just met you

Chapter 2 It's about others, it's about yourself

From the bottom of my heart,
Field vegetables.

Originally the grass roots,
No regrets and no scenery.

Looking back endlessly, forgetting every thought
Every year, every year, every year, the sun and the moon shuttle, time flows, just go, and don't know why.Everyone goes round and round in the world, stop and go, neither knowing where to start, nor where to end, either busy or busy, leisurely or leisurely.Watching the fallen leaves fall, watching the new pistils sprouting ears, absurdly leaving some sad or happy jokes, this is a good world, but because of my own heart, the situation is changing.

In life, at the moment when the dew falls, it may already be a scene of "the human face does not know where to go, and the peach blossoms are still smiling in the spring breeze".So, in this flowing time of separation, reunion, reunion, reunion, what are there still so many greed, hatred and ignorance?Why are you still sad for so much love and hate?All the years of the water and the moon will eventually disappear without a trace like a cloud of smoke.

It's better to let those who get together just get together, and those who disperse just disperse.Just like every petal falls to the ground, it is both the end and the destination. Looking back, it is still the world.The mountains are still, the trees are still; just like, never gathered; just like, never scattered.

Looking at the world with a cold eye, the past, present, and future cannot withstand the torment of the wind, and will still become misty, leaving those stories to spread in the world, like a feast of flowing water.This is exactly: a fate in life, gathering and parting to write sadness; looking back endlessly, forgetting every thought.

When drinking water, you must think of the source, and when you know kindness, you should repay it
In a person's life, from birth to death, who can leave the upbringing of parents and the teachings of teachers?Who can leave the care of family members and the help of friends?Every one of us is like a drop of water in the sea. When we leave the sea, it evaporates into nothingness and diffuses into the sky.Only by merging into the embrace of the sea can it never be exhausted and can achieve magnificent pride.When drinking water, you must think of the source, and when you know kindness, you should repay it.We are grateful to everyone who has helped us along the journey of life.Look down on the world as light as smoke, but remember that kindness is as deep as the sea.

We are grateful to our parents who raised us.From pregnancy in October to childbirth, what kind of pain our parents have experienced for us; from babbling to toddler, how hard our parents have paid for us; from ignorance to youth, how hard our parents have worked for us.The white hair on the head and the wrinkles on the face are the ruthless imprints of the wind and frost of the years.The rickety body and stumbling steps are the permanent scars left by the hardships of life.The kindness of parents is as heavy as a mountain.

Thank you for educating our teachers.A teacher for a day, a father for life.People always regard teachers as their reborn parents, because what parents give us is life, but what teachers give us is life.A teacher is like a colorful paintbrush, carefully depicting the gorgeous scenery on the white paper of our life; a teacher is like a lighthouse in the sea of ​​ships, pointing out the direction for us day and night; a teacher is a candle, lighting ourselves and illuminating others.The spring silkworms are exhausted when the silkworms die, and the wax torch turns into ashes and tears dry up.Every step on our growth path embodies the hard work and sweat of the teacher, and is full of the teacher's earnest advice and expectation.How can Shien forget?
Thanks for helping our friends.It is hard to imagine how lonely life is without friends, and how terrible life is without friends.A friend is the umbrella in the rain, holding up a sky for you; a friend is the warm sun in the severe winter, warming your heart; a friend is the pot of old wine you drink when you are proud, mellow and sweet; a friend is you The cup of fragrant tea brewed when you are frustrated has a faint fragrance and a long distance.Friendship, lifelong love.

Gratitude is not only a kind of moral character, but also a kind of life attitude.Always have a grateful heart, and you will turn your gratitude into an action full of love, and you will sow the seeds of love around you.A grateful heart is a seed of peace.Gratitude is not a simple picture, but a kind of responsibility, a kind of tolerance, and a spiritual realm of pursuing a harmonious life.

Because of gratitude, we cherish life and love life. Every grain of grain is hard-won, and half a strand of permanent memory is hard to come by.The kindness of the earth feeds the growth of all things, the selflessness of the sun illuminates the growth of all things, the flowers give us fragrance, the rain and dew nourish us, the mountains give us feelings, and the blue sky gives us dreams.Everything we have is the selfless gift of nature. We should be grateful and cherish it even more.

A philosopher said: "This world can meet our needs, but not our desires." Because desires are endless, people destroy the environment for their own desires, selfish desires, wars and plundering, the earth is full of holes, and gunpowder smoke rises and falls one after another. The environment is deteriorating day by day.People only know how to enjoy the fruits of victory, but they don't know that disaster has come quietly.Calling for peace and loving life is our eternal pursuit. Building harmony and pursuing beauty are our unremitting efforts.

Because of gratitude, we must tolerate life and be kind to life.Life is like a mirror, it cries when you cry, and it laughs when you laugh.The road of life is not always smooth and smooth, sometimes there are undercurrents and dangerous shoals, and the masts are smashed.In the face of difficulties and ups and downs, we must face them bravely and deal with them with an open mind.In the face of setbacks and failures, we must be calm and take every step of the journey calmly.

How can you get the tangy fragrance of plum blossoms without going through a bit of cold?Don't complain about life, don't be negative, and don't give up on yourself, because difficulties temper our will, ups and downs increase our talents, setbacks make us stronger, and failures enrich our experience.With a grateful heart, be grateful for everything that life bestows on us, both beautiful and ugly.Treat every day of your life with a tolerant heart, and walk through the good and the bad with ease.

Gratitude is like a bunch of golden sunshine that can melt frost and drive away darkness.Our whole life will be happy because of gratitude, and happiness because of gratitude.

just go all the way

Because of dreams, our pursuit will not stop, and our life will be rich and colorful.Wind and rain, through spring, summer, autumn and winter, singing in the sky, enjoying the wind, flowers, snow and moon, life is like this all the way.

The journey of life is full of flowers and sunshine, but many times it is also full of twists and turns and clouds.If our dreams cannot be realized, will you stop moving forward, will you regret your hard work, will you blame others for not being successful?In this era of success or failure, you may be ridiculed, even looked down upon and discriminated against.Pain is inevitable, and the result will not change because of sadness, and we have to live day by day, and live life day by day.

Walk to the poor water, sit and watch the clouds rise.It's not that the road has come to an end, but that it's time to turn.Success is important and enviable, but the process is also a harvest, a kind of wealth.During the hasty journey, do you pay attention to the scenery along the way?There are also wild flowers, butterflies dancing and bees flying by the roadside. You may wish to enjoy it while you are on the road, so as to calm down your impetuous heart, and the road will go more smoothly.Even if you encounter reefs, torrents, and thorns everywhere, just grit your teeth and survive.Mountain darkly, vista.

In fact, things in life are not perfect, sometimes regret is also a kind of beauty.Venus with a broken arm, her beauty will shock people only because of her limbs.The love story between Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, because of its melancholy, remains the eternal swan song.If you understand regret, you also understand life.

Every experience in life, whether it is success or failure, joy or sorrow, is a baptism of the soul and a tempering of the spirit for us. It makes our minds more open and our will more tenacious, and we will be more confident and full The enthusiasm to meet the dawn of the dawn.

Strolling in front of the court, watching the flowers bloom and fade;Isn't that open-mindedness, that freedom, that indifference, that freedom, what we should have the most?In the long river of history, our life is just a snap of our fingers, born in an instant, and extinguished in an instant.The end of life is death and rebirth, so don't be too pessimistic.The process of life is the most beautiful chapter, and every experience is a beating note in this gorgeous movement, let us play the most harmonious strings with our hands.

Take a break, take a break

Life goes up and down in time, and sadness is like a fateful theme, giving us a bad mood from time to time.At that sad moment, my stomach was full of grievances, even the gentle moonlight could hurt people, as if the whole world had abandoned us.

In fact, the world is still that world, just like a loving mother waiting for you at home, but we have changed the perspective of the world.If the keynote of life always starts with sadness, then what mood is there to appreciate the scenery along the way?

Our heart is the pendulum that dominates the mood, it is always going back and forth between sadness and happiness.When you are sad, throw away those things you wish for, avoid those embarrassing encounters, return to the simple self for a moment, and give yourself a little comfort.After these, if the mood is no longer sad, happiness will gradually come.

Escaping is not necessarily easy to avoid, and facing is not necessarily the most uncomfortable.There are not only right and wrong answers to many things in the world, so we always have a way to go.When we are sad, we have to create our own happiness.The distance from sadness to happiness is close at hand. Since you can find reasons to be sad, you must also find reasons to be happy.

There is always more happiness than pain in life, and there is still much beauty in this world.Those who know how to be at ease find relaxation, those who know how to forget find freedom, those who know how to be simple find happiness, and those who know how to be ordinary find happiness.

It is better to take a rest than to take a rest for a long time-all troubled and smiled.Smile, a happy mood always starts with a smile, just like a child gets a candy, in simple happiness, you are already the master of happiness.Hugh also, so good.

free autumn wind

Flowers fade, flowers bloom, spring goes and autumn comes, naturally, never blooms and withers because of anyone's persistence, and never stays because of someone's likes and dislikes.The journey of life is also like the four seasons, revolving around the world, different times and different tastes.In the new year of autumn, one after another autumn rain, life is like everyone passing by, smiling in return, walking the streets with a cold body.

Autumn is peaceful, and it will not tell people how different it is, and it will come and go quietly.It seems to be the same every year, the wind is still blowing and the wind is clear, the rain is cool, and the green and yellow leaves on the branches are quietly falling on the branches.The wisdom of life is like autumn, live quietly, walk calmly, follow life, follow the wind and rain, and send it away when the wind and rain go.Don't be obsessed with gains and losses in the past, the leaves that belong to you will still be under your feet when they fall, and those that don't belong to you, just let it go with life, and persistently grab it, but more will be shaken off.

There are always people who lament the fallen leaves, just like the things lost in the past, but they don't notice that most of the fallen leaves are by the roots, and with the weathering of time, they are buried in places they can absorb, similar every year, accumulated every year, It seems to be lost, but it is the least obvious "gain".Autumn is like the accumulation of a year, and it is also like the accumulation of life. Regardless of gains or losses, the accumulation of experience is good for walking the unknown road.

Looking at the bleakness of this autumn, we don't have to feel the impermanence of this world, let alone contradict the jokes of life.On the road of life, we need to learn to move forward optimistically.Find a clear autumn day, sweep the yellow leaves under the tree, cook a pot of tea, take a few sips with a smile, and see that the clouds are light and the wind is high, but it is also the scenery on the road. What is the difference between having and not having it?
In autumn, what is shown in the heart is open-mindedness, unlike the emptiness of summer, autumn gives us more open-mindedness.Years are an unstoppable tempering, our hearts should not be suppressed by burdens, perhaps experiencing the twists and turns of life, impetuousness will always come unexpectedly.When you are impatient with the burden of life, look at the sky in autumn, one after another of floating clouds cover the sky, but the sky is still blue.Just like our hearts, when you learn to accept the baptism of life openly, no matter how hard you are, you will not lose your inner peace.

In autumn, what we think of most is the harvest.Many people think that the fruit hanging on the tree is the harvest. In fact, this road has gone through spring growth and summer growth. There are as many ups and downs as there are harvests. You don’t have to be obsessed with the number of fruits. The best thing in life is to go through it. road.

Everyone walks on the road, whether it is flat or tortuous, regardless of high or low.No one is a lucky darling. When encountering setbacks, what is needed is a sense of peace and comfort.The misery needs to be overcome, instead of expecting fate to build a bridge for oneself, it is more necessary to find the light with heart, so as to be clear and at ease.

The wind greets the cold, the rain falls layer by layer, and autumn comes every year like the old year.The fallen leaves are gone, and the leaves are green and yellow in the dust. It is rare to sweep away the old wind, and make tea to calm people's hearts.

Returning from the floating soil, there are bursts of laughter and words lightly spread, why not dip the hoe in the mud and soak the clothes, and enjoy the autumn wind at ease.Life is not dry Zen, everything is lively and ready-made, let it be lonely, let it be prosperous, let it be free.

honest and smart

The meaning of life lies in facing the trials and tests of life, achieving inner brightness and increasing the breadth of life.No matter what problem you encounter, you must first grasp your heart and find a solution honestly, rather than making intelligent comparisons.If you have a clear understanding of life, everything you face is not a bondage. To move forward in life, you need the support of faith to face all the stories.

Life is not about finding a smooth path and avoiding all ups and downs with all your wisdom, but you need to face all the wind and rain frankly with the most sincere and honest attitude, and even need to accept and face the blemishes of life.In the various experiences of life, to know yourself, to develop yourself, to innovate yourself, to complete a breakthrough in your own life.

This passage of life, without going through setbacks and tribulations, it is impossible to be strong and mature, and it is impossible to experience the happiness in ordinary life.Take the road under your feet well and look at the scenery along the way with a calm heart. This is the true meaning of life.

There are always some helplessness in life that we need to persist in, and there are always some responsibilities that we need to bear.Birth, old age, sickness and death, gathering and separation, and the unstoppable flow of time are the inevitable laws of life.What should come will always come, and avoidance cannot solve the problem; what should go will eventually go, so there is no need to be entangled; what should be done must be bravely responsible, and there is no point in avoiding it.Learn to taste those helplessness, let what should be given up let go with the wind, hold on to it will only become pain and burden, seal the dust that should be left in the depths of memory, and precipitate the bumps and tribulations into precious wealth.

In life, there are always many hurdles to overcome.The journey of life is smooth and smooth.No matter whether it is muddy or bumpy, we all have to go through and face it, and getting up after falling is the way out of life; only by constantly falling and getting up can we constantly temper our will and character, and only then can we continue to gain share with.

In life, there are always many confusions that we need to break through.The perception of life is never in the appearance of life, but in how to look at the heart of the problem.Life is never unforgettable because of pain, but to find a breakthrough in life in difficulties.

People live with a state of mind, and learn to face everything they encounter with a detached state of mind.Once you suffer a setback, you will have a more thorough understanding of life; once you are troubled, you will have a more profound understanding of life.There will always be something missing in life. What you want to gain will also lose something. The important thing is not the so-called result, but what you have gained in the process.In fact, everything will pass, and everyone will come to life and go on in this process, and what they experience is only the process.

In life, always think about where life is going.Living in self-righteous prejudices, living in the narrowness of sitting in a well and watching the sky, that is the greatest harm to the heart, and it is also the most complete blasphemy of life.The high-spirited and firm attitude towards life is the scenery of life and the living water of life.

No matter how many kinds of troubles occur in life, you have to choose to face them, choose to be frank on your own, and don't need to use those so-called smarts to dig out the reasons behind the troubles.However, we must learn to use the confidence in life to have a bright impact on life, to be plain and simple, to coordinate and communicate with life.

Be tolerant, be generous

A hundred years of life is a hasty return.It doesn't matter who is in charge of the ups and downs.Virtue is thick and fragrant, and spirit is eternal.Go back to your life and don't hope to change anything. What Buddhists leave to this world will not be curses, resentment, or troubles.Buddhists leave this world with only compassion, joy, blessings and peace.

"Those who respect others respect each other, and those who help others help each other." It can be seen that society must cooperate and respect each other to make progress.In terms of doing things, individual strength is limited. "Everyone holds firewood to the top", "Cooperation will benefit both, and division will harm both." People must cooperate with each other to have greater strength.If a person keeps a cold face all day long and thinks he is noble, then who is willing to cooperate sincerely with him to create a career?This kind of person can only live a lonely life in isolation and helplessness, and the warmth of the world will be reduced by indifference.

If a person wants to create a great career, he must have a magnanimity. Only those who can tolerate the world can be tolerated by the world. Therefore, anyone who can create a great career must have the tolerance of others.Although it is difficult to tolerate villains in practice, in order to succeed in business and take care of the overall situation, one must have the mind of "be tolerant in the world and be tolerant of others".If humility is a virtue, tolerance is also a virtue.

Gratitude is the foundation of life
Life needs a grateful heart to create, and a grateful heart needs life to nourish.Always be grateful and have no regrets in your life.

Be grateful to those who rebuke you, because they make you learn to think.Be grateful to those who trip you up, because they strengthen your will.Be grateful to those who have abandoned you, because they have taught you to be independent.Be grateful to those who hurt you, because they sharpen your heart.Be grateful to those who have helped you in difficult times, they have made you firm in your faith.Be grateful to the people who remind you with faithful words in good times, it is they who helped you correct the course.

Gratitude is the source of strength, the root of love, and the foundation of courage.The little grass is grateful for the sunshine and rain, and after one year it withers and flourishes, it sprouts new green; the eagle is grateful for the blue sky and white clouds, and spreads its wings in the cold jade.We live in a grateful world, grateful for the greatness of life, grateful for the beauty of life, and grateful for all the blessings that nature bestows on life.

Learn to be grateful, learn to understand love, give love, and learn to live with a grateful heart.We cannot abandon such a feeling that contains truth, goodness and beauty, just as we cannot abandon life.Just because we have learned to be grateful, we will find that there are many touching things in life, and we will cherish everything in front of us.It is precisely because life requires us to face it with a grateful attitude that we know the meaning of life.

关于 爱

Although the word "love" has become somewhat ambiguous and even vulgar today; although love exists in the world in various ways, I still want to understand love as: love is giving or dedication; tolerance is understanding; Forbearance is compassion; warmth is pity; deepness is silence; reason is morality.

I don't want to mention the word "love" because it is too heavy.Sometimes I envy some people who talk about love like fried beans, but I can't, I'd rather be joking, say some irrelevant nonsense, and would rather be seen as a mediocre, shallow, and unloving person than Open up this heaviness to others.Why it came out like this?I kept examining myself, but there was no answer. The only thing I could feel was the deep sorrow in my heart.

I think love may be divided into two types: one is derived from liking, appreciation, and desire, and the other is derived from sympathy, pity, and awareness.The former kind of love is very happy and passionate, while the latter kind of love is heavy and accompanied by sadness.If the former loves what may be called the lucky ones, the latter loves the entire unfortunate human race.

Life is suffering. Suffering comes from human flaws and weaknesses. In addition to external birth, old age, sickness and death, natural disasters and man-made disasters, there are also internal greed, desire, hatred, jealousy, suspicion, and prevention... To feel suffering deeply is not a It is through our own suffering that we can fully appreciate and understand the misfortune of others.For example, we have never tasted the taste of being slaughtered by humans. If one day we also experience the fact that we are dragged to arbitrary slaughter by humans, maybe we will stop killing other animals, or refuse to swallow those innocent lives. flesh.

We should think clearly about a problem: in fact, suffering never belongs to an individual life, it should belong to the whole sentient life.Realizing this, suffering has become a factor that nourishes and sublimates our compassion, so that we know how to respect and love everyone and every life, so true love is born in pain.

The heart is not a hard shield
The world we live in is like a dyeing vat with colorful colors and various names. Being in it often makes people dizzy and lost.Many people regard their hearts as a shield to resist external erosion. In fact, we should regard our hearts as an ocean that purifies all things and a sky that embraces everything.When we think slowly with our heart, expand quietly, and get rid of distracting thoughts, we simply purify those complex one by one, leaving only the true and pure.

People's hearts are like two mirrors: one is strong and the other is fragile; the other is real and the other is illusory.It is it that ushers in the dawn and drives out the darkness; it is the one that shows us the beauty and hides the ugliness;However, when we dissolve the troubles and impurities in our hearts one by one, what we show to the world is the deepest comfort and happiness, the warmth and tranquility.

Accustomed to seeing the helplessness of the troubled world, seeing through the troubles of the complicated world, seeing through the ugliness of the enchanting environment, let everything in the world disappear and go with the wind.Take a piece of leisure and watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; take a piece of freedom and watch the clouds and clouds outside the sky.When we read poems with our heart, listen to music with our heart, and feel life with our heart, we can experience the artistic conception of "there is still pulse without wind, and it will be cool without rain".

The world is originally complicated and also originally simple, but don't let your heart be so complicated, and don't let your heart become a shield that rejects everything.The sea and sky are vast, and what is wider than the sea and sky is the mind.Some of the heart is not hard, but tough.The heart should be pure, beautiful, sincere, and great, with its unique purity and nobility, fiery warmth, and perseverance; with its tolerance and cultivation, it is like the merciful saint, regardless of beauty, ugliness, good or bad, Regardless of success or failure, no matter the ups and downs of honor or disgrace, it always faces it with a smile; it has boundless love, and is always ready to lend a helping hand to warm others and the world with itself.Let us be caring people and listen to the beauty in this world.

return to the original self
The moon is half curved, the shadow of the tower is slanting, and there is silence where the wind passes by.I walked back and forth, accompanied by the peace and indifference in my heart.Walking in this kind of night, because of the lack of noise and noise during the day, the sights and sounds that cannot be seen in ordinary times all ran out all at once.

The night is really beautiful, they are smiling, looking at the world quietly and mischievously, and performing their own trajectory, as if all this has never been related to us, but we have accidentally invaded it world.

Some people may not have seen the sky above our heads for a long time, let alone the bright moon hanging high in the night sky. Nowadays, people are always busy amidst the endless crowds and flashing neon lights, but few people I am willing to take my time to enjoy the beautiful clouds in the sky and the wonderful moonlight at night.

The quiet night, the silent breeze, the scenery in life is always there, we need to calm down to feel it occasionally, talk to those spiritual objects, purify our soul, let them gently remove the dust in the world Once cleaned, return to the original self.

Those mottled fragments that are still floating in the river of memory will eventually be frozen on the film of the years.Some fragments will be the most meaningful poems in our hearts, and some unique flavors will be given back to us after we have a better understanding of life.We have experienced a lot of life, so that we can glow with soft light.In the face of the smoke and dust that is still billowing in the world of mortals, we know who we are, we can see the direction of our hearts clearly even if we are occasionally lonely, and we can still show a clean smile after getting out of confusion.When everything is in the past, looking back on the past, I can still smile.

"There is no shore on the other side, and it is called the shore by force; there is no shore, and the heart is the shore." In the night like water, the heart is a boat moored by the lake, quietly.

A noble head doesn't have to be held high

The head of the mature rice is the lowest, and the full kettle will not make any noise, because it has been through the vicissitudes of life, and the essence is all precipitated.And those majestic but empty rice can only be defeated in the end, because time also slips through the fingers, but it leaves nothing but emptiness.The noble head is never necessarily raised high, and the momentary pride is nothing but joy in vain.

In life, you still have to learn to think silently. The hustle and bustle of lingering in the world is just a fleeting moment. Why let yourself jump around like a clown. Others see you as lively, without sincere admiration or inner praise.I'm afraid there is little fun in living so tirelessly.

Life is originally quiet, so why make it a mess?It might be better to walk through life quietly without deliberately leaving any traces.Life still needs to work hard, but you don't have to deliberately.Flowering does not happen overnight, once and for all, beauty only lies in the process of blooming, there are not so many ups and downs.

Even if you really want to prove yourself, you need to suppress your desires.Take the road under your feet steadfastly, even if you encounter difficulties with fate, don't complain about the harshness of fate. Only a life that is not afraid of pain can be carved into a beautiful work.

Along the way, it suddenly seemed like a dream, those broken memories, those sweet happiness, those hard work, those quiet breathing, scattered on the branches like dust.I believe that those friends who have worked hard, struggled, sweated, and tasted bitterness will not taste emptiness or glitz in the end. What they will reap in the end will be indifferent, calm, free and easy, and casual like rice...

I don't know, I don't love

Life is like this, the future is bright, but the road is tortuous.If fate does not favor you, please treat yourself well, don't let your heart become cold and silent, and don't let your soul become small and sad.

There is no virtue without a good soul.If you are dismissive of other people's misfortune and indifferent to their pain, then it is not only the heart that is cold.If people are indifferent, what is missing is the warmth of the soul, what is missing is a cultivation, a kind of morality.You know, people are not born to close themselves with chains, but to spread their wings and spread love.Kindness is the nature of human beings. Only when there is truth, kindness and beauty in one's heart, one will see the weak and be moved to help one's self-consciously, one will see poverty and can't help feeling sympathetic, and one will see the cold and be willing to give charcoal in the snow.Truth, goodness and beauty are the most precious treasures in our hearts, and they are the chain links that we rely on for our mutual survival and spiritual communication.

Truth, goodness and beauty are the roots buried deep in the heart. Only when there is kindness in the heart can the branches of dedication grow. Only when there is love in the heart can our world be filled with warmth.Don't let your inner world be devoid of kindness and love, because you don't know if you don't know, you don't love without love, you don't get together without fate, and you don't get together without dreams.Don't let yourself go through this life in a muddle, while we have the ability, do our best to make more contributions to society, less trouble for this society, and do our best to make society more warm and less troublesome. One point of indifference.

Dedication has always been simple and silent, dedicating to this society a splendor, dedicating to this world infinite love, and dedicating to oneself's infinite enrichment.Let us be moved by others while we are moving them, thus forming a circulating warm current, nourishing our bitter and difficult days, and happily spending our life together.Let our hearts be like a big tree, full of kind-hearted flowers, and full of dedication fruits.

Dedication is selfless mercy
Dedication is a kind of giving without asking for anything in return. It is a kind of generosity that only benefits others regardless of personal gains or losses.The world is originally very clean, but it is different because of the "I".

Due to the existence of the deep-rooted "I", it is difficult for us to truly care for others. The love and help we give to others is what we want and what we get. Even if there is no material return, we at least hope that others will show something spiritually.If the other party doesn't even have a word of gratitude, we will be disappointed and sad, and start to complain about why we want to be a good person, and start to complain that "kindness is like a donkey's liver and lungs".And true compassion is selfless, selfless, and unknown dedication, because people who are truly compassionate know that helping others is to achieve and perfect themselves.

It is simply impossible for an individual to survive and develop by separating himself from those around him.The so-called freedom and independence are relative terms.We must not harm the interests of others for the sake of personal interests. For the formation of harmonious and tolerant interpersonal relationships and social atmosphere, everyone has a responsibility, and everyone should contribute their strength.

Dedication is a beautiful and noble emotion, the supreme love, which spreads to every corner equally and without distinction, and is a spirit of "not seeking happiness for oneself, but wishing all sentient beings to be free from suffering".

Peaceful, every day is a good day
Ten years ago, two young monks went out to seek famous teachers. They agreed that ten years later, they would have a competition at the ferry pier.When the time came, the two monks followed the agreement and came to the ferry terminal.

Monk A asked Monk B: "What unique skills have you learned, you must have improved your kung fu?"

Monk B said proudly: "I worshiped a descendant of Zen Master Bodhidharma as a teacher, and practiced the supreme skill of crossing the river with reeds. Now I will let you open your eyes!" After speaking, he immediately picked off a reed, Throw it into the river and cross the river on the reed grass.

When monk A crossed the river with other people on a ferry, as soon as the two met, monk B said proudly, "brother, do you think I'm good? What skills do you have? Come on, let me see too." Take a look!"

Monk A said in a low voice embarrassedly: "I don't seem to have practiced anything. Master taught me to eat seriously, sleep seriously every day, be a monk wholeheartedly, even ring the bell and chant sutras, and do everything hard. , and then follow fate! Master said that this is the supreme wisdom and mentality, I don’t know if it’s right or not.”

Monk B laughed loudly after hearing this, and said disgustedly: "This is also considered kung fu? You have spent ten years in vain!"

Monk A showed a noncommittal expression after hearing this, and then asked Monk B seriously: "Then have you practiced other kung fu?"

Monk B glanced at Monk A with unbelievable eyes: "Brother! Could it be that it took me ten years to practice the Bodhidharma skill of crossing the river with reeds?"

Monk A scratched his head and said, "You look very good, but I only need to pay the boatman three Wen to cross the river. Why do you spend ten years practicing it? Don't you think that your ten years is not enough to cross the river?" Kung fu is only worth three pennies?"

Monk B was stunned when he heard this, not knowing how to answer.

"What if there is no boat?" At this moment, Monk B's master suddenly appeared and asked loudly.

This time monk A didn't know how to answer.

Does life really need to fight?All the bad words are not used elsewhere, they are not wasted at all, they are all used on my family members, so this is a reversal, this is an ignorance.Leave all the good words and good words to the world, and put away all the bad words and bad words, evil deeds and evil thoughts.Leave all blessings and prayers to the world, and when we leave this world, we can hear a few good words too.

If you need more understanding and friendliness in life, you first need to be calm.Life is a passerby, your enthusiasm and indifference really determine whether every day you live is right or wrong.When you meet people, you are three-pointed, like a spring breeze; when you are in trouble, you are a little generous, and leave it with others passing by.Don't treat yourself as a gentleman, and don't treat yourself as a villain. Whatever life is, you have to learn to be a human being.

Some netizens asked, how can we try not to worry about those trivial things in life?I told him that if you are often bothered by those little annoyances, it means you are narrow-minded.As the saying goes, a person should be high-end and classy, ​​which means being generous, kind, and careless.

The best state of life is to be kind and cheerful, and to develop a temper that is not fussy or mean, which is the foundation of happiness.Harmony is a good way to nourish the heart. It softens the atmosphere of life and resolves many anxious faces. Welcome and send, everyone is happy.It's not easy for anyone, why bother showing red eyes and fangs at every turn?There is a long way to go in life, so remember to take it lightly; you have practiced your heart through the ages, and you are a bit gentle; you are kind, calm and joyful.Harmony is happiness.

There is joy in sharing

On a meditation day, a young monk who loved to play the game of rolling pellets wanted to go out to play, but the temple regulations stipulated that monks must meditate and rest on a meditation day and are not allowed to go out.The little monk meditated for a while, and his hands were itchy, so he decided to secretly go to an open field in the wild to play.

The little monk thought about making nine holes and went back. Anyway, it was a meditation day, and other people in the temple would not go out, and no one would know that he had violated the regulations.However, when he was playing the second hole, he was discovered by a boy passing by.

Angrily, the boy went to the abbot to complain, saying that a young monk in the monastery did not abide by the rules and went out to play with rolling bullets on the day of meditation.

After hearing this, the abbot told the boy that he would punish the little monk well.

From the third hole onwards, the little monk has achieved super perfect results, almost all in one hole.The little monk was so excited that when he reached the seventh hole, the boy ran to the abbot again: "Abbot, don't you want to punish the little monk? Why is there no punishment yet?"

The abbot said, "I have already punished him."

Until the ninth hole was played, the little monk went into the hole all at once.Because he played so well, the excited little monk decided to play another nine holes.

The boy went to the abbot again: "How did you punish him?"

The abbot smiled but did not answer.

After the little monk played [-] holes, his grades were already better than any monk in the temple, and the little monk was very happy.

The boy asked the abbot angrily, "Is this your punishment for the little monk?"

The abbot said: "Exactly. Think about it, he has such amazing achievements and excitement, but he can't tell anyone. Isn't this the best punishment?"

The boy suddenly realized that a life without anyone to share, whether it is happiness or pain, is a punishment!

A young man brought some improved corn seeds back to his hometown from other places, but he couldn't figure out whether the seeds could really produce high yields, so he tried to plant a piece in his own responsibility field.As a result, the corn field had a bumper harvest, and the output doubled compared with previous years. The young man was very happy.

When the villagers knew about this, they found the young man one after another and asked to buy his improved corn seeds.But no matter what the villagers asked, the young man refused to sell corn seeds.Seeing that the young man insisted on refusing, the villagers had no choice but to give up.

In the spring of the next year, the young man planted all the fields under his responsibility with improved corn seeds, waiting for another harvest season.Who would have thought that things would go against their wishes, not only did his family not have a bumper harvest of corn this year, but the yield was even lower than that of ordinary corn seeds planted in the past.The young man was puzzled, and even suspected that the villagers did not get better corn seeds, and secretly tampered with his family's corn.

It happened that an agricultural technician from the village came to the village and heard about it.After an on-site inspection, the agricultural technician told the young man: "This is caused by the improved corn receiving pollen from the nearby common corn. If everyone had planted the improved corn, this result would not have occurred."

The young man came to his senses and regretted not sharing his gains with everyone.

Happiness is to be able to convey every happiness in a simple way.The happiness and beauty of life is not what you are experiencing, what you get, what you see, but that you can truly feel that because of your sharing, others are experiencing happiness and joy.

A happy mood means fulfilling the mood of others and avoiding those who are mean and bitter. No one grows up eating raw grapes, so what is sour for?Happiness is that friends are all in hope, able to persevere and share.

An auspicious life is all about sharing.The green hills are always there, the water is flowing, and there is a ready-made world in front of you. It is neither emotional nor rational. It is a kind of nature, neither born nor destroyed, neither increasing nor decreasing.Everyone passing through this world needs to respect this public property, including every smile and every word. These are public affairs, respect and share.

Love is the echoing wall of the world
Master Huaide traveled around with his young disciples, and the two of them walked the mountain road for a long time a day, feeling sleepy and tired.On the way, I met an old man who was walking forward with a heavy burden on his back.Master Huaide rushed over with his little apprentice and said, "Old man, let's help you get things for a while!"

The little apprentice was actually very reluctant in his heart, but he still helped the old man carry the burden for a while with the master. It happened that the old man's son drove to meet his father, so he let the master and the apprentice hitch a ride.The little apprentice's face turned from cloudy to sunny.

Afterwards, Master Huaide enlightened the little apprentice and said: "There are causes and effects. You help others get what they need, so you can get what you want, and the more people you help, the more you get." The more. Helping others is strengthening yourself and helping yourself. For example, if you help others carry something, although it temporarily consumes your physical strength and wastes your own time, you don't have to walk by yourself now!"

There was a young man who was always cynical and encountered many misunderstandings and setbacks in his life. He felt that the whole world was against him, and he was depressed all the time.

In order to relax, he came to a beautiful valley.The people around were enjoying the beautiful scenery leisurely. Looking at these happy people and thinking about his own miserable experience, he couldn't help shouting loudly: "I hate you! I hate you! I hate you!"

At this moment, a huge echo came from the valley: "I hate you! I hate you! I hate you!" No matter where he went, he felt these voices of resentment were always surrounding him, as if they were declaring war on him. He was even more annoyed.

Just when he was restless, the voice of "I love you! I love you! I love you!" came from behind.He turned his head and saw a benevolent Zen master calling to him not far away.

The Zen master came to him with a smile, listened to everything he had encountered in these years, and then enlightened him: "Morning bells and evening drums wake up many famous people in the mountains and rivers, and the sound of the Buddha calls back the dreamers in the boundless sea of ​​​​suffering. The world is a wall, and love is The echo wall of the world. Just like our echo just now, it will echo back to you in whatever tone you speak with. You might as well change your previous habits first, and try to face the surroundings with a friendly attitude. Everything, you will have unexpected happiness.”

Hearing what the Zen master said, the young man shouted to the valley: "I love you! I love you! I love you!" The same echo came from the valley, and the people around him also smiled friendlyly at him.

Such a result made the young man admire the Zen master very much in his heart, and he thought that he really shouldn't live with resentment all the time.After returning home, the young man changed and began to treat everything around him with a positive, healthy, and friendly attitude. Since then, the misunderstanding between him and others has been eliminated, no one has trouble with him, and he has achieved certain results in his work. a happy man.

A partridge was playing merrily among the trees, not noticing that a fowler was creeping up behind him, and setting up a net.There was only a "pop", and the opened net fell down, covering the partridge tightly.The partridge spread its wings and tried to fly away, but the wings were caught in the net, and it became the prey of the fowler.

The bird catcher happily took the partridge home and prepared a delicious meal.The partridge kept begging the bird catcher to let him go because he was still so young.The bird catcher saw that the partridge was indeed pitiful and beautiful, and it would be a pity to kill it, so he couldn't help feeling compassionate.But the bird catcher thought again, if he let it go, he would be hungry again, what should he do?

Just when the bird catcher was hesitating, the partridge further flattered the bird catcher and said, "It will be of greater benefit to you if you let me go. You see, I can go back and lure more partridges out." Let you catch me in order to repay your kindness of not killing me."

The partridge originally thought that if this happened, the bird catcher would be happy to let him go, but what he didn't expect was that these words angered the bird catcher: "I wanted to let you go, but I didn't." Thinking of how bad-minded you are, for your own benefit, you don't hesitate to betray your own companions, you must not be left behind as a scum like you."

In the end, the selfish partridge became the fowler's lunch.

If you give, you will gain. After you help others, you will also get help from others in the future. This is a kind of cause and effect.To be kind to others is to be kind to your own life.The content of life is the same for everyone. If you have full confidence in life, you will draw a clear sky; otherwise, you will get a picture scroll with dark clouds and rainy sky.This is what life rewards and punishes us.

Life is our attitude towards fate, it has nothing to do with wealth, fame and fortune, it is all in the bottom of our hearts, everything is as it is.Whatever attitude you use towards fate, fate will always repay you double, including revenge.To deal with life, use a kind attitude, soft speech, and polite behavior. We are all polite to fate, and we believe that fate will always be the same to us.

Forgiveness and friendliness in fate are a guarantee to maintain the quality of life, so why not envy others when facing the years with a plain face.Don't miss the opportunity to be friendly with fate, show the purest love for life, the more kindness you have, the more friends you will have.

A road in life, the joys and sorrows experienced, the passing years, clearing up the mood, life is not a self-subjective description, it should be a harmonious relationship with others, some people's weird personality actually adds to their own life difficulty.In the world, friendliness is exchanged for friendliness, and grinning can only be exchanged for grinning. Learn to maintain a happy and relaxed living habit.The preciousness of a friend lies in whether others can burst out with positive power when others are in danger.

"Goodness" is actually around each of us. Don't embarrass others, don't ridicule others, and don't insult others, it is a kind behavior.Sometimes, a little kindness on your part can bear a good fruit and make your life happy because of it.

With compassion, live fearlessly
According to legend, Sakyamuni was a practitioner in his previous life.He practiced the Bodhisattva way day and night, sincerely, persistently, bravely and diligently, which shocked the heavens.In order to test his sincerity, the Emperor of Heaven made the waiter turn into a dove, and himself turned into an eagle, chasing after the dove.

Seeing the distressed situation of the pigeon, the practitioner stepped forward and put the pigeon in his arms to protect it.The eagle was dissatisfied with not being able to eat the pigeons, and asked the practitioner, "I haven't eaten for several days. If this continues, I will starve to death. Don't practitioners treat all beings equally? Now you have saved it." Your life, but it will kill me!"

The practitioner said: "What you said is also reasonable. To show fairness, you can eat as much meat as the pigeon has on me!"

The emperor of heaven used mana to make the meat of the practitioner on the balance always lighter than that of the pigeon.Practitioners continue to cut off their own flesh and put it on, until all the flesh is cut off from the whole body, the weight of the two sides still cannot be equal.Practitioners have no choice but to sacrifice their lives and climb the scales in order to be equal.

When the Emperor of Heaven saw the sacrifice of the practitioner, the eagle and the dove all returned to their original forms.The Emperor of Heaven asked the practitioner: "When you find that your flesh has been cut off and the weight is still not equal, do you have the slightest regret or resentment?"

The practitioner replied: "Those who practice the Bodhisattva way should have the spirit of being difficult to practice and difficult to practice, and to be addicted to others. In order to save the suffering of sentient beings, even if they sacrifice their lives, how can they have regrets and resentments?"

The Emperor of Heaven was moved by his compassion and fearlessness, and used magic power to restore him to health.

In a temple, there is an eminent monk who has achieved Taoism. He has many disciples and is revered by everyone.

One night, the eminent monk was walking in the temple and found a chair in the corner, thinking that someone must have left the temple illegally.The eminent monk quietly moved the chair away and waited aside.

Not long after, a young monk climbed over the wall and jumped into the yard.The little monk felt that the soles of his feet were soft, and only after he landed did he realize that what he was stepping on was not a chair, but his master.He suddenly felt very panicked and didn't know what to do.

Master didn't scold him, but told him to put on extra clothes in the cold weather.The little monk felt the tolerance of the master and was very moved. He felt very guilty about his behavior of leaving the monastery in violation of the regulations.

Zen Master Pan Gui, a famous teacher of a generation, once took in a bad boy with bad conduct as his apprentice.In the temple, the child still went his own way, often stealing antiques from the temple to pawn, and then squandering them everywhere.

The disciples in the temple immediately reported to Zen Master Pangui that the child would affect the reputation of the temple and asked the Zen master to deal with him immediately.The Zen master didn't do anything, and the child was still doing all kinds of evil.The disciples were very anxious, not understanding why the Zen master indulged him, and asked the Zen master again to expel the child immediately, otherwise they would immediately leave the temple collectively.

After hearing this, Zen Master Pangui closed his eyes and said peacefully: "If you must leave here, please leave!"

The disciples were very surprised: "Why don't you fire that bad boy who committed crimes, but give up on us?"

The Zen master opened his eyes and said: "You have practiced here for several years, and you have gained a certain understanding. You can establish your own family when you leave here, but if this child is expelled by me, he will have nowhere to live."

The disciples suddenly realized and finally understood Master's intentions. They admired Master's compassion and apologized to Master immediately.

Someone asked me, how to make life high-end, atmospheric, and upscale?My answer is: happy, open-minded, gentle.No matter how tortuous life is, you must polish your titanium alloy eyes, and learn to meet the warmth of the world with compassion.

"Whoever loves others will always love them; whoever respects others will always respect them." The reason why compassion is emphasized by Zen Buddhism is that only with kindness can people feel hope; only with compassion can people find their way in life.Avalokitesvara, the heart power of life.Compassion is not just a radiance of personality, it should be a way of life for everyone.

Compassion is a quality of being a human being, and it is also a kind of humility, self-confidence, freedom, courage and responsibility. It is not a concept of nothingness, but a kind of simplicity and relaxation in the inner world.The quality of compassion should be a kind of peace and calmness, and persistence and responsibility are a kind of assistance. It can also be understood in this way, and it is a kind of like-mindedness in everyone's inner world.

The meaning of life is compassion, the state of life is entanglement; the law of existence is friendship, and the existence of life and death is twists and turns.Learn to observe whether your mind is cool, observe whether your laughter is clear, and observe whether your thoughts are compassionate.Compassion, mentality, practice the heart for a lifetime.

None of us has the right to be demanding on fate, to truly understand life, to comfort fate, and to have the same good faith in life as before.With compassion, live without fear.

but a bowl of rice
During the dog days, the grass in the Buddhist monastery turned yellow. "Master, let's sprinkle some grass seeds! It's so ugly." The little monk said.

"Wait for the weather to cool down." Master waved his hand, "Anytime."

During the Mid-Autumn Festival, the master bought a bag of grass seeds and asked the little monk to sow the seeds.When the autumn wind blows, the grass seeds are scattered and floated.

"Master, it's not good. A lot of grass seeds have been blown away by the wind." The little monk shouted.

"It doesn't matter, most of the things blown away are empty, and they won't sprout even if they are scattered." Master said, "Follow your will."

After sowing the grass seeds, a few birds came to peck at them.

"It's terrible! The grass seeds have been eaten by birds!" The little monk jumped anxiously.

"It doesn't matter! There are so many grass seeds, you can't finish them!" Master said, "Anything happens."

There was a sudden rain in the middle of the night, and the young monk rushed into the meditation room early in the morning: "Master! It's really over this time! A lot of grass seeds were washed away by the rain!"

"Wherever it rushes, it will germinate there!" Master said, "Follow the fate."

More than half a month has passed, and many green grass seedlings have grown on the originally bare ground, and some corners that have not been sown before have also become green.

The little monk clapped his hands happily.Master nodded, "Rejoice."

Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li are two young people who are very unsatisfactory at work. They meet to find their master to seek wisdom.They said to the old Zen master: "Master, we are often bullied by others in the office, and we are very depressed. Please enlighten me, should we quit our jobs?"

The master closed his eyes tightly, and it took a long time to spit out five words: "It's just a bowl of rice." After saying that, he waved his hand to signal them to back down.

The two seemed to understand something.Back at the company, Xiao Zhang immediately submitted a letter of resignation to the boss, and went home to farm.And Xiao Li still stayed in the company and continued to work as usual.

Time flies, and ten years have passed in a blink of an eye.Through these years of continuous efforts, Xiao Zhang has become an agricultural expert.Xiao Li also did well. He swallowed his anger, studied hard, and constantly improved his various abilities. Gradually he was valued and promoted to a manager.

One day, the two met.

"Why didn't you listen to Master's words at the time? Master gave us the same five words 'no more than a bowl of rice'. I understood it when I heard it. Isn't it just a bowl of rice? There is no need to work hard in the company. So I resigned," said the agricultural expert.

The manager smiled and said: "I heard it! Master said 'it's just a bowl of rice'. I think it's just to eat a bowl of rice. Do whatever the boss tells you to do. Don't worry about personal gains and losses, and don't get angry with others. That's fine. Yes. Isn’t that what Master meant?”

The two went to visit the master again.The master was very old, and his eyes were still closed. After a period of silence, he answered another five words: "It's just a thought."

How to live simply?Simple life is less fussy.If you are simple, the world will be simple; if you are complicated, the world will be complicated; if your heart is bright, the world will be bright.Look at the world with a smile, omit many languages, your indifference can only exchange for the distance between you and the world.One of the saddest results is: there is you in the world, but you are far away from the world.Know how to treat people simply, treat people as equals, and achieve a balance between behavior and conscience. This is the most beautiful life.

How to live in life, eat and dress according to salary, live in a simple way, enjoy a bit of leisure, go through the hot and cold of the world, let me do my life, don't ask others, make less trouble, and keep peace and happiness.Don't think about the purpose of life so complicated and lofty. The simplest old saying is that it is better to live than to die, and to put aside both good and bad.

There is a simple hope in my heart, I hope that I am alive in this world, postponed and postponed.Even if you face many exams in your life, if you fail the exams or fail, you still hope that you will not be laid off as much as possible.

fate is not unfair to you

A layman who thinks he is very talented has graduated for many years, but has been unsatisfactory in the workplace and cannot be reused by his boss.For this reason, he was very depressed, so he went to the Buddha for help.

He asked the Buddha: "Why is fate so unfair to me?"

The Buddha was silent after hearing this, but just picked up an inconspicuous pebble and threw it into the pile of rubble.The Buddha said: "Go and retrieve the stone I just threw away."

As a result, the layman rummaged through the pile of rocks, but returned without success.

At this time, the Buddha took another dazzling diamond, and then threw it into the pile of rocks in the same way.

As a result, this time the layman quickly found what he was looking for.

The Buddha didn't say anything more, but the layman suddenly realized that when he was just an ordinary pebble instead of a diamond, he should never complain that fate was unfair to him.

A forest farm owner inherited a large forest farm from his father. He drives through the forest farm every day, and he is very happy to see these forests that can bring him a lot of wealth.

One day, a sudden fire turned centuries-old trees into scorched wood, and he lost everything.

When winter came, he walked down the street in despair and found many people queuing up to buy charcoal for heating.So he had an idea, quickly processed the burnt wood into charcoal and sold it, and got a lot of wealth as a result.

It is impossible for everything to go well in life, and many things cannot achieve the perfection we expect.Life has to go on, and the days have to be lived day by day. Complaining will not solve any problems, and comparisons can only bring endless troubles.

On the road of life, how big is the goal and how far is the hope? These are not very important. The most real thing is that I can exist peacefully every day without being anxious or impatient.Injustice, entanglement, and even resentment in your heart will make your character unjust or reversed.

It is a kind of courtesy to life to keep yourself somewhat sober and objective about life.Don't climb, don't be jealous, don't be arrogant, let life be a mirror, and don't let troubles make you dull to fate.Live life as a breakout from troubles, how big your feet are, how big your shoes are, life is just right.

When you knock on the door of life with a positive attitude towards life and raise your smiling hands, you will be surrounded by happiness and joy; when you stare at the hazy sky with pessimistic eyes and hide in the corner, When soaking the bleeding wound with sad tears, it is undoubtedly punishing yourself with pain and double.If you put yourself in the right place, you can enjoy happy moments in ordinary days.

(End of this chapter)