope that others will remember themselves. He hopes that his name will be remembered forever and not forgotten. Therefore, when someone calls his name out of his expectation, he will be very happy in his heart."?
How many names can you call out? ?
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