The poor are poor, the rich are rich

Chapter 41 2 The hope of getting rich cannot be pinned on others
Chapter 82 Do not rely on others to get rich
In life, many people think that one day they will catch a wealthy son-in-law, or find a rich woman to "marry" themselves, and then they will not have to work, eat whatever they want, and wear whatever they want.Marrying a rich husband or finding a rich woman is like marrying a bank.How nice it is not to have to go to work from nine to five every day, and to live without looking at other people's faces.However, if you find the "bank", can you really guarantee your life's happiness?

Susan is a pretty girl who everyone loves. She has a rich boyfriend.After graduation, when her classmates wandered around various companies every day for work, she was leisurely dreaming of the romantic dream of "prince and princess".At that time, she wandered around the major shopping malls in Beijing almost every day, buying thousands of fashion clothes and beauty cosmetics for herself.In her spare time, she would invite a few friends to drink coffee and talk about her "rose-colored life" while drinking.Looking at the tired eyes of her friends who are working hard for life, she always has a face full of love and compassion, and uses a sympathetic and considerate tone to persuade them to find a rich husband to marry.At that time, Susan was a fairy on the clouds, unrestrained, happily roaming in the poetic and picturesque fairy tale world. "Unfortunate things happen", unexpectedly half a year later, her "golden tortoise son-in-law" met another girl and broke up with her.Because she has no job and no work experience after graduation, she has been repeatedly frustrated when going to interviews. Now she even has a problem with accommodation. She lives in a friend's bungalow every day and eats "tofu mixed with shallots".Now, she has a sad face all day long, and she sighs at everyone: "Life is worse than life without money!"

Susan's "bank" ran away and her life was in jeopardy.Because she pinned her wealth on others and had illusions about others.Susan is not a special case. Many young people pin their hopes of getting rich on their parents or relatives and friends.I don’t want to work hard, so when I have no money, I let my parents ask for it. If I have a rich relative, I hope that the rich relative can find a good job for me.In fact, these ideas are very unsafe. If you don't have money, you have to look at people's faces and ask for money.Besides, can you guarantee that your "bank" income has been stable?If one day your parents retire or your wealthy relatives get sick, they will not be able to protect themselves, so how can they take care of you?
So we must understand that only when we learn how to make money and manage money can we be truly rich.The illusion that depending on others you are just a parasite.

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