take a wife to support the family

Chapter 481 Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are busy fighting 2
Don't look at Zhu's being a monster and tricking himself, but Yueniang is actually having a hard time.

At first, Qingsong was in a bad mood after being pointed at by others, Yueniang and his young husband and wife were honored and disgraceful, Qingsong felt sad and she also felt sad.

Second, when mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarrel all the time, people don't say anything wrong with the man, only that the daughter-in-law is not virtuous.Mrs. Zhu packed her luggage and went home, and immediately pushed Yueniang to the cusp of the storm.

Yueniang was also angry: "Where have I ever thought of being unfilial? But if I have such thoughts, discipline me and strike me with lightning!"

Others can't hear her swearing and swearing, and seeing Yueniang is a little strange, and some people even said to Qingsong's sisters: "You should also take care of your sister-in-law, and the family should not be like this. Isn't it natural for her to respect her parents-in-law? "

Fortunately, the Baihe sisters still know the general idea, and they know that Zhu's family has always been confused, so they explained to everyone: "My brother-in-law and daughter-in-law are very virtuous, but my parents can't let go of the mountain and go back to live for a few days. After a while, they will naturally come to live with them .”

When things got into such a mess, even shopkeeper Liu couldn't sit still, so he came to have a heart-to-heart talk with his daughter while his son-in-law was away.

Yue Niang is the old daughter of Shopkeeper Liu, she has grown so big in the palm of her hand, she has never been wronged at all, father and daughter talk about everything, even mother and daughter.

Shopkeeper Liu told everyone else to go out, sighed and said to Yueniang: "You are arrogant, it is normal to argue with your mother-in-law, but you shouldn't be so foolish, the most important thing is to live harmoniously at home, even if you have gossip, you should put it on the table Excuse me, now that your mother-in-law keeps you from stepping down, are you suffering?"

Yueniang had nothing to hide from her own father, and said with a long face: "But why don't I respect her for a reasonable mother-in-law? That's the one, and I never neglected her, but she really can't be respected and loved. Listen to her, don't blame me."

Shopkeeper Liu shook his head, this girl is so young after all.

Why does shopkeeper Liu know how to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?It turns out that in the eyes of the old Jin Yiwei who has accumulated for many years, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has something in common with the relationship between superiors and superiors. How did the old man deal with his superiors at that time?

When a subordinate gets along with a superior, the most taboo is to be hard-nosed. Even if the superior orders something wrong, you have to remind them tactfully, so as not to embarrass others.

It is true that those who are proud of their talents have their own cuteness, but a mother-in-law will never like an arrogant daughter-in-law.

Yue Niang went up to Shopkeeper Liu and said, "Father, I can bear it if you want to talk about me, but now everyone is gossiping about your son-in-law, teach me."

Shopkeeper Liu looked at Yueniang, don't look at Yueniang even gave birth to Brother Fei, in her father's eyes she was still a child, shopkeeper Liu couldn't help touching the back of Yueniang's hand: "Children are debts, you are me The little debt collector who did wrong in his previous life!"

"Father, if it wasn't for my daughter, I wouldn't tell you these things!" Yueniang acted like a child, exactly the same as when she was in the boudoir.

Shopkeeper Liu thought about his own experience as an errand, and slowly talked to Yueniang about how to win over Qingsong, how to subdue the Zhu family, and how to calm gossip outside. I, if I had known earlier, I wouldn’t have suffered such a disadvantage.”

"I taught you earlier that you are just a heart. If it weren't for this experience, you wouldn't have learned it." Shopkeeper Liu laughed.

After the father and daughter finished talking about themselves, Yueniang brought Fei Geer to show shopkeeper Liu, shopkeeper Liu looked at his grandson with a smile and said, "The longer this mouth is, the more it looks like your mother."

Yueniang didn't remember what her mother looked like, but she felt that her son's ears were very similar to shopkeeper Liu's - a little pretentious.

Shopkeeper Liu said: "What do you know? My ears are blessed. Look at Fei Geer, since I was born, I have never run out of blessings."

Yueniang said in her heart that even if her son is Zhaofenger, her own mother looks very good-looking, she is the most interesting Zhaofenger in the whole world, and she doesn't know what father is anxious about.

Shopkeeper Liu came to his daughter's house and was not in a hurry to leave. Qingsong came home on duty, and was taken aback when he saw the father-in-law, remembering that his parents were still on the mountain, and Yueniang's own father lived right next to him. After all, he felt a little uncomfortable.

Shopkeeper Liu waited for him for half a day, and it was at this time that he was waiting for this time. He smiled and asked Qingsong to go over and have a few drinks with him: "I have nothing to teach you now, but I will tell you a few gossips from the older generation. You should be willing to listen to them." Just listen, if you don’t want to listen, just think I’m old and foolish.”

Qingsong hurriedly said with a smile: "You are always willing to teach me, but I am too happy."

Shopkeeper Liu said: "You know mothers-in-law in this world, why don't they deal with daughter-in-law?"

Qingsong was taken aback, he thought that the father-in-law was here to persuade him to treat his wife better, but he didn't expect shopkeeper Liu to open his mouth to say this. "It's all about women's narrow-mindedness. It's like the empress believes in the new concubine. It's never like this."

Shopkeeper Liu shook his head with a smile: "You...young! Let me tell you the truth, in this world, the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always a man's fault. You are useless yourself, and you can't restrain your wife or comfort your mother."

Qingsong's face was a little ugly: "Even if I'm useless, you don't always say it so bluntly, it's really uncomfortable."

Shopkeeper Liu knocked on the table and signaled Qingsong to pour him wine: "You believe in why the princess is so nice to your eldest sister? Because your eldest sister doesn't care about the family, if you don't believe me, how can the princess be favored like this in front of the princess? Second, your eldest brother-in-law can stand upright. If the princess stretches out her hand too long, he can block it back. If your eldest sister is out of place, he can make up for it. Tell her later that with him in the middle, why worry about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Discord?"

Qingsong was stunned when he heard this: "A man's family not only has to work hard outside, but also has to take care of the women at home?"

"Scholars say that self-cultivation, self-cultivation, family governance, and world peace are good for you. Are you able to govern the country or the world? If you can't do the latter two, you should put more focus on the front. According to me, if you can do the first two well, you will be amazing."

Qingsong hurriedly asked the father-in-law for advice: "Well, what should I do if I grow old according to you? My mother is really lonely, and I can't do anything about her."

Shopkeeper Liu and Qingsong came up with a lot of ideas, teaching him to persuade Yueniang and honor Zhu's family, but no one should extend his hand beyond the boundary, a person must have a sense of proportion, and the family can live well if you give in to each other.

Qingsong felt as though he had found a treasure, and thought that his father-in-law was still willing to take care of him, pouring wine for his father-in-law attentively. Just stay."

Shopkeeper Liu was determined to go home, so Qingsong had no choice but to send his father-in-law home with a lantern. When he came back, he saw Yueniang standing at the door waiting for him. He felt hot and stepped forward to hold Yueniang's wrist: "You leave the door open for me!" That's fine, why bother to come out and wait?"

Yueniang smiled and said: "You are the pillar of our family. If you are not at home, I am always restless. Only when I see you can I feel at ease."

Looking at the beauty under the lamp, with the dim light, it looks more and more like Yueniang's lips are red and her teeth are white, her skin is delicate and plump.

A few days later, Qingsong's young husband and wife were so happy, and Qingsong went to the mountains to pick up his parents again, but who knew that he had a bad nose again: No matter how clever the shopkeeper Liu is, he is also able to listen to advice. People, such a eccentric person like Mrs. Zhu are the most unwilling to listen to persuasion. If you want to persuade her, Qingsong is still a little bit behind.

Qingsong went down the mountain dejectedly, so he had to go to his elder sister: "Mother is determined to embarrass me, it's useless if I kneel down and beg her, elder sister, help me."

Lily has also heard about Qingsong's family affairs these days, and this time it became clear that she is not the daughter of the Zhu family in her heart: Yingchun and Lamei have a bad relationship with the Zhu family, and some blame Yueniang for being unvirtuous and unable to persuade Qingsong, so Lily fell down. He can still smile and think, it's probably Zhu who did it himself.

Qingsong was downcast, and Lily was a little amused: "I think she is in good health, and it's not that she can't live without her son. Since she is happy, you let her live on the mountain. Why do you have to take her to the city?"

Went to the city to quarrel with Yueniang, for fear of spoiling Fei Geer.

Qingsong said: "Don't talk about gossip outside, just say that I am in the county and let my parents suffer on the mountain. It's not unreasonable. After all, our mountain is not more convenient than the city. From now on, I will let them live in the city. It’s good to live in retirement.”

Lily loves Qingsong far more than she loves Zhu Shi. Her brother pleaded, so she went out on a horse and said to Zhu Shi: "Outsiders are poking Qingsong's spine and scolding him. Danian and I can't save him either. Mother, Qingsong has run back and forth so many times that the soles of his feet are covered with blisters, you really feel sorry for him!"

Zhu's face changed: "Ah, why didn't he say that his feet hurt?"

"Isn't it because you're worried about it?" Baihe said, "There's no reason for parents to argue with their sons. Now that you've earned enough face, it's time to go down the mountain."

In fact, Mrs. Zhu wanted to be soft for a long time, but she put herself on the high platform, and no one gave her a step, so she couldn't get down even if she wanted to.

Just as Lily passed a step, Zhu caught it in a hurry, and said to Lily: "Then let your brother pick me up in a few days, I will return my old bone to his grandson."

Lily smiled and didn't take it seriously. After a while, Qingsong took the old couple away, and Zhu said to everyone: "I'm just used to living in the mountains. Go back and see Jinger. Qingsong, a solid-eyed, silly boy, will die all day." Running back and forth three times, what you say is so distressing."

Talking too much, even if others don't believe her, they have to pretend to believe her.In addition, she and Yueniang don't blush in front of outsiders anymore, Yueniang listens to Zhu Shi's words, and Yueniang can play coquettishly with Zhu Shi from time to time.

In this scene, it is really no problem for others to treat the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In the county town, there are eighty or one hundred incidents a day, and more new things come out. Naturally, no one is talking about Qingsong's unfilial piety.

In fact, it was also because Qingsong was born in Taiping County, if an outsider, with the reputation of Jinyiwei, who would dare to chew his tongue?
After that, Yueniang went to work in the school again, so she handed Li Fei to Mrs. Zhu to take care of her grandson. Mrs. Zhu also took care of her grandson according to Mrs. Yueniang's method.

Qingsong thinks that the house is harmonious, but she doesn't know that there are bigger troubles hidden behind.

(End of this chapter)