The President's Queen's Sweet Wife

Chapter 939 An Lele also followed the truth
All the people present have learned the truth from Xi Ran's words.

man?If you really love someone, you definitely want to hug your beloved woman into your arms earlier. How can you just watch and coax her with love words, but don't take any actual actions?
"But there is actually something that women should pay attention to." An Lele said, curling up the corners of her lips, and said leisurely: "I'm not talking about any woman in our crew, I'm talking about a lot of girls. I keep saying that I love one When I was a man, I didn’t love much, it was just a kind of dependence, a habit, and an inseparable relationship. It’s actually the same as a man.”

"How do you say that?" The staff looked over curiously.After all, if there is a conflict between a man and a woman in many cases, the public will think it is the man's fault, and few people will directly say that it is the woman's fault.So fresh.

"Men and women are equal." An Lele didn't expect such a simple truth to be explained by herself. "If a woman really loves this man, she is willing to be with him even if he is poor and white. Who told me to love him. Even if he has no house or car, I just like this man. I just think he will have If you develop, you will definitely be able to give yourself a better life, so you are willing to follow him and marry him."

"But many women can't do it." One of the staff said uncertainly: "After all, sometimes the reality is quite cruel. There are many obstacles waiting for me. If I really don't want anything, my parents I can’t even say it.”

"That depends on how the woman chooses." An Lele, as a person who has been there, is very experienced in this area. "During my time living abroad, I have seen countless couples get married and divorced. When they get married, most of them don't want anything, because they really love each other together. If they get divorced, it is probably because they don't love each other. So the divorce. But our side is very different."

She paused for a while, took a sip of water, and continued: "As for us, most of the areas pay attention to a bride price, three golds, how much the bride price, how much dowry, and so on. Although Now this custom has been abolished, but many parents still care about this matter when their children’s marriages are important. They break up directly if they can’t give much bride price, and break up directly if they can’t give a house with several rings.”

"That's how I am." The staff member Xiao Liu looked at An Lele with tears in his eyes, and was really poked into his heart. "At the beginning, my girlfriend and I loved each other very much. We have been together for three years. When I went to her house to propose marriage, the bride price her mother asked for was not something I could afford. I was working outside After so many years, I was able to buy a house and a car, but they still couldn’t meet the standards of their family, so in the end my girlfriend left me, although I knew it wasn’t her original intention, it was her mother’s intention. But I haven't had a girlfriend since then because I don't deserve it."

"Me too." Another staff member, Xiao Wang, was also reminded of a sad past. "At least you can still afford a car and a house. I can't even afford a car and a house. My girlfriend told me several times that she wanted to get married, but I didn't dare to go to her house with her. In the last year, my girlfriend left me because she said that I was just an idiot who couldn't help me, I didn't even dare to give it a try, and I wasn't worthy of being a man."

"That's why, there are many such things in real life." An Lele didn't expect that such a topic would resonate so much with everyone, and she could also hear some sad stories. "It's not because I don't love, it's just that the love is not so firm. When people in the family say it, I think it seems to be the same thing, so I don't resist. When the friends around me say it, they think it means that. The person in front of me may not be He is his beloved, so he gave up his own happiness."

"But." She changed the topic, and her tone gradually increased. "Many people forget that the so-called love, liking and love are all things between two people. If there is really a third person participating together, then this love will directly deteriorate, and it will not be the original one. That love. It’s just that many people don’t understand this truth.”

"However, it's nice to be able to go against the wishes of the family." The staff member Xiao Liu has a deep understanding. "Parents are the ones who gave us life, how could we go against their wishes?"

"So this is another misunderstanding." An Lele said here, getting more and more energetic. "Anyway, my family members have supported me no matter what I did since I was a child. Even if this choice seems absurd to outsiders, they all agree with it. After all, I choose my own life. Children, it is indeed Parents give birth, but the child is an individual at the same time, an independent existence, not an appendage of the parents. If the parents did not control the children in everything, the divorce rate might not be so high."

"Who will be really happy to have a mother-in-law like you in the future." The staff Xiao Wang felt that he was born too early, and it would be better if he was born 20 years later. "After all, you are so open-minded, I guess anyone will be very happy to be your daughter-in-law."

"This kind of thing can't be said so decisively." An Lele said and couldn't help but smile. "In case I am a daughter in the future, I may be a very enlightened mother-in-law. It doesn't matter if my son-in-law doesn't have a house, a car, and a ticket. As long as he loves my daughter enough, I don't care too much about these extraneous things."

"So you are still rich." Staff member Xiao Liu summed up this truth. "Because the natal family has enough capital, even a poor boy on the other side will not be afraid. If the natal family has no money and has always lived a hard life, then as a mother, she will not have the heart to push her daughter into the fire pit."

"So I can only say that I can only say that my opinion does not represent everyone's point of view." An Lele said that he also began to speak a little dry. "Every family has its own way of getting along with each family, but many times, there are many people with courage. It's like Su Muqing who you all know. She didn't care about the obstruction of her family back then. Married to Lu Tingsen. But do you think her life is not good now? She is completely a little princess who is pampered by Lu Tingsen."

"But we are not Su Muqing, and we are not destined to meet Lu Tingsen." Everyone's words gradually became the truth. "If all the women were Su Muqing and all the men were Lu Tingsen, there would be no such thing as divorce."

(End of this chapter)