The poor are poor, the rich are rich

Chapter 61 1 Love Expenditures, He Still Pays for the AA System

Chapter 13 When You and I Met – Love, Money or Family

Chapter 131 Love expenses, the AA system is still paid by him

In love, there are always money issues involved, such as paying the bill after a romantic dinner, buying a house when getting married, raising children after marriage, and the obligation to support the elderly, etc., which will bring troubles to men and women in love .Love is not extraordinarily pure like fireworks in the world. Love in the world always has a worldly flavor.It's just that some people always think of love too sacredly, and they often say, "Don't mention money, it hurts feelings."Some women choose the AA system in order to get rid of the troubles of money entanglements, and to show that they are independent women, not relying on men through love or marriage.

But the AA system only applies to the relationship between friends, classmates, and colleagues, not to lovers and couples.Many men and women who adopt the AA system do not have a long-term love relationship, and they always part ways after persisting for a period of time.

Wenwen and her boyfriend Xiaowei, both young people born in the 80s, have their own ideas and freedom. From the first day of their relationship, they have clarified the principle of the AA system.But in fact, Xiaowei's monthly income is nearly four times higher than Wenwen's, which makes things that seem equal are not equal.Xiaowei also lacks self-consciousness and initiative. He knows that his literary income is not high, but he never once said that he would take the initiative to pay the bill.After a while, Wenwen felt caught in a dilemma. On the one hand, Xiaowei’s salary was high, and even if he paid the full bill for his daily expenses, he still had a big surplus, let alone only half of it.As for Wenwen, it is difficult to have a balance after excluding daily consumption.But after agreeing on the AA system, Wenwen naturally couldn't take the initiative to break it.So this became Wenwen's heart knot, and the love between the two slowly went to perish.

This is true for working people, but for those college students who have not yet earned money and can only rely on their parents, love is even more vulnerable when it encounters the attack of money.

Both Juanjuan and Xiaoyong are in college and are not financially independent.Juanjuan is more considerate. Although traditionally speaking, the man should pay the bill to feel in love, but no one has a job, and it is not appropriate to spend anyone's money, so the two count separately.Xiaoyong was relatively generous at the beginning, and for the first time he took the initiative to treat guests with money.But then he got used to asking Juanjuan to pay, and always used up the money sent by his parents at the beginning of the month, and then kept crying for poverty, asking Juanjuan to pay the bill.Sometimes Juanjuan wanted to have a big meal and a dental festival, Xiaoyong said on the sidelines, forget it, I don’t have much money, but in the end he went to eat, but Juanjuan still paid for it.People in love have many festivals, and every day is like Valentine's Day.But the two of them seldom have any festivals. All the festivals are spent watching movies online when their boyfriends say they have no money.Friends around Juanjuan said that they had never seen such a stingy and stingy boy, and when they persuaded Juanjuan to give up, Juanjuan herself was also very angry. She felt that her boyfriend didn't care about her at all.

In fact, giving in love is not a problem in itself. In traditional Chinese concepts, love and money are not contradictory.It's just that in modern times, people's thinking has changed, and they like to take money into consideration, so the status of money has risen more and more until it can compete with love.When love and money are like two scales, do you want love to be heavier or money to be heavier?This has something to do with personal choice. If there is love, you don't care who pays more. If you talk about money, you don't care whether the love is still deep.It's just that love is a matter between two people. If one person pays unilaterally, love will not last long.

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