Listen to a psychologist tell a story

Chapter 156

Chapter No.16

- Let the sun shine into your heart
Chapter 16 Section 1 Angel who forgot to open the parachute?

Everyone has their own unique value, you are the "angel". ? ?

A pastor preached to his congregants in the church. At the end, he affirmed his self-worth, emphasizing that everyone will be blessed by God, and everyone is an angel from heaven.Living in this world, everyone must make good use of the unique gifts given by God to exert their greatest abilities. ?
One person in the audience dissatisfied with the pastor's statement, stood up, pointed to his dissatisfied flat nose, and said: "If, as you said, man is an angel who descended from the sky, is there any perfect angel with a flat nose?" ?”?
Another woman who thought her legs were short also stood up and expressed the same opinion, thinking that her short legs were not a perfect creation of God. ?
The pastor was a little surprised by these two people's questions, and suddenly he smiled gently. ?
The pastor answered easily and confidently: "God's creation is perfect, and you two are indeed angels who fell from the sky, but..."?
He pointed to the man with a flat nose and said, "When you land on the ground, let your nose touch the ground first."?
The pastor pointed to the woman who thought she had short legs, and said, "Although you landed on your feet first, you forgot to open the parachute when you fell from the sky."?
Mind walk?

Everyone in this world is unique and will receive equal favor from God.Therefore, we should discover more of our strengths and values, stay away from low self-esteem, face life confidently and optimistically, accept ourselves, and treat ourselves well. ?
300 Years of Truth Behind a Pillar? ?

"What I want to explain is that what you see is not a miracle, but my insistence on self-confidence."? ?

He is a young architectural designer in the UK. Due to his outstanding performance, he was lucky to be invited to participate in the design of Wenze City Hall.Using the principles of engineering mechanics and based on his own experience, he cleverly designed a plan to use only one pillar to support the ceiling of the hall. ?
A year later, when the city government asked architectural authorities for acceptance, it raised objections to one of his designs.They decided that it was too dangerous to support the ceiling with one column and asked him to add several more columns. ?
The young designer was very confident in his design plan. He said: "Just one pillar is enough to ensure the stability of the hall." He explained in detail by calculating and listing relevant examples, and rejected the suggestions of the engineering acceptance experts. ?
His stubbornness annoyed city officials, and the young designer narrowly escaped court. ?
Later, he had to compromise and added 4 columns around the hall.However, none of the four pillars touched the ceiling, and there was a gap of 4 millimeters between them. No one knew this secret at the time. ?
Time flies, years change, and 300 years have passed. ?
During these 300 years, the municipal officials have changed batch after batch, and the city hall is still as strong as ever.It wasn't until the late 20th century, when the city government was preparing to repair the zenith of the hall, that the secret was discovered. ?
As the news spread, architects and tourists from all over the world came here to see this magical column, and called this city hall "a building that mocks ignorance".The most amazing thing is the line of words that the architect engraved on the top of the central column: ?
Confidence and truth need only one pillar. ?
This young designer is Christo?Leian, this is an unfamiliar name to the world.Today, there are very few materials about him, but among the few remaining materials, there is a record of what he said at that time: "I am very confident. At least 100 years later, when you face this pillar, I can only be speechless, even dumbfounded. What I want to explain is that what you see is not a miracle, but my insistence on self-confidence."?
Mind walk?

When the professor of psychology at the University of Cambridge told this story, he could see his excitement, because he thanked the young designer from his heart for leaving a "pillar" of confidence for his citizens. ?
Self-confidence is to believe in yourself and affirm yourself.Confidence is a positive state of mind.Self-confident people are more aware of their strengths and more aware of their goals.Self-confidence is self-affirmation and the basis of survival.It is the volleying ambition when you are in a trough, the motivation to struggle and stand up in the face of failure, the courage to cut through the waves in the torrent of wandering life, and the exploration of self-potential.Confidence is gold, keep self-confidence, keep a sense of wisdom and sobriety; keep self-confidence, live a calm and unrestrained life, and live out the value and self-esteem that people should have. ?
Retain self-confidence and find the pillar of your life! ?
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