Change until the world gives way to you

Chapter 3 Changing the world begins with changing yourself (2)
Before 1953, although Marilyn was praised by film critics, the film company always confined her to the role of "idiot beauty". classic drama.At this time, a reporter recognized the nude model on the "Golden Dream" month card as Marilyn. The news revealed that instead of ruining her future, it aroused the audience's curiosity and paid more attention to her. 1953 was a turning point in Marilyn's life, and she played the leading role for the first time in the movie "Niagara".The film takes the world-famous Great Falls as the background, highlighting Marilyn's graceful figure.Since the film was released, the venues have been sold out, and she has not only become a first-rate star, but also the greatest myth created by Hollywood.

In 1954, Marilyn married baseball player Joe DiMaggio, but the giant was jealous and restricted her a lot, so the two eventually parted ways. On July 1956, 7, she remarried with playwright Arthur Miller. They met while filming "Youth Is Always" in 1.Every film of Marilyn before marriage was an extraordinary hit, especially in the film "The Seven Year Itch", she stood on the hollow iron plate at the subway entrance, and the wind blowing up from below made her skirt bulge It rose up and became the most famous shot in her film.However, Monroe was no longer satisfied with the role of a fool and beauty. In the following "Bus Stop", she integrated her life experience into the characters, making her acting skills reach unprecedented heights. In the film, When she appeared in the small bar, she really had a sense of brilliance and splendor. In 1951, "The Prince and the Dancer" co-operated with Lawrence Oliver suffered an unprecedented failure. After two years of fading out, Marilyn took over "Some Like It Hot" very carefully. The filming was very hard. The two miscarriages were worth it—Some Like It Hot became her highest-grossing film.

In 1960, Marilyn and Clark Gable co-starred in "The Misfit". No one expected that this was the last film of the two of them. After a few days of shutdown, Clark Gable died of a heart attack.In November of the same year, she officially separated from her husband Arthur Miller. The emotional trauma caused by this divorce has never been healed.Her neurasthenia became severe, and she had to go to a mental hospital for short-term treatment.A year later, the high-spirited Marilyn took over the filming of the new film "On the Brink". This is the first time she has agreed to shoot nude scenes in the film since the month card photo. On June 11, 1962, she was in the crew studio, celebrating her 6th birthday.In order to prove that she is still plump and charming, Marilyn took a transparent gauze to cover up slightly in front of Burt Stern's camera, and took the last group of extremely glamorous photos in her life. Saturday, August 1, was the climax of Marilyn's tragic life.This morning, people still saw her bright face.No one expected that this was the last glory before dying.

What exactly happened that night?Suicide or murder?

People who saw the scene said: She was lying face down with a blanket slid aside, her whole body was naked and stiff.When he died, his hand was still holding the phone.Who she was looking for, maybe the president's brother, or the president of the United States, Kennedy himself, but there was no answer from the other end of the phone. In desperation, she took an overdose of sleeping pills, and then, the fragrance disappeared, and she never woke up again. Come……

Time flies, as a product of the film industry and a Hollywood myth, Marilyn Monroe is not dead, she is always alive, her perfect body shape, naturally curved eyelashes, white and flawless teeth and occasional provocative movements, can be described as It is the image of "Looking Back, Smiling, and Bai Meisheng" that is still printed and distributed to the world in thousands of copies.

The death of this sexy goddess did not affect her status in people's minds at all, but attracted more attention.She is like a silkworm chrysalis that undergoes self-transformation again and again, and finally achieves her career and reputation.Even though butterflies are beautiful, they still need to evolve constantly. If you don’t have enough charm to make people around you see you or remember you, don’t worry, your changes will eventually make you break through yourself. It will eventually turn you into a beautiful butterfly, which will be imprinted in the hearts of some people. This is the most beautiful transformation.

There will be many transformations in a person's life. Obama also mentioned such a story in his speech:
This election has many firsts, many stories that will be told for generations.But what's on my mind tonight is a woman who cast her vote in Atlanta.She's like the millions of people lining up to make their voices heard in this election, except for one thing: Ann Nixon Cooper is 106 years old.

She was born in the generation just after slavery was abolished, in a time when there were no cars on the roads and no planes in the sky; when people like her couldn't vote for two reasons - because she was a woman and because of the color of her skin .

Tonight, I think she's seen through a century of America—headaches and hopes; struggles and growth, how many times we've been told we can't, and American confidence answers: We can.

At a time when women's voices were silenced and their hopes dismissed, she lived to see them stand up, make their voices heard, and cast their votes.Yes we can.

When the hunger came and the recession happened, she saw how the country was fighting fear with a New Deal, new jobs, and a new sense of shared purpose.Yes we can.

When bombs fell on our ports and dictators threatened the world, she watched a generation rise and democracy be saved.Yes we can.

She went to Montgomery to take the bus, she went to Birmingham to face the faucet, she went to Selma to fill the bridge... She heard the pastor from Atlanta tell everyone: "We can break down the racial barrier", we can do it.

A man steps on the moon, a wall comes down in Berlin, and a world connected by science and imagination.

This year, in this election, she put her finger on the screen and cast her vote, because 106 years later, the United States has experienced the best of times and the worst of times, and she knows how to change America.

yes we can

We will witness many miracles, and we also believe that we can perform miracles.

The dead are like this, let yourself quickly break through the cocoon and become a butterfly to fly!

unchangeable and changeable

The flower language of dandelion: It has vibrant yellow flowers, and the flower language is "unstoppable love", and there is also a flying arrow dandelion named "Flying Arrow", and its flower language is "aiming at the marbles".Of course, here, I don't want to tell you what kind of flowers have what kind of flower language, or listen to the dandelion's confession:

I am a dandelion seed with white fluff, but I am not the proud child that people say that I am arrogantly shuttling between the vast sea of ​​people and the high-rise buildings in Linli, refusing to take root and germinate.I long to embrace the earth, long to pull out my solitary flower stem, long to bloom that yellow flower in the green bushes, and then ride the wind again, clinging to my white fluff, to pursue freedom and light!

But I can only be lost in this vast sea of ​​people.I can only be lost among the tall buildings in Linli.I can't find a place where I can take root or maybe I shouldn't be so picky.Yesterday, I found a narrow green belt on the side of the road.I ran towards it, but the nasty car exhaust took my breath away, so I left quickly.I admire the row of trees, how did they stay there all day long?Could it be that this is also a helpless move?

I finally took root in the corner of the community garden, bathed in the warm and permeating sunshine all day long, absorbed happy nutrition from the fertile and moist land, and grew up with my game partners.Don't say this is my dream, a brilliant but fleeting dream.

If you look towards the blue sea, you will see a bright yellow tongue-shaped flower with thin red stripes on the top, and if you look down, it is an obovate-lanceolate leaf.Of course, you can't see the spindle-shaped root hidden in the soil, but I want to tell you that it is me.I am the only dandelion with thin red stripes in this land.Perhaps, this is doomed to always be alone.

Not long after, the coughing old man with a cane, a bag, and a child holding a shovel came to dig up the "mother-in-law" every day.In this way, every day I have to watch the misfortune of the partners I played with, and the panic of other surviving partners every day, and I am one step closer to loneliness every day.

"Grandpa, look how beautiful that dandelion in the corner is!" "Yes, child. Do you like it? Grandpa will dig it for you." "Grandpa, no, a dandelion will die if it leaves the land!" "Son , Grandpa dig it home and plant it in a flowerpot, okay?" "Grandpa is so kind, grandpa is so kind!"

As a dandelion, it may be a kind of luck that it has not become a delicious meal on people's table or a good medicine in people's mouth.But at that moment, it lost its dream, its eternal pursuit of freedom and light.Although it can still bathe in the warm and permeating sunlight all day long, and draw nutrients from the fertile and moist land.

In the past, dandelions fluttered everywhere by the power of the wind, took root, and were free; today's environment makes them no longer as free and easy as yesterday, and the rooting and sprouting in a small corner is only a potential escape, but when you look at it Do we feel that these dandelions are like us at a certain time: the world is changing, but we are still in place, pursuing the happiness of the past as before, wandering in the wind, bathing in the rain, and these past beauties have become impossible At that time, our nostalgia has actually restricted our development.

Just like the confession of Dandelion above, this group is doomed to be lonely, whether it is a mother and child or a lover, the final result is to be separated. This is the way they exist and cannot be changed.Then, on an endless beach and a small corner of a community, there will be its meaning of existence, but when the environment changes, we must also have our own changes. It is no longer a simple background in the natural world, but a migration In people's bedrooms, live in harmony with others.Or the realization of self-worth.

Nowadays, more and more young people are lamenting that the world is changing too fast, and they have seen through life early, and are either tired of studying or pursuing the excitement of various adventures.Staying in such a state consumes not only youth, but also one's own will and belief.Dandelion can still know that the changes in this world are irreversible, and is still grateful for the hope of survival. As a thinking and soulful person, can we think more, listen more, and do more.We will eventually have a place to use our talents. Even Li Bai, a poetic fairy, said: "I am born to be useful, and I will come back after all my money is gone." This is a truth that has always been praised by people. Survive on Earth, and as long as we live, we will have our place.If you want to live better and occupy more space, you must understand what you need to change.

The world is free to change its laws, and we can't find our way for a while, what should we do?The answer is to change yourself.Now that you have realized that you need to change, you have to think about which aspects of yourself are lacking and which areas need to be changed. Even if you will not be able to keep up with the pace at the beginning, but if you continue to persist, you will eventually achieve a qualitative leap and transform yourself success.

Youth is so short.When you suddenly opened your eyes, you will find that it has slipped away.So, what we have to do now is to change ourselves, and then we can keep our youth from swaying in the wind.

I hope everyone can also remember when they insist on changing alone:
I can't change the environment, but I can change myself.

Because I am young, I will experience some things, such as love and friendship.

No one can be happy forever, live happily every day,
No one can calmly face their own strength and weakness.

Let us mature, experience and tribulation;
What makes us happy is tolerance and love;

What makes us feel at ease is understanding and trust.

I can't change the facts, but I can change the attitude.

I don't know why, some things just can't be changed,

Maybe it's because I haven't found my true dream yet;
Perhaps, I am still pursuing the perfection that will never exist;

Once upon a time, we were vain, fantasized, and fought for narrow goals.

When I look back at all this again, I feel that many things will be calm and calm.

I can't change the past, but I can change the present.

Let the past go, and it will go better in the future.

Life will be better because of the abandonment of unnecessary baggage.

Life is so short, why not live it well?
There are too many things for me to do, and there are very important people waiting for me to cherish.

Don't look back, the world ahead is more exciting,
I can't control others, but I can control myself.

I will go my own way, even if it is rough, even if it is steep.

But I still go forward bravely, I am my own, no one has the right to control my fate,

Even though there will be many difficulties and scars, I will not hesitate or regret it,

Because when I look back, I can point to the road of pain and tears,
Say loudly and proudly: Look, this is my own way out.

I can't predict tomorrow, but I can grasp today.

There is a fork in the forest, I am willing to choose the road with fewer footprints,

My whole life would be so different,

Keating said this:

If there are too many people walking on one road, it will always be muddy and dusty.

Why not go another way, maybe everything will be different.

Grasp your own today, then tomorrow will definitely be better.

I can't control the weather, but I can change the mood.

I smile at life and life smiles at me,

Let my heart be unrepressed, let it be free,

Let the free mind fly and welcome the brilliant sunshine,

Let it soar among the blue sky and white clouds.

I can't choose my looks, but I can put on a smile,
Meet thousands of people, part with thousands of people,
Finding a friend who can be with you in real life and who you can trust is happiness.
At least, no matter at any time, no matter what I do, no matter what kind of environment I face.

I know that there is such a person waiting for me to go home,

There is such a person who can tolerate and share all my joys and sorrows, who can see my strength and weakness,

This is also the spiritual comfort I am looking for, I think, I will be happy.

Four changes in a hundred days

On September 1862, 9, the 22th President of the United States issued the "Emancipation of Negro Slaves" proclamation.

On August 1863, 8, American Martin Luther King Jr. delivered the "I Have a Dream" speech.

On January 2009, 1, the United States had its first black president—Obama.

On April 2010, 4, Obama took office as President of the United States for 29 days.Five months ago, Obama announced in his victory speech: "The time for change has come." During the 100 days in the White House, he tried two things: changing America and changing himself.

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